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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by LyfeJennings(m): 9:11pm On Apr 03
OgaBuhari:
gosh my story bro.
You really nailed it.
Got entangled with a liability who had nothing to offer and had to deceive me up with sex and all in the name of trust, I lashed her raw without cd for nearly a year.
Finally cast her out of my life after I realized she wasn't adding anything to my career.
Now I lashed her without knowing her status sad

Don't tell me U are HIV positive as a result?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by OgaBuhari: 11:12pm On Apr 03
LyfeJennings:

Don't tell me U are HIV positive as a result?
and na akwa ibom girl. Heard they're the number one state with HIV patients. Mehn God dey my side after jare
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mayort12(f): 11:38pm On Apr 03
That's how I decided to ask bae what the future holds for our almost 7years relationship oo( we met when we were very young). Settling down is not in his short term plans at all, he wants to work, hustle for cash, go for his masters before even thinking about settling. It's not like I'm in a hurry but I don't think I'd be able to wait that long when there are others that can't wait to start a family with me, besides I have lots to do with my life too and I intend starting early. The thing just tire me because I love this guy.
What will you guys advice?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Preshy561(f): 11:47pm On Apr 03
mayort12:
That's how I decided to ask bae what the future holds for our almost 7years relationship oo( we met when we were very young). Settling down is not in his short term plans at all, he wants to work, hustle for cash, go for his masters before even thinking about settling. It's not like I'm in a hurry but I don't think I'd be able to wait that long when there are others that can't wait to start a family with me, besides I have lots to do with my life too and I intend starting early. The thing just tire me because I love this guy.
What will you guys advice?
Move on, don't wait for him.
He isn't serious with you atall.
Such a time waster.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by united442(m): 12:02am On Apr 04
mayort12:
That's how I decided to ask bae what the future holds for our almost 7years relationship oo( we met when we were very young). Settling down is not in his short term plans at all, he wants to work, hustle for cash, go for his masters before even thinking about settling. It's not like I'm in a hurry but I don't think I'd be able to wait that long when there are others that can't wait to start a family with me, besides I have lots to do with my life too and I intend starting early. The thing just tire me because I love this guy.
What will you guys advice?

women age way too fast..
biology clock is not on there side as they say.

you might end up waiting for him and las las,he go Bleep you up..

though its up to you to wait or not.

for me,see if you can talk him up, tell him your mind and hear what he has to say.

waiting for another extra 2-3year is still a good trygrin "only if and only the oboki is serious ooh"

or rather,you know the next optgringrin

now i understand why people say women dnt end up marrying who they lovegrin
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Budline(m): 1:59am On Apr 04
[quote author=ucosuagwu post=74549089]

My brother you are just killing yourself... Na wa, wants you to spend hell on her first before date?? Which kin nonsense be that, bro commot.[/quote

That one no like you. She just won scam you. There are tons of them like that these days. Wise up pal.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Budline(m): 2:00am On Apr 04
ucosuagwu:


My brother you are just killing yourself... Na wa, wants you to spend hell on her first before date?? Which kin nonsense be that, bro commot.


That one no like you. She just won scam you. There are tons of them like that these days. Wise up pal.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mikaelangelov: 6:30am On Apr 04
uchechefaith:


never believed someone like you is still on this planet, are u an angel?
Lolz I'm no angel, I'm just a man that knows his flaws but work towards being flawless
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mayort12(f): 11:09am On Apr 04
Thanks,
Not that he isn't serious at all,
He has good intentions too,his timing isn't just in line with mine
Maybe he just believes that I'll be there waiting for him
quote author=Preshy561 post=77244858]
Move on, don't wait for him.
He isn't serious with you atall.
Such a time waster.[/quote]
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mayort12(f): 11:16am On Apr 04
You're very correct,
What do I talk to him about, you guys know yourselves. He will start to think I'm bugging him on marriage issues and all that.
I thought of waiting too,but is it advisable? I'm 26 now, in 2 years time, I'll be 28.
united442:


women age way too fast..
biology clock is not on there side as they say.

you might end up waiting for him and las las,he go Bleep you up..

though its up to you to wait or not.

for me,see if you can talk him up, tell him your mind and hear what he has to say.

