Something has really been bothering me for a while now.

Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a broke girl?

I mean:

A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.

A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.

Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and complaining she doesn't have airtime.

I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation; where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?
Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?
Or is she a ghost worker?

(NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men)

How do some guys manage to date such ladies?
No wonder suicide and depression victims are mostly men.

See guy, don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.

Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual intelligence and other intelligence.

Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul (an average man has enough storms); and not someone who adds stress to your life.

And most guys are still dating these broke ladies just because they think they're so gorgeous or hot, and they're so lucky to be dating them, and would probably not find another woman as gorgeous and flawless like their broke girlfriends.

Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just because of her physical beauty.
They're actually a lot of extremely gorgeous and beautiful ladies with common sense.

So don't ever think of settling for less brother.

One thing I've realized about all these broke girls is not that they don't actually have money...
Most of them do; but it's just that they're mentally broke, which is way way worse than not having money.

Ladies please don't be mentally broke.
Guys please don't date mentally broke girls.

Yes, I've broken another table today!

The issue is alot of guys dont really care, they have the money to lavish on those broke girls. And its these girls that call you stingy, girls that dont know what its like to work hard

Bro in all honesty, its really frustrating, mentally and physically. I cant try that nonsense anymore

Honestly with the complexity of the nation economy,it's not advisable to keep friendship with guys(male&female)who add no value to your life.

Biingoo u make sense

Papasmal:
Honestly with the complexity of the nation economy,it's not advisable to keep friendship with guys(male&female)who add no value to your life.

Biingoo u make sense

Bless up bruh! Please I don't need any female monikers input here ooh! This thread is strictly for my fellow male folks. Thank you

op i feel you... there is more to life than being in a serious relationship... most Nigeria girls are broke and hungry but they will still form I don't collect from guy.. be wise

it goes both ways too, ladies don't also date a broke guy. if he is broke in cash at least he shouldn't be broke in vision.

but generally, the number of Broke Girls is thrice the number of Broke Guys.

hypergamy is really helping this country to improve it's standard of living.

most girls are broke and lack idea of how to hustle legitimately with their legs closed.

can't deal.


even though some guys are also broke, at least, they don't have an entitlement mentality.

but most girls ?? tueh !!

I can't deal abet

When you meet your supposed financial stable woman, your insecurities set in.


The truth is that Nigerian men are yet to get to that stage where they accept independent woman.
If she isn't bossy, she disrespectful...

Eberechi24:
When you meet your supposed financial stable woman, your insecurities set in.


The truth is that Nigerian men are yet to get to that stage where they accept independent woman.
If she isn't bossy, she disrespectful...

that hairstyle tho..

Eberechi24:
When you meet your supposed financial stable woman, your insecurities set in.


The truth is that Nigerian men are yet to get to that stage where they accept independent woman.
If she isn't bossy, she disrespectful...

Backup with reasons your first sentence. When you're financially stable and you're dating a girl who's financially stable, then that relationship is defined.

Insecurities arises if the equation is not balanced. Have a thought why the rich marries the rich; financial stability, insecurity level at 0%.

Nigerian men are becoming wise every second. Those who are financially stable settles for ladies who are financially stable, except for rare cases where the lady stood for him when he was nobody.

No man in today's world wants liability. No man in Nigeria wants a lady who can't support him financially, when he's down.

So, 'insecurities' has nothing in common with this thread.

MetroBaba1:

Backup with reasons your first sentence.

you be metroboomin brother

Eberechi24:
When you meet your supposed financial stable woman, your insecurities set in.


The truth is that Nigerian men are yet to get to that stage where they accept independent woman.
If she isn't bossy, she disrespectful...

Don't mind them. They are looking for a soft feminine who is also a king kong ''do it herself'' warrior woman, they have to choose one. Either feminine or less feminine

TimiRume:
Don't mind them. They are looking for a soft feminine who is also a king kong ''do it herself'' warrior woman, they have to choose one. Either feminine or less feminine

Don't Ass Lick Bro.
No benefit

MetroBaba1:


Don't Ass Lick Bro.
No benefit

Its not asslicking, its facts you weak beta male. How about you stand on your own for once instead of hiding behind other men or worse sucking their d***s for free

MetroBaba1:


Don't Ass Lick Bro.
No benefit

You made your comment, nobody attacked you. Let the guy be.

Eberechi24:


You made your comment, nobody attacked you. Let the guy be.

My Bad please. I dey sorry

TimiRume:
Its not asslicking, its facts you weak beta male. How about you stand on your own for once instead of hiding behind other men or worse sucking their d***s for free

Your thoughts are in order, They would be the one to complain that woman is controlling, bossy and disrespectful.
They want to eat their cake and have it.

TimiRume:
Its not asslicking, its facts you weak beta male. How about you stand on your own for once instead of hiding behind other men or worse sucking their d***s for free

Intelligent replies ONLY please

MetroBaba1:


My Bad please. I dey sorry

I mentioned you on a thread, go and read the comments from men.

Everything in life swings back to a position of balance. Nigerian women are the way they are because Nigerian men contributed to it. Women need men just as men need women. Although, when the male thirst and desperation becomes desperately toxic, then expect treatment like this.

The women I have dated contributed in my life and personal growth. Without them, I won't be where I am today. If guys stop this thirst and obsession with female validation, women will adapt to the need of the dating marketplace if they, want to be in a relationship. So far, it's the men doing most of the adaptation which is not sustainable at all.

Eberechi24:

Your thoughts are in order, They would be the one to complain that woman is controlling, bossy and disrespectful.
They want to eat their cake and have it.

And they are not most of the time, ie the controlling bossy thing they like to throw around when they are intimidated by classy hardworking women. You can't judge people you don't even approach. These guys have a lot of shortcomings they don't want women to see, low class women won't but quality women would. They would want more from a man, and these guys can't meet up so the settle for less, and still complain.

TimiRume:
And they are not most of the time, ie the controlling bossy thing they like to throw around when they are intimidated by classy hardworking women. You can't judge people you don't even approach. These guys have a lot of shortcomings they don't want women to see, low class women won't but quality women would. They would want more from a man, and these guys can't meet up so the settle for less, and still complain.

Oga please carry your gf and leave my thread biko

Eberechi24:
When you meet your supposed financial stable woman, your insecurities set in.


The truth is that Nigerian men are yet to get to that stage where they accept independent woman.
If she isn't bossy, she disrespectful...

says who? I like independent ladies, so speak for your brothers and not all Nigeria men.thanks

Biingoo:
Oga please carry your gf and leave my thread biko

See them, weaklings You can't take what you dish out all the time. I'll remain on this thread as long as my attention is needed.

TimiRume:
See them, weaklings You can't take what you dish out all the time. I'll remain on this thread as long as my attention is needed.

But you are not a man na but a lady.

LordSaints:
But you are not a man na but a lady.

I can choose to be anything i want on a faceless forum

TimiRume:
I can choose to be anything i want on a faceless forum

i know, but you are a female.

LordSaints:
i know,but are a female.

No i'm not

Eberechi24:

Your thoughts are in order, They would be the one to complain that woman is controlling, bossy and disrespectful.
They want to eat their cake and have it.

lol you never wise up reach.
Why would a woman be bossing me because she is buying her own clothes? I'm not telling her to take care of me I'm only telling her to sort her shiit out
Only balless men try to buy a woman's respect

Biingoo:
Bless up bruh! Please I don't need any female monikers input here ooh! This thread is strictly for my fellow male folks. Thank you

I don laff burdt today o. Lol at you've broken.some.tables.today

TimiRume:
No i'm not

Yes you are