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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by abiaumo(m): 2:59pm On Jan 08
OgaBuhari:
gosh my story bro.
You really nailed it.
Got entangled with a liability who had nothing to offer and had to deceive me up with sex and all in the name of trust, I lashed her raw without cd for nearly a year.
Finally cast her out of my life after I realized she wasn't adding anything to my career.
Now I lashed her without knowing her status sad


Damm!! Bro. Nothing do u sha.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by millionboi2: 3:09pm On Jan 08
selfwife:
I once gave love a trial. we trusted each other explicitly. I could breathe love. I was working(i made sure I never made the mistake of asking for anything) he was working. he was a single father and I accepted him and is baby (the baby already called me big Mummy). we had goals, dreams, to me, everything was damn set. we were planning to get married,we got the parents involved, excitement was everywhere.... Suddenly, I started seeing him with small small stuffs like nice clothes and perfumes that I knew he didn't buy(we buy on budget) I became inquisitive. I will never check my man's phone.... so I took him out that weekend as usual, made sure he drank double of what he is used too( though he can still talk sense) I started asking questions and he replied (he was now going out with a rich ex who was ready to give him this and that -all material things) I told him that with a steady growth, we will achieve all her promises.......... the next week, he told me not to come to his place again that he will look for another means for us to meet each other by now, I was in tears, I cried my eyes out, what will I tell everybody? for what reason? money? I forgot about my health, bp start to go up.headache.me that have hormonal issues before hmm my body was in a mess. I increased the number of Guinness I took per day, I ate uncontrollably. I couldn't figure out what I did wrong. I called and called. I cried and cried and yes I ate and ate. I landed in the hospital my blood pressure was high something I never experienced before.................... to cut the long story short, I tooky life my the horn..... I had no savings again all spent at the hospital, I took a loan, and got a room apartment, I changed my church, and changed those contacts (our mutual fake friends) he is now with the woman and I am now with my peace of mind......... ........I Am happy to inform you that as of yesterday, he is looking for a divorce lawyer because everything did not turn out as expected.HE THINKS HE CAN COME BACK AND I LAUGH IN MY LANGUAGE because my peace can not be compromised.
touching
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by lordizak(m): 3:18pm On Jan 08
[quote author=missimelda01 post=74554697]

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Sweetheart.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Zhahovic(m): 3:22pm On Jan 08
there is no love without money
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by XxSabrinaxX(f): 3:50pm On Jan 08
Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.

If someone is making you miserable, don't just take it in order to make them happier.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by boomssey(f): 3:51pm On Jan 08
Itzurboi:
Please, is dat u on ur dp...
yup!
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by HellVictorinho(m): 5:06pm On Jan 08
XxSabrinaxX:
Don't set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.

If someone is making you miserable, don't just take it in order to make them happier.
Yea,And your profile pic is BEAUTIFUL+SEXY=GLORY DEPICTED.
Your smartness will definitely round it off to WONDERS. cool
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Valerie47(f): 5:11pm On Jan 08
If they decide to go, let them go, don't give a flying mess, its better to be single than date some people.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by XxSabrinaxX(f): 5:13pm On Jan 08
HellVictorinho:

Yea,And your profile pic is BEAUTIFUL+SEXY=GLORY DEPICTED.
Your smartness will definitely round it off to WONDERS. cool

LMAO!! Thnks grin
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Oluwafisayo007(m): 5:47pm On Jan 08
NEVER TRUST A B1TCH.........#SIMPLE...
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by dasilver20(f): 5:59pm On Jan 08
[quote author=mikaelangelov post=74548676]It's not yet an ex relationship but I believe by weekend it will be.

I've been too easy and simple for the bae aswear, and even she herself says that, I girl I've never shouted on before, never cheated on her, she will never say that I've failed getting her whatever she's requested for, a girl that I've fed comfortably since early 2018 till now, just name it, yet bae still got the guts to cheat me countless times, cheated on me with random guys that can't even match my shoes even though they're all older than I am, aborted babies for them and I still care for her, buying her life relief drugs during the recuperating stages thinking it's menstrual related issues, got her a job so she wouldn't be idle, best way she could make me proud is to become a cum-bag to .up till now am still hurting my heart still bleeds sometimes i jst feel lyk love is a waste of time nd I knw hw it feels to lov nt to be loved in return its d worst feeling bt reconsider ur white bea option
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by dasilver20(f): 6:02pm On Jan 08
Mikaelangelov pls dnt take decisions in anger as in review ur white bae option
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by gudugudumeje: 6:21pm On Jan 08
Taking note of the tell-tale signs but failing to act on it fast enough... Mistakenly believing I am being tolerant. But finally I acted though late somehow having lost some good,big money I shouldn't have spent on her way back in 2016...Guys ad babes shd get to know those tell signs ad act fast; though not too fast...
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by hansomb: 6:50pm On Jan 08
chiefqueen:
Nah. Wasn't into any of them.
but have u been in a relationship b4 ?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by medolab90(m): 6:59pm On Jan 08
Hmmm things happens in this world of ours oo
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 7:53pm On Jan 08
alfredo4u:



U have not been in love before....... Sometimes people do crazy things for love....






Mand u no be the same........ Maybe ur family genre is that of hating and not caring...... Mine is of love and caring


Mr lover man

Woman never choke hand inside ur eye b4....keep it up
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 8:05pm On Jan 08
NUJABEZ:



Please teach me. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. I don't wanna fall a victim.

Sorry man to hear ur heartbreak
The tin is its either u are wise or d lady is wiser than u
Both of u can't b wise at d same time, one must b smarter than the other, bro I don't really know how old u are, but if u still young, go and chase your dreams, your priorities right now shouldn't be about ladies cus I suspect d lady u are after or who recently broke ur heart should b within d age range of 18-25 years and u kw what I call that age (boiling point age) becus they are never satisfied,even if u buy a lady within dat age bracket a range rover or build a duplex for her d chances of she sticking with u for life is very low.


