BrownCarton:
Being big on your own is the real deal. Got one silly ex who doesnt want to leave for over a year now. Sometimes, she reminds me of the days I was toasting her, trying to rekindle whatever feelings she thinks I had. She doesnt know for me, I dont forget the way she treated me then...So I ll keep playing her till I m done

Colourich:
That one concern you, me I will get married.

Saffi:
Okay so once you ditch the ex, you’ll still end up with a babe who will love your money in disguise, so what now is the point?


No girl is entitled to suffer with you when you’re broke. This is a manipulative tool that you guys use to brainwash women. If a woman doesn’t possess wifely attributes you desire will you manage her, or go to the next best thing? A financially secure man is a dominant husband trait that most women look for, is it a crime to expect that in a man? We all look for ways we can benefit in a relationship, Biko you people should go and sit down.

Colourich:
That one concern you, me I will get married.

carter009:
Like you said on your profile,,, Please follow your dreams and forget about marriage,, I think been an independent woman will make you more powerful and happy like Lady gaga.

Colourich:
This is a clear case of misunderstanding my writeup.

My advice to Nigerian single guys now is: if u were broke and had no reliable/faithful girlfriend all along who stood by you and u finally made it financially successful, please don't marry any lady or girl that is not working and earning big income like you.

Marry your class or something close to your class.

At worst, you can just manage to marry a lady from rich family, that's if you must marry a girl that has no good paying job or business or trade. In fact, don't ever marry any girl that is earning less than 100,000naira if you are earning 250,000naira and above on your own unless the girl was your old time lover u have been dating for long.

If she is just a new girl u are meeting, set a standard for any girl u must marry; she must be earning at least 100,000naira steady income monthly.

Don't be deceived, this is how ladies screen guys.

And if you live abroad, stop messing up by coming back to Nigeria to marry an unknown girl u never knew who has no good or stable job and take her abroad. Marry your class. Nigerian ladies abroad too will never come back to marry a struggling guy in Nigeria like Nigerian guys do, if they must come back to Nigeria to find husband, they must accept only guys that are also earning good income in Nigeria or those from rich family, so Nigerian guys must wise up and learn if not, Nigerian ladies will keep taking you Nigerian guys for a ride

Don't marry any girl that is jobless, dependent and not earning enough money on her own if u finally make it successful and completely single without an old time lover.

But if u have a reliable, dependable and faithful love you had been dating from when you were struggling to stand, pls marry her whether she is broke, jobless or not, just marry her and help establish her financially by paying for her to acquire sellable skill or startup a viable small business.

Stop marrying broke, dependent girls who contributed nothing to your life, physical beauty is not enough reason to marry any girl nowadays because single ladies that have money or those from rich family will never marry a broke guy just because the guy is handsome, guys wise up, don't let girls use you.

Physical beauty is nothing. If you are doing well financially, you will meet plenty enough hot looking girls and ladies, so physical beauty should never shack you and make you so foolish to marry a jobless, dependent lady who didn't contribute to your life success

kurupt1:
I can relate to ur story@Op........This stuff has happened to 90% of Nigerian men.

Chics are not just loyal to struggling men and these struggling men when they make it,turn to mean guys that have little love for ladies due to their past experiences

Evercurious:



What about ladies that were loyal when all was rough and later abandoned when it all became rosy...

Pls it could be any of the gender...

Allaboutkatiee:

Bruvv try to give her another chance
You don't know maybe she's turned a new leaf.
And no I don't think it's because you are made now
You don't know, maybe she might be the one for you.
Just my thoughts though.

Saffi:
Okay so once you ditch the ex, you’ll still end up with a babe who will love your money in disguise, so what now is the point?


No girl is entitled to suffer with you when you’re broke. This is a manipulative tool that you guys use to brainwash women. If a woman doesn’t possess wifely attributes you desire will you manage her, or go to the next best thing? A financially secure man is a dominant husband trait that most women look for, is it a crime to expect that in a man? We all look for ways we can benefit in a relationship, Biko you people should go and sit down.

oluwatosink:
fake love everywhere now..[
just keep hustling

Saffi:
Okay so once you ditch the ex, you’ll still end up with a babe who will love your money in disguise, so what now is the point?


No girl is entitled to suffer with you when you’re broke. This is a manipulative tool that you guys use to brainwash women. If a woman doesn’t possess wifely attributes you desire will you manage her, or go to the next best thing? A financially secure man is a dominant husband trait that most women look for, is it a crime to expect that in a man? We all look for ways we can benefit in a relationship, Biko you people should go and sit down.

Iamtosignno:
Bobo You Bear My Name And Doing My Priority You Know What ? Forget Any Concern Girls And See How You Would Be.

oluwatosink:
girls wey don dey destroy man life since adam and eve.

BrownCarton:
The reason why most women will never get married is that they lack "Relationship Stamina" or I call it patience in layman terms


At some point in a man's life, the grind gets real, lots of uncertainty, focus, hardwork and dedication to the crafts/hustle. At that phase, we know our time energy and resources are limited and rather than the lady trying to support, she finds a way to just She doesnt know that deep down, we guys understand that brothers must go through tough times to become "ready made". She disregards her boyfriend/toasters. She never really cares at this stage, and after a while, she sticks out "politely", and hence subtly ditches him, but still keeps him aside more often non-romantically, because she is now hitched with a few "made men". He gets burnt, has no where to run to, but his craft.

When he eventually becomes successful, you realize that she comes back with a different attitude than that which she had when he was still hustling. She asks questions like "where do you live now" "where do you work" wanting to see how things changed for you. She wants to hear the success story, she sees your car (prolly a mercedez or something) she wants to fill back in. She subtly flirts with you shows more desire to be with you and you notice she becomes much softer when she talks to you.

But the brothers know better.


One thing women fail to understand is that any guy who works his ass out from bottom to the peak of his craft/hustle is a "High Standard Man". Such persons have strong belief and confidence in themselves. Women however, like completed products and a lot of women think they could fall back in without being accountable to their actions, and women hate being accountable. It leaves the dude probably thinking whether to ditch her, or to pin her real good. Meanwhile she is thinking she could rekindle whatever she thinks they were earlier supposed to have. This dude then pins all the holes on her... and somewhere along the line, she begins to ask "where/what are we". At that point, this dude bulks and dumps her with real speed. She never sees it coming and she never understands why. They forget that the brother was once loyal but got burned. Now he is woken up



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ednut1:
even u wey dey struggle no like ur condition bt u want make gal like am . Economy hard for guys but nature favours us as a 40 year old man still fit gv women belle with ease. Women take d gamble to see if dem go jam richer or beta guy. Bt some go reach 34 turn old cargo

Saffi:
Okay so once you ditch the ex, you’ll still end up with a babe who will love your money in disguise, so what now is the point?


No girl is entitled to suffer with you when you’re broke. This is a manipulative tool that you guys use to brainwash women. If a woman doesn’t possess wifely attributes you desire will you manage her, or go to the next best thing? A financially secure man is a dominant husband trait that most women look for, is it a crime to expect that in a man? We all look for ways we can benefit in a relationship, Biko you people should go and sit down.

Gerrard59:
Women have always been hypergamous right from yore, why and how most of you don't know this is astonishing.