luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me.

Just like sports, most women don't enjoy porn because it actually makes no sense to a lot of them. I think the target audience for porn is the male folk which is why female porn performers earn ten times more than their male counterparts. The porn industry will shut down without it's male viewers. sadly, porn is destroying a lot of young men and marriages.

TheBlessedMAN:
First of all, let me tell you who I am.

I don't go to church unless its a cross-over night. Thats who I am. You are free to judge me.

Now to the reason behind the questionic title above, (Is it proper for a Christian couple to watch porn together before having sex?), last week sunday, in the morning, I was inside my room having my usual sunday-lic rest in preparation for the new week, when the loud speakers of a C.A.C church adjacent my house started blarring in its typical we-are-doing-sunday-school-service things.

Frustrated and angry at the same time, I grabbed my phone and begin to play game. Suddenly, I heard someone, probably from the congregation, asking the sunday school teacher the question I posted above and that was what caught my interest. I was curious to know what answer the teacher would give.
But unfortunately, I couldn't hear anything again. I guess the teacher had decided to answer the question without using microphone.


So, can someone help me to answer that question? Biblically or Morally. Thanks.

I've gone through all the comments to see a reasonable one but non seems reasonable including mine. Well, whether married couple watch porn or not before deciding to bring some lazy Nigerian fools (children/youths) into this country should be left for God to deal with.

Sin is sin, what is wrong is wrong. No matter how you are viewing it or what you are using it for.

Do you know when you are on top of your wife you won't know when your mind will shift to the image of the woman in the porn. So what's the point having sex with your wife, it is as good as you masturbating with the image of the porn woman in your head.

luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me.

Just like sports, most women don't enjoy porn because it actually makes no sense to a lot of them. I think the target audience for porn is the male folk which is why female porn performers earn ten times more than their male counterparts. The porn industry will shut down without the male viewers. sadly, porn is destroying a lot of young men and marriages.

PRESENTATION:


Revelation 2:34 says and I quote For no matter your relationship shall ye watch porn together; if ye must do so, ye shall anoint the device first and pray to thy lord thy god before and after watching. For inviting thy lord to such satisfactory view shall he bless thy with enough strength for thy main action

So my brother follow that verse well and thy good god would bless you with strength for the after party

......and this blasphemy is meant to b funny shey.u know wat God promised those who add to the bible like u did in that same revelations?
thats probably why ur life is still this way!!!!

Martinez19:
Okay. Keep on seeking the truth and be honest about it. Be sure not to insist that a god must exist because there might be a god or there might not be. You conclusion should be a thorough and honest one.

I can you ad another Apostle Paul very soon. Take note

Martinez19:
Okay. Keep on seeking the truth and be honest about it. Be sure not to insist that a god must exist because there might be a god or there might not be. You conclusion should be a thorough and honest one.

I can see you as another Apostle Paul very soon. Take note

couples can't even enjoy themselves again in the name Christianity. na wa o

bknight:
Is it proper? No, it’s not proper.

Is it a sin? No, it’s not a sin.

My opinion: Stay away from porn. There are subtle things that are communicated through porn that fvcks you up. And fvcks you up real bad. The world of porn is a world of perversion.

Stay away from porn

Can you give an example please?

TheBlessedMAN:
First of all, let me tell you who I am.

I don't go to church unless its a cross-over night. Thats who I am. You are free to judge me.

Now to the reason behind the questionic title above, (Is it proper for a Christian couple to watch porn together before having sex?), last week sunday, in the morning, I was inside my room having my usual sunday-lic rest in preparation for the new week, when the loud speakers of a C.A.C church adjacent my house started blarring in its typical we-are-doing-sunday-school-service things.

Frustrated and angry at the same time, I grabbed my phone and begin to play game. Suddenly, I heard someone, probably from the congregation, asking the sunday school teacher the question I posted above and that was what caught my interest. I was curious to know what answer the teacher would give.
But unfortunately, I couldn't hear anything again. I guess the teacher had decided to answer the question without using microphone.


So, can someone help me to answer that question? Biblically or Morally. Thanks.

I am judging you.....Crossover is BS!!!
there is no Christian ceremony of Crossover night. The concept of Decemeber 31st being a New Year is a man made concept. God does not measure progress in your Gregorian calendars of new year or new month.

A true Christian has no need to be praying for 'blessings for the new year'. Only backward countries like Nigeria make a big deal out of praying for blessings in the new year.

My brother you seem like an enlighted fellow, stop wasting your time in going for Crossover.......just pray everyday to your God, your Goud is too big to be upset that you did not attend Crossover.

BTW.....porn watching between consent adults is ok.

No be match una wan play both of u suppose to watch it together to add sugar on it

luvmijeje:
I am not a religious person. But porn don't move me probably because it's scripted and looks fake to me. So it's better my husband watch on his own and apply it to me.

So what's my point? If God created sex why do I need other people's opinion to achieve maximum satisfaction? Why I do need other people to tell me what's right for me? What's other people's business in my sexual relationship?Are they God? Are they the one that created sex?