Bro dis is 2019 wake up
My guy just hit 10 billion base on contact, if I lie make I die, men are making money history are changing everyday, na woman u wan make history for?

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Spectre007: 10:40pm On Jan 08
OgaBuhari:
contraceptives Ke?
Raw oga.
The risk was that I didn't carry her to the lap o know her hiv status and that was a huge risk
u didn't get my point Oga,what i meant was... How were you able to avoid getting her pregnant while going raw with her all these years/months?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 11:08pm On Jan 08
Evercurious:



Pls dont say so.. True love still exist

Sure true lve definitely exist, but d only tru lve I see each time I turn my neck is my family true lve which is unconditional, ,if u look very well without being taken back by a time traveling machine u will know there is a clear difference between true love before and now

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 11:11pm On Jan 08
smeag0l:
Never date a lady that's not working. She'll just end up milking you dry. I tried it last year when I was dating a lady in Abuja. I pay her flight tickets(return) to come see me in my location. I take care of her and even send her between 30-50k almost every month(I wasn't giving her an allowance but just helping with basic needs). Mind you, the money wasn't my problem as this wasn't even up to 20% of my monthly income. However, this girl was till not loyal as she calls another guy to come pick her from the airport in Abuja whenever she leaves. I also later found out that she was secretly having an affair with someone that works with one of these agencies that arrange holiday flight bookings and accommodation for people. I just stopped talking with her after so many confrontations and denials. Never give a girl that's not your wife, sister or mother money except you just want to help the person. Now, I only roll with ladies in my class-ladies that have well paying jobs!

That's d difference between dating a GIRL AND dating A MATURE GIRL ,big difference day
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 11:26pm On Jan 08
mamaafrik:
help and love ,can you please explain??,thank you

As u grow older u will understand, ,no matter how I explain it, it can come biting in another form at u , it's psychology, ,,,,

,wen entering a relationship try study behavior, and keep d secret to ur self, dont ever out of over love let ur code out of d bag, becus ur babe will call u as a mentally unstable person or insecure person
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 11:30pm On Jan 08
skolawale:
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Bro, u just spoke a FACT about Lady of nowadays.. They pretend to Love u as You dey Spend or sponsor them. Immediately, u re out of Cash or gat other tinx to attend to or u gat Challenge, then broda, You see their Definition of So Called LOVE.

I don wise sha..

No b only u, ,,,,living in nigeria alone is headache, then having a mentally unstable girl is headache x2
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by larryking540: 11:31pm On Jan 08
MannieA:





wow.

U kw it
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Perfectnumber6(m): 11:31pm On Jan 08
slowbreeze:


Arrogant scum;clearly cheating and expecting one to accept his nature & endure;that they mean nothing; tight-fisted with money inspite of him being the better earner;someone in this century that believes that all women who are smart & have a career/successful business will make bad wives & dat all women belong to za oza room & kitchen;and d list goes on and on.......Smh
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This is really strong probably the guy was raised up this way you know, Or he might have passed through some hard time making money so he’s trying to be prudent with every single penny he gets .

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by chiefqueen(f): 11:43pm On Jan 08
hansomb:
but have u been in a relationship b4 ?
Nah.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 12:00am On Jan 09
larryking540:


Sure true lve definitely exist, but d only tru lve I see each time I turn my neck is my family true lve which is unconditional, ,if u look very well without being taken back by a time traveling machine u will know there is a clear difference between true love before and now

Yea you are right..
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 12:29am On Jan 09
PrinceBBlack:
Well for me, i had a girl who i met in 2016. She is currently in her final year and i work with Nigerian Breweries in Enugu. I give this babe a monthly allowance of 50k while she doesnt even get 10k from being that her parents are in the village and he uncle gives her schoolfees.
First, i realized that i loved her so much with my heart that i forgot to use my head. I had a car accident in 2017. i was in the hospital for four months and then relocated to Ibadan where i was till september in 2018 where i was recouperating getting ready for a final surgery. I got her an Iphone X in that same september. In october, i told her that i was no longer getting salary that i wont be able to keep up with the 50k allowance but i could still manage 25k. Do u believe this girl said she cant come to Ibadan cos its far to visit and that i reduced the allowance i give her that what is 25k going to do for her. She finally said if i cant carry out my duty as a bf, that i should let her be. Well it was easy for me... i could part with the money but i personally sent someone to collect the Iphone X i bought for her and told her that the phone isnt my problem but she is an ungrateful piece of a person. Broke up with her and the phone is still in my wardrobe with full accessories since its not up to 1month i bought it waiting for the next person. I didnt love with my head but loved with my heart. If u dont take care of them, na war, if u do, na still wahala.


Thanks for going that extra mile inasmuch as it was to the wrong person.. It"s well with you
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Evercurious(f): 1:02am On Jan 09
Speedyconnect15:


What's the diff between help and love?


its all same. Relationship is business.

Strictly business.


Help and love are not the same
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Bobbyshafto: 6:00am On Jan 09
Damn! You're so pretty. Would like to make good friends with you if you don't mind. I sent you a PM already. Check your email for a connect msg from me.
meelahgold:
Loving him with all my heart.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by chigoizie7(m): 9:14am On Jan 09
I can't love any woman again. never.
if they ain't gaining much from u. they wont be with u.

if someone else is giving them a little above what you give, they will go.

have so much to tell, story for another day.


the only love I know has been my family.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by chigoziri2403(m): 3:48pm On Jan 09
missimelda01:

Right away cheesy
still waiting
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by missimelda01(f): 4:47pm On Jan 09
chigoziri2403:
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