nuggarito:
Yes bro, not once but multiple times. And I came to a conclusion that there's a demon in girls that makes them act the way they do. And that's why I avoid any form of light, be it green light, white light, indigo light biko keep your lights while I make money. Money changes the light.

Coldfeets:


Since you have been avoiding all sorts of light, how much money have you made?

Uglymugg:


He didn't say ignoring their signal puts money in your account. He's statement was too simple to undersrand. What kind people are we breeding in this country.

kollinzgee:
lolzzz bro I thought i was the only one who has experienced this shit but now I discovered am not the only one but am a very curious person in nature so I took some time to study female psychology .when a girl shows you greenlight don't immediately ask her out frustrate her a little bit acting uninterested and also flirt with other preety girls don't give a Bleep about her feelings .(women love a guy they stole from other girls )then start acting as her boyfriend until you kiss or Bleep her don't ask her out.do this and thank me
later

Kendrick80:
Or e mama do scissors kick

resurgent4oodua:
I personally feel a man should have all the sex he can and forget about the affection of women. Women will always come when a man come into his own (arrives). A man should take meticulous interest in his work (job) and try and better himself generally. All pussy are the same. What differentiates women is character and worldview. Women are totally not worth it except for producing babies.

#no pun intended.

Khabuto:
op, NEPA has not given us light in our area. One time my neighbour's gen. was on, i misread it to be light

Coldfeets:


Since you have been avoiding all sorts of light, how much money have you made?

BinDean:


I don't know if I like you till we have a conversation ..

b0rn2fuck:
na same green light make my account balance not balance again till today. Na red light I dey see everywhere now

Coldfeets:


Who cares what he said or didn't say?

The fact is that I so much hate it when people go on and on and on about this making money of a thing as if making money is all there is to this life.

Worse still, when you look at them closely, you can't even see any atom of the so called money they have supposedly been making since.

Datdeltagirl:
But I like stupid love, see we are not compatible, don't worry am crying inside.

kollinzgee:

you are a learner bro I know when a girl wants you sexually and as a friend but not all guys are good as that learn from badguys.

Uglymugg:
IT'S STILL THE BETTER ALTERNATIVE. CHASING MONEY IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE BETTER THAN CHASING WOMEN. The kind of mentality you have is why our girls are so entitled. They never had fathers that worked hard to provide for them that's why every relationship you go into, you automatically become the girls father and take up every financial burden she has. They always come with A baggage, you ever ask yourself why? They always act entitled, you ever ask why? It's becasue they NEVER had a strong father figure, and I know what i'm saying. The Nigerian family unit is beyond saving. If you don't chase money now, you'll be useless in the future, woE bEtide you that you give birth to females, and you can't raise them in the right way. And yes! you need money to raise an independent child.

Coldfeets:


Who cares what he said or didn't say?

The fact is that I so much hate it when people go on and on and on about this making money of a thing as if making money is all there is to this life.

Worse still, when you look at them closely, you can't even see any atom of the so called money they have supposedly been making since.

Slimlord:
i weep for your wife

Truthsbitter:

I know the unstable light of girls is annoying but bro be easy on them for the sake of our good mothers...

successyoung:
That is how I mistook red light to green light some years ago.
This jubril situation sef Don tire me

BinDean:


Dude is gay...

NuhRegular:



Would you want to marry a financially insecure woman.. Would you want to marry a woman who didn't go to university? I doubt.. So everybody wants to marry a financially secure somebody

BishopImam:
All these money chasing folks on this thread are just amusing. There is this innate desire in everyone to love and be loved. Green lights can be misleading. I subscribe fully to the views of those who are of the opinion that the interested party should make a clear move instead.

For me, the green light must be so so obvious for me to act on if am interested, otherwise, na to jump am pass.

MiaB:




The lie
Wives typically use indirect forms of communication. They give hints, they speak abstractly, and then they expect their husbands to know what they mean. Without ever intending to lie, they don’t express the full truth. At times, they communicate so indirectly that their husbands can’t come close to perceiving the real message.
When faced with indirect communication, husbands often feel like a one-legged man in a football kicking contest. They just don’t have what it takes. They much prefer dealing with facts, logic, and problem solving.
They notice that something is wrong. That realization may come from receiving the silent treatment, getting some indirect messages, or just picking up the mood of their wife. They’d like to resolve the problem, so they ask about it, and get messages so indirect that they can’t interpret their meaning.
When people get what they see as an incomplete message, they try to fill in the blanks. Husbands, with their strong problem-resolution skills, will often explore various possible meanings. But if the indirect message doesn’t have enough clues to give them an accurate picture, they can’t succeed.
Living the truth
Neither indirect nor direct communication is intrinsically right or wrong. Rather, each serves a particular purpose. Foundationally, though, wives make a mistake when they choose indirect messages that give a misleading impression, or that fail to accurately convey the intended meaning. Let’s explore several factors that can help you live in the truth and communicate more directly.
Create a safe zone . Husband, creating a communication “safe zone” is your job. Yes, you get frustrated and upset at indirect conversation. But some of your irritation results from your own response when your wife tries to communicate with you.
You can create a safe zone in several ways:
Choose honesty over defending yourself.
Don’t respond with an attack on your wife.
Don’t even think about verbal or physical abuse.
Draw out your wife with active listening.
Let your wife know that you truly want to hear what she has to say, and when she sees that you’ve established a safe zone, you should see an increase in the clarity of your communication with one another.

enonche85:
The most confusing and misleading green light is the online light. I prefer the physical ones.

resurgent4oodua:



What's wrong with a man seeking financial security as a hedge against fate?

BishopImam:


Nothing wrong with it. But you can find love, make money and lead a happy life altogether.

franchasng:
My golden advice to ladies who have the gut to initiate the move towards a guy they like or find interesting....note; my counsel will come in two ways; one for those doing it in real life and for those doing it through online/internet.

Real Life approach:

Girl to guy: stare at him continuously and smile....when he catches u staring, intentionally turn your eyes away laughing, do this repeatedly but make sure he sees you clearly each time you stare, but never walk up to him and say, "hi I like you can we be friends", this approach is WRONG, unless for teenagers!

Many guys will be scared unless he is a perfect playboy.

When he finally summons the courage to approach you, don't start all those mumuish iyanga torotoro

Online scenario:
you can start tagging or quoting his comments, status, etc with joking agreement to his comments and views to issues of discussion, and maybe with time, you can message him like this: "wow, I really enjoy reading your views, so funny and interesting, though awkward at times, keep it up, from one of your secret fans"

Every sensible guy will get the clue and take it up from there without you exposing yourself to ridicule or drama

SenhorSean:
its better i read comments alone.