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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by faithfull18(f): 10:11pm On Jan 13
Delivar:

I am glad you wrote "probably". Why should you and her talk like you are so sure he was engaged during the period he was contacting her?
I was talking about the one month period between the wedding and when he was asking her for a meetup.

Are you saying the lady he married in that one month was never in the picture.

He just woke up the next day, saw a lady, did traditional ,white etc.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by prince3009(m): 10:13pm On Jan 13
faithfull18:


No, I won't. The last time I checked, freedom of speech was/is one of my rights.

Read what she posted and this time read to comprehend not to react.

The guy got married in Dec and asked her for a meetup in Nov.

He had someone else by the side because I don't see two complete strangers meeting each other and marrying in one month in Nigeria. It's possible but rare.

Lastly, I don't think she was into him, she was only pointing out how irresponsible some men can be.

Thank God you said it is RARE! And in the rarity, you think the guy is not included?
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by DanDeeBoss(m): 10:13pm On Jan 13
rame18:













I did, had a cool walk in the evening.
That's cool cool....Alright then
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Ubdavis(m): 10:13pm On Jan 13
EVILFOREST:

POSSIBLY
U said the RIGHT thing
She wanted to consent when her CONFUSION had resolved.
They are almost always CONFUSED

She felt that playing hard to get will add more value to her.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Delivar(m): 10:14pm On Jan 13
faithfull18:

I was talking about the one month period between the wedding and when he was asking her for a meetup.

Are you saying the lady he married in that one month was never in the picture.

He just woke up the next day, saw a lady, did traditional ,white etc.
It's still possible the guy proposed to her and the lady was unsure and decided to think over it. In that situation the guy is free to search for alternatives incase the lady eventually turns down the proposal.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by EVILFOREST: 10:14pm On Jan 13
Ubdavis:


She felt that playing hard to get will add more value to her.
grin grin grin
They like behaving like PEACOCKS
Always walking on their shoulders.
U will find a Local Lady forming Accent

abi na PEAHEN grin grin

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by prince3009(m): 10:15pm On Jan 13
Dfinex:


You sef keep quiet and stop talking what you don't know nothing about. From my experience guys are always fond of these. I don't know if they assume it to be a kind of fun game or something. ...Now that the matter is about your gender, all of you are excited.

Your experience because you always meet moronic men and there is a popular saying like " You attract who you meet!"

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Dfinex(f): 10:51pm On Jan 13
Delivar:

Yes of course. It has to be in a situation where I have known her for a long while as friends and not actually marrying a lady I met as a stranger a week ago.


Ok..the bolded is the point we have been trying to make
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by oshaosha2014(m): 10:52pm On Jan 13
If she wasn’t into him I think it should not bother her how irresponsible he was.
faithfull18:


No, I won't. The last time I checked, freedom of speech was/is one of my rights.

Read what she posted and this time read to comprehend not to react.

The guy got married in Dec and asked her for a meetup in Nov.

He had someone else by the side because I don't see two complete strangers meeting each other and marrying in one month in Nigeria. It's possible but rare.

Lastly, I don't think she was into him, she was only pointing out how irresponsible some men can be.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Dfinex(f): 10:58pm On Jan 13
prince3009:


Your experience because you always meet moronic men and there is a popular saying like " You attract who you meet!"

No...I won't have you insult them.... It's not their fault that they keep loving women who don't feel same way for them. The only challenge we are having with them is why they endlessly profess love to these ladies and get married to others within a twinkling of an eye
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Dfinex(f): 11:06pm On Jan 13
Ralphjoe:
Yes he would have if he finds out that this lady has better qualities than the one he wanted to marry before and remember she was probably the first choice before the one he finally got married to now.

What me I have come to understand with men is that whenever they have made up their mind to marry and that date is fast approaching but the one they love is not responding positively , they will just go ahead and pick any girl in their list who is averagely ok and willing to marry them and get done with the whole marriage thing.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by nograv: 11:19pm On Jan 13
austine4real:


u well so??

Bros are you well?

Should a man wait for a woman indefinately? mtchew...

You are the kind of mumu putting a woman on a pedestal while a guy like me is actually bleeping her..

Trust me most women are not saints and certainly not worth waiting for..

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by nograv: 11:26pm On Jan 13
Dfinex:


What me I have come to understand with men is that whenever they have made up their mind to marry and that date is fast approaching but the one they love is not responding positively , they will just go ahead and pick any girl in their list who is averagely ok and willing to marry them and get done with the whole marriage thing.

For average men who are the majority yes..

For wealthy good looking men with options no..

You think a wealthy good looking man will marry just because he feels it is time??

No he has options and will only settle down if a woman who meets his requirements comes along..

Often women who fail to snag the top guy, then go with mr average. But they are willing to cheat on mr average when a top guy even looks in their direction..

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Jman06(m): 11:29pm On Jan 13
faithfull18:

The fact that he was already seeing someone else yet he was still disturbing her.
It's possible he wasn't seeing someone else at the time he was wooing the lady. It takes just a minute for a guy to make up his mind and move on to another lady.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Ralphjoe(m): 11:32pm On Jan 13
Dfinex:


What me I have come to understand with men is that whenever they have made up their mind to marry and that date is fast approaching but the one they love is not responding positively , they will just go ahead and pick any girl in their list who is averagely ok and willing to marry them and get done with the whole marriage thing.
Well you are right, if that is not what happened in this case then it's close to it.
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by sexy74(m): 11:57pm On Jan 13
grandstar:


If he was engaged, why was he asking her out? He just wanted to sample and dump her?
why is she complaining now.
Remember she said over a year and she shows no interest, he now marries she begin shout.
why didn't she tell us when he was toasting her?
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by rockyh(m): 12:00am On Jan 14
faithfull18:


Without knowing any one related to her, her background, nothing. You just saw her on the road one day and the next day, you are going straight to the altar. I hear you.

