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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by pelegiga92: 7:00am On Dec 11, 2018
ojun50:

pls go back nd help me tell that yr colleague that his wife will still cheat on him some day, d guy get mind
if she Born four children na one b he own
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by tosyne2much(m): 7:02am On Dec 11, 2018
Toxic relationship.. The lady in question is still carried away by the excitement of flexing and that's why she's rebellious

OP, you're demanding too much from a lady that can only give little
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Youngzedd(m): 7:06am On Dec 11, 2018
Nigga is dating coded runs girl and He's here claiming love.

Guy use your brain.

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by dbanjj1629(m): 7:11am On Dec 11, 2018
greatnaija01:
REALLY AM SAD FOR MEN WHO BECOME MUMU BECAUSE OF A LADY'S BOSSOM OR BEAUTY? because from your story she lacks character so you are dating her for something physical and not her content. SO WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU BRO?

Dont you know how to do your own stuff? YOU ARE A MAN.... you do not need women as much as they need you... MEN DO NOT HAVE MENOPAUSE... she is young and needs to enjoy her life waywardly and she can not know if you are a good guy or not.... NICE GUYS GET DUMPED.

SEE, upload a pics of you with another girl or Photoshop it ... maybe by a pool OR at the airport... then let it be on your facebook and whatsapp PROFILE and status.... THEN IF SHE DOES NOT COMPLAIN THEN YOU KNOW SHE HAS ANOTHER DUDE GIVING HER WHAT YOU ARE TOO FAR TO GIVE.

She is out of your league, you may not be a party type and she loves going out... SIT YOURSELF DOWN AND ASK WHY EXACTLY YOU ARE IN SUCH A RELATIONSHIP... most men dull themselves by expecting beauty to be character and am shocked that they come here acting shocked when their ladys' behave otherwise.

IKORODU is far and she has FREEDOM to do anything and lie to you. MAKE MONEY, I repeat MAKE MAD MONEY and her loyalty will appear like the rising sun.

RELATIONSHIP these days are simply BUSINESS TRANSACTIONS OF LOVE and MONEY.

In your next relationship TAKE YOUR BRAIN with you and not your HEART ONLY


You nailed it brotherman. Thumbs up
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by PrimadonnaO(f): 7:11am On Dec 11, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Life is all about risk. She has had her fun, seen it all and decided to marry the young broke boy. I doubt she'll cheat on him, Atleast for now.

For now... lol. You'll hear about it.
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by lasthero: 7:18am On Dec 11, 2018
PraisePiano:
Hello guys....

I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are.
I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.

We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok”

She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.

Please what should I do?

She is a hoe and a life of a party.
I was once in this shoe and it was a bitter experience.
Bro, please leave and quit, the end is brutal
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by tope3x(m): 7:26am On Dec 11, 2018
Sometimes, when i read a topic like this, i keep wondering if we still have this type of guys out there, and it always want me to ask what their age is...JESU....That is what you get when a nice mumu guy dates a slay queen.... grin grin grin


Pubichairs:
Toxic relationship , there is nothing to advice..

Mr Nice guy keep on sticking to one woman, na u go tire

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Geesaintagape: 7:27am On Dec 11, 2018
Guy runaway or u marry to divorce
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by synclaire: 7:38am On Dec 11, 2018
Why do good people end up with terrible partners. See wat some girls are looking for in a guy, (calm, understanding n level headed). And dis lady has it and is disrespecting it. @Op com and date me, i'm not a slay Queen, i dont party or kip late nites. I even live within reach. Lol. Girls sef.

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by oshaosha2014(m): 7:39am On Dec 11, 2018
You know this kind of success scenario is rare.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
The guy actually married a lady far above his stutus but they are good friends. I believe anyone can change if only they realize their error and need to fix things.
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by kenkel: 7:39am On Dec 11, 2018
samysmoothfresh:
From your write up, here are


A) Reasons why you should not quit the relationship


1) you love her.


2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.



B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship


1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!


2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.


3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!


4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.


5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.




OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?


yes or no?
you are too much, your level of IQ is high

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by adabsmith(m): 7:43am On Dec 11, 2018
Tamarapetty:
End it oga! END IT!! Farmtool spotted. . Believe it or crase.
well u mean a HOE?

Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Wealthoptulent(m): 7:44am On Dec 11, 2018
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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by 1stNumeroUno: 7:46am On Dec 11, 2018
Dating someone you met online usually has many brouhaha. It's like buying online goods too; there's high tendency it'll not meet specifications. You're still save since this one doesn't have 'No return' policy.
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by adabsmith(m): 7:48am On Dec 11, 2018
donkaz2:
Am not good at giving advice but I will suggest this.... Try to be about dirty with her I mean the way you both talk.... Invite her over that a friend of yours have an all night club event at a popular club and you will want both of you to go... Give her a date on that day tell her to come early as you will like to have great sex with her before the event.... In short you can buy her wears for the event... In the said date fk her like say you no plan to do again then from tired when it's time to go for the event tell her your friend shift the event date... Bleep her all through the night with the help of....... Then in the morning if she reacts tell her you don't think the relationship will work her reaction will give you the answer you needed....... Thank me later
bros, how many bottles u want
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Kbidi: 7:49am On Dec 11, 2018
@OP....the advice done do...Am sure you done read tire sef....Now you suppose keep ya head straight ...no go dey shake ya head like those people for zee world o!

