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I Need A Boyfriend. by Leendah04(f): 9:18pm On Dec 15, 2018
I am a university graduate who just finished her NYSC program and I'm in need of a boyfriend. I'm currently in search of a job but while at it I'm working part time at a bakery. I've had relationships with men in the past but they have not ended up well, partly because some of the guys I've dated lacked certain traits that I regard as important and they seemed to be more interested in using my body to fulfil their sexual needs that to forge a deep relationship that would grow into marriage. This behavior comes as quite a surprise because although I am attractive I'm also smart and very intellectual and I love engaging in intelligent conversations. I'm not shallow or conceited so I wonder why sex is what most of the guys seem to be interested in when dating me. Another reason my relationships don't work is because some of the guys I date although good looking and caring, aren't very intellectually sound and as driven and motivated as I want.

I have decided to create this account and post this here because I've tried dating sites and they seem to be crawling with Hot men who just want sex. With real life interactions it's difficult to screen men to find the qualities you want you want and it's easier to just list these qualities and allow the men who possess them to find you.

Before I list the qualities I want I'll list mine first:

I'm 21 years old. I'm chocolate skinned. I'm 5ft7. Like I said before I'm a graduate. I've a BSC in medical biochemistry and I'm planning on doing my masters. I don't think my tribe should matter, but I'm Igbo. I love reading, listening to music, cooking, swimming and meeting people. I fall at the middle of the introvert-extrovert spectrum. Sometimes I want to talk to someone and go out and have fun, other times I just want to stay in my room and read or watch YouTube videos all day. I'm a Christian. I'm slim and pretty, and for guys who find this attractive, I have a big chest.

These are the qualities I want in a guy:

You don't have to be too fine, but don't be ugly. Be very intelligent and have an interest in having conversations that cut across a lot of topics. Be at least 2 years older than me. You should be a God fearing christian. You should have a degree and a career. You should be responsible and caring. You should be interested in building a long lasting relationship. Sex shouldn't be all you care about. That's all. If you meet these criteria or know someone who does, send me a message.

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by gypsey(m): 9:23pm On Dec 15, 2018
perhaps you should begin with showing us what you look like, you might be a 75 years old ugly woman/man.


And what does God fearing means? undecided you mean God is that scary that we should be Afraid of Him/her?

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Pharmtj: 9:30pm On Dec 15, 2018
what part of Igbo are you and would you mind someone in the medical line as well?
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Leendah04(f): 9:31pm On Dec 15, 2018
By God fearing I mean having a functional conscience that makes you consider the possible effects of your actions on others and being committed to living a moral life.

I don't feel comfortable uploading my picture here. If you meet my criteria send me a message and if we gel, you'll see what I look like eventually.

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 9:32pm On Dec 15, 2018
Pray hard. I found out that most of the things we love, God hates. Goodluck.

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Leendah04(f): 9:39pm On Dec 15, 2018
Just so that I'll not alienate some people who would want to reach me, but want to see what I look like first, I'll upload a picture of myself on my profile for few hours and I'll remove afterwards.

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by ifex370(m): 9:42pm On Dec 15, 2018
Ritualists everywhere

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Pharmtj: 9:42pm On Dec 15, 2018
Leendah04:
Just so that I'll not alienate some people who would want to reach me, but want to see what I look like first, I'll upload a picture of myself on my profile for few hours and I'll remove afterwards.
cool, reply my pm

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Abortions: 9:47pm On Dec 15, 2018
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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 9:48pm On Dec 15, 2018
Leendah04:
I am a university graduate who just finished her NYSC program and I'm in need of a boyfriend. I'm currently in search of a job but while at it I'm working part time at a bakery. I've had relationships with men in the past but they have not ended up well, partly because some of the guys I've dated lacked certain traits that I regard as important and they seemed to be more interested in using my body to fulfil their sexual needs that to forge a deep relationship that would grow into marriage. This behavior comes as quite a surprise because although I am attractive I'm also smart and very intellectual and I love engaging in intelligent conversations. I'm not shallow or conceited so I wonder why sex is what most of the guys seem to be interested in when dating me. Another reason my relationships don't work is because some of the guys I date although good looking and caring, aren't very intellectually sound and as driven and motivated as I want.

I have decided to create this account and post this here because I've tried dating sites and they seem to be crawling with Hot men who just want sex. With real life interactions it's difficult to screen men to find the qualities you want you want and it's easier to just list these qualities and allow the men who possess them to find you.

Before I list the qualities I want I'll list mine first:

I'm 21 years old. I'm chocolate skinned. I'm 5ft7. Like I said before I'm a graduate. I've a BSC in medical biochemistry and I'm planning on doing my masters. I don't think my tribe should matter, but I'm Igbo. I love reading, listening to music, cooking, swimming and meeting people. I fall at the middle of the introvert-extrovert spectrum. Sometimes I want to talk to someone and go out and have fun, other times I just want to stay in my room and read or watch YouTube videos all day. I'm a Christian. I'm slim and pretty, and for guys who find this attractive, I have a big chest.

These are the qualities I want in a guy:

You don't have to be too fine, but don't be ugly. Be very intelligent and have an interest in having conversations that cut across a lot of topics. Be at least 2 years older than me. You should be a God fearing christian. You should have a degree and a career. You should be responsible and caring. You should be interested in building a long lasting relationship. Sex shouldn't be all you care about. That's all. If you meet these criteria or know someone who does, send me a message.


what you need is a hisband, not a boyfriend.

