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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by sharpwriter(m): 3:44pm On Jan 21
Boss13:


Kabbalah is low level mysticism and ends at the Astral plane. I don’t do that anymore. It is the same with Christian mysticism where you get the same result. There is a blunt interwoven line between the Material and Astral planes. Don’t limit yourself to that.

You won’t experience the beauty of the Creator and the Heavens with that. The entities you invoke using the spells in 6th and 7th Books of Moses are extraterrestrial low level beings. They are not demons. Demons don’t exist.

Also - be careful because they operate like the mind. They are your creation and servants, but if you cannot master them, they control you.

Aim higher.

Also, please explain Christian mysticism from your own point of view.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Kenneth4u205(m): 3:49pm On Jan 21
Anas09:

It's not him doing all that, he is gone. it was the demon which possessed him doing all the tricks.
yes that was my first impression. The demons inside of him trying to possess another vessel. In short he has already possessed the guy. But I only said that it was the friends spirit because he died by accident. Spirit of those that died in sudden accident don't just depart suddenly. The hang around close friends or family for years. Some for ever. Until the come to accept that the are actually dead. Only then can the move on
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by MajorJeffery: 4:24pm On Jan 21
Lovenkraand:


Hmmm, so sirjeffry is still in his 20's.
That word "teenager" was wrongly used as I wasn't under 20 in 2009. Having come under the kind of background that we did, we dared not bring women inside our homes in those days. We both had military dads and we were raised with some moral standards. Iyke died at the unripe age of 23 back then so the word teenagers was misused.

Cc: Ishilove

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Ishilove: 4:41pm On Jan 21
MajorJeffery:
That word "teenager" was wrongly used as I wasn't under 20 in 2009. Having come under the kind of background that we did, we dared not bring women inside our homes in those days. We both had military dads and we were raised with some moral standards. Iyke died at the unripe age of 23 back then so the word teenagers was misused.

Cc: Ishilove
Hokay sir. I bin tink sey I dey hail small boy since. tongue

Pele dear, it is well with you. Only you have the power to move on. Nothing we say will make any difference until you, by the grace of God, make up your mind to do what needs to done.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Anas09: 5:29pm On Jan 21
Kenneth4u205:
yes that was my first impression. The demons inside of him trying to possess another vessel. In short he has already possessed the guy. But I only said that it was the friends spirit because he died by accident. Spirit of those that died in sudden accident don't just depart suddenly. The hang around close friends or family for years. Some for ever. Until the come to accept that the are actually dead. Only then can the move on
The Familiar spirit was just trying to seek the consent of the guy. If that guy gives in that will be what the Bible calls 'A Lawful Captive'. It'll be very difficult to cast the demon out.

I hope he rejects those overtures. Satan is sure tricky.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by jesusjnr(m): 5:32pm On Jan 21
Anas09:

The Familiar spirit was just trying to seek the consent of the guy. If that guy gives in that will be what the Bible calls 'A Lawful Captive'. It'll be very difficult to cast the demon out.

I hope he rejects those overtures. Satan is sure tricky.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by PEPSI: 5:57pm On Jan 21
DOELOW DA PILOTMAN says the same thing on youtube!


Boss13:


This is not a struggle for knowledge - whatever you believe comes into existence. There are no demons. If you see one, you created it. And such creation only exist in the Astral plane, once you leave that plane to the cosmic - where fear and thought doesn’t exist, how can you create demons?

What do you think create demons - FEAR and what is fear? The Creator did not design the Universe to harm its creature. If within your experience, you have encountered a demon, seek within. Same occurrence happen in your dream - where you have created creatures chasing you, but immediately you come to realization, they disappear - you call it nightmare, but you created it.

I implore a real practical mystic to refute this. If you claim to be one and you still see and believe in demons, Oga go back to the drawing board.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Tony609(m): 6:31pm On Jan 21
Boss13:


Nope - there is nothing you can do for them. They are cleansing themselves from the material things they experienced on Earth. This is required to enable them access the Heavens where further training and instructions are required for their next assignment.
you can help the departed souls by praying to God to grant them eternal rest...... they will nev forgot u bro once the get to heaven
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Estellie: 8:21pm On Jan 21
MajorJeffery:
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

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I think you should go on with your plans of seeing a therapist, they are trained in psychotherapy so they make use of psychological means to solve problems , and I think the issue here is your mind and the relationship you shared with your late friend. There is this strong bond that death isn't enough to break, so you're probably still healing...and yeah, that can take more than ten years.

I can't tell you to stop thinking about him or to completely him off your mind, that cannot just happen at a moment, it's a gradual process so I think you should see a therapist to carry you along this gradual process...

I really think it's all psychological buh if you suspect something spiritual about it, going by the way it frequently occurs, then you should pray with an open heart and with faith...even with that, you should work towards your faith...


Nairalanders are funny though, from you both were involved in same sex relationship, to you had a hand in his death, you are owing him something, he wants to kill you, he has possessed your body....DAMNN... crazy, really crazy, wack beliefs...

