Women, chai!

An average girl/lady has these traits, and the guy go dey form smart and sharp guy...

kenodrill:




Àre you as beautiful as the pics on ur profile?

Lol, that's my cartoon painting.

He will stock the fridge and kitchen with food, then get new movies. There is food, eat what you like and watch movies. He then switches on the cctv camera, goes out and locks me in till he gets back.

THANK GOD I LEFT...........
Exactly.... Thats how they behave

If u dy bad r/ship and u try fixing it but she/he no gree,u beta run o
Most of these stories that touch na bad r/ship oh
Roger3D knows
Cc immhotep sarrki velocity25 DaBullIT

women are usually the accomplice

SAI AtikuObi for better Nigeria

Biglittlelois:



Lol, that's my cartoon painting.

Smile....nice work of art.

Lemme struggle and read this through.... my Patience quotient deminish with excessively long thread..

Richdad50:
Dear Men,
A woman is fully capable of being faithful. Temptation is not her weakness, all she wants is love, attention, honesty and loyalty. Before she cheats, she will wine, cry, and complain about all the things that makes her unhappy. Pay attention to your woman and never make her feel single or she will act as such.

Dear Ladies,
Don’t marry that Man who singles you out from the world. Marry the one to whom you are the world. Such a person is hard to find but easy to love. Such a spouse will stand by your side when the whole world is against you. Why? Because you are their whole world.

#Richdad

story. Even if you do all that to a woman when they are ready to cheat,you wont even know

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Being calm always does not always means being manipulative..... So people are just Naturally calm.. irrespective of the company they are keeping at a time.

theoptimist298:
An average lady embodies all those characteristics

Men are the worst victims Lol

Richard080555:
See post below ����

You should have been a billionaire by now....so why involve others

The number one thing is someone who loves actually listens to you and takes time to check on you not talk over you or drowning you

It can be family too not always boyfriend and girlfriend

dingbang:
6. Playing the victim





Let me paint a scenario for you. You and your partner get into a fight. no matter who was in the wrong, what was said, or what actually went down, your partner is just heartbroken and can't believe you'd hurt them like that. Even if your partner is actually the one who did something wrong, and no matter how you reacted. You're always apologizing Your partner is always hurt and helpless and in need of attention and extra love. It's a way to make you feel like you're a bad, unworthy partner and for them to avoid taking responsibility for their own actions.

What to do

Apologize for what you feel you need to apologize for. Don't give in to your partner's constant attempts to shame you into falling on your sword. Say things like, "I am really sorry I got upset and raised my voice. That was uncalled for. but I won't apologize for being upset about what you did. Here's how that made me feel."

This only happens when people lack the maturity to actually be sorry for their actions or continue to exhibit the previous traits that caused the argument

It triggers the other persons insecurities sort of like ....here we go again

Everything is down to communication sometimes men manipulate this one thing more than women and it’s sad because they know the can

If a man was raised around wolves he will exhibit wolf like mannerisms same as women we all come from somewhere we all have parents that love us they were people before you came let your meeting people elevate them not drag them on the ground

I will always love my guy but I won’t lie to him and be all rosy without saying my mind because I expect the same from him even when he’s nfry I expect him to be considerate. We are a couple that talked about our fears and though it hurt me some of it came to life but I appreciate the experience. Love is either you stay or you continue to threaten to Go

Maturity is recognizing that there’s no one to blame in a game but we can ask how did I contribute to where we are

See today I spent 5 hours configuring ICloud apple to about 4 different customer service pepppe it was the last one that actually new what happened turned out they had put DND on my phone simple thing that takes 5 mins 3 people didn’t bother to ask and troubleshoot same as relationships some just don’t bother to go all the way with you because it’s actually scary giving someone the power to either build or destroy your love.

instead of people to say when you meet I don’t know how to love show me they will almost change the love in your heart out of Fear resist it please there is real love and it doesn’t need money to thrive it needs a caring and thoughtful heart that doesn’t give up easily on both sides

Everyone has great qualities and bad it’s what you see when you see them that sticks

Boo said once I was the first to really trust him completely lol I don’t need video evidence of where you are but our issues are when you lie to me and you know God has told me already don’t just extend the lie be honest and forth right about it

helinues:
Woman are not smart but good manipulator.

I was forming Mr smart but until my eyes open.

If you believe this totally, you're still not smart.

Actually people don't seem to understand the term 'relationship'. Today, people just use relationship as an excuse to say "I want to be commiting furnication with just this person". I guess that's why we have so many abusive relationships.

My current girlfriend is an expert manipulator. This article is for her.

[quote author=Zanxx post=73868064]He will stock the fridge and kitchen with food, then get new movies. There is food, eat what you like and watch movies. He then switches on the cctv camera, goes out and locks me in till he gets back. [/quote


Stop being materialistic and you will be free
Let him know that you love him, not his money
Demand respect..
Respect yourself...both sexes will disregard any partner with low self esteem

[quote author=toscolee post=73872269][/quote]





lol who told you i am materialistic? I loved him with no strings attached. His insecurities made him act that way because his ex wife and girlfriends all cheated on him. I thought he would change, unfortunately he didn't so i left. Its amazing how some of you draw conclusions

Zanxx:






lol who told you i am materialistic? I loved him with no strings attached. His insecurities made him act that way because his ex wife and girlfriends all cheated on him. I thought he would change, unfortunately he didn't so i left. Its amazing how some of you draw conclusions

Sorry

Nice thread OP. Deep stuff, this can happen with parents and friends too.

1Sharon:
Nice thread OP. Deep stuff, this can happen with parents and friends too.

thanks so much. You are right about that too

Richdad50:
Dear Men,
A woman is fully capable of being faithful. Temptation is not her weakness, all she wants is love, attention, honesty and loyalty. Before she cheats, she will wine, cry, and complain about all the things that makes her unhappy. Pay attention to your woman and never make her feel single or she will act as such.

Dear Ladies,
Don’t marry that Man who singles you out from the world. Marry the one to whom you are the world. Such a person is hard to find but easy to love. Such a spouse will stand by your side when the whole world is against you. Why? Because you are their whole world.

#Richdad

God bless you

I guess your posting from experience?

And what will you call a man who loves breaking up and coming back asking for forgiveness?
And are you in a relationship?

dingbang:
6. Playing the victim





Let me paint a scenario for you. You and your partner get into a fight. no matter who was in the wrong, what was said, or what actually went down, your partner is just heartbroken and can't believe you'd hurt them like that. Even if your partner is actually the one who did something wrong, and no matter how you reacted. You're always apologizing Your partner is always hurt and helpless and in need of attention and extra love. It's a way to make you feel like you're a bad, unworthy partner and for them to avoid taking responsibility for their own actions.

What to do

Apologize for what you feel you need to apologize for. Don't give in to your partner's constant attempts to shame you into falling on your sword. Say things like, "I am really sorry I got upset and raised my voice. That was uncalled for. but I won't apologize for being upset about what you did. Here's how that made me feel."

I am or was in a relationship with a guy
The truth I don't know if we have broken up yet
He hurts you with words but won't apologize and even if he's at fault he won't still apologize
He makes you trust him and then he used it against you
Dose that mean he is a manipulator?