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by mikejj(m): 9:50pm On Dec 15, 2018
fine girl...i pray you find a good man....

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Preciousify(f): 9:51pm On Dec 15, 2018
I have my boyfriend to give out pls.
I'm tired!
I can give you his details if you don't mind.

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 9:54pm On Dec 15, 2018
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na waoh...as beautiful as u look on ur dp so ordinary bwoyfwennd u cant get..u have to come to nl to search for one sad
oh baby iyam disappointed in u...even upon all those assets wey u carry for chest

Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Abortions: 9:55pm On Dec 15, 2018
Preciousify:
I have my boyfriend to give out pls. I'm tired! I can give you his details if you don't mind.
grin grin

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Pharmtj: 9:56pm On Dec 15, 2018
Preciousify:
I have my boyfriend to give out pls.
I'm tired!
I can give you his details if you don't mind.
this one serious o.e don reach like that.hahaha
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Abortions: 9:56pm On Dec 15, 2018
lefulefu:
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na waoh...as beautiful as u look on ur dp so ordinary bwoyfwennd u cant get..u have to come to nl to search for one sad
oh baby iyam disappointed in u
Just so u know bruh The Fine Ones Are always Lonely

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 9:57pm On Dec 15, 2018
Abortions:
Just so u know bruh The Fine Ones Are always Lonely
not true bros cheesy
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Abortions: 10:00pm On Dec 15, 2018
lefulefu:
not true bros cheesy
Am A Living Testimony cheesy
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Genesiszero: 10:02pm On Dec 15, 2018
Send me a mail.......
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 10:05pm On Dec 15, 2018
Abortions:
Am A Living Testimony cheesy
u mean u have dated a beautiful babe dat was lonely? cheesy
see guy op go don already get 9 guys dying for her case for her area grin
in short lets start with the fellow male corpers heart wey she break when she dey serve cheesy cheesy
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by ednut1(m): 10:13pm On Dec 15, 2018
grin so u think u go see what u want here Madam lower ur standards cos the man u seek. Over 2000 ladies dey hin case. Bt i smell scam sha

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 10:15pm On Dec 15, 2018
Leendah04:
Just so that I'll not alienate some people who would want to reach me, but want to see what I look like first, I'll upload a picture of myself on my profile for few hours and I'll remove afterwards.

You're very pretty and I like you. Lol!

I'm not a lesbian, I just appreciate beauty.

But I think it's somewhat odd. A 21-year old desperately clamouring for a boyfriend. What you need presently isn't a relationship, it's just an added distraction. If you think that you're seriously preparing to get married, fine, dabble into a relationship. Don't lose too much body counts because you want to be 'among'. Most guys out there are just looking for whom to pounce on.

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 10:18pm On Dec 15, 2018
i for say make i import you to my end for abroad but as you say you no like unintelligent people and people wey no like church so try another person.

warning. avoid people with mental problem like that small man with elder0001 handle for nairaland here. i no like him for wetin him the do him ex-woman pocohantas.
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Ranchhoddas: 10:20pm On Dec 15, 2018
I think I have an idea of what you are going through. Meeting people (of both sexes) who are intellectually sound is really hard in this part of the world and can be frustrating for some of us. I am not interested in a relationship ( for now at least) but I would like to be your friend. I will send you a PM.

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by richboy01(m): 10:24pm On Dec 15, 2018
Preciousify:
I have my boyfriend to give out pls.
I'm tired!
I can give you his details if you don't mind.
cheesy cheesy
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 10:25pm On Dec 15, 2018
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ednut1:
;Bt i smell scam sha

Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Lancarrazi(m): 10:29pm On Dec 15, 2018
Girls at 18to 25 their blood too dey rush.. I cant date them. Have suffered in their hands mostly Nigeria girls they are just too ambitious.. n half of dem are prostitute..

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Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Wuraola01(f): 10:32pm On Dec 15, 2018
Lancarrazi:
Girls at 18to 25 their blood too dey rush.. I cant date them. Have suffered in their hands mostly Nigeria girls they are just too ambitious.. n half of dem are prostitute..



shocked shocked Wow
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by ednut1(m): 10:32pm On Dec 15, 2018
UyaiIncomparabl:


You're very pretty and I like you. Lol!

I'm not a lesbian, I just appreciate beauty.

But I think it's somewhat odd. A 21-year old desperately clamouring for a boyfriend. What you need presently isn't a relationship, it's just an added distraction. If you think that you're seriously preparing to get married, fine, dabble into a relationship. Don't lose too much body counts because you want to be 'among'. Most guys out there are just looking for whom to pounce on.



that her chest wont help matters too angry grin. I can bet 80% of those who sent pm go still wan pounce
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by DONADAMS(m): 10:36pm On Dec 15, 2018
a guy should be all these you just listed there very funny...well I can say I fit into 85% of your requirement but the question is what can you offer asides what your counterparts offer?
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by Nobody: 10:39pm On Dec 15, 2018
As i don chase sinaj tire, e be like say i go retire for her matter oo. this linda no bad at all cool
Re: I Need A Boyfriend. by richboy01(m): 10:41pm On Dec 15, 2018
ednut1:
that her chest wont help matters too angry grin. I can bet 80% of those who sent pm go still wan pounce
cheesy no time to waste

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