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Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by epelumi42(m): 9:32pm On Oct 17, 2018
WORDWORLD:


grin I LIKE THE WAY YOU NAILED IT AlPeter!!!

epelumi42, indeed IRRATIONALITY is a reaction against the INTELLECT. Hehehe.......see how you have been running in circles, CONTRADICTING YOURSELF a typical characteristic of an ILLOGICAL POSTULATION.



Such illogical postulations, such IRRATIONALITY in your defense is a reason for the CRISIS OF THIS SO CALLED MORDEN WORLD.

"EVERYONE SHOULD HAVE A CHOICE" meaning 'FREEDOM'.


Now read your own CONTRADICTION of your PRINCIPLE of "everyone should have a choice below.

"But when you want to inflict your desires on another, you go against what the rule is about".

WHAT RULE?!

AN INDIVIDUAL RULE OR A GENERAL RULE.

DEFINED BY WHO AND HOW?!

IN A SOCIETY WHICH YOU HAVE SAID INDIVIDUALS ARE MEANT TO DEFINE FOR THEMSELVES WHAT THEY SEE FIT AS BEING MORALLY RIGHT OR WRONG?!

. IS THAT NOT CHAOS? Since "everybody should have a choice" to define what is to them "THE RULE" and what it means to them to "INFLICT THEIR DESIRES ON OTHERS".



Three core DISEASES of this so called modern world are INTELLECTUAL VACUITY, MENTAL CONFUSSION AND HYPOCRISY.















Oh man, where do I start from? Indeed, individual rules will create chaos, and that is why we have society rules to abide by. Yet you can't tell me there are certain rules by the society that are flawed. The grounds of morality for example is a complicated subject and causes dissension all the time. we could go all day arguing, but it won't change the perspective you have. Because humans are dynamic. all I can do is make you see reasons why the cause of feminism is not a bad one. Gender equality and empowering women is not a bad idea.

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Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by Nobody: 9:46pm On Oct 17, 2018
epelumi42:


Oh man, where do I start from? Indeed, individual rules will create chaos, and that is why we have society rules to abide by. Yet you can't tell me there are certain rules by the society that are flawed. The grounds of morality for example is a complicated subject and causes dissension all the time. we could go all day arguing, but it won't change the perspective you have. Because humans are dynamic. all I can do is make you see reasons why the cause of feminism is not a bad one. Gender equality and empowering women is not a bad idea.

THANK YOU! CASE CLOSED.
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by AlPeter: 10:08pm On Oct 17, 2018
epelumi42:


Oh. Natural order. Going by your analogy, it is a woman's role to wash clothes, cook, and all?

Even in the animal kingdom, is it the female that provides the food or the male? Or You have not seen that female animals protect their own kids too. Have you seen a male chicken (cock) cater and protect the family. See, don't come and give unapplicable analogies here. There's nothing like basic feminine role. But I ask again, who defined the homosapiens responsibility if not humans themselves? Men have always thought themselves superior to women and here we're asking, why so?

Don't even mention animals anymore because that's bullshit, my Fren.
LOL.... like I said you are new at this. so you don't know cocks warn hens and chicks of danger long before the danger gets to them and sometimes die fighting of predators?
In the animal kingdom the female provides the food! The male might hunt it out but it is the FEMALES the ultimately decides whether the food is suitable for the young or not.
let's even bring it closer in the mammalian class am sure it's the males that carry mammary glands and goes about protecting the little ones.
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by epelumi42(m): 10:37pm On Oct 17, 2018
AlPeter:
LOL.... like I said you are new at this. so you don't know cocks warn hens and chicks of danger long before the danger gets to them and sometimes die fighting of predators?
In the animal kingdom the female provides the food! The male might hunt it out but it is the FEMALES the ultimately decides whether the food is suitable for the young or not.
let's even bring it closer in the mammalian class am sure it's the males that carry mammary glands and goes about protecting the little ones.

Oga, Park well. You're picking irrelevant examples to buttress your point. Cocks warn hens and chicks of danger? Hahahaha.

The animal kingdom is diverse. Not all female animals provide for their children. And I'm a graduate of Animal science, in case you want to lecture me on what happens in the animal kingdom. This conversation is over abeg.

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Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by Xavier5(m): 10:48pm On Oct 17, 2018
tosyne2much, your damn hilarious.

no 5, 7, 8 and 9 are so on point most especially the dressing part.

#Xavier.

Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by tosyne2much(m): 10:59pm On Oct 17, 2018
Xavier5:
tosyne2much, your damn hilarious.
no 5, 7, 8 and 9 are so on point most especially the dressing part.
#Xavier.
Thanks bro cheesy
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by dami456: 7:33am On Oct 18, 2018
princfred:
In all this rant yet if you are not delusional, you will notice the increasing number of women jumping from crusade to babalawo looking for ...here it comes....A MAN even with all their money. Who said am in any way pained by women giving money to boys? Who is pained with alternative source of income. That way guys get to enjoy an alternative source of submission in financial form. Which responsibility when most ladies cant even pay their share of the bill on a date nor deem it comfortable and normal to house a guy during a relationship? Responsobilities guys take on naturally without a second thought. Lots of guys are currently a source of poverty alleviation for lots of women (training them in school, etc) in the Nigerian society. When you've got a higher % of ladies ready to comfortably undertake such responsibilities and more equally like guys do then your case for feminism as not just a cover for selfish, irresponsible, shallow minded ladies can start making sense. For every feminism who is looking to drag equall right without equall responsibilities their are a million other girls that the man can marry who are ready to undertake cooking and cleaning as their responsibility to ensure efficiecy based on division of labour in the home. All the man has to do is change wife often and long enough having all the time on his side to do that which women dont normally have.

Feminism will even help men to easily enjoy both the money and pussy of women and bailout easily if she happens to become financial incapable since she will become utterly useless given her inability to take up cooking and cleaning. So basically the marriage or relationship is hinged on the steady supply of the womans money and if anything happens to that the man bails. Hence women will become only as useless or usefull as the money they bring in just like you accuse men to be now.

With feminism, men now have the option of fuckmates with financial benefits wow...life just got better. Which man in his beast mode will be against feminism? Imagine a man being paid for the very activity he usually pays for.

It's hilarious that you think every man is going to be able to change wives often. Do you think every man is Otedola? How much do you think the average Nigerian man makes a month? Is it Gbenga that's making 60k/month with 2 children from his first wife that'll have the resources to be changing wife often? Lmao! Not sure what country you think you're in, but the actual average Nigerian man is dirt poor and with our economic state, most cannot afford to have families on one measly income. Also not sure what ganja you've been smoking, but no, there aren't an increasing number of women going to babalawo's looking for a man. Life is not a nollywood movie. Many Nigerian men will tell you themselves, that cooking and cleaning is no longer enough. In our current state, a woman that makes a good income will find it easier to find someone than one that has no reputable skills beyond homemaking and places all of the financial burden on the man. Your snarky remark at women giving money to boys for sex, highlights your obvious bitterness about it. Because instead of pandering to the demands of a useless husband, most of these women would rather live their lives alone fulfill their emotional needs with friends and family, and their sexual needs from the virile, attractive men that they solicit sex from. After a woman has been married once, she realizes that men actually get a lot more from marriage than women do and women give up more for their marriages. And suddenly a stress free single life is much more appealing than the burden of a husband (again, statistics on the happiness of single men vs married men and single women vs married women). No one expects a woman to "house" a guy, why should she? But paying half the bills and expenses does give her half the rights and the responsibilities to the relationship/marriage. It makes no sense to take on all the expenses, when it can be shared with someone, which again, ironically, is what a lot of men are now looking for. How many men do you see going to village to find a girl that has no reputable skills beyond cooking and cleaning? Lol. They don't because they too no longer want that sole responsibility of financial providership.

The likelihood of a woman becoming financially incapable, perhaps via loss of her job, is just as much as that of a man. But at least, just as you alluded to, women would at least have cooking and cleaning to fall back to if she can no longer contribute financially. It's something she can pick up to balance things out. What do men have to fall back on when they become financially incapable? Absolutely nothing. Once he can no longer provide, he's discarded like trash or routinely disrespected, humiliated and made to feel useless, because society knows that men are only good for one thing. And once that's gone, no one cares about you anymore and no one cares what happens to you. So either way, rant bitterly all you want, but women will be fine.

Every man is free to enjoy sexual freedom. Everyone should enjoy sexual freedom. But the days of a man holding it over your head and coercing you to have sex, just because he gave you some money or bought you rice and chicken will be diminishing. Women will have sex with men that they want to, because they want to. And the ones that are smart enough to be financially set will still be more attractive for relationships than the ones sitting at home waiting for some guy to come and pay all her bills. Plus most men are just not hot enough to get casual sex, so tbh, a lot of them will likely still be getting sex in relationships anyway, while some others will be sexually starved when they realize that just because you have some money doesn't entitle you to sex (or they catch STDs from prostitutes - same thing really).

