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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Daeylar(f): 6:27pm On Jan 12
islandmoon:



Madam, Haba!!! see your DP

anyway, our biggest motivation to do better .. nah those wey dey hate!! my biggest motivation na my girlfriend wey dumped me last night, 2 secs later I don dey motivated!

What happened to my DP? grin
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by kunleweb: 6:30pm On Jan 12
Bossontop:
undecided
Dem no go hear now ooo.....later now we go see dem for SHILOH dey form prayer warriors



lol

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by alizma: 6:30pm On Jan 12
this girl didn't just hit the nail at the right place, she added that analysis that I always wants ladies to have at the back of their mind. "at 30, your possible suitor will be between 35-40yrs, now ask yourself, how many men of 35-40years within your area that are still single or that are happily single? the more easier it is for you to find them, the same it will be for you to be married. more so, it is easier for a guy at 27 to settle down with a lady of 25 than it is for a man of 35 to settle down with a lady of 33. the older a man is, the less his desire to settle down with a lady of almost the same age

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by jonath0012(m): 6:31pm On Jan 12
Saffi:
Every time women should do this
Women should do that

Just because men are flocking, does this now mean we have to succumb to their offer? Out of 100 guys that you know, only 2 are reasonable and still it’s very hard to figure them out. Most of my married female friends are not even happy. My advice to any female is yes, be open to meet new guys but do not make it a top priority in your life. Instead work on yourself, your finances, character and energy and you will attract your compliment. If it means marrying above the so called normal age, then so be it. My sanity, my growth and peace is what matters the most to me. When you are trash you normally attract trash. Work on YOURSELF biko!!!

What happened sister, this is the first time you made a reasonable comment. Thumps up!
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by DanDeeBoss(m): 6:41pm On Jan 12
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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by 1stpikin(f): 6:43pm On Jan 12
Xclusivedaniel6:


So you ever think straight?
Or just dumb


I know your type; the category of humans that wants to feel among. Biko sit down joor

Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Stallion93(m): 6:44pm On Jan 12
Bossontop:
undecided
Dem no go hear now ooo.....later now we go see dem for SHILOH dey form prayer warriors

grin grin grin

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by NwaliE01(m): 6:50pm On Jan 12
100% legit.

Her points are dupe.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by bonnyhope: 6:51pm On Jan 12
Nice advice to ladies
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by victorian(f): 6:58pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:


I just tire for the babe.

And she is making it seem like the only reason men are coming for marriage is because of breast and ass and these are the kind of men we should be rushing to marry.

Men who only come around for breast ass and looks. Such shallow reasons.

Or maybe that's how men are.



That's all.
It's to be careful.



It's better for a babe to keep going from men to men. Dating and breaking up under 6 months rather than marrying a man not good for her Or wasting time dating a man she knows won't work for 1 year or more, so that she will clap for ladied that they know how to bend down and build a solid relationship or know how to tolerate men
After all if a lady knows under 6 months that a man is not for her, isn't she expected to break up and find someone that will work?


If the same lady dates a man for 3 years or more and breaks up, They will still attack her for wasting her youth on a man when she was supposed to be smart and date many men.
If she stays single, they will attack her for not using her time wisely to look for a man. They will attack her for being single.

SMH
When will women rest?







Those men who married women cos of ass and boobs , the men has either dumped their wives and ran away with a younger lady with firm boobs and tiny waist and Dunlop ass, while the wife is all alone crying who sent her message In marrying such man, cos her boobs is no longer firm again after breastfeeding four kids!

Some men are evil! Am telling you !

If a woman is not prayerful against such men, her life will just waste for nothing .

For am at rest . No bagga! Can give me unrest over marriage orelse i cut off the person from my life !

Women should relax their minds and rest wella! These days that men cannot even take care of one wife and a kid . they can wail forever as if someone tied their hands and legs to go and marry .

I have a friend , she's a single mum works in a federal government parastal . she has two teenage kids in university . she takes care of these two kids like no tomorrow . papa don run, cos he is too lazy to even hustle hard . The kids don't even feel their dad absence . and her boobs and assz still stand gidigba! She's very selective on men

My sister ,only very few men are men . the rest are just there .

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by ultimateprof: 7:00pm On Jan 12
This is good.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by kunleweb: 7:00pm On Jan 12
Westaslave2:
Men ar d one making life bitter n frustrating 4 ladies, (am married wt 2)
Men help ur fellowmen so dey can come n reduce d number of unmarried ladies,
1. U wont give dem job n u give it 2 ladies
Ques. Can a lady pay a brideprice ? No
2. U wont give dem contract but u give ladies n even help 2 correct dia wrong quotations
Ques .women wt 8million in account wont remember her swt n broke fiancee.but go 2 d likes of adenuga sons n dantata sons

I was happy dat women ar taking over jobs increasingly ,through men benevolence.unlike b4 but
I saw d adverse effect dat unmarried women has increased so meticulously
Example: my company in onne ,my superior loves women 2 a fault as am talking 2 u all of us in d company ar women even d engineers ,i dey pepper me eh,No man 2 chill out wt during lunch .
In d whole company is only me n yemisi a yoruba lady dat is married.

Unmarried women has increased 2 a greater number by 50%...Am afraid i wl lose my husband 2 a diabolical lady,i av dat feeling




My dear sister.may your oil not run dry.

You spoke well. I've always said this same thing. I'm glaglad a female is seeing.things from this point of view.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Yoighaman(m): 7:06pm On Jan 12
Nice piece.

