A lot of ladies have fallen victim to truncating their life purpose for a few minutes of pleasure. He busts his nuts, depositing his seed. Higher chances, you didn't even achieve orgasm but you are left with the short end of the stick for 9 months then the rest of your life and you are left in the realm of singlemotherhood being a burden to yourself, parents and society while he has denied you and moved on.

What is the cause of this worldwide epidemic of single mum and babymama syndrome. It is simple evolutionary biology. A man is wired to want to sow his seed to ensure the continuity of his legacy so he looks for a womb that will do just that this is why men are seen to be polygamous. While women are the gatekeepers carefully selecting whose seed is worthy of nuturing into the world. Only the strong survive.

This is one of the sacred reasons the institution of marriage was created. It also creates a safe haven for the nuturing of the young to be useful in society. It also ensures the highest chances of their survival

You become a single mother when you ignore your instinct and get pregnant for an unworthy man who deceived you with flowery words and empty promises. He is effeminate and is not masculine enough to provide for you and his family. So you raise his children then he lays claims to finished products.
. Baby mamas take it a step further by eliminating the stress by letting the father or some other man provide, but that model can only last for so long before you go back to singlemotherhood.

My solution is simple, if you are not ready to shoulder the responsibility of single parenthood. Don't get pregnant by employing any suitable contraception method. if you do, abort that weak spawn from a weak man at the hands of a licensed professional. If that is not your cup of tea. Go through hormonal changes and increasing belly for 9 months, go into labor and experience the worst pain in your life and don't let that cuteness and helpless package decive you into cutting your options short and not pursuing your ambition for longer than 3 months. Wrap the child in a Christmas basket and kindly drop him off at his/her father's door and watch of he won't take care of his child. Men do what they do be cause they know u will pick up their slack while it is business as usual with the latest skirt in town. Responsibility. Ladies don't overburden our orphanges. Let the father raise up his child. Learn your lesson, pick up

pieces and move on with your life.

To the ladies out there don't allow a man to play bet9ja with your womb

Declaimer: This doesn't apply to widows or women who want and can afford to care for a child without the other package

Topsyvic:

merry Christmas

I get your point though its not easy cos you know that irresponsible man may not take care of the child the way you as the mother will care for your child

I like that...if he gets you pregnant and won't take full responsibility, wrap up the sweet little baby and drop in his house.

Then let the script play out.

[quote author=funmisticqueen post=74170455]A lot of ladies have fallen victim to truncating their life purpose for a few minutes of pleasure. He busts his nuts, depositing his seed. Higher chances, you didn't even achieve orgasm but you are left with the short end of the stick for 9 months then the rest of your life and you are left in the realm of singlemotherhood being a burden to yourself, parents and society while he has denied you and moved on.

What is the cause of this worldwide epidemic of single mum and babymama syndrome. It is simple evolutionary biology. A man is wired to want to sow his seed to ensure the continuity of his legacy so he looks for a womb that will do just that this is why men are seen to be polygamous. While women are the gatekeepers carefully selecting whose seed is worthy of nuturing into the world. Only the strong survive.

This is one of the sacred reasons the institution of marriage was created. It also creates a safe haven for the nuturing of the young to be useful in society. It also ensures the highest chances of their survival

You become a single mother when you ignore your instinct and get pregnant for an unworthy man who deceived you with flowery words and empty promises. He is effeminate and is not masculine enough to provide for you and his family. So you raise his children then he lays claims to finished products.
. Baby mamas take it a step further by eliminating the stress by letting the father or some other man provide, but that model can only last for so long before you go back to singlemotherhood.

