Hi,

Please I need some information.

I’m from London. My boyfriend and I were both living in London until he was deported back to Nigeria. We dated for 2 years so due to love we continued dating. We eventually got married two years later in a registry in Nigeria. I was willing to move to Nigeria permanently and forget about London completely. It was time to do the traditional marriage now, he said he’s not doing anymore. Long story short he has the marriage certificate with him in Nigeria. He said he will just tear it up and that’s that and no1 will ever believe me without the certificate that we are legally married.
Obviously I need to one day move on with my life, by Gods grace and remarry. I’m only 26, I cannot come and die because of one man. I don’t want to deal with this issue when I have someone new etc. I don’t want to comit polygamy as that is highly illegal in the UK. Personally, I cannot date another man while I’m legally married. Ko make sense.
Does anyone know how I can obtain a copy of the marriage certificate myself in order to proceed with a legal divorce?
In the UK you can look up marriages online, is there a website for Nigerian marriage information to be looked up online?
Please help me because if you understand the heartbreak I’m going through right now, you will cry for me.
I jus want to begin to legally escape this situation and move on with my life.

Staceyjohnsn:
Hi,

Please I need some information.

I’m from London. My boyfriend and I were both living in London until he was deported back to Nigeria. We dated for 2 years so due to love we continued dating. We eventually got married two years later in a registry in Nigeria. I was willing to move to Nigeria permanently and forget about London completely. It was time to do the traditional marriage now, he said he’s not doing anymore. Long story short he has the marriage certificate with him in Nigeria. He said he will just tear it up and that’s that and no1 will ever believe me without the certificate that we are legally married.
Obviously I need to one day move on with my life, by Gods grace and remarry. I’m only 26, I cannot come and die because of one man. I don’t want to deal with this issue when I have someone new etc. I don’t want to comit polygamy as that is highly illegal in the UK. Personally, I cannot date another man while I’m legally married. Ko make sense.
Does anyone know how I can obtain a copy of the marriage certificate myself in order to proceed with a legal divorce?
In the UK you can look up marriages online, is there a website for Nigerian marriage information to be looked up online?
Please help me because if you understand the
heartbreak I’m going through right now, you will cry for me.
I jus want to begin to legally escape this situation and move on with my life.

sorry sister for your predicament, though I'm not a lawyer but I know in matters of divorce, if a partner is proving to be stubborn by not releasing the marriage certificate with the help of your lawyer you can approach that same registry you did your court marriage for a copy of the certificate like a duplicate in their log book. I have forgotten what they call it, but is not a too difficult thing to get just approach a lawyer and you will be fine.

Please next time learn to look before you leap, love is not everything okay, it's obvious the guy is not into you, cut your losses now.

Better luck next time and try and marry within your status and not low people, they are energy drainers .Gracias

Thank you for the advice.
God bless

God will see you through

jasper83:



sorry sister for your predicament, though I'm not a lawyer but I know in matters of divorce, if a partner is proving to be stubborn by not releasing the marriage certificate with the help of your lawyer you can approach that same registry you did your court marriage for a copy of the certificate like a duplicate in their log book. I have forgotten what they call it, but is not a too difficult thing to get just approach a lawyer and you will be fine.

Please next time learn to look before you leap, love is not everything okay, it's obvious the guy is not into you, cut your losses now.

Better luck next time and try and marry within your status and not low people, they are energy drainers .Gracias

you didn't only help the Op with this eye opening piece, you have 'liberated' a whole lot of women that would be reading this. God bless you.

jasper83:



sorry sister for your predicament, though I'm not a lawyer but I know in matters of divorce, if a partner is proving to be stubborn by not releasing the marriage certificate with the help of your lawyer you can approach that same registry you did your court marriage for a copy of the certificate like a duplicate in their log book. I have forgotten what they call it, but is not a too difficult thing to get just approach a lawyer and you will be fine.

Please next time learn to look before you leap, love is not everything okay, it's obvious the guy is not into you, cut your losses now.

Better luck next time and try and marry within your status and not low people, they are energy drainers .Gracias

Certified true copy.

@ OP, no online check here yet in naija. Just get a lawyer to assist you. But I think you would need a photocopy of the certificate to get the certified true copy.

By the way, be grateful the dude didn't drag you into wasting more time with him.

If you tell the date of the marriage or when it was entered into the Registry, which local government and the names of the parties to the marriage, I can help you get the Certified True Copy of the certificate.

Montaque:
If you tell the date of the marriage or when it was entered into the Registry, which local government and the names of the parties to the marriage, I can help you get the Certified True Copy of the certificate.

Do you possibly have an email address I can contact you on or WhatsApp, because I dont want to post all my information on this forum?
Thanks
God bless

very simple,
1. date of marriage and registry for the certificate.
2. a lawyer will arrange a divorce for you.
contact me or drop any email, i will contact you

Hi,
Can you please contact me via this email Stacey.johnsn@yahoo..com

But where is lalasticlala sef

jasper83:



sorry sister for your predicament, though I'm not a lawyer but I know in matters of divorce, if a partner is proving to be stubborn by not releasing the marriage certificate with the help of your lawyer you can approach that same registry you did your court marriage for a copy of the certificate like a duplicate in their log book. I have forgotten what they call it, but is not a too difficult thing to get just approach a lawyer and you will be fine.

Please next time learn to look before you leap, love is not everything okay, it's obvious the guy is not into you, cut your losses now.

Better luck next time and try and marry within your status and not low people, they are energy drainers .Gracias

He has said it all, alternatively, send hired assassins to the idiot.

Meanwhile you didn't tell us the roles you played in his deportation, or you know it's hellish to live in Nigeria?

Abi na

Stories that touch the kidney.


When the going was good, nobody knew.
Now yawa don Gass, everywhere must ring.


Don't be surprised if the story up there is far from the truth, she might be the one trying to play a fast one on her husband.


All in all,
Mathew 8 :22
"Let the dead bury the dead"

Since am not married, wetin I know self?

Why did you hurt that man so much

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Wakanda nonsense topic is this

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Some marriage are like one night stand, wed today divorce tomorrow. May God help this generation

Be careful of those asking you to contact them.

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Hmm

i am single and ready to marry ...

The registry you had the wedding has a certify true copy(CTC) of your Marriage Certificate. Apply for the CTC, you will have it and it shall stand as the original Mariage Certificate.

Nothing lost!

Please check wada your boyfriend or girlfriend head dey correct before you marry.



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Get the date, get a lawyer and head to the registry. Good luck.

marriage scare the beJesus out of me. Singleness is next to godliness

Cut the long story short, contact me on WhatsApp.. 08154511396. I will be more than willing to dish out good advice to you.