If not that I choose to be a good guy ehn, I for turn smasher....dey smash all the 30+ ladies that come my way 'cos they all obviously want marriage and I'm not in for that yet even at my age...I let off and allow them go in peace without hassles.....some of us are still good guys sha but if I vex ehn, na to dey take advantage of them o...but no, I nor go vex smiley

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by MOHSHESHI(m): 7:11pm On Jan 12
Olawaleyy036:

Better
oyi dae ur pako head
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by fastseo: 7:14pm On Jan 12
victorian:








Those men who married women cos of ass and boobs , the men has either dumped their wives and ran away with a younger lady with firm boobs and tiny waist and Dunlop ass, while the wife is all alone crying who sent her message In marrying such man, cos her boobs is no longer firm again after breastfeeding four kids!

Some men are evil! Am telling you !

If a woman is not prayerful against such men, her life will just waste for nothing .

For am at rest . No bagga! Can give me unrest over marriage orelse i cut off the person from my life !

Women should relax their minds and rest wella! These days that men cannot even take care of one wife and a kid . they can wail forever as if someone tied their hands and legs to go and marry .

I have a friend , she's a single mum works in a federal government parastal . she has two teenage kids in university . she takes care of these two kids like no tomorrow . papa don run, cos he is too lazy to even hustle hard . The kids don't even feel their dad absence . and her boobs and assz still stand gidigba! She's very selective on men

My sister ,only very few men are men . the rest are just there .

Before a man approache u 3 things draw them to u
1 boobs
2 facial looks
3 bombom back

Thats when they can now look if you have a good character.


With all this almost devalued by nature at 34 or 35 who will run after such a girl? Unless you are working in a big firm and money to offer to attract them

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by 1Sharon(f): 7:17pm On Jan 12
I really haven't noticed women looking older than their male counterparts?
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by chiboy1116: 7:17pm On Jan 12
This one don experience am ...grand olosho like this.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by chiboy1116: 7:19pm On Jan 12
husbandsnatcha:
she wrote it herself, i no d lady n her brilliance
bia husbandsnatcha , what's your say on this matter.
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by fastseo: 7:19pm On Jan 12
1Sharon:
I really haven't noticed women looking older than their male counterparts?
Are u sure?
My uncle married a woman his age after 3 kids most people argue that the woman is her elder brother.

Women age faster. Most especially when they have given birth

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:19pm On Jan 12
chiboy1116:
This one don experience am ...grand olosho like this.
gringringrin
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by FredAndrew: 7:20pm On Jan 12
Reasonable okpe
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by 1Sharon(f): 7:21pm On Jan 12
fastseo:

Are u sure?
My uncle married a woman his age after 3 kids most people argue that the woman is her elder brother.

Women age faster. Most especially when they have given birth

If she takes care of herself, this shouldn't happen. Exercising and staying slim is important
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by akiOYIBO: 7:21pm On Jan 12
BornnAgainChild:
Im so guilty of this embarassed
To even say you are ugly
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Martinez19(m): 7:22pm On Jan 12
She how all the girls here are getting defensive and misinterpreting the message. I no fit shout.

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Edojoma(m): 7:24pm On Jan 12
Make sense anyhow,,, wow,, nice1 @OP, ,, if only gals can adhere to dis
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Stanleyville(m): 7:27pm On Jan 12
[quote author=SyberKate post=74698418]Someone wants to trend [/quote
U are pained... ..na your type she dey talk to

Be humble n receive d advice wholeheartedly it's for yo own good.. OK... ]
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Raalsalghul: 7:30pm On Jan 12
victorian:

Maybe you are ritual material. Just saying.... undecided












Don't mind her

She thinks life is all about getting married to any dead beat guy because the ass and boobs is standing firm.

Does she think all men are husband materials ?

Thank God she mentioned men who were cursed in life but babe still sleep with them ,carrying along the guy curses or different men curses .lol

@22, I got engaged to a ritualist , if not for God I would have been history then. I escaped to avoid been killed . it was a traumatic experience and I stayed off men for 5years !
@ 30 years , another guy I wanted to marry , aslo had the sick idea to use me for rituals again!

Possibly they feel because I look successful , their juju go accept me but fortunately for me , it failed and I freed myself through God .

Later one useless op, we will talking about marriage as if most men out there are God sent ? Smhhhhh!

Anyways my own is look well, Pray about any suitor cominf your way before u marry . Be very very careful , not all men u see wearing trousers are meant for marriage .
Not all men smiling are u are angels , some are demons in human form.

Word!

Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by StyleAfos(m): 7:35pm On Jan 12
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by Bamz(m): 7:36pm On Jan 12
Echine:
cheesy ;
cheesy
Some gals are d worst creatures when it comes to taking of an advise
tongue

Are you referring to 1stpikin? grin
Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by teejay167(m): 7:38pm On Jan 12
Daeylar:
So women should rush to get married because breast is still standing and ass is bouncing?
That is why we should make hay while the sun shines? Because of breast and ass. undecided


After this one finished typing, in her mind she has done well. SMH

Marriage advisers be advising rubbish.
This one is just looking for men to clap for her.

That's why u are not growing mentally

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Re: 'Why Ladies Should Stop Driving Men Away' - Nigerian Woman Says by CzarChris(m): 7:42pm On Jan 12
Tallesty1:
No guy is young at 40.



Marry early so that you can play ball with your kids.
I always get pissed off when I see or hear this kind of utter rubbish, "marry early so that you and your kids grow up together". Who spread this kind of lie everywhere.

You are meant to be a PARENT to direct and guide your kids, not to be your kid's playmate. In growing up, you make mistakes and learn from it, in parenting you teach your children values and mistakes to avoid in life and not to make mistakes together because your "growing up together". This is why we have a lot of poorly raised children everywhere.

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