So I just saw a post where a question was asked about the quickest way to lose a woman and the answer on everyone's lips was that 'be a nice guy'.

So is it that girls are naturally into guys who seem to give little fvck about them, and then play around with the honest ones because they appear too caring.

I'd love to know the thought process behind this odd choice.

A girl will value and respect you if you give her less attention.

There is nothing wrong with being a good guy. The problem with it is good guys tends to say YES at all times, that's the boring part that gets a girl to look out for a more alpha male who balances the rate at which he answers YES and NO to her and furthermore yell at her sometimes to potray dorminace.

If a good/nice guy knows how balance that up. Yall good.


Edited - Girls enjoys attention like thier life depends on it, As long as you posses attributes above, they don't mind leaving thier former attention giver to seek a new attention giver.

Being a good guy pays when you meet a good lady.
You can't be good and expect a wayward partner to appreciate you.

It's one of the worst things you can be.

There is nothing like Good boy or bad boy. Stay true to yourself. Know what you want and what you stand for. Don't compromise against your interest.

what works for others, may not work for you. We have different understanding,emotional stability and psyche. if you want to be committed or expect commitment from your partner in your relationship, you make it work.

Being a player doesn't make one bad boy, it makes one miserable but they won't tell you.

Relationship is not a game you play with codes.

In Olamide's voice " Learner "

Eberechi24:
There is nothing like Good boy or bad boy. Stay true to yourself. Know what you want and what you stand for. Don't compromise against your interest.

what works for others, may not work for you. We have different understanding,emotional stability and psyche. if you want to be committed or expect commitment from your partner in your relationship, you make it work.

Being a player doesn't make one bad boy, it makes one miserable but they won't tell you.

Relationship is not a game you play with codes.

Well taken
A deep look into the persona of one's partner can help them manage the relationship much better. If the wants and needs of both parties appear to clash instead of correlating, then cracks would start to appear.

Sheflex4real:
In Olamide's voice " Learner "

What does this imply?
Well I have had just the one relationship until now, so maybe yes

IamD18:
A girl will value and respect you if you give her less attention.

Not applicable to all ladies, some guys can show less attention, be hard, but when it becomes too much, she'll loose interest in the relationship.