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Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:44pm On Nov 04, 2018
asuustrike1:

Taking such harsh decision affects the bride more than the groom. The groom's father in-law is mischievous hence I advice the groom to forget about the wedding. Whatever that can't be settled during traditional wedding shouldn't rise up on church wedding.

Don't you think it's better the bride remains unmarried (at least in the time being) than being brought back a year or few years later dead, badly bruised or suffering miserably. No father's heart will take that. The old man simply wanted to have an important meeting with the prospective son in law on the day preceding the wedding. How hard can that be?

He can't be too busy, he was simply being mischievous, thinking he's a smart guy and forgetting the old man don do his own young man age too pass. Didn't he make time to sleep, eat, and speak with other people. How come he couldn't make out 2 hours to speak with the man on the last day he still has his full authority as a father?

Although not exactly a good analogy, but for the purpose of this discussion, will you handover your business to a new manager without some critical heart-to-heart discussions to know whether to finally hand the business to him or not if he doesn't give you certain commitments to protect your investment? But the manager-to-be said he's too busy organizing his handover party, so that when he takes over power tomorrow, and you try to correct him about how he's abusing your business, he tells you to shut up and stop interfering in his family. Do you appreciate the man's action better now? I don't blame him. I don't blame him at all. Contrary to what you said, the bride is the one who dodged a bullet. A much better man will come soon.

Forget all that trash talk about women rushing men, if a young girl is well behaved, well groomed and domesticated, too many men will be running after them and they will have a headache choosing a suitor. So, if the man trained his girl well, he and she don't have a reason to worry. cool

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Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by victorian(f): 5:48pm On Nov 04, 2018
atiku07:
the disgrace is on the lady's family cause the tag will forever remain on her coupled with she already has a kid it will be very difficult to get over that shit the father should know better. i dont want to believe that is the reason as stated by the man but there is something fishy not revealed thats all















In a way, the disgrace is on the family cause the lady is after one.
But the father is not seeing it that way. He feels whether she is after one or after ten! My adorable daughter is still valuable . And her baby daddy has to realise that fact. In his mind, he feels he can still marry her off to a better suitor.

Maybe she's very pretty, that's why the dad is making shakara with his daughter. I don't see anything fishy there, a typical Nigerian man is egotiscal.

The dad unfortunately falls on that group. And he also feels if he snaps his fingers the intending son In law must show! No excuse.
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 5:51pm On Nov 04, 2018
WritePal:


Don't you think it's better the bride remains unmarried (at least in the time being) than being brought back a year or few years later dead, badly bruised or suffering miserably. No father's heart will take that. The old man simply wanted to have an important meeting with the prospective son in law on the day preceding the wedding. How hard can that be?

He can't be too busy, he was simply being mischievous, thinking he's a smart guy and forgetting the old man too don do his own young man age too pass. Didn't he make time to sleep, eat, and speak with other people. How come he couldn't make out 2 hours to speak with the man on the last day he still has his full authority as a father?

Although not exactly a good analogy, but for the purpose of this discussion, will you handover your business to a new manager without some critical heart-to-heart discussions? The manager-to-be said he's too busy. so when he takes over power tomorrow, and you try to correct him about how he's abusing your business, he tells you to shut up and stop interfering in his family. Do you appreciate the man's action better now? I don't blame him. I don't blame him at all. Contrary to what you said, the bride is the one who dodged a bullet. A much better man will come soon.

Forget all that trash talk about women rushing men, if a young girl is well behaved, well groomed and domesticated, too many men will be running after them and they will have a headache choosing a suitor. So, if the man trained his girl well, he and she don't have a reason to worry. cool
That is not enough reason to call off a wedding he should marry his daughter then. Don't tell the bride's father will not be present at her wedding too as it is mandatory except otherwise
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by victorian(f): 5:53pm On Nov 04, 2018
WritePal:


Don't you think it's better the bride remains unmarried (at least in the time being) than being brought back a year or few years later dead, badly bruised or suffering miserably. No father's heart will take that. The old man simply wanted to have an important meeting with the prospective son in law on the day preceding the wedding. How hard can that be?

