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Nice Nolly wood script

zyzxx:
Nice Nolly wood script

Really?its ok if that's what you feel.

Sorry dear,I can feel your pain....You have to move on....(.Everything happen for a reason,people change like the seasons...)its either he is showing u fake love or someone controlled by the family(weakman) Every disappointment is a blessing...Move on gal

Is he a nairalander..?
If not then how will he get this goodbye message.

makydebbie:
Is he a nairalander..?
If not then how will he get this goodbye message.

I guess all the messages that has ever been written here were all written to nairalanders?

sandra50:

I guess all the messages that has ever been written here were all written to nairalanders?

It doesn't make sense except you're looking for pity party. That's why I made that comment.
But feel free.

makydebbie:
It doesn't make sense except you're looking for pity party. That's why I made that comment.
But feel free.

What doesn't make sense? writing on nairaland?

It is obvious both of you are Igbo. What might have stopped him from marrying you despite the amount of efforts and sacrifices you made to keep your relationship afloat? That is, if your account of what transpired is true. Maybe he never loved you enough to challenge his people and their stereotypes. Maybe he was docile and indecisive; unable to stick to his opinion even when such opinion will earn him isolation.

It is unnecessary bellyaching when he has forgotten about you and the memories you once had and cherished. Move on, you have a whole lot ahead of you. Dwelling on the past will rob you the dividend of the present.

sandra50:
So my one and only true love just wedded.we started with one room and a parlour we shared with your brother's.you had a bus we were using to go for weddings and sometimes you would deny your bus when they call the owner to come re-park..now you have a mansion with different kind of cars and someone else who didn't know how it all started is the one you got married to.
My offence was coming from a particular state and your people don't marry from our side...hope you are happy without me? because I'm not.
I wish you the very best in your marriage..the last i will do is to wish you evil or plan evil against you.
Love doesn't hurt but it protects.goodbye my love.

When you were involved in the relationship, didn't you know their people don't marry from your side? Or you never thought of the future while in the relationship?

sacramento1212:


When you were involved in the relationship, didn't you know their people don't marry from your side? Or you never thought of the future while in the relationship?

I have come to understand Nigerians better now..they are always judgmental so I take your comment as one of those.

mrblessed:
It is obvious both of you are Igbo. What might have stopped him from marrying you despite the amount of efforts and sacrifices you made to keep your relationship afloat? That is, if your account of what transpired is true. Maybe he never loved you enough to challenge his people and their stereotypes. Maybe he was docile and indecisive; unable to stick to his opinion even when such opinion will earn him isolation.

It is unnecessary bellyaching when he has forgotten about you and the memories you once had and cherished. Move on, you have a whole lot ahead of you. Dwelling on the past will rob you the dividend of the present.

It has actually robbed me alot.he actually called me yesterday apologizing that's why I made this post.

sandra50:

I have come to understand Nigerians better now..they are always judgmental so I take your comment as one of those.

If you’re pretty, come be my baby mama. I’m recruiting

sandra50:

I have come to understand Nigerians better now..they are always judgmental so I take your comment as one of those.

And how's my comment judgemental? I only asked you a question. You got involved in a relationship and what i expect anyone to do while at it is to discuss the present and future except you never had that in mind because so many out there only get involved in relationships for the fun of it. So if that was the case in yours, then i see no reason why you should be heartbroken.

Before you even start sacrificing a lot for a man, ensure you anticipate the future with him.

N0favors:
If you’re pretty, come be my baby mama. I’m recruiting

No thanks..I'm not looking for a baby daddy.

sacramento1212:


And how's my comment judgemental? I only asked you a question. You got involved in a relationship and what i expect anyone to do while at it is to discuss the present and future except you never had that in mind because so many out there only get involved in relationships for the fun of it. So if that was the case in yours, then i see no reason why you should be heartbroken.

Before you even start sacrificing a lot for a man, ensure you anticipate the future with him.

I asked before it all started and he said he was old enough to handle his affairs and no one tells him what to do..being the breadwinner of the family I believed.

sandra50:

I asked before it all started and he said he was old enough to handle his affairs and no one tells him what to do..being the breadwinner of the family I believed.