My solution is simple, if you are not ready to shoulder the responsibility of single parenthood. Don't get pregnant if you do, abort that weak spawn from a weak man at the hands of a licensed professional. If that is not your cup of tea. Go through hormonal changes and increasing belly for 9 months, go into labor and experience the worst pain in your life and don't let that cuteness and helpless package decive you into cutting your options short and not pursuing your ambition for longer than 3 months. Wrap the child in a Christmas basket and kindly drop him off at his/her father's door and watch of he won't take care of his child. Men do what they do be cause they know u will pick up their slack while it is business as usual with the latest skirt in town. Responsibility. Ladies don't overburden our orphanges. Let the father raise up his child. Learn your lesson, pick up

pieces and move on with your life.

To the ladies out there don't allow a man to play bet9ja with your womb

Declaimer: This doesn't apply to widows or women who want and can afford to care for a child without the other package
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Brilliant, this is new.york.times.quality

chiommy123:
I get your point though its not easy cos you know that irresponsible man may not take care of the child the way you as the mother will care for your child

that is not your problem. You have done your part, don't be suckered into that mindset

funmisticqueen:
that is not your problem. You have done your part

don't worry until you push then you'll understand

chiommy123:
don't worry until you push then you'll understand

I agree with the oP,,simple kweshion,why bring a child one is not ready for into the world?

chiommy123:
don't worry until you push then you'll understand

I will only push when I know the child has a father who is going to buy him pampers. That mindset is just your ego speaking. What if you die in childbirth?(cos it happens a lot) Will your ghost look after the child?

funmisticqueen:
I will only push when I know the child has a father who is going to buy him pampers. That mindset is just your ego speaking. What if you die in childbirth?(cos it happens a lot) Will your ghost look after the child?

iam talking about a woman that is alive. Most women prefer taking care of their children themselves

chiommy123:
I never said its good to have a child outside marriage but it's difficult for a mother to throw her young child out like that

This is what the oP implies,when you can't take.care of a child.independently(assuming the guy can leave at anytime), don't get preggy, and.seriously,if ladies are.more.conscious of the.consequences of.sex just as the oP is trying to let them know,there qould be fewer babymamas. Even as a man,i made it clear to myself since 21,no 7 digits,no babies and i held on to it,its abput having sound principles and sticking to it ma,not have an unplanned baby andjping in and out of crisis to take care of the child

chiommy123:
iam talking about a woman that is alive. Most women prefer taking care of their children themselves

Are you for real? Destructive and damaged psyche is such a woman that prefers this,should one lick honey and speak it out?

kunleweb:


This is what the oP implies,when you can't take.care of a child.independently(assuming the guy can leave at anytime), don't get preggy, and.seriously,if ladies are.more.conscious of the.consequences of.sex just as the oP is trying to let them know,there qould be fewer babymamas. Even as a man,i made it clear to myself since 21,no 7 digits,no babies and i held on to it,its abput having sound principles and sticking to it ma,not have an unplanned baby andjping in and out of crisis to take care of the child

I never encouraged having babies outside marriage. But mistakes happen. So you'll opt for abortion if any mistake happens

chiommy123:
I never encouraged having babies outside marriage. But mistakes happen. So you'll opt for abortion if any mistake happens

Stop adding.emotions,no one is.condemning.you,the thread is just a thread,you're bringingit close.to yiu and its clear you're in such situation, sstop brihing ot close to you. I didn't have a kid before now cause i.planned not to have now till my.finance ws strong,so i couldnt have jad one just like that,its a planned voluntary action madam. Just had my first kid and i thank myself i made the right decision choosig to attain.financial independence before women

it's simple, loose women fornicate cos they chosed shaitan as friend and lord, thereby following his ways

Well written.

Every action has a corresponding responsibility and a risk attached to it. Humans are a product of pleasure. 5-10 minutes pleasure and the rest of our lives becomes a burden and challenge to our parents.

As a man, I take up the responsibility of my action and ladies should also have such understanding. When shit happens, it isn't time to do the blame game, neither is it time for logical thinking that should have been done before caressing started from kisses to Mouth Gig to moaning.

Your last recommendation is only practicable online or in words/theory. Only on a rare case do we find such happening and happens to ladies who never went to school.

