I met this lady, 25yrs by age, we are both in the same age, though she told me that she is already in relationship, but yet we continue our dating stuff, she has not give me positive answer but the way she respond gave me assurance of her acceptance, just 2days ago, i called her as usual asking her where she was, because she works in lagos and come back aroung 9pm, so it was exact that time and she said she was on her way home but am hearing music sound, i question her she told me she was wth her husband, this annoyed me and i stared sending her nasty message telling her that all sort of things but i did not abuse her only tell her that i wish but she didnt, and pray we meet at the beaches of the world, but i cant condone it, i later called her, she send me a mesage that she is testing my emotional maturity, have calle dher leting her know that am only makng my grivance known, my question now is this, what should i do, cos i luv this lady and ishe does too but with what have done and what she said that she was testing my emotional maturity, do i still have a hope do i act imature.
thanks
pls dont abuse me just tell me yur view

Rephrasing the poster's ENGLISH

Back to topic,
she has already told you the truth,
she is married and has a husband
forget that she has said she was testing your whatever
leave her alone coz she is married

Omalola u even get strength and time 2 talk.as 4 me oya bros continue dey chop married abuna.repercussions dey sha

Plz smbdy tel me what d OP said.I dnt undstand anythn he wrote.

This is called Niglish!!! lol can't help but laugh my head off

She might still be seeing the other guy. Don't let her give u heart aches. Just forget about her. There are 3billion others girls out there.

You've been told!

I wonder how some people managed to pass English at O level. The poor boy did not say the chic is married. Maybe its because the write up is faulty sha.

@Poster, if you die cos of a girl, millions of em will march on your grave. Wise up guy and dont be a loser. Find your own levels dude.

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Why do you people stick around like a dog on a leash when a woman says she has boyfriend but she will give you answer after 2 months? Does that even make sense? And ya'll come back to spout tripe about how woman blah blah evil blah blah. I still don't get it. Like temporary loss of brain function. Bone the woman and find one who isn't attached or happy to drag you along in the hopes of chopping from you and her own bobo. Like hello! common sense

lady Gaga

A girl with her heart somewhere else is likely just using you. I'm tempted to say you are slow but you say make we no yab you, besides love blinds like a megawatt halogen lamp. Look for someone else who values you and leave this one alone. If she's married, that's a no-brainer. If she lives with said guy, no-brainer. If she is his girlfriend, use your brain.

tanx to some of you that offer reasonable advice though not logical enough, and to some who doesnt apply senses in their writing thanks to you also, am not amazed cos "common sense is not common to everybody because is not a tail of academy" i only need yur advice not abuses cheers

Temper temper. He needs advice remember?

You make a maestro outta me

DDMoses, bro, I will not abuse you for slacking

Go and stood down in that corner!!! Real men do not cry, gademmmit!!!!

Real men cry but not in public and they don't wail