Let her go,if you can't cope.There is always that one person she will be submissive to.

You're a phool if you continue with the relationship. That's all I have to say.

Nijanija:
Hello guys ,please I need an advice on how to deal with the above headlines .........so it is about my lady and I . We have been into a relationship for the past 6 months. Fast forward ;

I got to find out in the early part of our relationship that she use to have a long discussion on the phone with someone I do not know, each time I try to call her on phone. So I was forced to ask her if she has a man she's been friends with, she confessed to me that they have been dating for over 8 years and the relationships once hit the rocks due to the fact that the man refused to go see her parents.

So later in the month of January, she told me the man will be coming home to bury his mum along side her siblings. So the week she was to go meet the man in Lagos which was her usual practice each time he's coming home, we had a quarrel about her meeting with the man after she promised me it was over between them. So we ended up settling our differences and I agreed to let her go see the man.

Since over two weeks my lady has been with the man despite the man's wife threats to leave her husband alone. She is still with the man.

I want to know if such relationship is healthy for me . As I'm losing patient and focus to daily activities (She is stubborn and won't admit her fault)

Make I dash you one like

Nijanija:

@ madridguy , we are not full knowledge and neither are void of mistake . This happens for a purpose that's why I seek for you people 's opinion on this . She is that kind of lady who will help out each time she pays me a visit . She will do the cleaning and all sought of things u can ever imagine a lady will do . She never gave me headache for once not until the guy came back .

F.uck that sh.it.
She is with you not with her heart and emotion but with her brains.
She is far smarter than you in this relationship
Be there and be forming 'she is nice'
Quit that relationship now
I don't want to insult you if not I would have called you a mumu Dundee zombie

anjigirl:
This mumu allowed his girl friend to go and meet another man

no mind am. Ordinary fok him no fit fok, mtcheeeeeeeew

Bro, if u knw wat's good 4 ur health, send a txt to her, n tell her it's over. She clearly loves dat guy more than u.

ybalogs:
You're a phool if you continue with the relationship. That's all I have to say.

Well technically, you meant to say A FOOL?

madridguy:
@ OP are you for real or just open this thread for opening sake?
Your GF is meeting with a man and you still consider her your GF? Are you sure you're sound health wise? I don't think so.

The OP is a complete dunce. Imagine his girlfriend sleeping with a married man for 2weeks and he is still calling her his girlfriend.

Some guys no just get sense I swear.

My friend any iota of disrespectful from a lady move away and move on. The damage of being a sisi has been done already.. u can't undo it.

It's not a healthy relationship
Leave before you lose your sanity...

Op just wan open thread.

Men! Pls do nt beat her cos dats killing ur repute ,
Just break wt her ass.. Dat wl pain her more,n ur respect wl miraculously come 2 u

Women! If a sweet 16 disrespect u just because u share d same men, just organize hot rape 4 her

Both sex tank me larer

Nijanija:
Hello guys ,please I need an advice on how to deal with the above headlines .........so it is about my lady and I . We have been into a relationship for the past 6 months. Fast forward ;

I got to find out in the early part of our relationship that she use to have a long discussion on the phone with someone I do not know, each time I try to call her on phone. So I was forced to ask her if she has a man she's been friends with, she confessed to me that they have been dating for over 8 years and the relationships once hit the rocks due to the fact that the man refused to go see her parents.

So later in the month of January, she told me the man will be coming home to bury his mum along side her siblings. So the week she was to go meet the man in Lagos which was her usual practice each time he's coming home, we had a quarrel about her meeting with the man after she promised me it was over between them. So we ended up settling our differences and I agreed to let her go see the man.

Since over two weeks my lady has been with the man despite the man's wife threats to leave her husband alone. She is still with the man.

I want to know if such relationship is healthy for me . As I'm losing patient and focus to daily activities (She is stubborn and won't admit her fault)

You are the fool in this involvement of yours. Meditate over what you have just written down and decide on your own whether you want to continue in your foolery or want to be sensible.

Foundation already is faulty so back out now. I repeat now.

Nijanija:

@ madridguy , we are not full knowledge and neither are void of mistake . This happens for a purpose that's why I seek for you people 's opinion on this . She is that kind of lady who will help out each time she pays me a visit . She will do the cleaning and all sought of things u can ever imagine a lady will do . She never gave me headache for once not until the guy came back .