Sirj, just go on with your plans and forget about all these cedences based on superstitions...
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Estellie: 8:25pm On Jan 21
MajorJeffery:
That word "teenager" was wrongly used as I wasn't under 20 in 2009. Having come under the kind of background that we did, we dared not bring women inside our homes in those days. We both had military dads and we were raised with some moral standards. Iyke died at the unripe age of 23 back then so the word teenagers was misused.

Cc: Ishilove
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Grandpa.... cheesy
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by MajorJeffery: 8:43pm On Jan 21
Estellie:
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Grandpa.... cheesy
Yes...my granddaughter, do you want some cookies? Lol

I laughed at some of the comments, imagine some begging to ask him about betnaija winning numbers. They were all helpful in different ways and I appreciate. Some gave critical advice and others made fun of the situation thereby making it less serious and worrisome.

Thanks dear.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by OgunRitualHouse(f): 12:54am On Jan 22
MajorJeffery:
Yes...my granddaughter, do you want some cookies? Lol

I laughed at some of the comments, imagine some begging to ask him about betnaija winning numbers. They were all helpful in different ways and I appreciate. Some gave critical advice and others made fun of the situation thereby making it less serious and worrisome.

Thanks dear.




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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by luvmijeje(f): 10:56am On Jan 22
Seandisputed:

If he gives them out, hope it won't affect the recipient?

No it won't. Simply because those he is giving it to have no relationship with the dead.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by SweetDami(f): 7:28pm On Jan 22
Well I had the same experience, my uncle's wife who died in year 2016 while I was in school has recently been appearing to me in dreams and it just the same thing she keeps showing me, the last time I saw her I told her daughter about it so the daughter said she dreamt the same thing about her mom. In conclusion, the deceased might be trying to pass a message and he/she purposely appeared to the fellow because of the trust and closeness between them, while sometimes it demons at work
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by ericmor: 10:24pm On Jan 22
Boss13:


Why do you think it’s backwardness. Materialistic thinking. She had in a previous comment, explained she loved her previous place of work and had made good friends there. She misses the place. Is there any thing wrong with that?

Ha Nigerians - I tire sometimes.

Your problem is that you don't understand life, and you think the way it work for you is the same way it will work for every other people. missing the place or not, she should do all she can to tackle it as long as it will help her situation. If you don't believe, then stick to what you believe in and let others live
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 11:37pm On Jan 22
sharpwriter:


Also, please explain Christian mysticism from your own point of view.

The practice of Christian spirituality, utilizing demonstrated spiritual practices and exercise from the scriptures and other sources. It is not the same as reading the Bible which is popular to church goers.

You can do a google search to know more. The disadvantage is that it is low level mysticism which operates within and around the Astral plane. However, it is a good start like Kabbalah and Jewish mysticism.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 11:38pm On Jan 22
Tony609:
you can help the departed souls by praying to God to grant them eternal rest...... they will nev forgot u bro once the get to heaven

You cannot do anything for those who have transcended. It’s more better to focus on yourself. Their time on Earth is done and they are in a more better place for their own development.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 11:41pm On Jan 22
Kenneth4u205:
yes that was my first impression. The demons inside of him trying to possess another vessel. In short he has already possessed the guy. But I only said that it was the friends spirit because he died by accident. Spirit of those that died in sudden accident don't just depart suddenly. The hang around close friends or family for years. Some for ever. Until the come to accept that the are actually dead. Only then can the move on

This is a terrible misconception. Some people postulate that those who participate in Astral or Soul travel expose the body to the risk of being taken over by extraterrestrial beings - LIES

Just as we have the umbilical cord as babies, there is a silver line cord that attaches the body to the spirit being.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by sharpwriter(m): 11:56pm On Jan 22
Boss13:


The practice of Christian spirituality, utilizing demonstrated spiritual practices and exercise from the scriptures and other sources. It is not the same as reading the Bible which is popular to church goers.

You can do a google search to know more. The disadvantage is that it is low level mysticism which operates within and around the Astral plane. However, it is a good start like Kabbalah and Jewish mysticism.

Okk... Thank you!
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by godwon01(m): 3:35pm On Jan 23
Boss13:


Please stop this nonsense.

There are laws in the spirit worlds or what I prefer to call Heavens. No spirit I repeat no extraterrestrial being can come to your existence without your invitation. Even you seeing a dead friend or relative is as a result of you missing that individual and YOU, I repeat YOU, via your subconscious, is recreating the imagery of that individual. What you see is not the soul or existence of that individual, but an image of your OWN creation.

In dreams - we create. We are co-creators like the Creator.