Channel ya energy to something more important not that girl...

And be a MAN

MAN meaning

M- Man in the Morning

A- Man in the Afternoon

N- Man at Night.

Don't be blinded by love...When you are in love, it does not mean you should not express your dislike ....Anyway e done do


Bye
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by pwettyeddy(f): 7:56am On Dec 11, 2018
MicroBox:
I don't understand how guys quit relationship...
Turn her to your friend and don't allow her be a liability.
If you need her(not necessarily se.x) maybe her company, just invite her over.
She's not ready for full time courtship/Committed relationship.


A real man never quits a relationship. He must be thinking of keeping her for a reason. Maybe the sex is mind blowing, hot, sweaty and leaving him panting, gasping for breath and wanting more.

If I were you, don't sack her just yet. This is the right time to reply all her messages with no words spoken.
Encourage her life style, but move on without letting her go.

What I simply mean is that you are in her club, cos obviously has control over you at this time.

So technically go back to the open market and look for a good wing man to sign. Bench her and revoke some of her security clearance.
If she has a key to your house, change your locks. If she retained the right of sleeping over for the entire weekend, downgrade her to overnight sleepover, she leaves at daybreak.
No more homely duties especially cooking your meals and laundry.
Or outrighly downgrade her to a day visitor. Come Bleep go. No hard feelings.
If she still does not get the message, invite your new wing man and have her come face the greatest shock of her life.

Battle won with words unspoken. And no sweat lost. That was how my hubby clipped my wings and I wasn't even a wide girl. I was a church girl and he sent this message that I needed to sit up and balance things. Though I later returned the favour with prayers that got him hook up in the church till date. Cos he was a damn wild. Thank goodness he is changed now

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Samzzy94(m): 8:01am On Dec 11, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Relationship headed for the rocks. She still wanna flex while u wanna make her homely. You both are not compatible unless she truly loves and respects u.

A colleague of mine wedded his gf who was just like this your girl, hers was even worse as she slept with politicians but the guy persevered in the relationship.


And that is if she is not already sleeping around
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by pwettyeddy(f): 8:05am On Dec 11, 2018
MicroBox:
I don't understand how guys quit relationship...
Turn her to your friend and don't allow her be a liability.
If you need her(not necessarily se.x) maybe her company, just invite her over.
She's not ready for full time courtship/Committed relationship.


A real man never quits a relationship. Op must be thinking of keeping her for a reason. Maybe the sex is mind blowing, hot, sweaty ,leaving him panting, gasping for breath and wanting more.

Don't just sack her just yet. This is the right time to reply all her messages with no words spoken.
Encourage her life style, but move on without letting her go.

What I simply mean is that you are in her club, cos obviously has control over you at this time.

So technically go back to the open market and look for a good wing man to sign. Bench her and revoke some of her security clearance. But first be a real man.

If she has a key to your house, change your locks. If she retained the right of sleeping over for the entire weekend, downgrade her to overnight sleepover, she leaves at daybreak.

No more homely duties especially cooking your meals and laundry.

Or outrighly downgrade her to a day visitor. Come Bleep go. No hard feelings. Na pension you dey collect.Returns on initial investments .

If she still does not get the message, invite your new wing man and have her come face the greatest shock of her life. Don't give her the opportunity to insult your new love.
How would I do this? Deliberately create yawa(trouble) offend her, and beg her as usual then invite her over for a nice time which is inveriably the unveiling of her replacement. Simple.

Battle won with words unspoken. And no sweat lost.

That was how my hubby clipped my wings and I wasn't even a wide girl. I was a church girl and he sent this message that I needed to sit up and balance things.

Though I later returned the favour with prayers that got him hook up in the church till date. Cos he was damn wild. Thank goodness he is changed now.

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by payloader(m): 8:05am On Dec 11, 2018
One word, "run".
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by OLUWABIG(m): 8:15am On Dec 11, 2018
PraisePiano:
God bless you bro I kuku no mumu I be mad man too I just wan Dey serious ni o


my brother can you please do me a favour
by unleashing your madness for her

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by sylve11: 8:20am On Dec 11, 2018
highqueen:
You are dating a slay queen, what do you expect?

Some of you will just go and carry burden that's bigger than your heart and be expecting a positive outcome.


�� cool
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by sixtus3606(m): 8:29am On Dec 11, 2018
PraisePiano:
Hello guys....

I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are.
I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.

We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok”

She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.

Please what should I do?

Ditch the bitch!
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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by ACE1010: 8:38am On Dec 11, 2018
samysmoothfresh:
From your write up, here are


A) Reasons why you should not quit the relationship


1) you love her.


2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.



B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship


1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!


2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.


3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!


4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.


