Slimzjane:
Gud evening guys..
Am 19 years old and i am dating a 32 years old man..I fall in love with him because he is more mature and caring that the other guys i have dated... He is a banker and am a student in 300l, I met him on fb [online].. He is very mature and i respect him alot, well the issue is he want me to get pregant for him..oh i forgot i have been dating for a year plus now..He do say it jokingly before about wanting a baby badly his mate are married and stuff..I told him am not ready am too young...He ask him when am i going to be ready i am 19 for crying out loud..He is financially okay and he take care of me alot, am not just ready and i don't want to loose him..He has been calling and texting me to get the answer am confused i don't want to get pregant and i don't want to loose him...Elders in the house how should i explan to him without him breaking up with me??

gaby:
You are not confused or need advise when it comes to eating your father's age mate's cockk.

Eberechi24:
Whatever you do, plz don't be a baby mama. if he's serious he should see your parents. Pay Brideprice at least.

mezarddinny:
is everyone igbo? how much do yoruba parents collect? paying brideprice doesn't mean he won't dump her

you all need to think things twice before clicking submit

Offpoint:
I will just ignore the visible to blind and audible to the deaf lies you typed up there.

Kids of nowadays have no fear, not even a little bit. imagine the kind of horse a supposedly 19 years old kid is riding without fear.

From the bullshits I've read up there, you obviously have nothing to offer in the so called relationship. you're there for the money, and you've successfully carried out every recipe you learn from watching porn on the the man and now a grown up azz man has lost his senses, incapable of thinking right.

Keep riding cuz one day the road will become too wide and the horse will lose interest in the journey.

Eberechi24:
Whatever you do, plz don't be a baby mama. if he's serious he should see your parents. Pay Brideprice at least.

samysmoothfresh:
19yrs, 300level?

19rs dating 32yrs?

19yrs falling in love?

boyfriend wants 19yrs old to get pregnant?

uzoho nigeria goal keeper is said to be 19yrs old but has a 16yrs old kid?

buhari why? why? why?

nonut:

If he wants you to get pregnant for him, he should be ready to take you to the altar before that.
Anything less is a complete waste of your time.
Baby 'mamaism' is another way of keeping you tied down.

lefulefu:

so u think im main wife go jus siddon allow such happen

samysmoothfresh:
19yrs, 300level?

19rs dating 32yrs?

19yrs falling in love?

boyfriend wants 19yrs old to get pregnant?

uzoho nigeria goal keeper is said to be 19yrs old but has a 16yrs old kid?

buhari why? why? why?

Diamond23:
Get pregnant for him as a baby mama or wifey?......Since u r nt too young to date him equally u r nt too young to get pregnant for him if he z willing to wife u in dat way both of u can keep each other.

lefulefu:
19yrs old guy with 16 yrs old kid anyway since na buhari era we dey anytin is possible

Slimzjane:
Gud evening guys..
Am 19 years old and i am dating a 32 years old man..I fall in love with him because he is more mature and caring that the other guys i have dated... He is a banker and am a student in 300l, I met him on fb [online].. He is very mature and i respect him alot, well the issue is he want me to get pregant for him..oh i forgot i have been dating for a year plus now..He do say it jokingly before about wanting a baby badly his mate are married and stuff..I told him am not ready am too young...He ask him when am i going to be ready i am 19 for crying out loud..He is financially okay and he take care of me alot, am not just ready and i don't want to loose him..He has been calling and texting me to get the answer am confused i don't want to get pregant and i don't want to loose him...Elders in the house how should i explan to him without him breaking up with me??

Slimzjane:
He said i must get pregant first before any other things follows

Slimzjane:
He said i must get pregant first, am confused

Diamond23:
B4 he wife u or wot?....y not ask him hz reasons. Dat all hz mates r married wit kids z not enough reason asking u to get pregnant unless he z planning to marry u buh wntz to make sure if u r fertile or not cux dat z wot some of dem do!

Slimzjane:
Gud evening guys..
Am 19 years old and i am dating a 32 years old man..I fall in love with him because he is more mature and caring that the other guys i have dated... He is a banker and am a student in 300l, I met him on fb [online].. He is very mature and i respect him alot, well the issue is he want me to get pregant for him..oh i forgot i have been dating for a year plus now..He do say it jokingly before about wanting a baby badly his mate are married and stuff..I told him am not ready am too young...He ask him when am i going to be ready i am 19 for crying out loud..He is financially okay and he take care of me alot, am not just ready and i don't want to loose him..He has been calling and texting me to get the answer am confused i don't want to get pregant and i don't want to loose him...Elders in the house how should i explan to him without him breaking up with me??

Slimzjane:
Gud evening guys..
Am 19 years old and i am dating a 32 years old man..I fall in love with him because he is more mature and caring that the other guys i have dated... He is a banker and am a student in 300l, I met him on fb [online].. He is very mature and i respect him alot, well the issue is he want me to get pregant for him..oh i forgot i have been dating for a year plus now..He do say it jokingly before about wanting a baby badly his mate are married and stuff..I told him am not ready am too young...He ask him when am i going to be ready i am 19 for crying out loud..He is financially okay and he take care of me alot, am not just ready and i don't want to loose him..He has been calling and texting me to get the answer am confused i don't want to get pregant and i don't want to loose him...Elders in the house how should i explan to him without him breaking up with me??

frozen70:


The decision lyes in you

From you write up he fits into the kind of man you want

If he is not married then he is giving you a green light

But be very careful, him asking you to be pregnant speaks volume

If he wants you to be pregnant let him do the needful

Pregnancy doesn't guarantee marriage

Getting married to you and settling down with you is the first major thing

Have you been to any of his relatives?

Has he ever taken you to his family house?

Get to know him better before you come here to complain

By now he should be more concerned about seeing your family not attracting you or pastering you with pregnancy

Then for your own, you are matured for what a woman is matured for

You might lose him and may not be able to get someone like him

But remember look before you leap

SilentWisper:
you don't have parents? talk to your mum about it

Slimzjane:
Yes have been to his family house and even his village,he even introduce me as his wife. Mind you he is the only child of a single mum...