Rockyrascal:
I even thought she hit you

Daniwes:
I wouldnt lie.. Even though i want to respond, the last couple of posts made sense. Lesson learnt here.. Never ever allow a woman to "see you finish" Thats what caused all these sht... Always put her in her place from the get Go and nevet looseguard

highqueen:
Yawns.

Disrespect kor, Please, get busy with something.


You both lack manners.

NwaAmaikpe:




Bros,
I've read your lengthy writeup and I'd analyze your plight with a little analogy.

You are her uber driver,
She is your passenger,
He is your passenger's next uber driver.

May God give you the wisdom and maturity to handle your next passenger.

calliope:

Abuse can be physical, emotional or psychological.. It must not necessarily be physical to call it an abuse. And interestingly, It is the psychological type of abuse that has the insidious power to hurt the most.. He did the right thing, cos I myself can't stand disrespectful people, and I have walked away from relationships because of that sole reason. .

Give the guy a break .

Daniwes:
So recently she was mad at me, giving me attitude - you know when girls start getting mad at you for no reason, you just let them be. She asked I drive her to somewhere to do some registration, which I obliged. We were still fighting then, but I had to do it as she had a pain on her leg, and so couldnt walk properly. Well fastforward, inside the car, she continues with the attitude and she starts receiving calls from different guys, talking and laughing out on the phone, which I ignore. But there is this particular guy which I know through her to be her best friend of some sort... He normally calls her often, they talk, nd all and he knows very well we are dating, even though he has asked her out before. So, he was around even greeted me before I took her from her house.

Fastforward...So he calls her while we re driving, talking on the phone where I then hear her telling the guy that "I m annoying and I wouldnt apologize for what I did wrong" and all those other stuff in my car. I also heard them deciding whether to see later that evening or not. I kept minding my business and decided to turn up the volume of my music which then seemed to disturb her call. She then turns it low and then an argument ensued where she abruptly left the car where I was stopped at an intersection. On the way home, I got a call from a girl, and pretended we were talking and also deciding to see. She then kept asking me who I am going to see. It was at that point I got mad at her behaviour.. cos you cannot play judge and jury on me.... Well, I sternly still warned her not to try such disrespect with me... We argued, were quiet for the rest of the trip, dropped her home and broke up there and then... She probably didnt expect it till I asked for one important item I left in her place, she then texts me to pack her stuff in my place while she does same,..... I m like naaahhh.. forget everything and come arrange her own stuff whenever she ready

I cant stand disrespect.

Rocktation:
I must let you know something though; we really do not like to be "left alone", whenever we start giving that attitude.

Daniwes:

I obviously didn't type much, but if I tell you I wanted to talk things with her and apologize where I did wrong, you wouldn't believe me. I asked what I did wrong, she wouldn't tell me... Meanwhile the attitude started when I told her I couldn't see her due to my busy schedule (After already meeting twice in the same week). Well, I did resolve not to bother myself with her poor level of communication and lack of respect. Its not my job.. Maybe the next guy can take care of that

Postfut:


More reason. She should respect you. I see you scrambling to find a reason to justify her despicable behavior. Not Good. I will end this with a quote from Machiavelli.

“it is much safer to be feared than loved because ...love is preserved by the link of obligation which, owing to the baseness of men, is broken at every opportunity for their advantage; but fear preserves you by a dread of punishment which never fails.”

ottohan:

U have been making sensless comments on this forum of-late, mind you, you are still an undergraduate still eating mama,thank you....papa, thank you and hence dont really know what the real world entails...
Try and focus on your studoes first, so dat you can repay ur parents by getting them out of the slum they are living in.....

enemyofprogress:
Please can I have her photo and phone number

holuphisayor:
Sounds like a cooked up story.

Collins4u1:
Some guys can be very stupid o, they will know a lady is in a relationship and still be asking her out even when they might know the guy dating the lady, such guys may their dick never stand whenever they wanna bleep cos that's only what they want..

Then for the ladies giving them such space to be bold in asking them out, let the village people continue manipulating your sense until you loose your man because of nzuzu.

ImaIma1:
[s]You both are acting like children. And do you feel too proud to apologize to her when you have wronged her? [/s]

Because I have noticed that some guys will form ignorance and want to go on like nothing happened instead of acknowledging their offence and apologizing.That is disrespect.

Both of you are probably better of apart.

Daniwes:

I cant stand disrespect.

Daniwes:
So recently she was mad at me, giving me attitude - you know when girls start getting mad at you for no reason, you just let them be. She asked I drive her to somewhere to do some registration, which I obliged. We were still fighting then, but I had to do it as she had a pain on her leg, and so couldnt walk properly. Well fastforward, inside the car, she continues with the attitude and she starts receiving calls from different guys, talking and laughing out on the phone, which I ignore. But there is this particular guy which I know through her to be her best friend of some sort... He normally calls her often, they talk, nd all and he knows very well we are dating, even though he has asked her out before. So, he was around even greeted me before I took her from her house.

Fastforward...So he calls her while we re driving, talking on the phone where I then hear her telling the guy that "I m annoying and I wouldnt apologize for what I did wrong" and all those other stuff in my car. I also heard them deciding whether to see later that evening or not. I kept minding my business and decided to turn up the volume of my music which then seemed to disturb her call. She then turns it low and then an argument ensued where she abruptly left the car where I was stopped at an intersection. On the way home, I got a call from a girl, and pretended we were talking and also deciding to see. She then kept asking me who I am going to see. It was at that point I got mad at her behaviour.. cos you cannot play judge and jury on me.... Well, I sternly still warned her not to try such disrespect with me... We argued, were quiet for the rest of the trip, dropped her home and broke up there and then... She probably didnt expect it till I asked for one important item I left in her place, she then texts me to pack her stuff in my place while she does same,..... I m like naaahhh.. forget everything and come arrange her own stuff whenever she ready

I cant stand disrespect.

Rocktation:
I must let you know something though; we really do not like to be "left alone", whenever we start giving that attitude.