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Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Happysunday: 2:43pm On Jan 20, 2019
I am 24 years old university student from Edo state. I met this Yoruba guy 6 months ago. He is a Lagos big boy, Nice house, a couple of rides and a good job.

My problem is he has never bought me a gift or given me money. Not even on Xmas day, or my birthday. But he takes me out and lets me eat and drink till I have my stomach filled up. He can pop champagne but whenever i stylishly say I’m broke, he will pretend not to hear.

He spends large sums of money when we go clubbing but he won’t even give me a penny. I used to think he liked dropping me off at home because he cared but I’m starting to think it’s because he doesn’t want to give me money for cab. If I want to cook for him, he will buy all the ingredients himself and say he doesn’t want me to stress myself. Now I know it’s a lie.

However he tells me he loves me and wants to marry me. His friends call me Iyawo or wifey, My friends tell me if a man loves me, he will spend and buy gifts. They say he is just using me because we found out in the past, he has bought gifts for his ex’es. He even gave one money to shop in Dubai.

Please HappiGist readers is he just testing me. Can a man love you and be stingy?

Guys is it possible to love a woman and not spend on her for 6 months? Please help me because I don’t want to fall mugu this 2019.

Please,drop your answers in the comment box!!

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Kira290(m): 3:33pm On Jan 20, 2019
Hmmmmm

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Taguchi: 3:42pm On Jan 20, 2019
nne I can't categorically give you any advice for now as I don't know the technology he is using
all I can tell you to keep ur pants away from him for now le me consult the oracle

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by MissRaine69(f): 3:44pm On Jan 20, 2019
A prime example of the type of woman any hard working men should avoid
Especially the ones that confuse champagne and cava brut.

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jan 20, 2019
I know you accept him because he is Lagos big boy like you describe him but the table turn around
I am having the gut to call you girls [ legal thief ]

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Jan 20, 2019
Fvck boy. You can't love without giving.
Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jan 20, 2019
v4victor:
I think u should stop feeling entitled.

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Why not just take it to computer village and sell it?

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by highpriestess: 4:29pm On Jan 20, 2019
He's a ritualist.
That's what his native doctor asked him to do.
Get yourself out of that relationship and go for deliverance

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jan 20, 2019
He is a yahoo boy.

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by ubunja(m): 5:12pm On Jan 20, 2019
Go make your own money.
This is 2019 and you are an independent woman. It shouldn't be too hard.

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jan 20, 2019
Valerie47:
He is a yahoo boy.
how did you know undecided
Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by louken(m): 7:38pm On Jan 20, 2019
Gold diggers everywhere

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by mhizdebbygold(f): 7:43pm On Jan 20, 2019
Biliv it or not a man that loves you will spend his money for you even if he doesn't give you money in six figures...what's cab money that he can't give you he'll rather drop you off than give you cash dats rubbish he should go test his granmama, babe he doesn't love you period if he wants to test you why will he be buying things for you at first

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by kutenrich(m): 7:51pm On Jan 20, 2019
Trabaja duro por tu dinero
Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by blackgold2018(m): 7:51pm On Jan 20, 2019
louken:
Gold diggers everywhere
As in.. but seriously I really pity ladies that claim they have boyfriends while deep down the guy's mind she's just his fuckmate.

To all ladies please b wise when to know you really hv a boyfriend.

To the Op he's not your boyfriend. You r just a side chick. No matter what marriage promises or his friends calling u wifey.. abi u think u r d only one they call wifey? Chicken brain.

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by samysmoothfresh: 8:06pm On Jan 20, 2019
Madam, your "lagos big boy" is a yahoo boy.



Yahoo boys will never give you money in hand but are ever ready to take to out to eatries and clubhouse to spend huge amounts of money on you.


The questions now are:


1. is he into plain yahoo or advanced g+ yahoo?


2. Are your pants safe?

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by itsmeurLady(f): 8:13pm On Jan 20, 2019
NL guys shld stop this gold digger thing, it is becoming Childish... Haha? If you love a girl wether independent or not, won't u spend on her Now before u say WATS wrong in me spending, there's nothing absolutely wrong as well but he has to show that he can give to me as well even before I ask. I hate asking guys for money, so if u can't use your brain to give me for like 6 months, I move! Gat no time for stingy men and I don't see why I shld pretend abt it.

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by ademoladeji(m): 8:18pm On Jan 20, 2019
What qualifies him to be a Big Boy?

Must he give you money? Buy you gifts?

Since you're a student, I'd advice you face your studies and stop eating your future popping champagne in Lagos while you're supposed to be in school reading
Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by originals1(m): 8:24pm On Jan 20, 2019
Chai Sorry to say, u ve already fallen mugu sad
i need u to judge urself, FOR ''6 MONTHS'' his money hasnt touched ur hands... And btw i dont wanna conclude, which work is he into?
Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by v4victor: 8:27pm On Jan 20, 2019
Madam, stop feeling entitled to someone's money. He owes u nothing

Btw, I have a used HP 250 laptop for sale. 500GB hard disk with a long lasting battery at an affordable price. Interested buyers within and around Port Harcourt should holla me on 08101572063
Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by CyberWolf: 8:35pm On Jan 20, 2019
That’s a ritualist there. Madam run away now that you’re still alive.
Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Mankosi: 8:37pm On Jan 20, 2019
He will die once he give u money. That's yahoo plus level 12
Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Mankosi: 8:40pm On Jan 20, 2019
Taguchi:
nne I can't categorically give you any advice for now as I don't know the technology he is using
all I can tell you to keep ur pants away from him for now le me consult the oracle
lol.
Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by skywalker240(m): 8:53pm On Jan 20, 2019
A Wisê man once said, many ladies are walking c.... grin
Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Randy100: 8:59pm On Jan 20, 2019
That guy is rare. Op it is better that you missed heaven than to miss this guy. My humble opinion.
Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by sparkle7: 11:18pm On Jan 20, 2019
itsmeurLady:
NL guys shld stop this gold digger thing, it is becoming Childish... Haha? If you love a girl wether independent or not, won't u spend on her Now before u say WATS wrong in me spending, there's nothing absolutely wrong as well but he has to show that he can give to me as well even before I ask. I hate asking guys for money, so if u can't use your brain to give me for like 6 months, I move! Gat no time for stingy men and I don't see why I shld pretend abt it.
I dont think Boys give out money these days like that, You have to Earn it!
But i cant starve my gf for 6 months tho, if i have one.

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Shola2009(m): 1:02am On Jan 21, 2019
From what you've said, it seems he doesn't see you as a good investment. How else does he show his love / seriousness with you? because all this we go out to eat and we club together, could be done with pretty much any random girl/ person.

Also, what do you bring to the relationship? All i've read is about him spending money on you and not much else. Seems one sided.

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Re: Please Advice: Is My Stingy Boyfriend Using Or Testing Me? by Nobody: 2:02am On Jan 21, 2019
Run babe...

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