Am currently staying with my uncle due to some obvious facts. Also  staying is my uncle's wife lil sister who will be spending some weeks before going back to her base in abuja.

The house being a duplex,my uncle and his wife stays upstairs and seldom check down on us unless we are having a visitor in the sitting room,while the new guest and myself both have our different rooms downstairs,but do share the same bathroom together.
From day one we met,i found out she's a likeable person,and we both enjoy our company like we've known eachother before,   that she was comfortable telling me about her previous relationships and stuffs.

Now the reason i seek your view/advice is that,i  notice the girl is acting funny around me lately. She's found of coming to my room late at night when am tired and about to sleep,claiming she wants us to watch a movie together. Though i personally see nothing wrong with that,but the fact that she's already on her gown,and often sleeps-off on my bed that i have to ask her to go to her room each time is what i don't find likely.

On three occassions now,i ran into her taking her bath even though i knock on the door before entering,just to find out she's there;and on each occassions i suggested she lock the door behind her,but won't listen, and she knows i normally have my bath at the time just to meet-up with my uncle when going to his office,while she has nowhere to go at that time.  .  . She's now acting cold towards me now,and i just don't see why she's doing that. Am thinking of asking her what the problem was,and probably apologising so we can be friends again,but i don't want her to get a wrong impression again,cus i think she was up to something in the first place;and her sister is begining to be suspicious of our closeness. Pls what can i do to make her see what she's not seeing without hurting her feelings? Or maybe am the one overreacting over her behaviors? Do you think her behaviors are just innocent?

Consciously stay away from her, it doesnt sound ryt to sleep with her at all

If you aint in a relationship, give her what she needs - Simples!!!  
but make sure u both dont get caught

@omolola1 papa190: seems you guys don't seems to see the odds in gettting involved with her?

@odunnu: i thot as much too,and that's why am doing my best avoiding her;but i don't want to lose her friendship for i can see she's hurting. How do i make the situation clear to her without being her enemy in the process?

190, how can you give such an advice? do u want to tell me you can sleep with your sister or cousin??

Omolola1:

190, how can you give such an advice? do u want to tell me you can sleep with your[b] sister or cousin[/b]??  

Did you read the post?
uncle's wife lil sister

they are not related by blood

^^now u understand my plight.

papa190:

^^
any1 can be considered cousin,
Lola is kinda rite if u ask me~
as far as the sister is married to the family~
she should be considered family`
there are too many guyz out there so she should simply go out and get one for herself
pronto!!

Sorry but u ain't making sense here - my sister is married to a guy and he has a sister - how's she my cousin?
P.S: There is difference between sex and relationship

Previous post meant for 190^^^

@okenwa: it is a taboo! She knows there can never be a relationship between us,all she wanted is pleasure,and am not her sextoy.

papa190:

yes rite she may not be an outrite cousin, hence the reason i asked captain 2 stir his ship towards her
if thats whats she wants but on 2nd tot, it wont make sense doin it cos that affair might lead to no-where,
what would her elder sister say about it if they eva finds out, there is nothing wrong in sleeping with her but its not Just rite
they should both respect their families they came from~

Thats why i wrote they can but they shouldnt get caught  
@ Poster
Its up to u - either you hit the kitty or dont  

@ poster
u are free to approach her for a relationship, there is nothing wrong( you are not related by blood)

^^
whats wrong sweets~

Capt. Cavey , bro she wants to nyansh u

Go get a taste some of that black berry. Start at the top and lick all the way down. Go up and down, like a wet snake. Stop at the berry and go for a nibble.

Dude, you seriously need to hit the nail on the wall

dude has already made up his mind say he no dey do, he only wants to know how to tell her so they can stil remain friends!!
but will having sex with her hurt ur friendship? if u dont want to be her intimacy gadget, can u make her ur own intimacy gadget?

I must commend you for not giving in don't know exactly how u can tell her you are not interested but you just have to, even if you guyz become enemies after you tell her. Anywayz tell her with wisdom!

@OP
if its not on a religious grounds-den i tink u r a bigtime slacker-awoof! firing on a platter of cu*m and u knw fit shoot'

on moral grounds- there is no incest involved- she's not related to u by blood-so get over it

but if u do decide to do d do-dnt forget to use a condom-i'd advice wearing two cos d end result of shit like dat is she eventually get pregnant for u

-den we get to watch ur movie on africa magic

The reason am confuse right now is her scornful behaviors. Her sister noticed,and she called us both to ask why we're not in good terms anymore,but i just don't know what to say to her;and i know she can just make-up a story and she'll want to believe her against me. Am being careful about all these,cus her grudge towards me can be dangerous.

haha, , been in similar situation before. mayne!!!, u will be suprised what women can do

^^^ just simply tell her, "you don't know, maybe you have offended her somehow,and they should help you ask her".

As for her scornful behaviours, Don't worry, let her grudge. she will get over it, but don't expect your relationship & interaction to be the same again(cos there won't be a motive involve)

You will understand the reason for her behaviour, If you put yourself in her situation