He can't be too busy, he was simply being mischievous, thinking he's a smart guy and forgetting the old man don do his own young man age too pass. Didn't he make time to sleep, eat, and speak with other people. How come he couldn't make out 2 hours to speak with the man on the last day he still has his full authority as a father?

Although not exactly a good analogy, but for the purpose of this discussion, will you handover your business to a new manager without some critical heart-to-heart discussions to know whether to finally hand the business to him or not if he doesn't give you certain commitments to protect your investment? But the manager-to-be said he's too busy organizing his handover party, so that when he takes over power tomorrow, and you try to correct him about how he's abusing your business, he tells you to shut up and stop interfering in his family. Do you appreciate the man's action better now? I don't blame him. I don't blame him at all. Contrary to what you said, the bride is the one who dodged a bullet. A much better man will come soon.

Forget all that trash talk about women rushing men, if a young girl is well behaved, well groomed and domesticated, too many men will be running after them and they will have a headache choosing a suitor. So, if the man trained his girl well, he and she don't have a reason to worry. cool







You are right as well.

Maybe she's well trained and full package for a wife.

The dad feels a better suitor will come.. He values his daughter.

If the baby dad cannot respect the dad enough to answer to his call, then the father feels he is not worthy of his precious daughter, forget say she don born one already.
It's all about respecting the girl's father , no excuse.

At least he could have called him on phone. But he didn't.
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by victorian(f): 5:55pm On Nov 04, 2018
asuustrike1:

That is not enough reason to call off a wedding he should marry his daughter then. Don't tell the bride's father will not be present at her wedding too as it is mandatory except otherwise






If she's well trained. She won't go ahead with the white wedding without the dad's presence.

The blessing of parents go a long way in marriage.
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 6:09pm On Nov 04, 2018
omooba969:


We Africans must be very respectful grin this is why we cheer our rogue polithiefcians on, even though they are wrong...cheesy cheesy cheesy

Nonsense! undecided
so what brings politics to this issue.. abeg, have a nice day/night
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by Nobody: 6:10pm On Nov 04, 2018
omooba969:


Some aspects of our culture, tradition & customs are incongruous with modern day aspirations.

We need a significant shift from the barbaric stuff. cool
nothing is barbaric there.
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 7:15pm On Nov 04, 2018
EmpresFIDEL:
so what brings politics to this issue.. abeg, have a nice day/night

Since you don't see the correlation, o yes we should call it a day. smiley
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by omooba969(m): 7:15pm On Nov 04, 2018
EmpresFIDEL:
nothing is barbaric there.

Okgrin
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by OJODEL10(m): 7:32pm On Nov 04, 2018
this is practically unbelievable? but man wait and think of the love u have your wife and your daughter .
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by arrestdarrester: 11:18pm On Nov 04, 2018
What was the groom-to-be running away from? The in-law-to-be called for a meeting, all you had to do was to leave the wedding arrangement for someone else and go to honor the meeting.
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by hommer(f): 1:30am On Nov 05, 2018
Although the father bride has the right to cancel the wedding but he could communnicated it to the groom at least some weeks before the wedding. Does the groom live in the same town as the bride's family? What if he was coming from a far distance for the wedding. I think there was no much communication between the groom and his father in-law.
It is sad it happened this way. There could have been a better way to handle this issue..This is really going to affect the relationship between the bride and the groom and also between both families.
Re: Drama As Bride's Father Cancels Wedding On D-day In Ibadan (Photos) by tk4rd: 7:54am On Nov 05, 2018
What about the bride?
What was her reactions during all these??
She allowed the man go??
That might mean the end of her chapter in the man's life if care is not taken.

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