| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Nobody: 8:41pm On Oct 30, 2018 |
Biglittlelois:
Not all of us are opportunistic in love, some women fall in love cos it is what it is-love, yes people make value a priority but it is not a benchmark for love. Don't confuse academic and derogatory, the term isn't meant to be the later, the ideal of opportunistic love is it been attach to a feature we find alloring. This isn't our fault it hardwired biology. To protect Women from suffering, since we are the ones with the most to lose if there is a pregnancy. sperm is cheap ; egg is expensive. Ask yourself why we ladies ( include myself ) don't want to settle for just anyone ? A man can do that because their idea of love is to be loved backed without conditions. Anyone who should them that is a possible mate. But for us, women a man most be a provider, protector and hold some form of social value ( fame, handsome or power ) to be considered a match. ergo opportunism. That's why we say there's no good men out there, no because they don't exist but they don't match our ideas of love, i.e qualities mentioned above. It's a study. A king want to pick a bride and be happy. A Queen want to be conquered by the biggest and more powerful King. Value! 2 Likes |
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| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Lastpharoah33: 5:49pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
Amakavula:
Don't confuse academic and derogatory, the term isn't meant to be the later, the ideal of opportunistic love is it been attach to a feature we find alloring.
This isn't our fault it hardwired biology. To protect Women from suffering, since we are the ones with the most to lose if there is a pregnancy.
sperm is cheap ; egg is expensive.
Ask yourself why we ladies ( include myself ) don't want to settle for just anyone ? A man can do that because their idea of love is to be loved backed without conditions.
Anyone who should them that is a possible mate.
But for us, women a man most be a provider, protector and hold some form of social value ( fame, handsome or power ) to be considered a match. ergo opportunism. That's why we say there's no good men out there, no because they don't exist but they don't match our ideas of love, i.e qualities mentioned above.
It's a study. A king want to pick a bride and be happy. A Queen want to be conquered by the biggest and more powerful King. Value!
You are something...
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| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Nobody: 6:02pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
chenzen:
someone here will agree with me that most form of love proclamations and attraction has intense signals of selfish interest unlike Agape love which has pure and humane expressions of empathy and selflessness.
There is no such thing as TRUE LOVE, it's nothing short of ILLUSIONS... and ur mind travelling far and making things up in ur head.
some will describe TRUE LOVE as that feeling of goosebumps, adrenaline and melanin pumping in ur spine and head making ur heart heavy and ur head spinning like a carousel.
VERY FUNNY!!!
ITS NOTHING... ONLY SELFISH INTEREST
ONLY CONDITIONS AND EXPECTATIONS
ITS ALL ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE.
ITS ALL ABOUT LOGIC
IMPLORE U ALL TO
FORGET IT!!!
STOP WASTING TIME i totally agree |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Nobody: 6:13pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
Amakavula:
Don't confuse academic and derogatory, the term isn't meant to be the later, the ideal of opportunistic love is it been attach to a feature we find alloring.
This isn't our fault it hardwired biology. To protect Women from suffering, since we are the ones with the most to lose if there is a pregnancy.
sperm is cheap ; egg is expensive.
Ask yourself why we ladies ( include myself ) don't want to settle for just anyone ? A man can do that because their idea of love is to be loved backed without conditions.
Anyone who should them that is a possible mate.
But for us, women a man most be a provider, protector and hold some form of social value ( fame, handsome or power ) to be considered a match. ergo opportunism. That's why we say there's no good men out there, no because they don't exist but they don't match our ideas of love, i.e qualities mentioned above.
It's a study. A king want to pick a bride and be happy. A Queen want to be conquered by the biggest and more powerful King. Value!
bravo! i feel like hugging you. you just conveyed how i feel and what allthese small boys refused to understand 2 Likes |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by frozen70(f): 7:26pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
chenzen:
someone here will agree with me that most form of love proclamations and attraction has intense signals of selfish interest unlike Agape love which has pure and humane expressions of empathy and selflessness.
There is no such thing as TRUE LOVE, it's nothing short of ILLUSIONS... and ur mind travelling far and making things up in ur head.
some will describe TRUE LOVE as that feeling of goosebumps, adrenaline and melanin pumping in ur spine and head making ur heart heavy and ur head spinning like a carousel.
VERY FUNNY!!!
