Jarus:

His question here was not sending him emails, but claiming I got his email thru NL mod privilege. That was what I clarified. of course, he has the right to tell me not to send him email, but to lie about the source, I wont take.

It is clear to see that he complained about your tone of email which he described as threatening. Are you man enough to apologise for the distress you caused him? Are you?. . . May be not.

I can see you're still writhing in pain for your non-inclusion in my list of 50 MEN THAT SHOOK NL 2005-2010. Don't worry, we will give you a look next time
But it may interest you that awards/ranking/rating is not by any means a childish thing. Even a publication as reputable as TIME magazine gives award as Man of the year etc. Top 10, Person of the Year, and other forms of ranking/awards is done everywhere. Socome up with another argument

Now, you really are coming across as thick. This is not about me receiving nomination, but the fact that these award-thread bears no relation whatsoever to politics section. Like I mentioned before, your criteria are flawed, biased and lacks nothing new and more a case of doing something for yourself. You know, the need to feel important and be perceived as you actually know what you are talking about or be influential and that is me putting it politely.


It is a bit deluded to compare your amateur approach to a reputable organisation like TIME. I suppose that point highlighted what I meant by the feeling of "self importance". I think you will find it is a psychological condition called "Delusion of Grandeur".

No offence, but Tumfulu and co. can even do a better job, and that is saying something.

@El razur
out of curiousity, if someone told you your tone was threatening, would you apologize?

Having known you quite well on this forum, I have come to know you thrive on irrational arguments. What I find amusing about you is that you try to present yourself as one fierce, knowledgeable critic, a la Gani Fawehinmi, an informed one - criticizing everything and every one -, but the more you try, the more you come across as one opinionated, yet unprincipled guy that thrives on irrational arguments. I always ignore people like you, even though I'm far from being a gentleman.

A few questions:
Don't you think you you need to check yourself when 95% of the contributors okayed the 'award' stuff which was pure fun, but you saw it otherwise, went ahead to open your thread, but ended up being another MamaGee Vs 190 play ground?
Is it a co-incidence that you started criticizing me around since I did that thread on NL 50 and your name was not there?
Can you tell me what is unrelated to Politics in POLITICS SECTION POSTER OF THE YEAR and POLITICAL PERSONALITY OF THE YEAR?

And FYI, Xavier you're defending here, has been my very good friend on NL for over two years now and we both respect each other, inspite of our frequent disagreements.

netotse:

@El razur
out of curiousity, if someone told you your tone was threatening, would you apologize?

If the subject matter of the email was threatening. Yes I will.

Clearly, Xavier felt it was threatening hence why he raised the issue, but trust Jarus to defend his position.

Jarus:

Having known you quite well on this forum, I have come to know you thrive on irrational arguments. What I find amusing about you is that you try to present yourself as one fierce, knowledgeable critic, a la Gani Fawehinmi, an informed one - criticizing everything and every one -, but the more you try, the more you come across as one opinionated, yet unprincipled guy that thrives on irrational arguments. I always ignore people like you, even though I'm far from being a gentleman.

I remember asking you if you will apologise or not. Clearly, you see the need to divert the issue here.

You keep comparing me to Gani. If memory serves me correctly, this is the second time. Unlike you, I do not have a big enough ego to make such comparison or accept such comparison. Neither do I suffer from self-delusion to wax lyrical about that.

I respect what the man did in his life time and if you can acheive a fraction of his achievement, then you will have more sense in you than the garbage you post on this forum.

On the flip side, I am willing to accept I am opinionated. If I don't have shitttt to say about anything, I won't be here registered and making contributions. So in other words, it is a bit ironic that you call me such, when same can be said about you.

A few questions:
Don't you think you you need to check yourself when 95% of the contributors okayed the 'award' stuff which was pure fun, but you saw it otherwise, went ahead to open your thread, but ended up being another MamaGee Vs 190 play ground?
Is it a co-incidence that you started criticizing me around since I did that thread on NL 50 and your name was not there?
Can you tell me what is unrelated to Politics in POLITICS SECTION POSTER OF THE YEAR and POLITICAL PERSONALITY OF THE YEAR?

I think you need to check that 95% of your so called approval rating comes from your nominees and winners who are coincidently on your yahoo chat list. Remember? Again for the Nth time, this is not about me. Check my previous reply in response to your claims. (Go back and read my replies, the answers are in there)

Since you lack the ability to understand Sarcasm, my thread is a mockery of your award thread to show you that anyone can be biased and give anything to any dick and harry. But I guess you lack the logic to understand this.

