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Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by jossytech(m): 12:49am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Listen to advice and safe urself heartache. Cut and end d damn relationsink. Arrogant and proudness she has will.kill ur success as well. Look for humble woman. And don't think she will change. Man can't change only God can and u are not her creator. Walk away pal 2 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by lazinny(m): 12:51am On Dec 04, 2018 |
My dear. The decision is solely left to you but don't expect her to change she can give it a try buh really that's just who she is. Somethings about someone just can't be changed that's their nature. As someone who hates emotional manipulation to the core. I would advise you leave her. 3 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by juniorstar(m): 12:54am On Dec 04, 2018 |
I think the person writing this is a woman asking a question, but trying to exchange roles i.e asking the question as a man. 2 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by SmartMindsFx: 12:55am On Dec 04, 2018 |
If the people close to you persuade you to marry her and you accept, I pity the children that'll come into that marriage. Since she's gonna be spending more time with the kids as they grow, I bet the kids would take after her and that's where the bigger problem is. 4 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by kapelvej: 12:55am On Dec 04, 2018 |
If you are truthful, then let her go. A proud woman can never be a good wife. Pride and anger go together 4 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by juniorstar(m): 12:58am On Dec 04, 2018 |
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Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by madridsta007(m): 1:01am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage: She never apologizes, she finds it so difficult to say sorry for any wrongdoing, she will either try her hardest to defend it or start being emotionally manipulative, I have spoken and complained to her about it so much and I'm tired of talking about it because it now seems like I'm begging for an apology from someone that is supposed to care about how I feel. One word: Run. I do not know how people stay with people who have OBVIOUS red signals. How is this even a question? 4 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by heroboy5: 1:02am On Dec 04, 2018 |
I'm having the same issues with my girlfriend.. I even deside to give her a break.. For 2weeks i refuse to call or text her.. Uptill nw i never see her missed call or even a text 4rm her. My babe get mind ooh.. 3 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by juniorstar(m): 1:03am On Dec 04, 2018 |
I think a woman is asking the question from the standpoint of a man A woman wrote this, u cant deceive me. 2 Likes |
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Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Moukandjo: 1:13am On Dec 04, 2018 |
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Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Ianmaduka(m): 1:24am On Dec 04, 2018 |
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Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by toksbisola: 1:29am On Dec 04, 2018 |
@Op; to love some one is a beautiful thing. When one is in a relationship that they think would lead to marriage, there are certain factors you need to consider before taking the “I DO” step. The factors are; Love, Compatibility, Respect and Friendship. During courtship is a time to decide whether you can tolerate your partners' attitude or not. If you know that you can’t endure a particular attitude during courtship, then address it there and then as it has a tendency to probably get worse when you marry. Now let me give you some quotes below to ponder over; here we go; When a relationship becomes one you are enduring; it’s time to walk away When a relationship becomes a violet one; it’s time to walk away When a relationship becomes a selfish one;it’s time to walk away When a relationship makes you unhappy; it’s time to walk away When you become afraid of your partner in a relationship; it’s time to walk away When in a relationship and the apologies comes from only one side; it’s time to walk away When you walk on egg-shells in a relationship; it’s time to walk away Note my words above and be sure to be married to someone who you see as one you can spend the rest of your life with in happiness, love and unity. We are not perfect but we can still make adjustments in our attitude towards our fellow human. It would be in your best interest to TO AVOID PROLONGING THIS MATTER ANY LONGER as she's a woman whose biological clock is ticking and if you honestly would not be able to look beyond the “PROBLEM AREA” you mentioned above; PLEASE FREE HER AND FREE YOURSELF. Don’t have a selfish attitude (No offence hope none taken) where you want to have your cake and eat it by keeping her and STILL HAVING THESE NAGGING DOUBT/ISSUE THAT YOU CAN’T OVERLOOK. Take note, 1) Never marry anyone out of pity simply because you have been with them for a long time and you don’t want them or you to lose out. 2) Marry for true love so that when the challenges start occurring in the marital bond (and best believe challenges would arise) the love both of you have built up would be able to withstand the ups and downs that would occur; take note that MARRIAGE IS NOT A BED OF ROSES. On a final note, the decision is yours entirely whether to carry on with her or let her be as only you wear the shoes and only you know where it pinches; hence, no one else can decide for you whether you’ll carry on with the courtship or call it quits. It'll be totally out of a selfish interest to allow her to chase other men away (one man’s meat is another man’s poison) with her knowledge that she has met her husband; meanwhile her man is in doubt if he has met his wife; as that’s the way it looks at the moment from your write-up. Owing to the fact that you are not happy with this particular flaw of her not apologizing when she's in the wrong; (anyone who can't apologies when they are in the wrong has an inflated ego of themselves which portrays them as selfish) you're better off taking your time to find the right woman at the initial stage to avoid stories that touch and you crying over spilled milk when it all goes down south. All the best. I rest my case 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by hidee20(m): 1:35am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage: Please never overlook this attitude as it is a serious one.If you aren't sure the change is genuine (that's if she ever) just let her go. Dealing with one presently albeit family member...... 5 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by pedrilo: 1:46am On Dec 04, 2018 |
