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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by franchasng(m): 1:32pm On Jan 20
RhemaDavids:
I keep seeing my self in my previous place of work, although I have stopped working there for over two years but I always see my self going back there to work, even when where I am now is far more better. the dream Is becoming constant and I can't place anything to it.
Christian wise, its a spirit of setback which you need deliverance from.

Christian wise, it means the enemy, your enemies are not happy you have moved to a better life, they are trying to take you back to your Egypt.

I don't want to go psychological or paronormal side. If you are a Christian, seek for spiritual help

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by PerfectlyPerfect(m): 1:33pm On Jan 20
Boss13:


What are you scared of? How about you missing your friend than imagined. Subconsciously, your mind is recreating scenarios with your friend in it. Harness this invaluable opportunity and engage your subconscious mind.

There is nothing demonic about it. There is nothing dangerous about it. I believe your subconscious mind wants to pass a message to you and you are not listening. Now is time to listen!
OP said it's been 10 years. Don't you think that's a very long time?

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Les(f): 1:33pm On Jan 20
bloodofthelamb:


Bro, you and who is under death sentence after all that Christ has done on the cross? Don't you that through one man death reigned even so through another man eternal life reigns.

I am not among those who is under death sentence. I'm under life sentence.
he is right physically, you're right spiritually.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by onward4life(m): 1:33pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

.

Bro be happy... Him no complain

At least he isn't tryna hurt yu.

Yu and him all good (boys Tins)

Maybe he planned to ask yu do a tin for him

Or he had some discussion in mind b4 the incident

Is nothing yu as a guy yu dey miss ur buddy

And probably wished he was here with yu

And by now Una for still dey hang out together.

Like me I see my dad so much in my dreams

Him still dey rep father figure.

Like I can have him at will these days sef.

# Blood brothers bond

I saw moments my mouth can't remember

For those of us that saw loved ones go

#Takeheart

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 1:34pm On Jan 20
RhemaDavids:
I keep seeing my self in my previous place of work, although I have stopped working there for over two years but I always see my self going back there to work, even when where I am now is far more better. the dream Is becoming constant and I can't place anything to it.

You love your previous workplace. You like the people there and the bond you have developed. You miss the place and you are not yet settled where you are currently working.

I do not live in Nigeria but I keep dreaming about Nigeria. In fact 90% of my dream locations are in Nigeria. This is because I miss Nigeria. With time, I know it will reduce.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Angelawhite(m): 1:34pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done some things for him earlier especially immediately after his sudden death. He came in the dream some time ago and showed a document his mum was searching for weeks at their house. I went to their house that morning, got inside his room and brought out the documents from where he hid them exactly the place he showed me in the dream.

Recently, it's about a lady I don't even know and haven't met. In the dream, he had her as girlfriend and was about to propose. When the time came for that, I suddenly couldn't see him near me so I proposed to the girl on his behalf giving her a reason that my friend was shy.(I mean who does such) It was just real and he later showed up and started laughing sheepishly.

There are more stories and the thing is that I never thought about him before sleeping.

It’s bond. The bond was strong . I lost my mom 16 years ago and she still appears in my dreams. When a person has become part of your subconscious, it’s difficult to erase that memory . I lost my childhood friend 10 years ago - I see him occasionally in my dreams. It’s just that the bond formed part of your history and shaped most of your belief systems . It’s like it’s been ingrained in your blood. Can you forget the smell of fried plantains?

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by ken6488(m): 1:34pm On Jan 20
this one na real 10years challenge ooo
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by sacx: 1:35pm On Jan 20
bloodofthelamb:


Bro, you and who is under death sentence after all that Christ has done on the cross? Don't you that through one man death reigned even so through another man eternal life reigns.

I am not among those who is under death sentence. I'm under life sentence.

Really? Yet if I ask you if immortality can be attained here and now, you will tell me no
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by sureheaven(m): 1:35pm On Jan 20
There is no connection between the dead and living.

You need to pray against it or else you may likely join him (God forbids) because like poles attracts. sad

The dead can't come to life again but the living can join the dead.
What you are witnessing is the handwork of the devil and the meaning are in two ways.
(1)... Either the spirit of death is calling you or
(2)... Most times you see him in the dream, whatever you lay your hands during that time will end up futility.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Richy4(m): 1:36pm On Jan 20
kingreign:
Go for deliverance

Yes!!!..Before I opened this.. ...I kinda know that some one will say this cheesy

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 1:37pm On Jan 20
PerfectlyPerfect:

OP said it's been 10 years. Don't you think that's a very long time?

