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|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by stinflame: 9:22am On Jan 12|
;DU at the right place bro... Brb
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by jayextra(m): 9:24am On Jan 12|
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Randy100: 9:30am On Jan 12|
czarina:Nawa for you people self. How is he going to train the children that will come out of the marriage? N.B procreation is the major reason why we marry.
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by KingzleyTLB(m): 9:38am On Jan 12|
a player at 32 bros because of two girls ni.....
the player thingy will be boring to you soon enough...it ain't about those two cheats bro..its about you,,,,you have lost them.....don't lose yourself too
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by czarina(f): 9:40am On Jan 12|
Randy100:you're clearly incorrigible.
Have a pleasant Saturday.
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by ranmoor: 10:36am On Jan 12|
The question is, if it was the guy that cheated would you be asking the lady if was due to her private part shortcomings? "He who comes into equity must come with clean hands." The yard stick for the sexes must be the same
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Admin401(m): 10:38am On Jan 12|
So you're saying this will stop women from cheating?
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by coolestofall(m): 10:56am On Jan 12|
Admin401:I give no damn if they cheat in d real sense. When u dnt suck up 2 a ladies bullshits, u realise u dnt get emotional when she bleeps up. Ur logic can easily kick in 2 take d right decision every time. Imagine being in pop's shoes. After trying so hard 2 please d gals, then they mess up. U sure wld feel like crying.
Btw, u dnt have 2 take my word 4 it.
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by faithfull18(f): 11:12am On Jan 12|
x2x2:You just end up hurting yourself if you decide to go bad because some else wasn't good to you.
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Raalsalghul: 11:13am On Jan 12|
Randy100:That's how you folks go about forcing marriage on people's necks like a trend or something. Did the Op mention anything about marriage. How do you know he's capable of handling a family especially in this part of the world where our leaders don't have plans for your unborn kids?
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Makaveli217(m): 11:47am On Jan 12|
Guy you want your heart to be as hard as a rock? Which will kill your feelings for any thing, (be it ladies), try listening to foreign hardcore hip-hop & gangsta rap, thank me later.
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Hoodbilonia: 11:51am On Jan 12|
ma niggi gettin his dick down in another biches throat
we all been thr done that
too much love and care dis bich dont deserve to be speared
u gave yur all in all and hopin her pussy is ypurs foreva. wake up ma niggi to dull.
ubthe type of fake niggi who dont help male niggis
buh rather help a ladybxpctn pussy and a baby
too much of everythin turn u to a client.
and when that love gets too pushy
it comes to a shove
ive been in this shiiit before
before i woke up
naija ladies are greedy ..and lie constantly like its a job.
ma niggi free your mind. wannk..if e dom hooknu get a bich off social media..romance her for a week on whatsapp .later bang her like say u neva fuc in a decade.
and wen u cum . ma niggi. dont add feelings to a slut
dont form am in love . lets starts a relationship. all that shiit gotta stop... fuc nd move on..dats whats sup
same pussy.same attitude
.only diff face
naija girls are all useless.
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Plolly(f): 11:51am On Jan 12|
My own advice as a lady to u is ; Don't rush into a relationship for now relax urself and enjoy the moment. Then whenever u are ready to mingle don't act desperate
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by xanderpeper(m): 12:05pm On Jan 12|
Finally you have stopped existing want to start living welcome to the otherside bro,now you will get to know much about ladies
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Abcruz(m): 12:06pm On Jan 12|
Free yourself like a bird from the hand of the bird catcher...
Turn away from the "mistress of sorceries" and save yourself from the immoral union called "relationship"...
Beware of the one who has nothing to lose...
Remove the veil of emotional manipulation from your eyes, flee from fornication and return to JESUS for your own good...
I, the LORD, have put a curse on those who turn from me and trust in human flesh--Jeremiah 17:5
Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.--2 Timothy 2:22
A word is enough for the wise.
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by AnonymousBee: 12:12pm On Jan 12|
Abcruz:Did you provide solution to the young man?
How will religion solve emotional problem?
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by x2x2(m): 12:23pm On Jan 12|
Thanks to everyone for all your words of advice.God bless...As for DAT lad that was talking about sex life...I de well for DAT part.....with all that have been said here,my fault was being too nice to them and not giving them a reason to fight for their place.Right now,I'm gonna work on myself to ensure that never happens again....Once more ,God bless you all.