Every child deserves a parent, to be cared for and love. A child shouldn't suffer because someone is trying to get justice.

kunleweb:



Are you for real? Destructive and damaged psyche is such a woman that prefers this,should one lick honey and speak it out?

yes iam for real and no the person is not damaged. You just don't understand the bond BTW mother and child

Lol, so after all the pains of labour, the woman will just wrap up the child like a Christmas gift to the so-called irresponsible father?? Easy to say tho.

chiommy123:
don't worry until you push then you'll understand

Don't mind that heartless fellow. She can even settle down with a dog, so long as the owner is rich.
And what if the man is a victim of misfortune ? Can't you leave your life without a man providing for you ?
My advice to ladies is to mingle with responsible men but always ensure you can handle whatever that comes out of engaging in premarital sex

chiommy123:
yes iam for real and no the person is not damaged. You just don't understand the bond BTW mother and child

Babe, you just nailed it!

chiommy123:
yes iam for real and no the person is not damaged. You just don't understand the bond BTW mother and child

Who owns the baby? What you're saying and the topic are two different issues, are you living with your husband let me ask first

kunleweb:



Stop adding.emotions,no one is.condemning.you,the thread is just a thread,you're bringingit close.to yiu and its clear you're in such situation, sstop brihing ot close to you. I didn't have a kid before now cause i.planned not to have now till my.finance ws strong,so i couldnt have jad one just like that,its a planned voluntary action madam. Just had my first kid and i thank myself i made the right decision choosig to attain.financial independence before women

you're funny so anyone that trys to make a thread more clearer is in such conditions? Iam not even near it but I still understand that it maybe easy for a guy to say that but quite difficult for a lady. Iam being real here

mrphysics:
Well written.

Every action has a corresponding responsibility and a risk attached to it. Humans are a product of pleasure. 5-10 minutes pleasure and the rest of our lives becomes a burden and challenge to our parents.

As a man, I take up the responsibility of my action and ladies should also have such understanding. When shit happens, it isn't time to do the blame game, neither is it time for logical thinking that should have been done before caressing started from kisses to Mouth Gig to moaning.

Your last recommendation is only practicable online or in words/theory. Only on a rare case do we find such happening and happens to ladies who never went to school.

Every child deserves a parent, to be cared for and love. A child shouldn't suffer because someone is trying to get justice.

Both parties take up responsibility for there actions, not just the man. It's all hands on the desk

chiommy123:
you're funny so anyone that trys to make a thread more clearer is in such conditions? Iam not even near it but I still understand that it maybe easy for a guy to say that but quite difficult for a lady. Iam being real here

Talk.id cheap,why am.i stepping.over your emotions all.over the place?

chiommy123:
yes iam for real and no the person is not damaged. You just don't understand the bond BTW mother and child

lol. Bond nkor, James bond ni. What of the bond between babies abandoned in the dustbin or pit toilet and their very much alive mothers. What of women who suffer from post partum depression and psychosis and want to kill themselves and/or their child. It is only a woman who doesn't know how to run their lives that use the motherhood bond as an excuse. I have seen a lot of mothers hate their child as soon as they push it out. I have also seen families hate their child asa result of the circumstances surrounding its birth or because the child is deformed or disabled. I have seen mothers telling me to waste their children for them and/ or abandon them in the hospital for such reasons. I have seen a pregnant girl and her patner rejoice when she gave birth to a dead baby. WHERE IS THIS ULTIMATE BOND YOU TALK ABOUT?

Use to crush on this babe but the kinda things I'm seeing these days...

Kidaholic:


Babe, you just nailed it!

if you like deposit and go. You will receive your package in nine months time

funmisticqueen:
if you like deposit and go. You will receive your package in nine months time

From you? lwkm

Kidaholic:
Use to crush on this babe but the kinda things I'm seeing these days...

I just feel responsibility should go both ways.

Kidaholic:

From you? lwkm

like I will allow sucha thing without the full package