Nothing wrong with the length of time. In spiritual world time and space do not exist.

He misses his friend. The person he sees is not his friend but a recreation of his friend’s image by his subconscious mind. His subconscious mind wants to communicate with him. Who is a better image than a friend he loves and misses.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Honeysweetest(f): 1:37pm On Jan 20
and for people that think there is life after death, well is truth, that life is either in hell or in heaven, Bible say that after death, judgement follows, no coming back, no Incarnation, some even see the dead physically, wow, demons at work. be careful, there is no message that God can't give you through the help of the Holy Spirit, make him your friend and you will stop being deceived.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by victorian(f): 1:38pm On Jan 20
Its normal

I gist with my late brother in dreams, he follows me in my dreams to places . smiley

My late mum , I see her in dreams , sometimes she takes me shopping or gives me money. Nothing bad has happened to me afterwards

I don't see anything wrong with it . My Step brother said I should always reject and bind them out of my life and its bad omen .
I gazed at him with disdain and I reply bind fire!
Abeg! Don't come and put sand sand for my garri, biko. Its been like 8years till date av been dreaming of them and I like it .
Although I miss them a lot .its only through dreams I get to interact ,play and Go out with them , so why bind them out of my life again.? angry
Abeg I won't ! I miss them badly , thank God I still get to be with them in dreams .

Op its normal!

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by jumper524(m): 1:39pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

.
give alms to the poor on his behalf, I mean alms that would shake you like your best shirt, 50% of your already planned salary or anything that means so much to you on his behalf.

you just need to settle something on his behalf..

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by sparta231(m): 1:39pm On Jan 20
tolugar:
Engage him in a discussion.

He maybe trying to pass a message.

u watch too much yoruba film

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by kingreign(m): 1:39pm On Jan 20
Richy4:


Yes!!!..Before I opened this.. ...I kinda know that some one will say this cheesy
So now I have said it, does it make any difference? undecided

You spiritually shallow mortals that knows nothing about spirituality keep on your lane allow me stay my own lane.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Honeysweetest(f): 1:40pm On Jan 20
Boss13:


You love your previous workplace. You like the people there and the bond you have developed. You miss the place and you are not yet settled where you are currently working.

I do not live in Nigeria but I keep dreaming about Nigeria. In fact 90% of my dream locations are in Nigeria. This is because I miss Nigeria. With time, I know it will reduce.
thank you, I like the positivity, some would have said is spirit of Set back.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Mankosi: 1:40pm On Jan 20
Were u guys gay when he was alive?

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Franklin58(m): 1:40pm On Jan 20
It's a ten years challenge. Chill and enjoy the memory..
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Jiang(m): 1:41pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

.

It's simple, Ur friend need prayers from you & you don't seem to be doing it

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by mastermaestro(m): 1:41pm On Jan 20
RhemaDavids:
I keep seeing my self in my previous place of work, although I have stopped working there for over two years but I always see my self going back there to work, even when where I am now is far more better. the dream Is becoming constant and I can't place anything to it.

You didn't complete your assignment there.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by kingreign(m): 1:41pm On Jan 20
RhemaDavids:
I keep seeing my self in my previous place of work, although I have stopped working there for over two years but I always see my self going back there to work, even when where I am now is far more better. the dream Is becoming constant and I can't place anything to it.

You need to pray and deliver yourself from stagnation.

Don't allow those spiritually weak folks talk you into confusion.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by gypsey(m): 1:41pm On Jan 20
Boss13:


Very well said. Another example is sleeping on an empty stomach. Definitely, you would dream of having many to eat. However, your pastors would say eating in dreams is witchcraft.

Ignore the lies of your pastors - they are the real demons
Absolutely! grin grin


Pastors are just like politicians, they create a problem, pretend to offer help solve the problem they created in the first place and charge their Gullible members for it by demanding thithes and donations from them.
and on and on it goes.


If a pastor solves all My problems that means i wouldn't need him Anymore. so he creates more fear and paranoia to keep me needing him thereby paying more thithes and donations to him and he keeps smiling to the bank and to keep me paying him more he keeps creating even more fear and paranoia.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Penisinpenisout(m): 1:41pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done some things for him earlier especially immediately after his sudden death. He came in the dream some time ago and showed a document his mum was searching for weeks at their house. I went to their house that morning, got inside his room and brought out the documents from where he hid them exactly the place he showed me in the dream.

Recently, it's about a lady I don't even know and haven't met. In the dream, he had her as girlfriend and was about to propose. When the time came for that, I suddenly couldn't see him near me so I proposed to the girl on his behalf giving her a reason that my friend was shy.(I mean who does such) It was just real and he later showed up and started laughing sheepishly.