ITS NOTHING... ONLY SELFISH INTEREST
ONLY CONDITIONS AND EXPECTATIONS
ITS ALL ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE.
ITS ALL ABOUT LOGIC
IMPLORE U ALL TO
FORGET IT!!!
STOP WASTING TIME If you choose to remain single, there is no problem with that. 1 Like |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by kollinzgee(m): 8:54pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
Amakavula:
Poor guy, you need the red pill. There's no loving without requirements. Even still, Guys love idealistically, Ladies love opportunistically. Guys want a love without requirements, unconditional like that of their mothers, but ladies want the conditional love of their fathers.
I keep telling my Male friends, Telling a woman " I love you " is as worthless as the air you breath out.
Ladies don't want your love but your value. Be someone, accomplish something and grow yourself ladies will tell you " I love you " they will try to please you. Because your value is a price not your words.
Failing to understand this will leave you in heartbreaks after heart breaks. Wonder why criminals still find love? they are usually accomplished in their profession even though it's a horrible one.
omoge you burst my head with this comment I can give you 100 likes if possible I never tell girls I love them they take it for granted. I just show them my great personality i mean my alphamale side I don't beg girls nor ask them out .these days I gat so many girls visit me I have lost count just because they see me as a guy who doesnt send i gat my emotions and dick in control I don't call them they do.my guys think am using jazz nope women love a guy that behaves as if women means nothing to them am not needy 5 Likes |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by MarianaTrench: 9:36pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
True love is a farce in Nigeria
It only exists in fairy tales! 2 Likes |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Nobody: 10:22pm On Nov 21, 2018 |
True love exists.  |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Nobody: 10:17am On Nov 22, 2018 |
frozen70:
If you choose to remain single, there is no problem with that. huh  but l didnt say anything bout' marriage |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Nobody: 10:26am On Nov 22, 2018 |
Amakavula:
Poor guy, you need the red pill. There's no loving without requirements. Even still, Guys love idealistically, Ladies love opportunistically. Guys want a love without requirements, unconditional like that of their mothers, but ladies want the conditional love of their fathers.
I keep telling my Male friends, Telling a woman " I love you " is as worthless as the air you breath out.
Ladies don't want your love but your value. Be someone, accomplish something and grow yourself ladies will tell you " I love you " they will try to please you. Because your value is a price not your words.
Failing to understand this will leave you in heartbreaks after heart breaks. Wonder why criminals still find love? they are usually accomplished in their profession even though it's a horrible one.
This is why I keep saying you are a guy, not a girlie. Kudos. |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by kollinzgee(m): 10:41am On Nov 22, 2018 |
chenzen:
someone here will agree with me that most form of love proclamations and attraction has intense signals of selfish interest unlike Agape love which has pure and humane expressions of empathy and selflessness.
There is no such thing as TRUE LOVE, it's nothing short of ILLUSIONS... and ur mind travelling far and making things up in ur head.
some will describe TRUE LOVE as that feeling of goosebumps, adrenaline and melanin pumping in ur spine and head making ur heart heavy and ur head spinning like a carousel.
VERY FUNNY!!!
ITS NOTHING... ONLY SELFISH INTEREST
ONLY CONDITIONS AND EXPECTATIONS
ITS ALL ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE.
ITS ALL ABOUT LOGIC
IMPLORE U ALL TO
FORGET IT!!!
STOP WASTING TIME eeeeyahhh you again chenzen .I know you have been hurt many times by women sorry bro .such is life we have all being there before you are the second most emotional guy on nairaland after beardless dude .I ave friends like you here and I ave helped them improve with women it's not that am perfect but am really trying just come and learn from the goodbad guys and breakaway from the female web stop crying manup and face your fears because as long as you have a dick and 2 balls pumping testosterone in your body you will still desire women,you can't cheat nature. |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Nobody: 11:17am On Nov 22, 2018 |
kollinzgee:
eeeeyahhh you again chenzen .I know you have been hurt many times by women sorry bro .such is life we have all being there before you are the second most emotional guy on nairaland after beardless dude .I ave friends like you here and I ave helped them improve with women it's not that am perfect but am really trying just come and learn from the goodbad guys and breakaway from the female web stop crying manup and face your fears because as long as you have a dick and 2 balls pumping testosterone in your body you will still desire women,you can't cheat nature.
