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Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Hot18(f): 5:11pm On Dec 01
Women who don't submit to their husbands can never have a lasting marriage by Tayo Demola

Do u guys agree with this? According to Nigerian writer/Activist & Relationship Coach, Tayo Demola, any woman who does not totally submit herself to her husband will never have a lasting marriage and her marriage will crash.

In a video he tweeted & shared on his Twitter handle & also on YouTube, he also said woman are not submissive to their husbands and that is what causes domestic violence in the home. Hmm

Do u agree?

Watch the video below.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=coNnWSAMPiI


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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Hot18(f): 6:58pm On Dec 01
What do u think? This question of submit, submit, submit to ur man always. Must everything be all about women submitting to their husbands, so the man will continue to lord it over the woman , no one advises the man, it's always women they advise every time.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by LordKO(m): 7:19pm On Dec 01
Personally, I dislike use of the verb word "submit" (or its noun; submission) - both in word and action - in relation to a man and woman in a romantic affair. I prefer its euphemism like submissive (submissiveness). Submission in this regard always makes it look as if it's a master-servant thing.

So, if the word is submissiveness, I'll say yes, women who aren't submissive to their men - aristocratic men - can never have lasting (healthy) marriage. The difference between submissiveness and love is just in their names and applications - just as the difference between a man and a woman is simply in their genders, and roles by extension. Neither submissiveness nor love is a sign of weakness - just as difference in human genders don't mean inequality.

Both submissiveness and love are products - compound products - of goodness and diplomacy. Submissiveness begets selflessness, meekness and sweetness, etc. Love begets kindness, politeness, thoughtfulness, etc. Men love your wives and women be submissive to your husbands.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by DukeofNZ: 7:59pm On Dec 01
No submit no marry.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by DaniDani(m): 8:01pm On Dec 01
DukeofNZ:
No submit no marry.


You are 100℅ correct. If you can't submit, don't think of marriage. There can't be two captains in a ship.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by DukeofNZ: 8:04pm On Dec 01
DaniDani:



You are 100℅ correct. If you can't submit, don't think of marriage. There can't be two captains in a ship.

Na so broda.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Saffi(f): 8:11pm On Dec 01
Submission belongs to men who
pay all the bills, provide financially for everything needed without questions
Keep their joystick inside their trousers..community joystick deserves no loyalty or submission from me
Respect me enough to treat me right
Protect and the guide the household with integrity.



Can we start laying more emphasis on men, because most of them don’t know how to lead their homes.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Hot18(f): 8:12pm On Dec 01
But must it be totally? For God's sake d woman is not a slave na. Love is more important

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Hot18(f): 8:21pm On Dec 01
Respect is reciprocal, not only from the side of the woman

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Hot18(f): 8:24pm On Dec 01
If u don't treat me right, if u treat me like trash, forget that word submit in the house, except u treat me well like a queen & appreciate me wella

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Goodnewsbearer: 8:29pm On Dec 01
DukeofNZ:
No submit no marry.

You follow for promo. No submission no marriage.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Goodnewsbearer: 8:34pm On Dec 01
Saffi:
Submission belongs to men who
pay all the bills, provide financially for everything needed without questions
Keep their joystick inside their trousers..community joystick deserves no loyalty or submission from me
Respect me enough to treat me right
Protect and the guide the household with integrity.



Can we start laying more emphasis on men, because most of them don’t know how to lead their homes.

alpha men like us is not for you. small man will marry you.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by dacblogger(f): 8:36pm On Dec 01
Marriage is overrated...men just need women they will turn to slaves...

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Hot18(f): 8:40pm On Dec 01
dacblogger:
Marriage is overrated...men just need women they will turn to slaves...

True talk, they want to hide under that word "submit" to enslave women

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Hot18(f): 8:44pm On Dec 01
LordKO:
Personally, I dislike use of the verb word "submit" (or its noun; submission) - both in word and action - in relation to a man and woman in a romantic affair. I prefer its euphemism like submissive (submissiveness). Submission in this regard always makes it look as if it's a master-servant thing.

So, if the word is submissiveness, I'll say yes. Women who aren't submissive to their men - aristocratic men - can never last long in marriage. The difference between submissiveness and love is just is their names and applications - just as the difference between a man and a woman is simply in their genders. Neither submissiveness nor love is a sign of weakness - just as difference in human genders don't mean inequality.

Both submissiveness and love are products - compound products - of goodness. Submissiveness begets selflessness, meekness and sweetness, etc. Love begets kindness, politeness, thoughtfulness, etc. Men love your wives and women be submissive to your husbands.



This is good idea, even coming from a guy, love is more important, not all those that keep shouting submit as if a woman is now a slave to the man

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by habsydiamond(m): 8:55pm On Dec 01
dacblogger:
Marriage is overrated...men just need women they will turn to slaves...
that means most women also use men in marriage as their ATM machines

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Hot18(f): 8:57pm On Dec 01
DaniDani:



You are 100℅ correct. If you can't submit, don't think of marriage. There can't be two captains in a ship.

If so, then if guys can't treat a woman well & show her love, don't think of marriage too. It applies to men too.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Hot18(f): 9:03pm On Dec 01
habsydiamond:
that means most women also use men in marriage as their ATM machines

Men use women too & take advantage of us in many ways.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Hot18(f): 9:30pm On Dec 01
And after taking advantage of u, they still expect u to submit sheepishly, how can that work?

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Saffi(f): 9:31pm On Dec 01
Ok
Goodnewsbearer:


alpha men like us is not for you. small man will marry you.
Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Iamgrey5(m): 9:39pm On Dec 01
This is an open secret


Most women who believe arrogance and being a loud mouth is a sign of high intelligence quota often end up marrying their arrogance and loud mouths.


Of course, showing respect doesn't mean one can't question certain decisions from time to time

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by mhizbel(f): 9:43pm On Dec 01
Well, it depends on your definition of Submission.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by Hot18(f): 9:48pm On Dec 01
The moment each person knows how to treat each other, there will be no question of arrogance. It's meeting the right partner that matters. Everything will fall in place when u meet the right person.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by weyreypey: 12:08am On Dec 02
dacblogger:
Marriage is overrated...men just need women they will turn to slaves...
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I need a wife I will honour....who will also be submissive to me totally.

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by ImaIma1(f): 4:54am On Dec 02
The same portion of the Bible that says"submit" also says men should love their wives but no one advises the men to love their wives...always the woman...submit submit submit!

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Re: Women Who Don't Submit To Their Husbands Can't Have Lasting Marriage-Tayo Demola by saibuhari(m): 6:06am On Dec 02
Women just looking for excuse to be rival with their husbands. The word submission is not created by any man. God ordered it. Women have no option than to obey or face the consequence. Even those men who are pretending to be feminists, they cannot amend the word of God. If u cant submit as a woman remain in your father's house.

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