This Die by Fire messages need to stop.
That is my own views. Must U comment on it. The Mod seek advice from members and that was my submission. I am not forcing U to accept my opinion. U supposed to write your advice separately not following my opinion. U thought U know better than others. Continue writing your I too know .Bunch of saturated kids.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Stardust19: 6:59pm On Jan 23
Boss13:


I say this confidently that you are 100% percent extremely ignorant. Do you know what attaining the Christ level means. Christians have really degraded the Christ. Do you have a clue the other relevant wonderful spiritual beings assisting humans in their path of spiritual consciousness.

The Christ do not appear to everyone like that - please stop making ignorant statement. Do you know the level of purity you would have attained and the level of spiritual consciousness? Christians please respect the Christ consciousness even though you have misunderstood what it means for your selfish purpose

I tire for you, walahi.
You speak as if you know me. What is selfish in what I wrote? I didn’t force you to believe me, did I? BTW, it is not The Christ, it is Jesus Christ. Stop misleading people who don't know with a mixture of science, metaphysics and what not. You're either serving God according to the bible or you're not. There's no middle ground.

I understand you find it difficult to understand or conceive that God or the heavenly beings including angels do visit us in disguise more frequently than we can imagine because of your wrong perception of who God is. Please find the time to read Isaiah 45:5-7, 54:5 and Jeremiah 3:14. Any change in perspective?

God loves us so much more than we can ever imagine that is why He does not wait for us to be all holy or 100% righteous before He visits us or before He let's us see Him. Were the Israelites all 100% pure and holy before Jesus was born and lived among them? You really need more enlightenment about God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit.

Being very highly educated and intelligent and having read widely is not a guarantee of having a clear understanding of the ways of God. Science is not Christianity and you are inadvertently misleading a lot of people. There are no demons. Really? What do you think is the power behind esoteric practices? Science? Can science stop a bullet from penetrating one's body? Paul foresaw this in I Timothy 6:20-21.

The spirits that assist humans are simply angels, and btw, they do not have wings as you see in pictures and drawings. They are spirits in human form, male and female, but super fast and with super strength. Most times, they move in twos, the Leading angel who does most or all of the talking (gives the message) and is usually slightly taller or bigger, and the following angel who does very little or no talking at all.

They are extremely polite and kind and patient and sometimes appear very handsome if male or very pretty or beautiful if female but they would never seduce you or get too close to you to cause you to have dirty thoughts. That is the reason why sometimes you see someone you know in this world in your dream and they look 10-20 years younger and more handsome or more beautiful. They are angels in disguise as that person if they do no harm to you and do not lead you to commit sin.

They leave at the same point in space with the leading angel disappearing first and then the following angel disappears through the same exact point in space near you. Remain blessed.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Craziestgirl(f): 6:48pm On Feb 12
How I wish I am you!

I lost my only love over 10 years ago.
The appearance in my dreams has become seldom. How I wish I am you.
I have read tons of material on death and afterlife and concluded that 'life goes on.

You are gifted. That's why he stays in contact. He would have tried without success to contact others. Not everyone has the ability to 'receive' and not every decedent has the ability to 'send'.

Relax and Time will erode the frequency of your dreams. Meanwhile, try keep a diary of your dreams. It's very valuable.

How I wish I am you!

'God' bless his soul and God bless you.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by alvinrr: 4:40pm On Feb 14
You dreamed of him because you just missed him. That's all.
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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Ola17: 6:25pm On Feb 14
Boss13:


Yes I do - they have destroyed the fabric of our spiritual existence. They have confused young souls and led them astray. They claim to be wise, but are foolish. They claim to have knowledge, but know nothing about the spiritual worlds. They are like magicians or tricksters that have no special skills.

If you read comments - it’s echos the teachings of false and ignorant pastors. It took me a while to break free from ignorant pastors and now I’m wiser. I am better. I understand myself more. I am a seeker. I now have a better understanding of death and why we are here on earth .

Hi Boss13, I just came across this your comment. Please tell me why we are here if you don't mind. I'm dying to know.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Ola17: 8:46pm On Feb 14
luvmijeje:
Major Jeffery, what you are going through is not normal and for you not to be comfortable with it buttress the point.

This is what you will do. It's time for environmental sanitation. I want you to go through every of your belongings and check for things he has given to you as gifts or things you guys have shared together. Please give them out, if it's not worthy please throw it away.

How would you feel if your loved ones throw away/forgets all the good times you shared together just because of some superstitious belief?
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by MajorJeffery: 1:39am On Feb 17
Craziestgirl:
How I wish I am you!

I lost my only love over 10 years ago.
The appearance in my dreams has become seldom. How I wish I am you.
I have read tons of material on death and afterlife and concluded that 'life goes on.

You are gifted. That's why he stays in contact. He would have tried without success to contact others. Not everyone has the ability to 'receive' and not every decedent has the ability to 'send'.

Relax and Time will erode the frequency of your dreams. Meanwhile, try keep a diary of your dreams. It's very valuable.

How I wish I am you!

'God' bless his soul and God bless you.
Thank you ma'am.
Try to move on too. Don't let him be your only love, try to let go.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by orisa37: 8:13am On Feb 17
Yes. It's normal.

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