5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.




OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?


yes or no?
Funny but true

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by olisaemeka1(m): 8:46am On Dec 11, 2018
samysmoothfresh:
From your write up, here are


A) Reasons why you should not quit the relationship


1) you love her.


2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.



B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship


1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!


2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.


3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!


4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.


5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.




OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?


yes or no?
wow looked here saw all the likes saw the VAR ....had to add my like ...lovely write up @ Op do d needful

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Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by pluto3(m): 8:52am On Dec 11, 2018
[b][/b]BEST ADVICE..... QUIT NOW YOU HAVE D TIME, SHE IS A SLAYER AND ALWAYS SLAY EVEN AFTER MARRIAGE......
HEAR WORD OOOOOOO
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by adetes: 8:58am On Dec 11, 2018
U r just a friend

Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by kamaldin(m): 9:00am On Dec 11, 2018
fishmillan:
You don get money first , guy go and look for money.. Leave girl matter
True talk be that o. Go hustle for money first and leave girls alone. Girls go come when money dey.
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by Ebere2020(m): 9:06am On Dec 11, 2018
PraisePiano:
Hello guys....

I’m gonna be brief as possible...so I met this girl 6 months ago online and we fell inlove after getting closer to each other then we started dating. I noticed she’s a kind of lady that enjoys slaying and keeping female friends which are not really presentable to me. I talked to her about it she said they are just friend and their mode of dressing doesn’t define who they are.
I overlooked it and stopped mentioning stuffs like that to her even tho I didn’t like it but just to make peace reign because she’s a type that gets upset when I try to correct her so sometimes I apologize even tho she’s wrong Because I love her and have waited a long time to get into a relationship after my heart was messed up by my ex last year. So I just kept pampering her and tolerating her attitudes.

We stay far from each other she stays at ikorodu while I stay at Abulegba so we don’t get to see often she was suppose to come visit me on sat 8th of this month considering that we’ve not seen in a month due to her busy schedule according to her, but she gave me an excuse of her going to her friend’s birthday party she can’t afford to miss as a understanding guy I said “no problem even tho I’ll miss you but I got no choice” so throughout that Saturday I heard from her only at night asking her how she was she told me she was weak so I told her to get some rest. The next day which was Sunday we spoke after church service on phone briefly and then to my surprise, she started uploading video of her in a concert with Nigerian top artists performing I was shocked I asked her if she went to a concert the previous night she said yes then I asked why she didn’t tell me even though we have spoken after then. She said she’s sorry then I told her “ok”

She started nagging and asking me why I was giving her the attitudes by simply saying “ok” she said her friend took her to the concert around 12am(my people is that possible her girlfriend took her to concert on the island by 12am no be say car Dey oo) I said ok even if that was the case why didn’t you tell me, she said she forgot!!! Like wtf? You forgot? I mean we’re supposed to even see each other I don’t have problem with her going out but she didn’t accord me any respect now I’m thinking of quitting the relationship and the worst part is she’s claiming rights and not apologizing and this is someone that always claim to love me.

Please what should I do?

I understand you I guess. I have actually been in your shoes. I quit my relationship for this same reason and right now she is has realised I wasn't stupid but her saviour. call her, tell her its not working. know what she thinks. most girl's do that cos they felt they re having fun because of peer pressure. ones you know she doesn't have any regard for you as you thought, then forget about how hurt you will be and leave her. you will find someone better off. and not long enough, she will come begging and please don't get physical before leaving her (I mean don't have sex)
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by durubennie(m): 9:06am On Dec 11, 2018
Lol
If you are not financially stable and not ready to get married don't have a girlfriend
Do this to have peace of mind and to avoid emotional disturbances
Try, hustle and make your money
If you have high sex drive go to a clean brothel find a girl there that's your spec....

Emotional disturbances will hinder you from progression

But our effeminate boys will not listen
Re: Should I Quit My Relationship Because Of This? by SkyUrch(m): 9:07am On Dec 11, 2018
grin this guy sha..I like u
samysmoothfresh:
From your write up, here are


A) Reasons why you should not quit the relationship


1) you love her.


2) you just recovered from a messy relationship and she somehow found a way to break through the barriers you must have set round your heart which means she's prolly special or has something in common with you.



B) Reasons why you should quit the realtionship


1) she doesnt accept her faults and sometimes you have to apologise even when she's wrong..........................she's proud!!


2) she keeps late night, go to concerts at 12am with friends who according to you aren't "presentable"....................she's a slay queen and prolly a wild rebellious one too!!.


3) she puts her friends first before you notwithstanding the fact that you guys who are supposedly in a relationship havent seen in a long while...........................she's insensitive and a member of the "hoes before niggas" gang!!


4) she keeps secrets and claim to "forget to tell you"......................she's not to be trusted!!.


5) she keeps and move with friend who arent "presentable" and by presentable i assume you mean they dress indecently.......................theres a 65% chance her friends are runz girls and an 85% chance she herself is a coded runz girl!!!.




OP, i'm asking you, should you quit the relationship?


yes or no?

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