highchief1:
bro if u have 200m in ur account will not do a small wedding

victor8269:

When you are a walking well, every guy becomes Pencil preek. Go stitch ur River small, you no go hear

flyca:
OP, we and Russians (or any other) are different cultures, different ideologies, different religious principles. We have our own way of doing stuff.

We Africans have our heritage and we must be proud if it! We are tied into closely knitted family units. We love to celebrate together as communities. We also mourn together. Economic factors should not be the reason why we would not do what we are supposed to do, especially when we can.

My point is: We must not copy everything we see. We must not be like them!

sammiepraise:


white wedding is not our culture we copied it from them.
but in Africa we over do everything thing. we always want to show ourselves especially when it comes to anything that involves money.
everybody always want to act rich.

victor8269:

Oga, give me 2m, I go marry now now

patoski39:
no b lie, ma guy... but I serious o, roger me sontin nah, at least make boys feel ur presence

highchief1:
no try am o u go gate yourself marriage is expensive to run

highchief1:
no try am o u go gate yourself marriage is expensive to run

victor8269:

Is it ur marriage?, U go give me abi u no go give me?

highchief1:
lol calm down

victor8269:

I need to marry fast

flyca:
OP, we and Russians (or any other) are different cultures, different ideologies, different religious principles. We have our own way of doing stuff.

We Africans have our heritage and we must be proud if it! We are tied into closely knitted family units. We love to celebrate together as communities. We also mourn together. Economic factors should not be the reason why we would not do what we are supposed to do, especially when we can.

My point is: We must not copy everything we see. We must not be like them!

MrPlato:
...


My Wedding Will Be Done Out This Country... Will Also Be Very Simple With Very Important Persons To Me and My Woman in Attendance Only... No Loud Music! Soft Jazz, Blues, RnB...


Most Importantly The Joining Will Be Done At 00:00 of January 1st of What Ever Year... A Beautiful Mid-night Blissful Ceremony...



Going To Be Simple But Expensive. Its The Best Start I Can Give To A Woman of Geniune Virue Who Takes Part In My Success Pursuit to The End...


The Rest Part Of Our Lives Will Be Disney's Moto "Happily Ever After"

famousbowale:


https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10214263019823362&id=1051636033

flyca:

Stop misquoting me intentionally. Do as you like. By “invite your relatives to celebrate with you”, I did not mean “spend a fortune”. And did I ever mention what or how many weedings you need to have? Osho-free 5 naira husbands everywhere! Hewh!

Cc: Ugosample, Baronnaire, samisj4real, Constantiney

highchief1:
im worth much more than that so it’s no big deal .if u can do 5m in a club for ur bd let alone wedding

Ugosample:

You cannot blame the ladies and leave the man out. Both are meant to be in agreement.

And the couple cannot be blamed alone. Some tribes make it so difficult when parents want to take over. At least we read here where someone was complaining about his FIL being rigid about the church to use.

friend of mine said she was planning for 200 but her MIL said that is her own crowd. That she should make it 450. Family makes things complicated sometimes

Mrjo:
club? I dey mad?

akdjr:
I wonder why people keep wasting money on wedding. I did mine with less than 100k had a reception of less than 20 guest both family and friends.

ozoneymcm:

I don't like it when Africans complain about their culture. When your children grow up and start saying "Bleep you daddy" , you will now be seeking African way. Do your wedding the African way. The money you spend depends on what you have. I have to accept that our weddings cost too much but that's the way we are. Never use the American way as standard for your deeds

ImaIma1:


The 50 people she was planning for was for her and her husband...not just her.

I know a lot of people that don't want or didn't wamt flamboyant weddings. My sister for one had only a traditional marriage and went to court. I had a white wedding of just 100 people.

Another friend did court and parlour party. It just depends on the people and if their parents can be open minded. Infact, another one did a strictly by IV wedding in a restaurant and i wasn't invited...i vexed but got over it.

People date high maintenance girls and then expect her to be cheap. They should date people with like minds.

famousbowale:
Hello guyz, sorry for been the first to comment on my own post.

I'm currently planning for my wedding towards March next year. My self and my wife to be are trying to keep it as simple as possible, if possible just for family members and friends of about 250.
Believe it before I could say jack our budget is already hitting #3.2 million.

The post above was share by a Nigerian base abroad, this made me begin to wonder if it is necessary to even wed at all?
Why spend our hard earned money on wedding of a day?
That money can get us a land or start a little business.
Just thinking

asuustrike1:

I agree with you

highchief1:
weite me directly even if na one black label make I do u

Derawiz:

Life is very simple but people just complicate things unnecessarily, well my goal in life is to live a life of simplicity and my spouse must also be someone of like mind

princfred:
Is white marriage an African culture?