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funmisticqueen:
lol. Bond nkor, James bond ni. What of the bond between babies abandoned in the dustbin or pit toilet and their very much alive mothers. What of women who suffer from post partum depression and psychosis and want to kill themselves and/or their child. It is only a woman who doesn't know how to run their lives that use the motherhood bond as an excuse. I have seen a lot of mothers hate their child as soon as they push it out. I have also seen families hate their child asa result of the circumstances surrounding its birth or because the child is deformed or disabled. I have seen mothers telling me to waste their children for them and/ or abandon them in the hospital for such reasons. I have seen a pregnant girl and her patner rejoice when she gave birth to a dead baby. WHERE IS THIS ULTIMATE BOND YOU TALK ABOUT?

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Madam, wait until it happens to you

funmisticqueen:
like I will allow sucha thing without the full package

Who knows? Life's full of surprises!

Kidaholic:
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Madam, wait until it happens to you

it won't I will carefully select the most worthy man to impregnate me.

funmisticqueen:
lol. Bond nkor, James bond ni. What of the bond between babies abandoned in the dustbin or pit toilet and their very much alive mothers. What of women who suffer from post partum depression and psychosis and want to kill themselves and/or their child. It is only a woman who doesn't know how to run their lives that use the motherhood bond as an excuse. I have seen a lot of mothers hate their child as soon as they push it out. I have also seen families hate their child asa result of the circumstances surrounding its birth or because the child is deformed or disabled. I have seen mothers telling me to waste their children for them and/ or abandon them in the hospital for such reasons. I have seen a pregnant girl and her patner rejoice when she gave birth to a dead baby. WHERE IS THIS ULTIMATE BOND YOU TALK ABOUT?

i know the pit toilet thing was going to come up but I'll say those guys are not normal or they've been given to a reprobate mind. And talking about what we've seen, I have also seen a woman cry and beg God and ask people to pray for her just to have a child. Any at all she don't care if its male or female. Just someone to call her mummy

Kidaholic:


Who knows? Life's full of surprises!

Not that kinda surprise. It will never reach that stage. Ladies you contraception games should be on point

chiommy123:
i know the pit toilet thing was going to come up but I'll say those guys are not normal or they've been given to a reprobate mind. And talking about what we've seen, I have also seen a woman cry and beg God and ask people to pray for her just to have a child. Any at all she don't care if its male or female. Just someone to call her mummy

that is a whole different angle. She can do IVF or adopt. Someone will still call her mummy

funmisticqueen:
I just feel responsibility should go both ways.

Yea' but you're being rash with it Listen to yourself sometimes bae', you sound like an extremist

funmisticqueen:
Not that kinda surprise. It will never reach that stage. Ladies you contraception games should be on point

Gbam. That's the point,preventing unwanted.pregnancies is way cheaper than bearing the consequences of having it

Kidaholic:


Yea' but you're being rash with it Listen to yourself sometimes bae', you sound like an extremist

She has never been my fan, but all she said ob this thread is spot on. Having a chid is a viluntary action not some consequence, bro,grow some balls and man up if you want a child

Kidaholic:


Yea' but you're being rash with it Listen to yourself sometimes bae', you sound like an extremist

so what do you propose. Most times the bed solutions are the hardest to digest

kunleweb:



She has never been my fan, but all she said ob this thread is spot on. Having a chid is a viluntary action not some consequence, bro,grow some balls and man up if you want a child

thank you. The truth is never easy to swallow

funmisticqueen:
it won't I will carefully select the most worthy man to impregnate me.

worthy? with what I've seen so far, a man worthy of you is yet to be created

Got a friend who's alone and pregnant. Offcourse the guy escaped after all the fun, stopped picking her calls and messages. This was the same guy that traveled all the way from the east to visit her o.

We'll she can't even abort it cos they told her she will forfeit her life if she trys again... Yea she tried flushing it but baby no gree.

Kidaholic:

worthy? with what I've seen so far, a man worthy of you is yet to be created

Smh,kids.


Worthy = Quality

Kidaholic:


Yea' but you're being rash with it Listen to yourself sometimes bae', you sound like an extremist

Not extremist, just blunt enough to drive the message home. In my line of work. I only know one single mother. And that was before she graduated school. others occur due to death of spouse or it is very rare. All of you cancelling my post don't want to face reality

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Got a friend who's alone and pregnant. Offcourse the guy escaped after all the fun, stopped picking her calls and messages. This was the same guy that traveled all the way from the east to visit her o.

We'll she can't even abort it cos they told her she will forfeit her life if she trys again... Yea she tried flushing it but baby no gree.

Girls and flushing. How much is contraceptive.

funmisticqueen:
that is a whole different angle. She can do IVF or adopt. Someone will still call her mummy

that's the bond I was talking about. Truth is the love you have for your own child is different

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Got a friend who's alone and pregnant. Offcourse the guy escaped after all the fun, stopped picking her calls and messages. This was the same guy that traveled all the way from the east to visit her o.

