OldBeer:
Go have convo with your ilk.
I am not interested.
Toodles.

safarigirl:
Nigerian men are always nicer and friendlier to foreign ladies and their mothers dare not turn into Patience Ozokwor with those ones.


Nigerian men have higher regard for foreign ladies more than Nigerian ladies and it all comes down to this see finish thing. The rubbish Nigerian men try with Nigerian women, they can NEVER do same to a foreign woman, especially a white one. The day I knew Nigerian men are putty in the hands of foreign women was when Mikel's baby mama said Mikel eats noodles with cold water for dinner sometimes. He would never eat such from a Nigerian woman.


Let foreign women chase Nigerian guys and let Nigerian women go for foreign guys since we prefer outsiders to each other

CharleyBright:


So in your tribe, the mothers are the ones that decides who their sons will marry?
Which tribe is that?
Am sure the son will always love and value the mom more than the wife.

I can guess the tribe.

franchasng:
I condemn such mundane test, it is so backward and mundane and it exposes the level of the family doing such primitive test and if I were a lady, I won't go ahead to marry a guy from such a primitive background because it will surely affect the success of the marriage.

Now to your foreign guys banta, I wonder if most of u ladies screaming team foreign guys have ever dated or been close to any foreign guy cos I am sure if u do, u will never think of marrying one unless frustration of watching yourself end up single forever pushes you to, which is what push most Nigerian ladies into marrying foreign men most times, though not always.

For example, American guys; the black American guys are horrible men! They only have dick to give nothing else!

They are gold diggers who target ladies in high paying jobs or fields to date and maybe impregnate and marry so she can be the one footing their bills while they lazy about cheating, if u doubt ask any close friend or family member u know living there.

White guys are erratic and hardly cope with black women unless the black woman is very rich or very docile to ignore their too many erratic actions.

I have worked with white men from various countries, so I know better, they are the biggest cheats, in fact they taught Nigerian guys how to cheat. They are the biggest pay magas to runs girls all over the world, hope u are ready

They are usually lazy and expect their woman to be the one spending on them. If they buy you a car worth 1million for instance, they expect u to buy them a private jet, and if they buy u a house, they expect u to buy them an island, hope u are ready for that

It is beyond what u watch on TV and read online, those that know know, wake up sis

safarigirl:
who love help?

The boyfriend obviously has no respect or regard for her, else he should have stood up to his mother and told her his girl will not be treated like a $1 slave in a quest for some aluminium ring.


Women, never go for weak men that cower at their mothers. Go for a strong man who respects you and demands that you are respected by everyone around him. Do not go for a man that sits by and allows his mother drag you all over the floor in the name of test.

Hedonini:
Any girl that is active on Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, and Nairaland Romance Section (tongue out) is not a wife material, test or no test.

Who wants to marry these over-entitled, garrulous, narcissistic, vainglorious, and psychologically DAMAGED social media brats of nowadays? As a man, do so to your eternal detriment.

DexterousOne:



interesting perspective you got there.

I like ladies that still have some sense


But you are missing one VERY KEY dimension to this case...

And the dimension is that....

Just like how black single mothers spoilt their sons, and now they are a menace to the society, a lot of useless, misogynist men out there were trained that way BY THEIR OWN MOTHERS

The sense of entitlement in many cases were instilled by their mum.

The fact that they cannot do the chores, or take charge is also linked directly or indirectly to the MOTHER.


Who teaches her son that he is a prize, and that olderunmarried ladies are "evening newspaper "

Most cases, it's his mother

Who taught the man that he is doing the lady a favour by marrying her, and the only criteria he deserves respect is that he is the man who saved her from the gallows of spinsterhood ?

And when he is grown, the WOMAN who will harass the unfortunate Lady who marries this misogynist IS STILL HIS MOTHER!


I hope you see where I'm coming from


The day Nigerian mum stop breeding entitled boys is the day that things will change (highly unlikely tho)


The upbringing style needs to change for both sexes for real change to come

DexterousOne:



interesting perspective you got there.

I like ladies that still have some sense


But you are missing one VERY KEY dimension to this case...

And the dimension is that....

Just like how black single mothers spoilt their sons, and now they are a menace to the society, a lot of useless, misogynist men out there were trained that way BY THEIR OWN MOTHERS

The sense of entitlement in many cases were instilled by their mum.

The fact that they cannot do the chores, or take charge is also linked directly or indirectly to the MOTHER.


Who teaches her son that he is a prize, and that olderunmarried ladies are "evening newspaper "

Most cases, it's his mother

Who taught the man that he is doing the lady a favour by marrying her, and the only criteria he deserves respect is that he is the man who saved her from the gallows of spinsterhood ?

And when he is grown, the WOMAN who will harass the unfortunate Lady who marries this misogynist IS STILL HIS MOTHER!


I hope you see where I'm coming from


The day Nigerian mum stop breeding entitled boys is the day that things will change (highly unlikely tho)


The upbringing style needs to change for both sexes for real change to come

Sterope:
@The bolded,

Ate you talking about men raised by useless, weak, lazy excuse of a mother?

Gossipninja:
This trend of"Testing" a bride-to-be before marriage is currently the talk of the moment by Nigerian social media users, after a lady narrated how she went to her boyfriend's home and joined his mother to wash and cook goat meat only to later be given a meal without meat in it.