There are more stories and the thing is that I never thought about him before sleeping.


Your friend means you no harm, but he lingers around you, even as you type this. You can only see him in your dreams
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Eberejesus111(m): 1:42pm On Jan 20
MajorJeffery:
I've done this before here with an old moniker about two years ago or so but this still persist. What can I do? I'm already thinking of seeing a therapist but I thought I should raise it here again.

This happens at least three nights every week and in recent dreams, I see myself trying to help him achieve a feat.

The irony is that sometimes in the dream, it occurred to me that he was dead but yet I still not cared.

This is 10years now that I lost him in a road accident. Even as teenagers, we were so close that we shared clothes and some people thought we were blood brothers.

I discussed this with his mum sometime ago and she told me she had a feeling her dead son was existing somewhere and that got me thinking. Could this be true?

.
First of all, ill advice you to pray, ask God for answers there is nothing to hard for him to answer. And even, now being a representative of God, I answer hard questions and I'll give you your answer.
My dear friend, there would have been something you promised your friend to achieve when you guys ha been little and you haven't fulfilled it. Do that, before you find rest. Perhaps apsirations, you both had in the future. You seem to have forgotten it, that's why his always putting you to remeberance in your dream.
Relieve that promise or plea you had made with him a long time ago and fulfill it.
And lastly, pray, pray pray, pray and pray....God would give you the directions. God in heaven would make you remember and give you the directions for you to attain it.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Boss13: 1:43pm On Jan 20
victorian:
Its normal

I gist with my late brother in dreams, he follows me in my dreams to places . smiley

My late mum , I see her in dreams , sometimes she takes me shopping or gives me money. Nothing bad has happened to me afterwards

I don't see anything wrong with it . My Step brother said I should always reject and bind them out of my life and its bad omen .
I gazed at him with disdain and I reply bind fire!
Abeg! Don't come and put sand sand for my garri, biko. Its been like 8years till date av been dreaming of them and I like it .
Although I miss them a lot .its only through dreams I get to interact ,play and Go out with them , so why bind them out of my life again.? angry
Abeg I won't ! I miss them badly , thank God I still get to be with them in dreams .

Op its normal!

That’s why you dream of them because you miss them. Your subconscious mind is recreating this beautiful scenes with them. Listen deep to what they tell you, your mind is communicating with you.

When you practice this with discipline- you will begin to gain mastery of your life.
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by woodrow(m): 1:43pm On Jan 20
Boss13:


Lies - I still see my dead mom in my dreams. I know she is dead and gone. Maybe because I still miss her or my subconscious mind intend to communicate in a way I would understand and my mom either scolding me or advising me is a better option.

Harness the power of your mind people and ignore the lies of your pastors

A pastor/imam/religious leader is a human being just like anybody.your life should not depend on either one of them.
Obviously from your post u have something against pastors cos I made no mention of anything about pastors but real life talk
If u feel seeing ur mum is cool,no problem.keep communicating...is it my communication? Nothing in life happens by mistake.there would have been a plan from the onset.either u r religious or an atheist,what wld be wld be.
Live right,live your life..we all die one day.cheers.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Passionate888: 1:43pm On Jan 20
Ask him every night you see him to give you sure 6 odds.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Ishilove: 1:44pm On Jan 20
sureheaven:
There is no connection between the dead and living.

You need to pray against it or else you may likely join him (God forbids) because like poles attracts. sad

The dead can't come to life again but the living can join the dead.
What you are witnessing is the handwork of the devil and the meaning are in two ways.
(1)... Either the spirit of death is calling you or
(2)... Most times you see him in the dream, whatever you lay your hands during that time will end up futility.
QED
Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by Mayormanuel: 1:44pm On Jan 20
understanding spirit or dreaming about that person that died long ago is not something u should be discussing with everyone or any one, u did dy right thing telling the mother an u should equally know that he can't hurt u, all u need to do is create a platform to understand yur best friend, it might not sound normal but don't be afraid of somebody u called yur best friend because he/she is now death.
no one will help u, rather dy will lie an keep lying to u. He is trying to tell u something, or preventing something from happening etc for that to happen u must first position, think, focus an be realistic and u shall find what u seek.

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Re: A Friend Died Since 2009 And Still Appears In My Dreams, Is This Normal? by deebrownneymar: 1:45pm On Jan 20
Maybe you could have saved your friend's life. Or you guys where into a same sex relationship. Why not go to the pastor that collects your tithes and offerings every Sunday. If you're a Muslim then go to your imam.

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