We'll she can't even abort it cos they told her she will forfeit her life if she trys again... Yea she tried flushing it but baby no gree.

how did she try? Did she do it with a licensed obstetrician or quack. In casesloke that make your decision before 8 wks or give the child up for adoption to an infertile couple.

chiommy123:
that's the bond I was talking about. Truth is the love you have for your own child is different

No, that is the lie society feeds you.

kunleweb:



Girls and flushing. How much is contraceptive.

much more expensive than 50 naira condom

funmisticqueen:
No, that is the lie society feeds you.

lie? That's why I said you should not bother yourself until you cry and push for hours then you'll understand better. Just remember someone told you

funmisticqueen:
No, that is the lie society feeds you.

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Kidaholic:

worthy? with what I've seen so far, a man worthy of you is yet to be created

he is out there and probably older and more mature than you

funmisticqueen:
so what do you propose. Most times the bed solutions are the hardest to digest

Obviously I didn't oppose your post, what I don't fancy is the idea of packaging a child to a run-away father That's extreme! and I can tell you vividly, no sane woman will do that to her child whether the father be a bastard or not!
You might be a nurse and had seen a lot of similar harsh cases, probably that's why its easy to say for you, but don't encourage it as if it should be a norm Just saying tho.

funmisticqueen:
[color=#000099][/color]he is out there and probably older and more mature than you

Really? You and I know you don't believe that

funmisticqueen:
Not extremist, just blunt enough to drive the message home. In my line of work. I only know one single mother. And that was before she graduated school. others occur due to death of spouse or it is very rare. All of you cancelling my post don't want to face reality

Well, you've been driving plenty recently Yea' and you still sound like one

Extremist + Feminist = Feministicqueen? Try changing your moniker

funmisticqueen:
A lot of ladies have fallen victim to truncating their life purpose for a few minutes of pleasure. He busts his nuts, depositing his seed. Higher chances, you didn't even achieve orgasm but you are left with the short end of the stick for 9 months then the rest of your life and you are left in the realm of singlemotherhood being a burden to yourself, parents and society while he has denied you and moved on.

What is the cause of this worldwide epidemic of single mum and babymama syndrome. It is simple evolutionary biology. A man is wired to want to sow his seed to ensure the continuity of his legacy so he looks for a womb that will do just that this is why men are seen to be polygamous. While women are the gatekeepers carefully selecting whose seed is worthy of nuturing into the world. Only the strong survive.

This is one of the sacred reasons the institution of marriage was created. It also creates a safe haven for the nuturing of the young to be useful in society. It also ensures the highest chances of their survival

You become a single mother when you ignore your instinct and get pregnant for an unworthy man who deceived you with flowery words and empty promises. He is effeminate and is not masculine enough to provide for you and his family. So you raise his children then he lays claims to finished products.
. Baby mamas take it a step further by eliminating the stress by letting the father or some other man provide, but that model can only last for so long before you go back to singlemotherhood.

My solution is simple, if you are not ready to shoulder the responsibility of single parenthood. Don't get pregnant if you do, abort that weak spawn from a weak man at the hands of a licensed professional. If that is not your cup of tea. Go through hormonal changes and increasing belly for 9 months, go into labor and experience the worst pain in your life and don't let that cuteness and helpless package decive you into cutting your options short and not pursuing your ambition for longer than 3 months. Wrap the child in a Christmas basket and kindly drop him off at his/her father's door and watch of he won't take care of his child. Men do what they do be cause they know u will pick up their slack while it is business as usual with the latest skirt in town. Responsibility. Ladies don't overburden our orphanges. Let the father raise up his child. Learn your lesson, pick up

pieces and move on with your life.

To the ladies out there don't allow a man to play bet9ja with your womb

Declaimer: This doesn't apply to widows or women who want and can afford to care for a child without the other package

Nice one, this is the question I kept asking myself and those ladies getting Preggy and raising those kids without their father's support.
Can't they go and drop that child for his father to train? Why overburden yourself all in the name of training another man's child.

Men are quick to lay the blame on lady by telling them why didn't they take pill or know their ovulation, but has forgotten at the same time; that they are the root cause of all these, he had his chance of using condom, avoiding the sex and all others; yet, the blame goes to the lady alone.

Nonsense, any lady that gets preggy for someone as weak as that, needs to be flogged.

lol....romance section and immature human beings

did she just said wrap the baby?

This mumu girl again. See wetin you wake up by 6AM to write.
Talk is cheap. If like say you dey follow your own advice e for better.

kunleweb:



Girls and flushing. How much is contraceptive.

I think contraceptives do fail or maybe mutation occurs.

Idk.

kunleweb:



Smh,kids.


Worthy = Quality

Oga, define it what ever way that suits your calibre, she still won't consider you

Kidaholic:

Obviously I didn't oppose your post, what I don't fancy is the idea of packaging a child to a run-away father That's extreme! and I can tell you vividly, no sane woman will do that to her child whether the father be a bastard or not!
You might be a nurse and had seen a lot of similar harsh cases, probably that's why its easy to say for you, but don't encourage it as if it should be a norm Just saying tho.

when it becomes a norm we will see aa reduction in the amount of runaway dads. Imagine iof a man got like 2 babes pregnant. He won't be in a haste for baby mama 3

Ranchhoddas:
This mumu girl again. See wetin you wake up by 6AM to write.

Talk is cheap. If like say you dey follow your own advice e for better.

I already follow my advice by preventing such