And FYI, Xavier you're defending here, has been my very good friend on NL for over two years now and we both respect each other, inspite of our frequent disagreements.

You have now confirmed that you are thick. So because he is your so called "friend" means it is okay to send threatening emails? Are you this daft? Heck, it shows how silly you are. So you have "known" him for two years, but still opt to send him a threatening email. Where is your logic? Again I am asking you, will you be man enough to apologise to him or would you keep talking about me (Since talking about me seem to make your have a hard-on **rolleyes**)

I stand by my claim that I did not threaten him, I only warned him to back off:

Here is our exchange:

ME 2 HIM

Dude, what exactly is your problem? Anytime you come to Nairaland, all you do is find my posts, derail it and give it religious undertone. This stalking is getting out of hand, and I wonder what your problem is. Go spit your jealousy elsewhere pls. Please be warned. Back off pls. 
Jarus

HIM 2 ME
To be published verbatim as soon as he gives me permission. But the import was he said I was flattering myself and said he would, going forward, be avoiding my threads

ME 2 HIM, RESPONSE

My message to u is simple: back off. Stop chasing me around. Perhaps that will heal your insecurity.

I may not be nice in my mails to him, but definitely not a threat. And who will be nice when warning somebody that provoked you?

Jarus, when does niceness stop and threats begin? You are no Xavier, and as such if he feels your email comes across as a threat, then the least you can do is apologise. No?

@Razur
we've finally seen the mails that Jarus sent to the guy, and i'm sure at the very least, you'll agree with me that if it was you that sent that mail to the guy nothing would make you apologize. . .that's what i was driving at when i asked you the question up there^. . .so can we please drop the 'threatening' thing? una just dey clog up my "updated topics" for nothing now. . .haba!!!

ElRazur:

Jarus, when does niceness stop and threats begin?

ok, this comes to me as a threat too. Apologize 

I have had to apologize on this forum before(even on this thread) when I realized the other party was right. But this one, no way. I did not threaten him, I only warned him and I don't have any regrets. I will not apologize. Get that.

Jarus:

ok, this comes to me as a threat too. Apologize 

I have had to apologize on this forum before(even on this thread) when I realized the other party was right. But this one, no way. I did not threaten him, I only warned him and I don't have any regrets. I will not apologize. Get that.

Again you have tried to defend your character via citing some past event. At this point, it means very little to the point at hand.

So let me get this straight, you had a run-in or locked horns with Xavier, then in your awesome logic, you remembered his personal email he used at some point and then proceeded to email him and in your own words [b]"warned him" [/b]but you really do not see this as a threat. Are you kidding me?

Gosh, how many people you argue with then go around emailing them over a disagreement on a forum?

Furthermore, the excerpts from the email exchange you posted had phrases like "back off" in it (I have a feeling there may be more) but you STILL do not see this as a form of mild threat at the very least?

I have stated from the onset, that I do expect you to fully stand on your point of view and not offer an apology. So it is not a big deal or surprise that you are now doing exactly that. Pfft, no be you?

The OP of the thread below is posting facebook pages and information of people that have no knowledge of this.It is an invasion of their privacy and unfair. Can the facebook pages be taken down,moderator?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-537422.0.html

chyz:

The OP of the thread below is posting facebook pages and information of people that have no knowledge of this.It is an invasion of their privacy and unfair. Can the facebook pages be taken down,moderator?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-537422.0.html

Thanks for calling my attention to it. Attended to.

Please can you assist in restoring my posting priviledge, i placed an advert for a job based on the information given to me by a friend,the post was not displayed and i was banned. Username is maddock and the post is still very useful if you can restore it. Thank you.

ebube 2:

Please can you assist in restoring my posting priviledge, i placed an advert for a job based on the information given to me by a friend,the post was not displayed and i was banned. Username is maddock and the post is still very useful if you can restore it. Thank you.

Next time, when Spambot is not allowing you to post a topic( by making your thread/post invisible) just report straight rather than keep trying. If you continue posting it, you will be banned like this.

I have messaged the Supermod to restore your thread and unban you.

Jarus:

Next time, when Spambot is not allowing you to post a topic( by making your thread/post invisible) just report straight rather than keep trying. If you continue posting it, you will be banned like this.

I have messaged the Supermod to restore your thread and unban you.