lol... l m not surprised... that ur porn video make sense... l saw it on youtube, u almost ripped her labiá majora. indeed u are a good pòrn actor. thumbz up |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by SmellingAnus(m): 8:29pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
MarianaTrench:
True love is a farce in Nigeria
It only exists in fairy tales! yeah so I. The craziest and funniest moniker you have come across.... Anyway about true love ... It probably exist but it's rare to come across maybe because those that have it end up loving the wrong person... |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by loswhite(m): 8:44pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
funmisticqueen:
bravo! i feel like hugging you. you just conveyed how i feel and what allthese small boys refused to understand clap for your self...15th century analogy... These days we men also want value. 1 Like |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by dollytino4real(f): 9:26pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
[quote author=SmellingAnus post=75332699] yeah so I. The craziest and funniest moniker you have come across.... Anyway about true love ... It probably exist but it's rare to come across maybe because those that have it end up loving the wrong person... [/quote guy hw body] |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by SmellingAnus(m): 11:03pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
[quote author=dollytino4real post=75334116][/quote] my dearest... The only PDP woman wey be my friend  |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by kollinzgee(m): 11:23pm On Feb 01, 2019 |
i pity guys who hearkens to womens words and believe confused pipu ask @amakavula if she can cope with a man who has the value she wants but doesnot love her .she will come and start ranting about how men are scum. 2 Likes |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by dollytino4real(f): 1:43pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
SmellingAnus:
my dearest... The only PDP woman wey be my friend really! u be wetin apc or accord party |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by princfred(m): 1:46pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
kollinzgee:
i pity guys who hearkens to womens words and believe confused pipu ask @amakavula if she can cope with a man who has the value she wants but doesnot love her .she will come and start ranting about how men are scum. lolz. |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by princfred(m): 1:51pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
chenzen:
someone here will agree with me that most form of love proclamations and attraction has intense signals of selfish interest unlike Agape love which has pure and humane expressions of empathy and selflessness.
There is no such thing as TRUE LOVE, it's nothing short of ILLUSIONS... and ur mind travelling far and making things up in ur head.
some will describe TRUE LOVE as that feeling of goosebumps, adrenaline and melanin pumping in ur spine and head making ur heart heavy and ur head spinning like a carousel.
VERY FUNNY!!!
ITS NOTHING... ONLY SELFISH INTEREST
ONLY CONDITIONS AND EXPECTATIONS
ITS ALL ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE.
ITS ALL ABOUT LOGIC
IMPLORE U ALL TO
FORGET IT!!!
STOP WASTING TIME Why should we forget it and call it wasting of time since its give and take.....we GIVE and TAKE na. If the price for what you want to take is good you give especially if the value is worthwhile. If you dont have to give you go and search further until you meet one whose price you can afford. But if you are soo bent on talking love just know that apart from few exceptions, men do the loving focusing on what will becalm mr stiff and/or the emotional safe space the woman and provide irrespective of the womans economic or social state women focus on the mulla and da magnitude of steven G. Guy, nature wired us differently and wrote the rules for its pleasure you don't fuse over it, you play by it. Lolz |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by davien(m): 2:43pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
Women will always want men that are in charge and control an aspect of their life.. Because it was those men who hunted when there was no food, it was those men who corrected them with an iron hand that they could not go astray, and it is those men who had children with them for generations..
So having the option to choose these days mean they will be opportunistic to screen for such men. 1 Like |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by pansophist(m): 3:25pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
I'm I the only one that suspects this amakavula to be a man? Everything you said is true, and many women will consider it offensive even though that's their true nature. Men should start living up to what constitutes the qualities of a traditional male. It else, hmm, well, your DNA will be washed away in the passing of times as women and nature want no weak man. 1 Like |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by kollinskollins(m): 4:12pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
Amakavula:
Poor guy, you need the red pill. There's no loving without requirements. Even still, Guys love idealistically, Ladies love opportunistically. Guys want a love without requirements, unconditional like that of their mothers, but ladies want the conditional love of their fathers.
I keep telling my Male friends, Telling a woman " I love you " is as worthless as the air you breath out.
Ladies don't want your love but your value. Be someone, accomplish something and grow yourself ladies will tell you " I love you " they will try to please you. Because your value is a price not your words.
