How long can you wait after toasting or wooing a lady. in those days, people wait for long before the lady says yes. You, how long can you wait for a lady to reply your toast of "NO", "YES", "I HAVE SOMEONE"

(a) 1 day

(b) 1 week

(c) 2 weeks

(d) 1 month

(e) 3 months

(d) 6 months

(e) 1 year

(f) 12years

These days responses are instant....it all depends on your willingness backed by your ability to spend some money around ......

Don't quote me ooo
Cos it doesn't apply to all chicks

Right there when I ask you.



Reason is, I can't meet you right now & ask you out immediately (except its a hookup).
I will usually let you spend sometime with me before I make my move.

So if after all you've seen & know about me, you still "need time to think", then you're not what I'm looking for.

I don't check back for a response.
If I don't get my answer right there, I assume its a "No" & move on.

I don't even want "pity relationships".


Those that bugged me after waiting & waiting for me to check back either ended up severely fvcked & dumped or they deleted my number in anger at my 'shakara'.

Am a 1min man so 1min is ok

olsome:
How long can you wait

(a) 1 day

(b) 1 week

(c) 2 weeks

(d) 1 month

(e) 3 months

(d) 6 months

(e) 1 year

(f) 12years

u forgot to mention 24 years also, how can a reasonable man wait for a lady response for 12 years. op, take time

If she can't decide in one week then am going to give her 60 yrs so that we won't meet again..

I don't think any guy who really love a girl will have a "SPECIFIC" time for her to respond to his advances. I mean in Nigeria, you have to toast and toast again, even while you're dating you will still be toasting to ensure she stays with you

To answer your question sha, I don't really know cause my ex and current girlfriend gave me their reply on the spot

Oma307:

u forgot to mention 24 years also, how can a reasonable man wait for a lady response for 12 years. op, take time

Lol

DanDeeBoss:
Highest two days...

Ahh. Really :?

No chill at all

SmellySperm:
Am a 1min man so 1min is ok

Lmao

Wuraola01:


Lmao

sweetheart shebi u no won chat with me, u dey shun me

Wuraola01:



Ahh. Really :?

No chill at all

I cannot wait for two weeks or a month, then get "no" as an answer.... .....

SmellySperm:

sweetheart shebi u no won chat with me, u dey shun me

Of course not

Not shunning u

DanDeeBoss:
I cannot wait for two weeks or a month, then get "no" as an answer.... .....

Ohh. So if you wait 2 days and the girl says no, It won't pain you too much abi

Wuraola01:



Ohh. So if you wait 2 days and the girl says no.
It won't pain you too much abi

Yeah... You know some ladies with their "lemme Goan think about it"....

Madness, go and make money n see them woo you

Wuraola01:


Of course not
Not shunning u

Am taking note of ur snubs...

LuciferGospel:
Right there when I ask you.



Reason is, I can't meet you right now & ask you out immediately (except its a hookup).
I will usually let you spend sometime with me before I make my move.

So if after all you've seen & know about me, you still "need time to think", then you're not what I'm looking for.

I don't check back for a response.
If I don't get my answer right there, I assume its a "No" & move on.

I don't even want "pity relationships".


Those that bugged me after waiting & waiting for me to check back either ended up severely fvcked & dumped or they deleted my number in anger at my 'shakara'.

Dope One Here Gee, U just Educated A Niqqa! Thanks.

DanDeeBoss:
Yeah... You know some ladies with their "lemme Goan think about it"....

Lol. I know right

Girls sha

SmellySperm:

Am taking note of ur snubs...

How many is down

Wuraola01:



How many is down

The one u did in da afternoon plus dis evening own that's 2

Mine will be highest 3 mnths,after that game over!

SmellySperm:

The one u did in da afternoon plus dis evening own that's 2

You're really counting for me

Okay. I'm sorry, then
Ur meme tho

Kidaholic:
I don't think any guy who really love a girl will have a "SPECIFIC" time for her to respond to his advances. I mean in Nigeria, you have to toast and toast again, even while you're dating you will still be toasting to ensure she stays with you

To answer your question sha, I don't really know cause my ex and current girlfriend gave me their reply on the spot

weak man spotted. How you go dey toast ur girl to remain with. Believe me when these stupid nairaland boys say girls like being partially ignored, they didn't lie. Be the alpha male, treat them like trash and atimes, treat them like they are the most precious thing on earth and you've got yourself a lapdog.

Eagba:
weak man spotted. How you go dey toast ur girl to remain with. Believe me when these stupid nairaland boys say girls like being partially ignored, they didn't lie. Be the alpha male, treat them like trash and atimes, treat them like they are the most precious thing on earth and you've got yourself a lapdog.

My Life, My Problem
When you get yours, treat 'em like trash.
Mind you, there's a huge difference BTW toasting and bugging, girls hate being bugged all the time and yes that's where the partially ignore part comes to play. Toasting on the other hand implies remind
/showing her how much love her, little things you do that makes her feel you
Take me for example, I'm a guitarist (acoustic) so I sing her love song like Ed Sheeran's "All of the stars" which she enjoy so much, at times she even asks me to play something for her during calls.

If I am what you call a weak man, then I'm proud to be one!

Wuraola01:



You're really counting for me
Okay. I'm sorry, then Ur meme tho

Hum ! Older User ?

Kidaholic:

My Life, My Problem
When you get yours, treat 'em like trash.
Mind you, there's a huge difference BTW toasting and bugging, girls hate being bugged all the time and yes that's where the partially ignore part comes to play. Toasting on the other hand implies remind
/showing her how much love her, little things you do that makes her feel you
Take me for example, I'm a guitarist (acoustic) so I sing her love song like Ed Sheeran's "All of the stars" which she enjoy so much, at times she even asks me to play something for her during calls.

If I am what you call a weak man, then I'm proud to be one!

My friend wee you keep kwayet

Kidaholic:

My Life, My Problem
When you get yours, treat 'em like trash.
Mind you, there's a huge difference BTW toasting and bugging, girls hate being bugged all the time and yes that's where the partially ignore part comes to play. Toasting on the other hand implies remind
/showing her how much love her, little things you do that makes her feel you
Take me for example, I'm a guitarist (acoustic) so I sing her love song like Ed Sheeran's "All of the stars" which she enjoy so much, at times she even asks me to play something for her during calls.

If I am what you call a weak man, then I'm proud to be one!

My friend wee you keep kwayet

Instant reply may be safer.

Ladies should learn to say YES or NO on time. Imagine a lady, after keeping you for 2months, will then say "NO" or "I have someone"

Hafeexla:
Hum ! Older User ?

No. New