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How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 12:44pm On Jan 18, 2019
I served in Isiala Ngwa North Local Government of Abia state. My Lodge is known as Assembly Lodge, while the girl that assaulted me lives in the Federal Lodge... It started this way, she asked me to sleep in her room cos her roommate travelled and she is not use to sleeping alone so I accepted to sleep the following day only if her roommate doesn't show up, but her roommate didn't show up so I slept on her roommate's bed but nothing happened, the next night we slept in my room on my bed and boom at night I noticed someone shifting towards me while I shifted backward till I was already at the wall and she stylishly shifted close to me and practically raped my lips while her hands grabbed my divk... To be frank, although I was awake, it looked like a dream and looked unbelievable to me but it was real... I see it as a premeditated rape judging from the way it started... Anyway weeks later she confessed to seeing the shape of my dick through my kaaki during one of our CDS meetings and ever since she has wanted a taste of it ...

I know I didn't complete the story , I only said the part that is relevant to this topic.

No fake stories please, guys share your experience on how you have been sexually harassed.

Lalasticlala, mynd44

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by Derawiz(m): 12:49pm On Jan 18, 2019
No! it's not possible o, a woman cannot rape a man.

Rape is evil, a woman can never commit such an evil atrocity.

Women are not evil like their male counterpart.�

Well,I'm waiting for those online feminists and men are evil crew

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by ndokalaa: 1:06pm On Jan 18, 2019
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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by Cholls(m): 1:06pm On Jan 18, 2019
my brother smelling iho idi I wish you speedy recovery

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 2:52pm On Jan 18, 2019
truth is that as men, there are many things we have overlooked in terms of being sexually harassed but if it were the other way , your guess is as good as mine...

Men too are sexually harassed, it's just that it's more difficult to find a man to come openly to admit that he has been sexually harassed.

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by courna(m): 2:54pm On Jan 18, 2019
congratulations....

now let the fuckery begin

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by tee59(f): 3:07pm On Jan 18, 2019
I know you're lying, but continue. grin

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 3:13pm On Jan 18, 2019
tee59:
I know you're lying, but continue. grin
Lol... If you are so sure, just say Amen to this prayer... May my life be miserable if my story of being sexually harassed is a lie but may yours be miserable if it's the truth... Amen ..
I already said Amen...

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by DaniDani(m): 3:14pm On Jan 18, 2019
Just as we would have blamed the female if it was on the other way round, we will certainly blame you. How could you have accepted her bid when she can simply sleep in other female copas home or invite her acquaintances to come sleep over in her home? You simply yielded to the temptation and why complaining?

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 3:17pm On Jan 18, 2019
DaniDani:
Just as we would have blamed the female if it was on the other way round, we will certainly blame you. How could you have accepted her bid when she can simply sleep in other female copas home or invite her acquaintances to come sleep over in her home? You simply yielded to the temptation and why complaining?
Truth is that my story is more about raising awareness that some men too have also been sexually harassed it's just that many of them hardly come out to say it.

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by Nobody: 3:17pm On Jan 18, 2019
Okay let me share one of them:

Back in my university days, my then girlfriend's best friend visited me because I later moved to live off campus. Oftentimes, she came with my girl but on that day, she came alone with one trending movie to watch. As I was having a nap, I felt movement down there and to be frank, I was enjoying it until I woke up to see what was going on and stopped her. She was begging for a touch but naturally, I never liked free food or anything I didn't earn. I guess the romantic movie aroused her and she apologized later on. We are still great friends till this day.

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 3:23pm On Jan 18, 2019
MajorJeffery:
Okay let me share one of them:

Back in my university days, my then girlfriend's best friend visited me because I later moved to live off campus. Oftentimes, she came with my girl but on that day, she came alone with one trending movie to watch. As I was having a nap, I felt movement down there and to be frank, I was enjoying it until I woke up to see what going on and stopped her. She was begging for a touch but naturally, I never liked free food or anything I don't earn. I guess the romantic movie aroused her and she apologized later on. We are still great friends till this day.
Assuming you were the one that initiated it, she would have probably told her friend that you tried to force yourself on her... Anyway, I like the fact that you handled it maturely....

Another point to note is that assuming you reciprocated her sexual gestures, it still doesn't change the fact that is was a sexual assault since she started the process without your permission. Infact you were sleeping when she started the process which invariably makes it an assault on you..

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by Nobody: 3:35pm On Jan 18, 2019
SmellingAnus:
Assuming you were the one that initiated it, she would have probably told her friend that you tried to force yourself on her... Anyway, I like the fact that you handled it maturely....

Another point to note is that assuming you reciprocated her sexual gestures, it still doesn't change the fact that is was a sexual assault since she started the process without your permission. Infact you were sleeping when she started the process which invariably makes it an assault on you..
You're right. Sexual assault will never change its meaning even if a man gives in to it. Truth is that men are more sexually abused and harassed than women but the odds will always be against us. Why will a woman show a massive cleavage openly even at church services but the moment a man's zip is down, you see people calling him a pervert even when he might have innocently forgotten to zip up after urinating.

