What do you ladies really want ?
After all this womanizing attitude I decided to get a real female friend without any sexual related stuff..
I met this lady for one month now and all I do with her is chill out, chat on phone have Lunch's and dinner so as to build a bond for pure friendship but she surprised me yesterday, we were out having fun but then she came up with a question on what i want from her and why I'm actually being so nice, i felt very surprised and abit disappointed cos deeply I was only trying to make her my friend even tho we might turn lovers later but now I don't even think of that...I have never invited her to ma place or even touched her for once so I wana know why she feels da dia is no good man or is she so broken that she cnt see ma sincerity....
Ladies pls I thought that frienships happens when u spend time and communicate with people or am I supposed to chyke her for normal friendship kwa..
She said that she don't understand me , that why do I only bring her out yo just talk, eat, chill and then drop her off without any other thing.....cnt I just have some true female friends without dating or other stuff.

I don't think it's bad she's asking u....tell her all u want is friendship naaa...abi u afraid u might later want to chop pomo but by then she would have thrown away the key of the friend zone prison u decided to put urself....??

Very funny

She simply asking you to come out plain.

In other words, she is asking "where is this relationship leading to?"
You are warming yourself into her heart and she is "falling for you" but does not want to waste her time in the "friendzone".

She's catching feelings, just eat her

She's likely not the friend type

Most ladies don't believe a guy can just be nice. If he is too nice, they believe there's an ulterior motive. Tell her what you want now, which is just friendship but don't be disappointed tomorrow when you fall in love and she's not feeling the same way.

portplus:

She simply asking you to come out plain.

In other words, she is asking "where is this relationship leading to?"
You are warming yourself into her heart and she is "falling for you" but does not want to waste her time in the "friendzone".

How can true friendship b a waste of tym

portplus:

She simply asking you to come out plain.

In other words, she is asking "where is this relationship leading to?"
You are warming yourself into her heart and she is "falling for you" but does not want to waste her time in the "friendzone".

How can true friendship b a waste of tym?

Newboss:
She's catching feelings, just eat her

She's likely not the friend type

But I dont eat pple

labanj1:
Most ladies don't believe a guy can just be nice. If he is too nice, they believe there's an ulterior motive. Tell her what you want now, which is just friendship but don't be disappointed tomorrow when you fall in love and she's not feeling the same way.

I have a gf

This your story clearly shows that opposite sex can not be close friends/besties. It would surely end on bed.We should stop hiding under 1 Finger
Even if she doesn't ask now, you too will still fall as the event unfolding, the hormones controlling sexual urge in body is beyond your control. Stop tempting devil and initiating what you cannot finish

Arthurwinner:


But I dont eat pple

Stay there na

@op are you working? I no why I asked

Arthurwinner:


I have a gf

Okay. Then I feel you should ease into being friends with her. Tell her you just want to be a friend, and you can also reduce the taking out and calling.

There is nothing like being friend with a girl. It is a scam. A lion cannot be a friend with antelop. If truly you want a friend, look for your fellow guy. All the girls that are my friends has felt the wrath of my hand on their breast.

Arthurwinner:
What do you ladies really want ?
After all this womanizing attitude I decided to get a real female friend without any sexual related stuff..
I met this lady for one month now and all I do with her is chill out, chat on phone have Lunch's and dinner so as to build a bond for pure friendship but she surprised me yesterday, we were out having fun but then she came up with a question on what i want from her and why I'm actually being so nice, i felt very surprised and abit disappointed cos deeply I was only trying to make her my friend even tho we might turn lovers later but now I don't even think of that...I have never invited her to ma place or even touched her for once so I wana know why she feels da dia is no good man or is she so broken that she cnt see ma sincerity....
Ladies pls I thought that frienships happens when u spend time and communicate with people or am I supposed to chyke her for normal friendship kwa..
She said that she don't understand me , that why do I only bring her out yo just talk, eat, chill and then drop her off without any other thing.....cnt I just have some true female friends without dating or other stuff.

You are talking as if you don't know what your fellow guys are capable of. Some will even do more than you have done just to get to her pant. The question she is asking is a normal thing every reasonable girl should ask if found in such situations. You are to give her explanation on what you want from her and make her understand why you want it at the moment. And be truthful from your heart.

ojuu4u:
This your story clearly shows that opposite sex can not be close friends/besties. It would surely end on bed.

That's not true. My brother has a female as a best friend and they ain't doing that shit.

mhizbel:

That's not true. My brother has a female as a best friend and they ain't doing that shit.

Bcoz you always serve as refree whenever they are inside the room, that is why you know everything they are doing behind you

ojuu4u:




Bcoz you always serve as refree whenever they are inside the room

Because they are never found in a room.

mhizbel:

Because they are never found in a room.

. So they are not besties but mere colleague or school mates, if you the post well he said he always take her to eatry , joint etc

ojuu4u:
. So they are not besties but mere colleague or school mates, if you the post well he said he always take her to eatry , joint etc

Let him just learn to define his relationships, that's exactly what he does.

mhizbel:

Let him just learn to define his relationships, that's exactly what he does.

If your pic is the person in ur dp, i can see u are still teenager, I will advice you not to ve male bestie unless if it's ur father and blood brothers if not you will regret it one day, come to think of it, why ur brother didn't choose you as besties but instead go outside family

she just wants to know the direction your taking her the question is what do you really want from her..
put the chick outta her misery

ojuu4u:




If your pic is the person in ur dp, i can see u are still teenager, I will advice you not to ve male bestie unless if it's ur father and blood brothers if not you will regret it one day, come to think of it, why ur brother didn't choose you as besties but instead go outside family

OK uncle... but I am not a teenager and I don't do boy/girl bestie.

mhizbel:

OK uncle... but I am not a teenager and I don't do boy/girl bestie.

What a hypocrite! Yet you are encouraging it, faceless/impersonator will come online and mislead people

ojuu4u:
This your story clearly shows that opposite sex can not be close friends/besties. It would surely end on bed.We should stop hiding under 1 Finger
Even if she doesn't ask now, you too will still fall as the event unfolding, the hormones controlling sexual urge in body is beyond your control. Stop tempting devil and initiating what you cannot finish

Mis guided notion

Professorcplus:
@op are you working? I no why I asked

Yes, why?

Randy100:
There is nothing like being friend with a girl. It is a scam. A lion cannot be a friend with antelop. If truly you want a friend, look for your fellow guy. All the girls that are my friends has felt the wrath of my hand on their breast.

Lol, i think ur perception is mis guided bro

ojuu4u:






What a hypocrite! Yet you are encouraging it, faceless/impersonator will come online and mislead people

I didn't encourage it bro. I was only saying that there are members of the opposite sex who keep it clean.