Okay, then he broke your heart. Or may be he never loved you enough to sacrifice to end up with you. Sorry about that all the same, i will advise you move on with your life. Cut ties completely with him to enable you focus. In your next relationship, be more careful as disappointment such as this makes one wiser and strong.

sandra50:

It has actually robbed me alot.he actually called me yesterday apologizing that's why I made this post.

His call must have brought back pleasant memories you are struggling to suppress and disown.Tell me the truth, did his call made you lovesick? Nevertheless, you have to be positive and optimistic about what the future holds for you. And you can bet it is bright and splendid. As it were at the moment, rising above this disappointment will serve as a litmus test of your strength of character.

mrblessed:
His call must have brought back pleasant memories you are struggling to suppress and disown.Tell me the truth, did his call made you lovesick? Nevertheless, you have to be positive and optimistic about what the future holds for you. And you can bet it is bright and splendid. As it were at the moment, rising above this disappointment will serve as a litmus test of your strength of character.

In life there is always that one person you love so dearly..yes his call did bring back memories but I spoke with him like a normal friend and told him i had forgiven him..I have gotten some marriage proposals after him but I want to be with someone I truly love so I will be able to forget him completely.

sacramento1212:


Okay, then he broke your heart. Or may be he never loved you enough to sacrifice to end up with you. Sorry about that all the same, i will advise you move on with your life. Cut ties completely with him to enable you focus. In your next relationship, be more careful as disappointment such as this makes one wiser and strong.

It has actually made me wiser and no I can never see him again unless we run into each other.

sandra50:

In life there is always that one person you love so dearly..yes his call did bring back memories but I spoke with him like a normal friend and told him i had forgiven him..I have gotten some marriage proposals after him but I want to be with someone I truly love so I will be able to forget him completely.

Unfortunately, what you built with him never never stood the test of time and that's a closed chapter. Don't pick his calls or respond to any messages from him to enable you easily heal and move on. Take your time, don't just jump into another relationship even if it's marriage proposals to avoid making another mistake.

With time, the right man will show up. Good luck

sandra50:

It has actually made me wiser and no I can never see him again unless we run into each other.

Good

sandra50:

In life there is always that one person you love so dearly..yes his call did bring back memories but I spoke with him like a normal friend and told him i had forgiven him..I have gotten some marriage proposals after him but I want to be with someone I truly mlove so I will be able to forget him completely.

Move on; don't start comparing notes. I guess you are already using him as standard of evaluation even though him didn't turn out to be what you expected. You really have to outline what this harsh experience has taught you.That is the best way you can profit from it. Since you still have feelings for him, I will advise you cut off completely all channels of communication.

sacramento1212:


Unfortunately, what you built with him never never stood the test of time and that's a closed chapter. Don't pick his calls or respond to any messages from him to enable you easily heal and move on. Take your time, don't just jump into another relationship even if it's marriage proposals to avoid making another mistake.

With time, the right man will show up. Good luck

Thanks.

mrblessed:
Move on; don't start comparing notes. I guess you are already using him as standard of evaluation even though him didn't turn out to be what you expected. You really have to outline what this harsh experience has taught you.That is the best way you can profit from it. Since you still have feelings for him, I will advise you cut off completely all channels of communication.

I still remember him but I can never have anything to do with him again that's why I can never see him again.thanks.

sandra50:

I still remember him but I can never have anything to do with him again that's why I can never see him again.thanks.

Sandra..its a touching price you wrote there. On behalf of all we men that hurt really deserving gfs.i say " sorry dear". God will be with you dear nd giv u a better person. Just be strong nd move on. He is not the only gud man around. The next will shock you with love overflow

sandra50:

No thanks..I'm not looking for a baby daddy.

Are you even fine sef?

Some men are evil.
They would keep you just to waste your time.
Stupid m

bigpicture001:



Sandra..its a touching price you wrote there. On behalf of all we men that hurt really deserving gfs.i say " sorry dear". God will be with you dear nd giv u a better person. Just be strong nd move on. He is not the only gud man around. The next will shock you with love overflow

Thanks alot dear.

N0favors:
Are you even fine sef?

No.

highpriestess:
Some men are evil.
They would keep you just to waste your time.
Stupid m

It was really terrible..I became used to sleeping pills before I could sleep but it's all in the past now.

He didn't marry you because you are worthless to him and he plays the family card to deceive you. Stop lamenting and move on.