Good morning friends

I’m seriously looking for ways to avoid sleeping with too many women honestly.
It’s somewhat difficult being a young, comfortable and successful good looking dude with pretty and wow looking ladies around.

The past few months i tried and managed to have just 2 partners after a lot of discipline and staying away from social media, until recently.

Each day comes with a lady who calls in asking to come around, last night one came with her friend asking for a three-some which I couldn’t turn down only to wake up around 5 am to a message of another coming in from Lagos..

Like I’m tired of that lifestyle and I need help and suggestions on how to manage myself.

PS: Don’t advice to get a wife because i have serious plans for my offsprings which has to do with giving birth outside the shores of Nigeria

It is a tough task, but I personally had to stop monogamous relationships. Just have a bi-sexual pair that comes around and you watch them play and occasionally participate. It takes away the worries of being responsible for one.

Like I said it is tough to escape ladies propositions these days. But alternatively, if you do not like the bi-game, then hire a Personal Assistant or Office Assistant that is a sex partner and you'd be good.

Problem: Na dem dey rush you


solution: None found


sorry!

Hm.... You can Google about it. Most women(like me) like good and responsible men. Maybe they see something they like/want in you

I think you're battling with the spirit of lust until you gets delivered I don't think you can change

the only way to stop is to give your life to Christ..

Ok see now again, while typing this, another called my second line with an unknown number, thinking it was business call, she just booked called to ask on seing on Sunday !!! Really
The thing is after going for an all round body test to find out I’m okay, I’m scared of the unknown because the way I see ladies lately.. they just want to have fun and only heaven knows how much guys they involve with without protections

WebSurfer:
Ok see now again, while typing this, another called my second line with an unknown number, thinking it was business call, she just booked called to ask on seing on Sunday !!! Really
The thing is after going for an all round body test to find out I’m okay, I’m scared of the unknown because the way I see ladies lately.. they just want to have fun and only heaven knows how much guys they involve with without protections

abstinence is the answer

What happened to say "no" to them?

TimeMachine:
It is a tough task, but I personally had to stop monogamous relationships. Just have a bi-sexual pair that comes around and you watch them play and occasionally participate. It takes away the worries of being responsible for one.

Like I said it is tough to escape ladies propositions these days. But alternatively, if you do not like the bi-game, then hire a Personal Assistant or Office Assistant that is a sex partner and you'd be good.

Bro this was almost the case last night but with a lot of drugs on their system, they had to stylishly turn me on by force me until after 3 turns each making 6 rounds in total

They are out to kill you physically and emotionally, run for your life,.change your sim card and.be that responsible guy to your gf/wife

Op contact me for ur order

Did people even realised that sex is an addiction?
Guy watch out! U may be decreasing your life span

QueenBelle:
Hm.... You can Google about it. Most women(like me) like good and responsible men. Maybe they see something they like/want in you

You say most ladies like responsible men? Well, I can say I’m a very responsible person apart from the party and fun lifestyle all happening privately at my house(stay alone) like a normal thing around me and my celebrity friends so it’s always fun being with me).. they surely know that part that I don’t go sleeping with any type of girl

WebSurfer:


Bro this was almost the case last night but with a lot of drugs on their system, they had to stylishly turn me on by force me until after 3 turns each making 6 rounds in total

I mentioned that you should 'watch' and participate only if you feel like. That is the main reason of having bi-sexuals so you do not have to be bothered. It is about self-control.

Alternatively, have yourself a sexy lady that can function as your P.A and have a fixed Salary, and stay professional while at it.

Millenniumlady:
I think you're battling with the spirit of lust until you gets delivered I don't think you can change

Nah,,, that’s not me.. I hardly lust on ladies even when they look all that sexy and shit.. seen and had too much of them and even better. In and outside the shores..

WebSurfer:

You say most ladies like responsible men? Well, I can say I’m a very responsible person apart from the party and fun lifestyle all happening privately at my house(stay alone) like a normal thing around me and my celebrity friends so it’s always fun being with me).. they surely know that part that I don’t go sleeping with any type of girl

stay away from those girls. They wanna destroy you

daben1:
the only way to stop is to give your life to Christ..

Please don’t bring in religion to this because i actually don’t believe too much on it

QueenBelle:
What happened to say "no" to them?

how do you say no to people who you’re aware nicely likes you and likes your company
That Even while I was in a relationship, they’ll still come around knowing she’s home and don’t mind at all

WebSurfer:

Nah,,, that’s not me.. I hardly lust on ladies even when they look all that sexy and shit.. seen and had too much of them and even better. In and outside the shores..

Then WTF is wrong with you

Millenniumlady:
Then WTF is wrong with you

I understand this question.. need help sis

WebSurfer:

I understand this question.. need help sis

Ok now I get.....Just wife me and you have everything else settle

The thing a man likes best or can't do without is what kills the man.

TimeMachine:


I mentioned that you should 'watch' and participate only if you feel like. That is the main reason of having bi-sexuals so you do not have to be bothered. It is about self-control.

Alternatively, have yourself a sexy lady that can function as your P.A and have a fixed Salary, and stay professional while at it.

Participate if I feel like? Bro you need to see them crazy bitches that’ll make you loose guard

Rebuke them if you can't contend it simple...what is hard in telling them you're not interested, I don't want you, you re stalking me, stay away, I've a girlfriend, and so on.

Believe me.........You know how to break away from girls advances or are you one of these kids in this forum.

Preshy561:
They are out to kill you physically and emotionally, run for your life,.change your sim card and.be that responsible guy to your gf/wife

Girllll I've missed you

Millenniumlady:
Ok now I get.....Just wife me and you have everything else settle

Lol... truth is, if you meet me, you’ll know I can’t be in a relationship or marriage as I’m so not ready for that right now..

Lonestar124:
Rebuke them if you can't contend it simple...what is hard in telling them you're not interested, I don't want you, you re stalking me, stay away, I've a girlfriend, and so on.

Believe me.........You know how to break away from girls advances or are you one of these kids in this forum.

See a screenshot bro.. like this example, you’ll become an enemy
PS: this girl in particular, her hips and body will drive any man crazy..

Millenniumlady:
Girllll I've missed you

Missed you too baby.
Hope to see you this xmas

WebSurfer:

Participate if I feel like? Bro you need to see them crazy bitches that’ll make you loose guard

I have so many ladies in my life, both foreign and local. If you can not control your body, then what really makes you a cultured human ? It is mind over matter, and spirit over mind. But usually, I operate from the vintage point of the later.

If you can't follow some of the advice given here, you're going down nigga. Why are you still criticizing good comments given here? Were you not the one seeking solution to your addiction? I don't see someone that really needs help here, just an attention seeker. Whatever you decide to do with your life is your fucking business. Get the Bleep off nigga?

WebSurfer:

Should I send you a screenshot of such conversation to see how it went ?

No. you're a man I don't think a lady can drive you fecklessly. Stand as a responsible man and usurp authority from their advances. except you derived pleasure from their attention.