Failing to understand this will leave you in heartbreaks after heart breaks. Wonder why criminals still find love? they are usually accomplished in their profession even though it's a horrible one.
the air you breath out is not worthless |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by catalan15(m): 5:23pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
Amakavula:
Poor guy, you need the red pill. There's no loving without requirements. Even still, Guys love idealistically, Ladies love opportunistically. Guys want a love without requirements, unconditional like that of their mothers, but ladies want the conditional love of their fathers.
I keep telling my Male friends, Telling a woman " I love you " is as worthless as the air you breath out.
Ladies don't want your love but your value. Be someone, accomplish something and grow yourself ladies will tell you " I love you " they will try to please you. Because your value is a price not your words.
Failing to understand this will leave you in heartbreaks after heart breaks. Wonder why criminals still find love? they are usually accomplished in their profession even though it's a horrible one.
Simple truth...?
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| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by catalan15(m): 5:24pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
[quote author=catalan15 post=75356326][/quote]Simple truth..... |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Martinez19(m): 5:54pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
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| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Lightangel65: 6:09pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
chenzen:
someone here will agree with me that most form of love proclamations and attraction has intense signals of selfish interest unlike Agape love which has pure and humane expressions of empathy and selflessness.
There is no such thing as TRUE LOVE, it's nothing short of ILLUSIONS... and ur mind travelling far and making things up in ur head.
some will describe TRUE LOVE as that feeling of goosebumps, adrenaline and melanin pumping in ur spine and head making ur heart heavy and ur head spinning like a carousel.
VERY FUNNY!!!
ITS NOTHING... ONLY SELFISH INTEREST
ONLY CONDITIONS AND EXPECTATIONS
ITS ALL ABOUT GIVE AND TAKE.
ITS ALL ABOUT LOGIC
IMPLORE U ALL TO
FORGET IT!!!
STOP WASTING TIME Love exists in the world we live in, the fact that you haven't found one dosent mean it doesn't exist. True love is rare and mutual, it is hard to find, deep love between two people. Most times you love someone and they don't love you back, that doesn't give you a right to condenm love. Or you maybe heartbroken But you haven't found true love. It is mutual not unrequited. I haven't found it. But I know it exists 1 Like |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Martinez19(m): 6:10pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
Amakavula:
Don't confuse academic and derogatory, the term isn't meant to be the later, the ideal of opportunistic love is it been attach to a feature we find alloring.
This isn't our fault it hardwired biology . To protect Women from suffering, since we are the ones with the most to lose if there is a pregnancy.
sperm is cheap ; egg is expensive.
Ask yourself why we ladies ( include myself ) don't want to settle for just anyone ? A man can do that because their idea of love is to be loved backed without conditions.
Anyone who should them that is a possible mate.
But for us, women a man most be a provider, protector and hold some form of social value ( fame, handsome or power ) to be considered a match. ergo opportunism. That's why we say there's no good men out there, no because they don't exist but they don't match our ideas of love, i.e qualities mentioned above.
It's a study. A king want to pick a bride and be happy. A Queen want to be conquered by the biggest and more powerful King. Value!
Lol. The rationalisation is strong in this one. Stop this bullcrap of "it's hardwired into us." It's not. The human specie has a highly developed brain to adapt and determine their roles and destiny. If a woman wants to work and be independent, she can and it's within her power to do so. If she wants to sit her lazy ass down, she can and it's within her power to do so. To be dependent on a man and to love like a leech is not hardwired into you at all, stop that nonsense. As Biglittlelois pointed out, there are women that love sincerely and that's a fact and to love sincerely is a conscious decision so as opportunistic love is. This is due to the ability of our intelligence to make choices and adapt. So stop the "it's wired into us biologically" nonsense. Despite the nonsense from girls like you, true love still exists. It's a choice and you don't have to deny it, no one would hurt you. NB : no insults, just counter my point.  3 Likes |
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| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Martinez19(m): 6:22pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Indeed. Even in the old days women are drawn towards good farmers wrestlers, someone who can protect them. Don't go and be a Man, dey look for cheap love Love exists but it's rare. |
| Re: Love Does Not Exist Only Selfish Interests! by Nobody: 6:32pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
Lightangel65:
Love exists in the world we live in, the fact that you haven't found one dosent mean it doesn't exist.
True love is rare and mutual, it is hard to find, deep love between two people.
Most times you love someone and they don't love you back, that doesn't give you a right to condenm love. Or you maybe heartbroken
But you haven't found true love.
It is mutual not unrequited.
I haven't found it.
But I know it exists
define love |