very true instead of OP to have a partner in his marriage, he will end up havin a competitor if he goes ahead n wife such a girl oladayo63: 3 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by airsaylongcon: 2:30am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Khallyella: Please just speak regular English. Your use of "lest" here is contextually incorrect. he'll never apologise 1 Like
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Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by clemmonce(m): 2:36am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage:the worse thing that could ever happen to a man is to marry a date someone he is not intune with. If it worries you now, it will definitely worry you when you marry her. i wont advice you to break up with her, but i know you what to do. Do the needful and you will be glad you did.... 1 Like |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by mrvictor: 2:44am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Just Quit it now! Run! khalhokage: 1 Like |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by rednek: 2:57am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage: I have been there before, such people will never change. Instead of them apologising, you will end up being the one to appologize. If you ask me, i will honestly tell you that you are just wasting your time. Trust me, if you finally live her you will see how peaceful and relaxed you will become. Someone that loves you will always respect your feelings and will never do anything that will cause you to feel bad......trust me, this girl might even be thinking that she is doing you a favour by dating you, and she always feels that there are better guys out there ready to take her if she decides to dump you today. The truth is that she will eventually dump you, when she starts having that sensation that you are disturbing her peace for trying to correct her......set yourself free bro....you are in a bad relationship. And please when you are finally free from this mess, don't let it affect you psychology about women......there are very good girls out there just looking for someone to love them. 10 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by babeosisi: 2:57am On Dec 04, 2018 |
I don't think this poster is mature enough for marriage |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by AnthonyAk(m): 3:02am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Let's see a picture of this person |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Kenkuss(m): 3:03am On Dec 04, 2018 |
What do I think? Bros I think what u are thinking period, Already u know what ur getting in the marriage. Noting pass happiness in a home. 2 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by mascot87(m): 3:03am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage: Same sign my ex showed and I ignored. She eventually left me because I was trying to correct all this. Bro,the truth is that she is fed up and managing you for now. She will leave u soon 5 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by rednek: 3:04am On Dec 04, 2018 |
babeosisi: What do you think about people that don't care if their actions causes others to feel bad 3 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by X2ksed: 3:08am On Dec 04, 2018 |
stanliwise: Don’t mind that guy. Arm robber just drop ID card, we be mumu . Na Nollywood. Black arrow drop him ID after operation. 2 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by KingMicky3286: 3:11am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage: I left my own even though i paid some of her dowry . Any woman who can not say sorry is devilish . A man should rather live with a woman commits sins everyday and say sorry everyday than a woman who cant shift ground when they did something wrong. They are the type of women that will embarrass you in the public without remorse 8 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Donpiloo007: 3:29am On Dec 04, 2018 |
From experience, here are few things to note. 1. People hardly change. NEVER forget that. Make peace with it if you can, otherwise, quickly head for the exit. 2. A woman who cannot say sorry or admit wrong is bad enough. Combined with manipulative strategies, you are a disaster waiting to happen. 3. From experience, its very doubtful if she really love you. If she doesn't love you and obviously doesn't respect you enough to apologize, if you end up in marriage, she will abandon you at the slightest difficulty. Believe me, I am talking from real life experience. I wish you the best in your decision. 5 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by rednek: 3:30am On Dec 04, 2018 |
One funny thing about life is that there is nothing anyone is going through now that people haven't gone through in the past.....i only hope that our brother would listen to the advices given here. I could remember when i was having my own bad experience with a girl then, i won't call her my ex because to me that was never a relationship. I kept browsing the internet, looking for solutions on how to make things work well for us, but i kept seeing advices that there is no other solution but to quit her, my friends asked me to quit, my parents and my brothers and sisters also told me to quit, but i was foolishly holding on to the saying that " don't let other people to tell you how to run your relationship " i kept on trying to make things work out, i even deprived myself of a lot of things just to make her change, but i only discovered later that i have been dumped long before she even officially ended the the relationship without telling me her reason for calling it off........but surprisingly to me, i didn't even feel like i lost anything sef, but instead i became so free and so peaceful inside.....am still thanking God that it didn't cause me any heartbreak o! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Juliearth(f): 3:40am On Dec 04, 2018 |
khalhokage: Usually I am a staunch optimist when it comes to faulty relationships,but this is definitely an exception. Sorry to say this, but your woman is egoistic. The only requirement for a broken relationship is "Ego" so be a bigger person,skip the "e" and let it "go" you have tried your best,op. If she can't be submissive whilst she is just a girlfriend,belief you me, she will never change in marriage. Even the Bible admonishes us to submit to our husbands/fiance. Marrying her would be your undoing. Please let her go! I am sure your better half is closer than you think. 9 Likes |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by chiedu7: 3:41am On Dec 04, 2018 |
Boxer007: Fagg0t |
Re: She Never Apologises: I Am Thinking Of Ending This Relationship. by Juliearth(f): 3:41am On Dec 04, 2018 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Take some bottles, bill's on me. 1 Like |
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