All in all, Rome wasn't built in a day. It didn't take a day to develop the patriarchal society that we currently have, and as such, it won't take a day for feminism to spread to the majority part of the nation. But the fact that its already started and affecting the lives of men, is why many men like you are coming to the internet to display your anger about it. We don't need to have more women willing to fully provide for men to prove the validity of feminism, all we need is for them to take on half the expenses, which a lot of them are well on their way to doing. And with that financial contribution, they demand the rights and respect that comes with that.
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by princfred(m): 7:36am On Oct 18, 2018
dami456:


It's hilarious that you think every man is going to be able to change wives often. Do you think every man is Otedola? How much do you think the average Nigerian man makes a month? Is it Gbenga that's making 60k/month with 2 children from his first wife that'll have the resources to be changing wife often? Lmao! Not sure what country you think you're in, but the actual average Nigerian man is dirt poor and with our economic state, most cannot afford to have families on one measly income. Also not sure what ganja you've been smoking, but no, there aren't an increasing number of women going to babalawo's looking for a man. Life is not a nollywood movie. Many Nigerian men will tell you themselves, that cooking and cleaning is no longer enough. In our current state, a woman that makes a good income will find it easier to find someone than one that has no reputable skills beyond homemaking and places all of the financial burden on the man. Your snarky remark at women giving money to boys for sex, highlights your obvious bitterness about it. Because instead of pandering to the demands of a useless husband, most of these women would rather live their lives alone fulfill their emotional needs with friends and family, and their sexual needs from the virile, attractive men that they solicit sex from. After a woman has been married once, she realizes that men actually get a lot more from marriage than women do and women give up more for their marriages. And suddenly a stress free single life is much more appealing than the burden of a husband (again, statistics on the happiness of single men vs married men and single women vs married women). No one expects a woman to "house" a guy, why should she? But paying half the bills and expenses does give her half the rights and the responsibilities to the relationship/marriage. It makes no sense to take on all the expenses, when it can be shared with someone, which again, ironically, is what a lot of men are now looking for. How many men do you see going to village to find a girl that has no reputable skills beyond cooking and cleaning? Lol. They don't because they too no longer want that sole responsibility of financial providership.

The likelihood of a woman becoming financially incapable, perhaps via loss of her job, is just as much as that of a man. But at least, just as you alluded to, women would at least have cooking and cleaning to fall back to if she can no longer contribute financially. It's something she can pick up to balance things out. What do men have to fall back on when they become financially incapable? Absolutely nothing. Once he can no longer provide, he's discarded like trash or routinely disrespected, humiliated and made to feel useless, because society knows that men are only good for one thing. And once that's gone, no one cares about you anymore and no one cares what happens to you. So either way, rant bitterly all you want, but women will be fine.

Every man is free to enjoy sexual freedom. Everyone should enjoy sexual freedom. But the days of a man holding it over your head and coercing you to have sex, just because he gave you some money or bought you rice and chicken will be diminishing. Women will have sex with men that they want to, because they want to. And the ones that are smart enough to be financially set will still be more attractive for relationships than the ones sitting at home waiting for some guy to come and pay all her bills. Plus most men are just not hot enough to get casual sex, so tbh, a lot of them will likely still be getting sex in relationships anyway, while some others will be sexually starved when they realize that just because you have some money doesn't entitle you to sex (or they catch STDs from prostitutes - same thing really).

All in all, Rome wasn't built in a day. It didn't take a day to develop the patriarchal society that we currently have, and as such, it won't take a day for feminism to spread to the majority part of the nation. But the fact that its already started and affecting the lives of men, is why many men like you are coming to the internet to display your anger about it. We don't need to have more women willing to fully provide for men to prove the validity of feminism, all we need is for them to take on half the expenses, which a lot of them are well on their way to doing. And with that financial contribution, they demand the rights and respect that comes with that.
Too bad you are soo out of touch men dont need to be super rich to change wives infact many poor men have more wives and children from different women. Again why do you insist on being so delusional about me feeling pain cos women pay small boys for sex ? Am even a small boy when it comes to that lol Me who is gallivanting for women to be more financially responsible towards the male now feeling pain over the few cases where it happens
. Men don't need to go to the villages anymore those girls have moved to urban areas.
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by dami456: 7:51am On Oct 18, 2018
princfred:
Too bad you are soo out of touch men dont need to be super rich to change wives infact many poor men have more wives and children from different women.

And how many of those poor men have children living remotely good lives? Most of them are living in poverty and hawking stuff and begging on the street. If you think urban regions where there's growing feminism, would be riddled with a bunch of poor men that have never heard of birth control, and are changing wives, then you're more delusional that I thought. Or as feminism grows and more women are become indoctrinated, they would agree to be a poor man's interchangeable wives, then I laugh in your face. The poor man having multiple interchangeable wives is a testament to an old patriarchal culture and another platform that feminism is changing.
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by dami456: 7:55am On Oct 18, 2018
epelumi42:


Oh. Natural order. Going by your analogy, it is a woman's role to wash clothes, cook, and all?