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 3:40pm On Jan 18, 2019
MajorJeffery:
You're right. Sexual assault will never change its meaning even if a man gives in to it. Truth is that men are more sexually abused and harassed than women but the odds will always be against us. Why will a woman show a massive cleavage openly even at church services but the moment a man's zip is down, you see people calling him a pervert even when he might have innocently forgotten to zip up after urinating.
true talk... Even in the Universities you hardly hear of stories where lecturers are being sexually harassed but it happens very well judging from my little experience of being close to some of the lecturers and also being a graduate from a state and federal University...

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by StarScream95(m): 3:53pm On Jan 18, 2019
We were four on the bed that night....3 guys one girl...
So the girl got Hot started stroking my dick...me once i sleep even boko no fi wake me o
so for morning she tell me say she stroke my dick,lick am then sleep.. Just laugh

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Two of my eldest step sister have romance me kiss me n touch me before.... Just do like noting dey happen move on
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Btw what's with men complaining of sexual assault...come on boys we r bigger than that now

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 3:56pm On Jan 18, 2019
StarScream95:
We were four on the bed that night....3 guys one girl...
So the girl got Hot started stroking my dick...me once i sleep even boko no fi wake me o
so for morning she tell me say she stroke my dick,lick am then sleep.. Just laugh

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Two of my eldest step sister have romance me kiss me n touch me before.... Just do like noting dey happen move on
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Btw what's with men complaining of sexual assault...come on boys we r bigger than that now
hahahahaha bad guy... Anyway it's more of raising
awareness than complaining although it's not bad to complain too...

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by skyhighweb(m): 5:31pm On Jan 18, 2019
and the problem here is that?..... no condom abi kini?
Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by Tamarapetty(f): 5:36pm On Jan 18, 2019
Lemme grab popcorn for the READERS ASSOCIATION OF NAIRALAND, (R.A.N)
Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by tee59(f): 5:59pm On Jan 18, 2019
SmellingAnus:
Lol... If you are so sure, just say Amen to this prayer... May my life be miserable if my story of being sexually harassed is a lie but may yours be miserable if it's the truth... Amen ..
I already said Amen...
Ogbeni, Kini problem e? . Why you dey para dey curse here? Can't you direct your frustration to your molester? Se emi ni moko ba e ni? Just because you got no feelings for her, that's why you called it sexual harassment. If she was your crush already, will you react that way?

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by teejaymiquel(m): 6:17pm On Jan 18, 2019
SmellingAnus:
I served in Isiala Ngwa North Local Government of Abia state. My Lodge is known as Assembly Lodge, while the girl that assaulted me lives in the Federal Lodge... It started this way, she asked me to sleep in her room cos her roommate travelled and she is not use to sleeping alone so I accepted to sleep the following day only if her roommate doesn't show up, but her roommate didn't show up so I slept on her roommate's bed but nothing happened, the next night we slept in my room on my bed and boom at night I noticed someone shifting towards me while I shifted backward till I was already at the wall and she stylishly shifted close to me and practically raped my lips while her hands grabbed my divk... To be frank, although I was awake, it looked like a dream and looked unbelievable to me but it was real... I see it as a premeditated rape judging from the way it started... Anyway weeks later she confessed to seeing the shape of my dick through my kaaki during one of our CDS meetings and ever since she has wanted a taste of it ...

I know I didn't complete the story , I only said the part that is relevant to this topic.

No fake stories please, guys share your experience on how you have been sexually harassed.

Lalasticlala, mynd44
oh lawd wen will I v my own rape story
m I ugly??
m I not rape-able

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SQMrProducer(m): 6:33pm On Jan 18, 2019
teejaymiquel:

oh lawd wen will I v my own rape story
m I ugly??
m I not rape-able
Don't worry your time will come grin

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 6:45pm On Jan 18, 2019
teejaymiquel:

oh lawd wen will I v my own rape story
m I ugly??
m I not rape-able
you will have it bro... It's only a matter of time and chance or the environment you find yourself....

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 6:48pm On Jan 18, 2019
tee59:
Ogbeni, Kini problem e? . Why you dey para dey curse here? Can't you direct your frustration to your molester? Se emi ni moko ba e ni? Just because you got no feelings for her, that's why you called it sexual harassment. If she was your crush already, will you react that way?
even if a crush did that, it's still sexual harassment the only difference is that the hunter may end up being the hunter grin

My apologies, I withdraw those harsh words but then the story is as real as the sun...

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 6:49pm On Jan 18, 2019
skyhighweb:
and the problem here is that?.....
no condom abi kini?
hahahahaha I know say you go don see where I write about this story before...
Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by tee59(f): 7:10pm On Jan 18, 2019
SmellingAnus:
even if a crush did that, it's still sexual harassment the only difference is that the hunter may end up being the hunter grin

My apologies, I withdraw those harsh words but then the story is as real as the sun...
Apology accepted. Next time, just be more careful. Sex starved bitches are everywhere. kiss

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Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 9:12pm On Jan 18, 2019
tee59:
Apology accepted. Next time, just be more careful. Sex starved bitches are everywhere. kiss
yes honey... But you know many of you could be very manipulative... By the way I hope I don't forget your moniker... You are a cool person after all... Someone ones said first impression is usually wrong... Lol...
Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by Charleys: 3:54pm On Dec 15, 2019
I was also raped.
Re: How I Was Sexually Harassed During My NYSC In Abia State by SmellingAnus(m): 10:29pm On Dec 15, 2019
Charleys:
I was also raped.
If you don't mind pls share your experience

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