It simply means that you do not understand why some people watch porn before or during sex. If I may ask you, Do you cum during sex? If you do what do you think makes your body to cum? If you think the pressure from your man's Shaft is the only reason, you are wrong. And that could be the reason why I think many women like you take years to reach climax or never cum at all( no insult ma'am). Your mind or Brian is actually what makes you to cum. Hence some people choose to use videos or pictures as an extra help to stimulate them. If you think your man's shaft is the reason behind why you cum, I will ask. Will you cum if someone is raping you even though the pressure is there?

I am a christian, a devoted one and am also married.
Sometimes in your marriage the need to spice up the bedroom game always comes up and if you both are the inexperienced or not so sexually exposed type then the need to really learn n learn fast about sex will create some level of friction which may even lead to quarrels and problems in the home. the kind of problems that people will find difficult to say to others.

This i believe is why porn maybe seen as very useful and important has it is
1. Affordable.
2. Available.
3. Can be done secretly.
4. an eye openner to the various sexual fantasies, styles and experiences.

Given the advantages already listed and more, one willl expect that the answer to your question is Yes. But the answer is actually NO.

NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO a thousand times NO.

Christian couples should not watch pornography.

WHY?
Disadvantages of PORN.
1. It is addictive- You will never get enough it keeps dragging u in and in.
2. Creates a wired sense of options. You will always be faced with trying out wide sense of varieties till you probably ends as an adulterer. you both will begin to imagine sex with varietiees of people eg. ur dark complexion wife pp doesn't look as fine as the light complexion lady in the last watched.
3. Unbeatable target- Most porns that goes on and on for hours or the type where the man shows so much strength for a longer period may create an unnecessary condition where the husband in the marriage goes into the competition to beat the cast in the porn. irrespective of the fact that the pornstars maybe into drugs and/or even had longer period of rest before the next rounds.
4. Virtual Sex- The fun between the couples is soon reduced or replaces as their mind replaces their minds with some cast in the porn.
5. Low Self-esteem- The man or woman who couldnt meet up with the new standard set by the porn feels less than a human.
6. No matter how hidden, one day your children will take hold of it. And it is not good for them and you.


What Couples should do to learn about sex.
1. Discussion- Take time to discuss about sex, be ready to know how your partner feels. this discussion should be before, during and after sex.
2. Research through reading of medical, psychological and healthy books. (not porns)
3. watch (check youtube) healthy materials on the issues that requires help in your sexual life, eg one minute erection.
4. Seek counsel from qualified and interested counselors in the area.


PLEASE... STOP PORN NOW.... PORN IS BAD ALWAYS.

TheBlessedMAN:
First of all, let me tell you who I am.

I don't go to church unless its a cross-over night. Thats who I am. You are free to judge me.

Now to the reason behind the questionic title above, (Is it proper for a Christian couple to watch porn together before having sex?), last week sunday, in the morning, I was inside my room having my usual sunday-lic rest in preparation for the new week, when the loud speakers of a C.A.C church adjacent my house started blarring in its typical we-are-doing-sunday-school-service things.

Frustrated and angry at the same time, I grabbed my phone and begin to play game. Suddenly, I heard someone, probably from the congregation, asking the sunday school teacher the question I posted above and that was what caught my interest. I was curious to know what answer the teacher would give.
But unfortunately, I couldn't hear anything again. I guess the teacher had decided to answer the question without using microphone.


So, can someone help me to answer that question? Biblically or Morally. Thanks.

It should be Romans chapter from verse 28 to 32..this part of the bible always checkmates me.

TruthinAction:
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Romans 1:32:.. knowing the judgment of God, that they which commit such things are WORTHY of DEATH, not only do the same, BUT HAVE PLEASURE IN THEM THAT DO THEM.

first of all, as a general rule for me, i dnt reply comments like this cos i always av this nagging suspicion than the "questioneer" is already deep in his convictions and just wants to play around
However, i feel the deep urge to reply this question despite the huge depressing comments from the atheist majority above me. Pay no heed to them .most of thems life are in a sorry state right now and they just relish the silly fact that they are not alone in their messy lifestyle
the "one more person like me" syndrome is wat keeps them going!!
back to ur question brother, the single problem of porn is that it fuels the mind with ungodly desires( which is even harder to explain because u sound like someone who doesnt blive strongly in God- just saying o bro!)

but in a simple answer ..... ..... .no! porn wont do it...if the aim is to enhance the sequelling mechanical activity then there are sexually educationall films you and ur spouse can engage in. not the aggressive and selfish crave for desires exhibited in porn movies.

NB - I av intentionally refrained fr using biblical verses not to come across a over spiritual

jesuchristi:
Which porn did Adam and Eve watch before having sex?You shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free.If you refuse the truth of the Bible,Satan will sell you his cheap lies.
Touch not the unclean thing. Have no fellowship with unfruitful works of darkness.

Adam and Eve didn’t watch it cos they where the 1st. Im sure once men had more choices/options they gladly took those choices. Why do u think men of those days had concubines from Abraham to David and Solomon and Adam and Eve didn’t? Man can explore his options correctly.