Thanks Jarus. But how i resend that post that started this whole thing. The positions are still very relevant and urgent,how do i go about reposting it so that i wont be banned again, as my ebube 2 has already been banned because of this same vacancy.

maddock:

Thanks Jarus. But how i resend that post that started this whole thing. The positions are still very relevant and urgent,how do i go about reposting it so that i wont be banned again, as my ebube 2 has already been banned because of this same vacancy.

Don't worry, you dont need to repost. The one you posted will be made visible as soon as the Supermod restores it.

@JARUS
Why did you closed the thread i started on Tafawa Balewa?
so it makes sense to you for someone to JAIL SOMEONE WITHOUT PROVEN ALLEGATIONS EXCEPT "MY HANDS ARE TIED" JARUS, YOUR UNFAIRNESS AND PARTIALITY IS UNRIVALED THROUGHOUT THE WORLD
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-540990.0.html

seanet02:

@JARUS
Why did you closed the thread i started on Tafawa Balewa?
so it makes sense to you for someone to JAIL SOMEONE WITHOUT PROVEN ALLEGATIONS EXCEPT "MY HANDS ARE TIED" JARUS, YOUR UNFAIRNESS AND PARTIALITY IS UNRIVALED THROUGHOUT THE WORLD
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-540990.0.html

Thread locked for the following reasons:
Abusive: Calling TB insane. Highly disrespectful to Nigerian nationalists
Meaningless: Other than to stir tribal war

But I have deleted some posts, removed the insulting part of the title, and re-opened it.

Thread still under close watch, if it degenerates into throwing of insults and cursing, I'll send to the recycle bin, permanently.

Jarus:

Thread locked for the following reasons:
Abusive: Calling TB insane. Highly disrespectful to Nigerian nationalists
Meaningless: Other than to stir tribal war

But I have deleted some posts, removed the insulting part of the title, and re-opened it.

Thread still under close watch, if it degenerates into throwing of insults and cursing, I'll send to the recycle bin, permanently.

For God sake, that is only what you saw? What about those that want AWO to rot away in jail?

But, dude, honestly, what do you gain in all these tribal rants? All these Awo is bad, Zik is bad, TB is bad, Ahmadu Bello is bad threads seriosuly irritate me.
Definitely, this is not Awoism. You don't love Awolowo more than Bola Ige or even my biological dad, but reading supposed schooled adults thrive on infantile arguments like thsi sickens me.

Guys, we need to grow. Let's discuss their policies, their legacies, their programmes, their struggle for independence, not some tales about who killd who, who starved who.

Awo himself will not be proud of this.

Jarus:

But, dude, honestly, what do you gain in all these tribal rants? All these Awo is bad, Zik is bad, TB is bad, Ahmadu Bello is bad threads seriosuly irritate me.
Definitely, this is not Awoism. You don't love Awolowo more than Bola Ige or even my biological dad, but reading supposed schooled adults thrive on infantile arguments like thsi sickens me.

Guys, we need to grow. Let's discuss their policies, their legacies, their programmes, their struggle for independence, not some tales about who killd who, who starved who.

Awo himself will not be proud of this.

until we solve the red post

seanet02:

until we solve the red post

Wanna engage in English grammar competition with me?

Jarus, can you please lock up this thread?
There's no fact, no reasoning, nothing. It'll start up another tribal mudsling.

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-540990.0.html

does ghana speak english more then nigeria,pls inbox me

Let me use the indian way to address u because u are the moderator. Sri jarus, pls why was the topic 'not a wonder bank, but promising' i started on 30th oct. 2010 locked? There was no foul language, etc there. Thanks

Nsiman:

Let me use the indian way to address u because u are the moderator. Sri jarus, pls why was the topic 'not a wonder bank, but promising' i started on 30th oct. 2010 locked? There was no foul language, etc there. Thanks

That post was caught by Spambot, and it actually looked like a spam, if not one.
We will look into it and see if it deserves reinstatement

Jarus, Thanks

This post titled "Gej's Visit To Kano. Pls,it's Not A War" by Saidsalla, is all over and has defaced the Politics Section. Do reduce it to only post/thread, please. Thanks,

jamace:

This post titled "Gej's Visit To Kano. Pls,it's Not A War" by Saidsalla, is all over and has defaced the Politics Section. Do reduce it to only post/thread, please. Thanks,

Thanks.

Pls sri jarus, kindly unlocked my topic 'not a wonder bank, but promising'. I am on mobile so when i post at times it don't load but b4 i know it has duplicated. If it appeared spam it wasn't intentional. Thanks

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-545067.0.html#msg7074954

Jarus can you plz visit this thread, I left you a question there. Thanks.