waiting for another extra 2-3year is still a good trygrin "only if and only the oboki is serious ooh"

or rather,you know the next optgringrin

now i understand why people say women dnt end up marrying who they lovegrin
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by vingeophysicist(m): 11:19am On Apr 04
mayort12:
That's how I decided to ask bae what the future holds for our almost 7years relationship oo( we met when we were very young). Settling down is not in his short term plans at all, he wants to work, hustle for cash, go for his masters before even thinking about settling. It's not like I'm in a hurry but I don't think I'd be able to wait that long when there are others that can't wait to start a family with me, besides I have lots to do with my life too and I intend starting early. The thing just tire me because I love this guy.
What will you guys advice?
Stick with him .please don't transfer your degraded pussy to an innocent man.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by SpeedyData: 7:27pm On Apr 04
mayort12:
That's how I decided to ask bae what the future holds for our almost 7years relationship oo( we met when we were very young). Settling down is not in his short term plans at all, he wants to work, hustle for cash, go for his masters before even thinking about settling. It's not like I'm in a hurry but I don't think I'd be able to wait that long when there are others that can't wait to start a family with me, besides I have lots to do with my life too and I intend starting early. The thing just tire me because I love this guy.
What will you guys advice?

This is a tough decision. Irrespective of the advice given, you at end will be solely responsible for any decision you make.

@the bolded sounds contradictory also.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Fourwinds: 8:00pm On Apr 04
larryking540:
No matter how beautiful a lady is,her heart might not be beautiful, and no matter how ugly a lady is her heart might not be as ugly as she is,

Look b4 u leap, ,,,,some females are after help not love so b careful , I have quickly learnt to differentiate between help and love when asking a lady out
very true... Some ladies are after help...
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mayort12(f): 11:18pm On Apr 04
Thanks,
Mr nondegraded dick. cry wink
vingeophysicist:

Stick with him .please don't transfer your degraded pussy to an innocent man.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mayort12(f): 11:19pm On Apr 04
Thanks,
How are the statements contradictory?
SpeedyData:


This is a tough decision. Irrespective of the advice given, you at end will be solely responsible for any decision you make.

@the bolded sounds contradictory also.

Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Popmaster2019(f): 11:27pm On Apr 04
The metamorphosis of a shining medulla is not equivalent to a spectacular speculum.


Meaning:
Not all that glitters is gold.

Please watch my YouTube skit. click on the YouTube link on my signature.
t thanks
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by vingeophysicist(m): 6:51am On Apr 05
mayort12:
Thanks,
Mr nondegraded dick. cry wink
Somebody has service your engine for good 7 years and you want to pass the same engine to an innocent man . Allow the man continue his good work or is the man tired already.
I pray you don't pass that engine to someone I know because I will be the first to raise the alarm .Youth of nowadays , if you can allow an ordinary boyfriend to service your engine for 7 years what will you remain for your future hubby. Spit!!!

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Chimezie198(m): 7:09am On Apr 05
vingeophysicist:

Somebody has service your engine for good 7 years and you want to pass the same engine to an innocent man . Allow the man continue his good work or is the man tired already.
I pray you don't pass that engine to someone I know because I will be the first to raise the alarm .Youth of nowadays , if you can allow an ordinary boyfriend to service your engine for 7 years what will you remain for your future hubby. Spit!!!
is it your sister's engine she's servicing? Wetin be ur problem sef
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by vingeophysicist(m): 7:24am On Apr 05
Chimezie198:
is it your sister's engine she's servicing? Wetin be ur problem sef
Why will she stay a relationship for that long . It is morally wrong to even do that , this is the reason why ladies stay single for ever.If you could have full package of a particular product will you go extra miles to spend more on it.The guy is just tired nothing more.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mayort12(f): 11:52am On Apr 05
Oga, just chill ehn.. smileyeveryone is not like you who has to service and be serviced. Out of everything I said, that was the only thing you could think of, you try. Thank you.
vingeophysicist:

Somebody has service your engine for good 7 years and you want to pass the same engine to an innocent man . Allow the man continue his good work or is the man tired already.
I pray you don't pass that engine to someone I know because I will be the first to raise the alarm .Youth of nowadays , if you can allow an ordinary boyfriend to service your engine for 7 years what will you remain for your future hubby. Spit!!!
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mayort12(f): 11:54am On Apr 05
smiley
Chimezie198:
is it your sister's engine she's servicing? Wetin be ur problem sef
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mayort12(f): 12:02pm On Apr 05
Lol, seriously? What's the morally wrong thing about it? What full package? Guy, I'm not like that at all, just remove all those servicing things from your head and think straight. You can't just open your mouth and start spitting rubbish. During these 7 years, we've never even had sex ever.
Please, just keep your opinions if you don't have something meaningful to contribute.
vingeophysicist:

Why will she stay a relationship for that long . It is morally wrong to even do that , this is the reason why ladies stay single for ever.If you could have full package of a particular product will you go extra miles to spend more on it.The guy is just tired nothing more.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by vingeophysicist(m): 12:50pm On Apr 05
mayort12:
Lol, seriously? What's the morally wrong thing about it? What full package? Guy, I'm not like that at all, just remove all those servicing things from your head and think straight. You can't just open your mouth and start spitting rubbish. During these 7 years, we've never even had sex ever.
Please, just keep your opinions if you don't have something meaningful to contribute.
I'm really sorry dear .I just hate the moral decadence occurring in our society .I thank God for you , at least you kept what made you a woman .

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mayort12(f): 10:41pm On Apr 05
smiley
vingeophysicist:

I'm really sorry dear .I just hate the moral decadence occurring in our society .I thank God for you , at least you kept what made you a woman .

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Greatzeus(m): 4:10pm On Apr 06
Yuneehk:
Are the female folks this bad? 90% of the comments are centered on how they love cheating, and money. Where do y'all meet these ladies? Good ones still abound, same way bad men still abound. Life can be so unfair that a good lady, is given a bad man and vice versa. One just has to look properly, before leaping.
I like your smile wink but you look so very young,cute though smiley
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Yuneehk(f): 5:43pm On Apr 06
Greatzeus:

I like your smile wink but you look so very young,cute though smiley
Well, some of us look way younger than our real ages. What they call stainless body, e no dey old. Thanks for the compliment tho cheesy
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Youngpo413: 7:43am On Apr 07
pansophist:


Well, I should be lucky in relationship I guess. I've never hold any woman with money, and usually I'm the one breaking things off. I think if money is the only value a man has, then women will always leave.
you have a hardworking dîck daz all.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mapist(m): 12:32pm On Apr 07
Okworigeorge:
Money over bitches

CONSTANTLY.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mapist(m): 12:48pm On Apr 07
Penisinpenisout:



So na una dey place women on salary? I thought it was a myth.

I swear cheesy grin grin
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mapist(m): 1:11pm On Apr 07
OgaBuhari:
shut up hypocrite.
It's all naija girls except u are American

Make she dey deceive herself. Smh.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mapist(m): 1:16pm On Apr 07
OgaBuhari:
why are u so keen on this?
Oh u want me to expose your fellow hoes (you inclusive).
I'll ask u a question.
Why is it that if an alpha male working in a reputable company let's say Shell, ExxonMobil or Chevron walks up to girls (that's if you're worth it cos ur type looks like those cheap girls that attracts Okada and Keke drivers).
Why is it that you'll accept him instantly? Cos he has money (your god) and you'll be submissive to his dictates and he'll use u the way he wants and even if you catch him cheating you'll keep quiet cos u got no choice..
My advise for you is get a career for yourself and be an independent woman if your own and stop chasing these rich men if not you'll end up as a ritual victim.
NB : I'm working with Exxon and my eyes have seen things and I've lost interest in naija girls

You need not be with Exxon before you get to see these things; these days, na to play along sure pass. No need to kill myself with worries.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by mapist(m): 1:33pm On Apr 07
BronzeMajik:
Sis, I regret meeting him, I entered into the relationship with 6 figures in my account, made extra more, the young man was always having financial issues, always asking for loans I know he wouldn't be able to pay back, begging for free money, bought him a phone which he later sold, mehn I give up on men especially Nigerian men, I just couldn't do it anymore I had to flee I'm beginning to rethink this love thing it's a scam there should be a written agreement before the start of every relationship.
may I never come across any broke nigga again in my life especially those from the Abuja broke guys association grin .

Key phrase; WRITTEN AGREEMENT.

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