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Les(f): 1:53pm On Jan 12|
Practice makes perfect.
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Randy100: 2:08pm On Jan 12|
Raalsalghul:I tire for this generation. A man who is 32 should be talking of marriage. My take
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by emeejinsm: 2:27pm On Jan 12|
My dear every body destiny no be the same
You want to become a wicked player na for your head oo cuz you fit contract hiv
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by x2x2(m): 2:34pm On Jan 12|
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Raalsalghul: 4:14pm On Jan 12|
Randy100:A man at 32 can talk about whatever he wants to.
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by danieljessy: 4:40pm On Jan 12|
x2x2:Go read ubunja's threads you'll be fine
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by passionate87(m): 4:47pm On Jan 12|
bro I feel ur pain cos I'm 32 and married,I planned to marry earlier but got my heart broken by my first ex gf.I had serious trust issues and I call many relationships quit without blinking,I think one of ur problem is that u enter into the relationship more invested than the ladies and they have assessed that if the relationship falls apart,you've got more to lose.from the day one I enter into any relationship,I start with an I don't give a damn attitude,if the lady messes up I immediately scold her.and I call the shots all the time,I showed them I had options to fall back to if they peradventure mess up,you've got to man up and put these ladies straight or else,they would use u to play ping-pong.mind u I love my wife but she can attest to the fact that there are some things I won't tolerate because I started doing that in the relationship.
Here is the secret,have a lot of female friends and u can be in romantic relationship with few,take time to study their character,go for women above 25years of age or mature minded ladies.
Don't ever show commitment initially till ur are 80% certain,u can be serious with the lady in question based on her being serious minded, don't try to be sentimental because relationship are for the strong hearted. break off relationships when u notice foul play,be less tolerant about it or else it would come back to haunt u.
Initially during ur relationship pay surprise visit and always be prepare for the worst,never let emotions take the best part of you,for this u would thank me later.
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Abcruz(m): 5:45pm On Jan 12|
Patience is better than power, and and controlling one's emotions, than capturing a city.--proverbs 16:32
It is embedded in a Man's will to make his choice, and the one who allows emotions to rule over him has sold his will to the merciless.
Submit to God and be at peace with him; in this way all will be well with you--Job 22:21
The ear that listens to the reproves of life abides among the wise!!!
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by x2x2(m): 6:46pm On Jan 12|
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by waywardpikin(m): 6:54pm On Jan 12|
Lol @ 32 you are coming very late to the party but better late than never. Over to the gurus to toughen you up. Cheers mate!!!
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Fourwinds: 7:34pm On Jan 12|
Paxie55:hmmmmm.....so the guy was not hitting the G---Spot
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by Fourwinds: 7:42pm On Jan 12|
lovebishop:my brother..u have spoke well...i hate relationship that goes beyond two years...what are we studying or observing in each other that we will see to the end....as a man i will marry u and dare u to cheat....i will divorce u sharp sharp for the society to see how useless such a girl is. .to marry no be my problem but cheat let me see
|Re: Guys Help A Brother Please!! by emmaodet: 8:33pm On Jan 12|
It is always about the man, the man is always at fault and never the woman. This manipulation and table-turning is not good.
Alot of ladies are sex machines now adays because they have dated several guys, some with big joystick and some blow them with marijuana, tramadol etc to the extent that they have turned to sex maniacs and if they eventually settle down with an average guy that is clean and not using drugs, just is normal body and self, they will start shifting the blames on him and not doing a self appraisal on their self for long sexual intercourse, mummy and daddy life style at school, may abortions but the man is the one at fault.
The lady should have settled down with the bad guys but no, they will prefer the good guy for marriage and give excuse for cheating with the bad boy again.
The man should run around to get a good job, set up a house or apartment, buy a car, think of how to invest for the future, feed his family, still wake up in the morning to be jogging up and down and avoid getting a pot belly, prepare for expensive emergencies like medical bill for the old parents and in-laws, burial, wedding, everything inside only ONE human being and you wonder why guys don't want to marry again and to cap it all, some unfortunate ladies will still cheat on the man and still give excuses, so much to be a man
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