The tweet led to almost everyone sharing their opinion on social media and what they would do in a similar situation. Some called the lady out for not being humble enough to eat the meal without meat and they said it is a sign that she isn't a wife material. Others praised her for refusing to be disrespected.

Some have gone on to share their personal experiences with being tested before marriage.

Below is a Twitter user's experience with her boyfriend's mother.

https://zenithnaija.com/nigerian-lady-narrates-how-her-mother-in-law-tested-her-before-marriage/

ednut1:
She called u and u still looked her in the eyes Twitter lies

pocohantas:
This is why I do not pity them when they are deceived into marriage by slayqueens. The average Naija guy is very predictable and foolish in all his wisdom.

Dress a certain way, talk a certain way, be dumb...pound akpu and you are wife material.

I spoke to a foreign based Nigerian guy and first set of questions he asked me were, what are your career goals, why are you in the sector you are in, your views on family...

Talk with a typical Naija guy and you will hear trash, nonsense!! "Submissive, cook, are you a virgin? when are you coming to my house"...

Any lady that is smart should build herself and associate with only the best of them here.

DexterousOne:


well....


that's one category of women tho..

Sterope:
That is the only category

safarigirl:
Team Foreign Guys forever.


When men go to their prospective in-laws, does the girl's father ask him to accompany them to the farm or fixa generator to know if he is husband material? But women should be involved in menial labour to prove they are wife material.


Marry into families that have sense, so that nobody's mother will abuse you in the name of test. This sort of thing can only be done by people that are mentally impoverished.


This is 2018, people should stop living in 1970.


The sad thing is that the dense folks supporting this trash are not willing to be in celibate relationships, if you want to follow the model that the older generation followed, follow in full.

anigbajumo:


I guess ur views is based on the perspective u find urself, most of ur colleagues were empty headed which are only good in slaying arnd nd liter the social media with pictures.A reasonable guy won't ask u such question immediately he meet u,real men prefer career ladies than idle slay queen....

franchasng:
I condemn such mundane test, it is so backward and mundane and it exposes the level of the family doing such primitive test and if I were a lady, I won't go ahead to marry a guy from such a primitive background because it will surely affect the success of the marriage.

Now to your foreign guys banta, I wonder if most of u ladies screaming team foreign guys have ever dated or been close to any foreign guy cos I am sure if u do, u will never think of marrying one unless frustration of watching yourself end up single forever pushes you to, which is what push most Nigerian ladies into marrying foreign men most times, though not always.

For example, American guys; the black American guys are horrible men! They only have dick to give nothing else!

They are gold diggers who target ladies in high paying jobs or fields to date and maybe impregnate and marry so she can be the one footing their bills while they lazy about cheating, if u doubt ask any close friend or family member u know living there.

White guys are erratic and hardly cope with black women unless the black woman is very rich or very docile to ignore their too many erratic actions.

I have worked with white men from various countries, so I know better, they are the biggest cheats, in fact they taught Nigerian guys how to cheat. They are the biggest pay magas to runs girls all over the world, hope u are ready

They are usually lazy and expect their woman to be the one spending on them. If they buy you a car worth 1million for instance, they expect u to buy them a private jet, and if they buy u a house, they expect u to buy them an island, hope u are ready for that

It is beyond what u watch on TV and read online, those that know know, wake up sis

safarigirl:
Nigerian men are always nicer and friendlier to foreign ladies and their mothers dare not turn into Patience Ozokwor with those ones.

Nigerian men have higher regard for foreign ladies more than Nigerian ladies and it all comes down to this see finish thing. The rubbish Nigerian men try with Nigerian women, they can NEVER do same to a foreign woman, especially a white one. The day I knew Nigerian men are putty in the hands of foreign women was when Mikel's baby mama said Mikel eats noodles with cold water for dinner sometimes. He would never eat such from a Nigerian woman.

Hedonini:
Any girl that is active on Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat, and Nairaland Romance Section (tongue out) is not a wife material, test or no test.

Who wants to marry these over-entitled, garrulous, narcissistic, vainglorious, and psychologically DAMAGED social media brats of nowadays? As a man, do so to your eternal detriment.

OldBeer:
A good man like you abi?
What next, your mother will test your fiance with chewing gum?
Come to canada and see how food goes to waste.
Anyway keep testing in your shîthole.
There are girls desperate enough to marry your type.

Tex42:
I will never leave a woman I love because of these stuffs. These things are almost like tradition in this part of the world.

Gossipninja:
This trend of"Testing" a bride-to-be before marriage is currently the talk of the moment by Nigerian social media users, after a lady narrated how she went to her boyfriend's home and joined his mother to wash and cook goat meat only to later be given a meal without meat in it.

The tweet led to almost everyone sharing their opinion on social media and what they would do in a similar situation. Some called the lady out for not being humble enough to eat the meal without meat and they said it is a sign that she isn't a wife material. Others praised her for refusing to be disrespected.

Some have gone on to share their personal experiences with being tested before marriage.

Below is a Twitter user's experience with her boyfriend's mother.

https://zenithnaija.com/nigerian-lady-narrates-how-her-mother-in-law-tested-her-before-marriage/