Ianmaduka

Gratefulheart01:


Porn can't move a woman the way it does to a man, that's why porn has spoilt the lives of lots of men. It's a pathetic situation. 70% of men today are porn addicts but you wouldn't know. Young boys, clergy men, lonely men, married men, good boys, bad boys, old men are all caught up in the web of porn.

Best thing is to train your kids and loved ones to stay away from porn, never start it, because when you get caught up in it, it's hard to stop.

You will be shocked to know that most women equally watch porn & it moves them to do unbelievable things. I have some female friends who watch porn & they even have intimacy gadgets to go with it - helping themselves when konji grabs them unexpectedly.

You'll also be amazed at the number of porn sites they know & visit.

Don't be so naive.

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Philippians 4:7, And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
8, Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest,1 whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.

Porn is evil

I'm Herr yo read comments

echodrum:
It simply means that you do not understand why some people watch porn before or during sex. If I may ask you, Do you cum during sex? If you do what do you think makes your body to cum? If you think the pressure from your man's Shaft is the only reason, you are wrong. And that could be the reason why I think many women like you take years to reach climax or never cum at all( no insult ma'am). Your mind or Brian is actually what makes you to cum. Hence some people choose to use videos or pictures as an extra help to stimulate them. If you think your man's shaft is the reason behind why you cum, I will ask. Will you cum if someone is raping you even though the pressure is there?

Porn just don't work for me. If he really wants to put me in the mood, he should rub me at the right place. I'm more of a romance person. I just don't see porn as romantic.

Pornography is a socially unacceptable behavior and should therefore be rejected in its entirety among married and unmarried people. One of the things Pornography does is to debase human beings and subsequently reduce him to the level of an animal. Sex is meant for two mature people who have agreed to live and be joined together legally, this is necessary because sex unlike other form of sensual intimacy has the capacity to create a bonding between two separate souls in one clean sweep which may take a long and painful process to sever, therefore sheepishly allowing such an important procedure outside a legally defined boundary makes one a prostitute even if no financial gain is involved. In a nutshell we should show moderation in whatever we do, sex is not something you should learn from anyone, people who scripted such obscenity can't be good role models so why learn or build your sex life and home on lessons from such heap of ruins? As there are good inventions, porn is clearly an evil invention meant to destroy societal, family and individual moral values; This should never be encouraged.

Martinez19:
Okay. Keep on seeking the truth and be honest about it. Be sure not to insist that a god must exist because there might be a god or there might not be. You conclusion should be a thorough and honest one.

don't force people with useless opinions There is God

So we can't watch pporn and ffuck in peace again?

Now let me answer this to the best of my little understanding. The sex you are referring to here is between a couple abi? As long as it is married couple, they are allowed to have sex however they deem fit as they are comfortable with(sex without health implication) e. g. anal.

As long as there is agreement between them they are free to spice up their love life to ensure the marriage is a healthy one without one part being deprived and starved.

Marriage is 85%verbal communication and 15%non verbal communication. Communication is key

No

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Spygadgets19:
A couple that can not watch porn together should not be called a couple.
Porn has been mistaken to be a sin that feeds our lascivious hunger when in reality, it is an instructional sex guide. 

They are sex positions you'd never be taught in a marriage class, your pastor will never even mention them. 
But you need to be armed with such knowledge. Because even in law; ignorance is no defence. 

Couples should be able to watch porn, 
Watch each other masturbate and learn their sexual preferences. 

Sex in itself is a sin; but marriage sanctifies the act.
All sexual depravities and perversions are termed holy as long as they are carried out in the confines of marriage. 

That's why the sin of fornication carries a greater punishment than that of adultery. 
Simply put; if a married man shags another married woman, it is less of a sin. 
But if a single man shags a single woman, their soul is in the risk of hellfire.

*Anonymous*

Despite your commendable writing prowess, your points reek of foolishness and confusion. I SMH at the bolded.

What is porn?

it was nice that u answered. Thanks. may i tell u, you are not alone

cosse:
first of all, as a general rule for me, i dnt reply comments like this cos i always av this nagging suspicion than the "questioneer" is already deep in his convictions and just wants to play around
However, i feel the deep urge to reply this question despite the huge depressing comments from the atheist majority above me. Pay no heed to them .most of thems life are in a sorry state right now and they just relish the silly fact that they are not alone in their messy lifestyle
the "one more person like me" syndrome is wat keeps them going!!
back to ur question brother, the single problem of porn is that it fuels the mind with ungodly desires( which is even harder to explain because u sound like someone who doesnt blive strongly in God- just saying o bro!)

but in a simple answer ..... ..... .no! porn wont do it...if the aim is to enhance the sequelling mechanical activity then there are sexually educationall films you and ur spouse can engage in. not the aggressive and selfish crave for desires exhibited in porn movies.

NB - I av intentionally refrained fr using biblical verses not to come across a over spiritual

op! you claimed you dont go to church unless its crossover night, I think you are even living inside the church sef in my opinion , considering you have to battle with their loud speaker every now and then! to me, na you go church pass!