Even in the animal kingdom, is it the female that provides the food or the male? Or You have not seen that female animals protect their own kids too. Have you seen a male chicken (cock) cater and protect the family. See, don't come and give unapplicable analogies here. There's nothing like basic feminine role. But I ask again, who defined the homosapiens responsibility if not humans themselves? Men have always thought themselves superior to women and here we're asking, why so?

Don't even mention animals anymore because that's bullshit, my Fren.

Well said. Cooking and cleaning is a feminine role because we have humans just decided that it is. There's no cookbook or cooking manual that comes with the extra X chromosome or the female DNA. Women were taught and indoctrinated by society into taking up this role. And as such, can be taught not to. Or can have men be taught to in equal measure, as well.

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Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by princfred(m): 8:02am On Oct 18, 2018
dami456:


And how many of those poor men have children living remotely good lives? Most of them are living in poverty and hawking stuff and begging on the street. If you think urban regions where there's growing feminism, would be riddled with a bunch of poor men that have never heard of birth control, and are changing wives, then you're more delusional that I thought. Or as feminism grows and more women are become indoctrinated, they would agree to be a poor man's interchangeable wives, then I laugh in your face. The poor man having multiple interchangeable wives is a testament to an old patriarchal culture and another platform that feminism is changing.
You are only making more women to be delusional and arrogant long enough until they pass their prime and start jumping from one crusade to another or become alternative source of income for guys(who consider them as useful or useless as the amount they pay) as they have to pay guys for the service guys usually pay for or join #500 per round oloshos just to survive.
The quality of life the children live is a different story the man is just living his life as those women become baby mamas. Hence those children hawking can be considered as victims of women new found feminism and domestic irresponsibility.

From your other reply: So much out of touch delusional BS there
So what makes you think the man will consider you worthy if after losing your ability to contribute financially, you now suddenly start taking up domestic responsibilities as your role? The very roles you were throwing at him. You really think men to be dumb. Babe, as soon as your money supply goes south you are on your own just like you take the man as useless for losing his financial capabilities. Thats equality, young woman. Feel free to bear the psychological burden which men obligatorily undertake. Who even wants and appreciates a wife whose sense of domestic responsibility is dependent and fluctuates with her financial input anyway?

What makes you think 60k/month Gbenga will be stuck with the children when in reality, most times its the woman that goes with the children and become baby mama so Gbenga can still go roll with another woman with his 60k. Cooking is not enough but still important. Do you think the man married you mainly to come help him pay bills or to be responsible in the domestic and sexual front for him and be an emotional safe space and boost for him? If the former is the case, then you become very useless once you become incapacitated to do that.

For that olosho part:
A mans life is more in danger from gf since most times they make the man believe he is the only one soo overtime he starts bleeping raw (thinking he is the only king of the jungle ) unlike with Olosho where both parties are always careful and on their toes (like a midget at the urinary) to play safe (especially the guy knowing fully well that he is in no man's land). Spiritually, both are bombs range away from righteousness.
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by princfred(m): 8:12am On Oct 18, 2018
dami456:


Well said. Cooking and cleaning is a feminine role because we have humans just decided that it is. There's no cookbook or cooking manual that comes with the extra X chromosome or the female DNA. Women were taught and indoctrinated by society into taking up this role. And as such, can be taught not to. Or can have men be taught to in equal measure, as well.
Great. Men can now do the cooking while women cut the flowers and lawn around the house, wash the car and follow up with repairs of home appliances and maintenance of the car just for the love of role swapping and no division of labor.
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by AlPeter: 6:49pm On Oct 18, 2018
epelumi42:


Oga, Park well. You're picking irrelevant examples to buttress your point. Cocks warn hens and chicks of danger? Hahahaha.

The animal kingdom is diverse. Not all female animals provide for their children. And I'm a graduate of Animal science, in case you want to lecture me on what happens in the animal kingdom. This conversation is over abeg.
you are a graduate of animal science? and you don't know this? oga you are a shame to that certificate you hold. In research there are never absolutes but I doubt you will know that.

https://www.backyardchickens.com/threads/how-much-protection-do-roosters-offer-against-hawks.858130/

https://www.quora.com/Do-cocks-bother-young-chicks
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by tosyne2much(m): 8:43am On Oct 25, 2018
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Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by Ayobami7(m): 10:18am On Nov 13, 2018
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Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by Nobody: 4:31pm On Jan 15, 2019
tosyne2much:
6. The way she walks carrying herself like an alpha in front of your friends/everyone

cheesy
Re: 10 Pictures You Can Relate To If You've Ever Dated A Feminist by sylve11: 4:39pm On Jul 11, 2023
tosyne2much:
8. She says she doesn't care about a man's money but when another guy is showing her money


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