Most people belong to the school of thought that ladies are more desperate for marriage than men.....
So a man can feel comfortable living till late 30s as a bachelor ...
However marriage is needed more by the man but a man that doesn't enjoy the youthfulness with his wife then what's the story he wants to tell his children.....
Very large age gap between spouses makes a lady uncomfortable in the house.....she sees her husband like her elder brother ...first step in the break in communication.....
The highest amounts of cheating among spouses stems not from maturity or finances but lack of friendship between spouses.....
Lastly let's not be deceived ...its awesome to grow with your kids in a lovely setting rather than being the pta chairman of a primary school when u are supposed to be retired......



My piece though....critics allowed access.......good morning all

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Did not enjoy youthfulness with your wife doesn't mean you didn't enjoy the youthfulness with other women. Which is more fun sef.

I agree with OP, ladies believes marrying 10years ahead of their age or 20years makes them more responsible. Truth be told, u can never be comfortable because it's either your husband turns to your uncle or father and u live everyday of your life been cautious and scared rather than free and exploring.

I for one don't like where all I say is what my wife does. To me the relationship becomes boring and predictable. Marry some my age or two years or three younger than me. Lets argue and share experience like agemates, than u acting like a baby errtime