Mumu

It's not a healthy relationship
Leave before you lose your sanity

@Op, you don't have a babe or lover. What you have is a friend, perhaps with benefit.

In fact, I am tempted to call you a fool; I mean no offence. How can you think you have a steady-relationship with that woman?

My advice: forget about marriage to her. You are the rebound guy and enjoy the s.ex while it lasts but be on the look for your potential wife and when you meet her, run away from this selfish w.hore like a "Bolt on 100meters dash".

Nijanija:
Hello guys ,please I need an advice on how to deal with the above headlines .........so it is about my lady and I . We have been into a relationship for the past 6 months. Fast forward ;

I got to find out in the early part of our relationship that she use to have a long discussion on the phone with someone I do not know, each time I try to call her on phone. So I was forced to ask her if she has a man she's been friends with, she confessed to me that they have been dating for over 8 years and the relationships once hit the rocks due to the fact that the man refused to go see her parents.

So later in the month of January, she told me the man will be coming home to bury his mum along side her siblings. So the week she was to go meet the man in Lagos which was her usual practice each time he's coming home, we had a quarrel about her meeting with the man after she promised me it was over between them. So we ended up settling our differences and I agreed to let her go see the man.

Since over two weeks my lady has been with the man despite the man's wife threats to leave her husband alone. She is still with the man.

I want to know if such relationship is healthy for me . As I'm losing patient and focus to daily activities (She is stubborn and won't admit her fault)

You're just wasting your time being with a slvt that has no moral.
Cheating is one thing but to go to the length of cheating with a married man.'Man! You need to use your brain.

Nijanija:
Hello guys ,please I need an advice on how to deal with the above headlines .........so it is about my lady and I . We have been into a relationship for the past 6 months. Fast forward ;

I got to find out in the early part of our relationship that she use to have a long discussion on the phone with someone I do not know, each time I try to call her on phone. So I was forced to ask her if she has a man she's been friends with, she confessed to me that they have been dating for over 8 years and the relationships once hit the rocks due to the fact that the man refused to go see her parents.

So later in the month of January, she told me the man will be coming home to bury his mum along side her siblings. So the week she was to go meet the man in Lagos which was her usual practice each time he's coming home, we had a quarrel about her meeting with the man after she promised me it was over between them. So we ended up settling our differences and I agreed to let her go see the man.

Since over two weeks my lady has been with the man despite the man's wife threats to leave her husband alone. She is still with the man.

I want to know if such relationship is healthy for me . As I'm losing patient and focus to daily activities (She is stubborn and won't admit her fault)

You clearly have too much time and patience on your hand.

okay

lmaooo

"Oponu pora mole" you are a big fool. Dey their dey asking me your next step..Go borrow word from mtn who want to be a millionaire ( Frank Edozie) 'l walk away' you too walk away!!!

Nijanija:

@ madridguy , we are not full knowledge and neither are void of mistake . This happens for a purpose that's why I seek for you people 's opinion on this . She is that kind of lady who will help out each time she pays me a visit . She will do the cleaning and all sought of things u can ever imagine a lady will do . She never gave me headache for once not until the guy came back .

Sorry to say but you don't have sense, that's why the girl is using your brains.
Imaging her with a married man for 2 weeks, doing what exactly?

Gosh, some guys are just daft

imagine still calling the biitch "my lady"......ur in relationship with you and your self only....





Mtcheeeeeeeew...... BTW..... at my age I don't comment on stewpid Post

Did you type" my lady "Correct it to our lady and face your front since her mind is with her ex/ friend .hmmm there are things only you knows the answer which is japa

He gave her permission to see a married ex.This generation of men are something else....love it though.

Na this kind thing dey cause I said I was pregnant, I never said I was pregnant for you.

Guy relationship get ups and downs but if one babe or guy wan take you for a ride, just drop am like it's hot.

Nijanija:

@ madridguy , we are not full knowledge and neither are void of mistake . This happens for a purpose that's why I seek for you people 's opinion on this . She is that kind of lady who will help out each time she pays me a visit . She will do the cleaning and all sought of things u can ever imagine a lady will do . She never gave me headache for once not until the guy came back .

if she do all the cleaning as u said then employ her as your househelp while to look for another girl to marry, she only good as house help not as wife. But some guys self.

looooool