I am not saying it's not possible oh but Nigerians are not known to do crazy things like that.
Nigerian ladies n their I don't fancy u attitude has led many guys to marrying them not cos of love but for companion. Personally i don't believe in love but companion ones u are free from lies n deceit, am good for the altar

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by grandstar(m): 12:01am On Jan 14
sexy74:

why is she complaining now.
Remember she said over a year and she shows no interest, he now marries she begin shout.
why didn't she tell us when he was toasting her?

You're a player and know the angle you're coming from!

To a man holding a hammer, everything looks like a nail
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by prince3009(m): 12:02am On Jan 14
Dfinex:


No...I won't have you insult them.... It's not their fault that they keep loving women who don't feel same way for them. The only challenge we are having with them is why they endlessly profess love to these ladies and get married to others within a twinkling of an eye

So if i as a man professes my love to a woman and she does not reciprocate or she accepts me and i later discovers she falls below standards, i should continue to entangle myself with her and stick to her rather than look for someone else who is exactly (or at least close to) whom i desire to bring out the best in me?

Why do you women act like a man's world revolves round you?

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Ken4agent(m): 12:20am On Jan 14
[quote[b] author=Bizmagnet post=74729366]He has been asking you out since but did you ask him in? [/b]I meant did you accept to marry him or you turned him to "fallback"?
In need of a website/blog/software? Check my signature for my contacts.[/quote]

grin grin hilarious!!! She no fit ask him in cis dem luck her door throway key grin
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by harry2sexy(m): 1:27am On Jan 14
Hahaha.i just love NL
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by AreaFada2: 2:17am On Jan 14
cococandy:
really? She could have been his wife? Are you people really hard of comprehension or are you just being willfully ignorant?
Madam Grammar & female version of Patrick Obahiagbon, make you "lecturer" us na. Since we nor sabi book. grin cheesy

Are you saying there is no better way to get the man off her back? How about blocking him? Assuming it's true that she's a saint that wants to make a potential "he-goat" get some sense, why show his wife's pictures? Does our "willful ignorance" also explain that? shocked shocked

If you want to be a Senior Advocate Amebor (SAN) without pay, first ensure you are as wise as you think. Lest the bandwagon feminism of a thing blinds you into "oversabidom".

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by AreaFada2: 2:22am On Jan 14
EVILFOREST:

grin grin grin
They like behaving like PEACOCKS
Always walking on their shoulders.
U will find a Local Lady forming Accent

abi na PEAHEN grin grin

Ol' boy, the way one "over-religious" girl like that was forming accent, I just tire. This girl has never left Nigeria. Did not go to American school in Nigeria. I just hated her from there. After my travels to many countries, one local girl forming ajebor come dey fool herself with fake accent for me? Shioor! shocked shocked

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by Dfinex(f): 6:34am On Jan 14
prince3009:


So if i as a man professes my love to a woman and she does not reciprocate or she accepts me and i later discovers she falls below standards, i should continue to entangle myself with her and stick to her rather than look for someone else who is exactly (or at least close to) whom i desire to bring out the best in me?

Why do you women act like a man's world revolves round you?

Why would it take you a whole year to realize that the first woman falls below standard but you become very sure of the next woman within weeks? Doesn't it sound ridiculous to you?
Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by prince3009(m): 8:49am On Jan 14
Dfinex:


Why would it take you a whole year to realize that the first woman falls below standard but you become very sure of the next woman within weeks? Doesn't it sound ridiculous to you?

The woman did not fall below standard in that scenario. SHE REFUSED TO ACCEPT THE MAN'S ADVANCES SO THE MAN DECIDED TO MARRY SOMEONE ELSE.

Some people have laid down goals in life and seek to actualize it no matter what! It is possible that the man wanted to start 2019 as a married man!

I am proud of the man! He didn't allow one foolish lady called Ada whose feminine ego was being stroked with the fact that she was being wooed for a year to stop him. Now she is coming to social media to whine! What a sore loser!

My fellow men, this is what we should always do. Any woman who refuses to accept you is not worth it. Kick her to the curb and get on with your life.

The ratio of men to women is currently 1:7

Time is too short to waste on one woman who is feeling like a demi-god.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by prince3009(m): 8:58am On Jan 14
rockyh:
Nigerian ladies n their I don't fancy u attitude has led many guys to marrying them not cos of love but for companion. Personally i don't believe in love but companion ones u are free from lies n deceit, am good for the altar

Exactly bro...love is seriously overplayed!

A man sees a woman with contours and he thinks it's love. A lady sees a guy with a G-Wagon and she thinks she's in love and at the end of the day, they realize it wasn't worth it!

What matters is companionship and compatibility in marriage.

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Re: Lady Calls Out Man Who Has Been Asking Her Out But Got Married In December by rockyh(m): 4:16pm On Jan 14
prince3009:


Exactly bro...love is seriously overplayed!

A man sees a woman with contours and he thinks it's love. A lady sees a guy with a G-Wagon and she thinks she's in love and at the end of the day, they realize it wasn't worth it!

What matters is companionship and compatibility in marriage.
God bless you for bn on the right path to true happiness

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