Please help out! It wasn't so before. Am a young married man of 40 years, married 2 years ago.
I am very faithful to my wife and have been blessed with a child. I discovered that recently
I no longer have any urge or passion in sex with my wife. While we make love, I feel very lazy and no
push or urge on my side, though my manhood gets gets erect. I feel very bad. Any solution?

There is no need to freak out. It happens. A lot has happened in the last two years. Her role is not just wife anymore and yours in just not husband anymore. There is a child now and she might not be looking sexy 24/7 like she used to. Tell her your fears and turn the romance back on. Maybe you guys have kind of lost touch a little emotionally. You just have to work at bringing it back. Goodluck

viagra?

He said he gets erect. Do you want him to kill his wife

Outstrip:

There is no need to freak out. It happens. A lot has happened in the last two years. Her role is not just wife anymore and yours in just not husband anymore. There is a child now and she might not be looking sexy 24/7 like she used to. Tell her your fears and turn the romance back on. Maybe you guys have kind of lost touch a little emotionally. You just have to work at bringing it back. Goodluck

^^^Couldnt have said it better

Discuss with her about how to make sex more exciting for both of you! Maybe whisk her away for a weekend somewhere nice(making sure that your child is in safe hands though), you both relax, no distractions, and just concentrate on fanning the passion aflame again.

micklick:

Please help out! It wasn't so before. Am a young married man of 40 years, married 2 years ago.
I am very faithful to my wife and have been blessed with a child. I discovered that recently
I no longer have any urge or passion in sex with my wife. While we make love, I feel very lazy and no
push or urge on my side, though my manhood gets gets erect. I feel very bad. Any solution?

You call 40 yrs young? better go and start counting your grey hairs

jennykadry:

You call 40 yrs young? better go and start counting your grey hairs

Why not 40 yr old man is young. even 55yr old is young. am 48yrs and very active. Na grey hair be d matter? wetin?

e de happen. make man de chop the same soup for two years! ol boy manage am so. na so our papa dem manage our mama.

I wonder why a 40 years old man would say he is young, I beg you are quite old.

Well to the main issue, its just a thing of the mind; you should engage her in romantic talks, watch romantic movies and do things together like you were doing before marriage also if she's changed her dress style after marriage make her go back to dressing like she use to while u were dating and even add a little of provocation to it when she is at home and  probably you are stressed out most times so just try to be relaxed whenever you are with her and do a lot of cuddling and smooching it might help.

You could also try to make your s3x life a little adventurous, try wild and new things with her and before you know u might be looking forward  to having it all the time.

if 40 is old what would u call a 60yr old? i think most of you here are 16yr olds thats why. my wife is 40yrs old and she is so young even after 4 children. a 40 yr old is young.

40 yr old is old for what? for sex? or romance? come on dude, at 48 am cruising in hot romance with my,

wife.

@Poster
So what the heck do you want us to do? Send you some urge through the internet? And where are the chuvinist pigs? I guess if a woman posted this it would have garnered 10 pages by now. Go back to being single and let her find herself a man worthy of her love. Bush thing, Bloody hypocrates, Ufas!

Nwaka77:

@Poster
So what the heck do you want us to do? Send you some urge through the internet? And where are the chuvinist pigs? I guess if a woman posted this it would have garnered 10 pages by now. Go back to being single and let her find herself a man worthy of her love. Bush thing, Bloody hypocrates, Ufas!

Why you dey vex biko

I wonder why a 40 years old man would say he is young, I beg you are quite old.

LMAO spicy honey, you wicked ooooo

@Gadols

why are you taking it personal? a 40 yr old man isnt young it is the hard truth, yes @ 50 people are still agile but there is a difference btw been agile and been actually old. Yes at the old age of 50 people are stil strong but it does not change the fact that they are quite old

LMAO!
Una don finish the guy

He is young and looking for solutions. The state of marriage in Nigeria is well "interesting"

jennykadry:

LMAO spicy honey, you wicked ooooo

@Gadols

why are you taking it personal? a 40 yr old man isnt young it is the hard truth, yes @ 50 people are still agile but there is a difference btw been agile and been actually old. Yes at the old age of 50 people are stil strong but it does not change the fact that they are quite old

I no wicked my dear, I was just being sincere from my heart cause if were him, even if i look and feel like 16, I would just say a man of 40(there is even respect in the sound of it) and not a young man of 40 cause I don't know what a man of 25 will call himself if 40 is a young man

Obviously you two are not evenly yoked. Hopefully her passion is the same as yours or she just might seek something else on the side.

spicyhoney:

I no wicked my dear, I was just being sincere from my heart cause if were him, even if i look and feel like 16, I would just say a man of 40(there is even respect in the sound of it) and not a young man of 40 cause I don't know what a man of 25 will call himself if 40 is a young man

I can imagine this scenario

Question: Why are you not married and when are you thinking of settling down?

40 yr old: No i am not in a hurry afterall I am still a young 40 yr old man