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After he told me that, it was the jolt I needed and I took a decision.. The next morning I detected the 231 porn videos in my phone.


I've not watched porn or masturbated since. But sometimes the temptation is so great. [/quote] Subhanalah

AONE555:
Get yourself a bea or olosho
Or visit em brothels ..
After this, if you can't stop that silly habit then chooke yourself...
.

lol

loveDcross:


Thanks I want to fear God and hate the sin but though i prayed several times. AT last i heard a voice to pray for a humble heart. I want an immediate exit from this habit

lol ..u had a voice

loveDcross:


Thanks I want to fear God and hate the sin but though i prayed several times. AT last i heard a voice to pray for a humble heart. I want an immediate exit from this habit

Take that decision and stand by it bro. Narrow is the way, strive to enter.... Friendliness with the world always remains enmity with God.

May God grant you the grace

All this long sermon won't change anything,the ultimate way to stop is by not being idle, whenever the urge comes go out for a walk or surround yourself with people,if you have a job you wouldn't be thinking of stroking your preek.

JayIlych:


Prayer may or may not help. It's actually a battle of the mind. Even in the Bible, apostle Paul said YOU put off these old things, not God will put it off for you.


The battle begins with you. Renew your mind and be on constant guard.

True in a way though
Mine was more of prayers, because i had always made up my mind to stop it, and I'll make resolution only for me to fall back one way or another. Then i embarked on a 3 days fast and prayers around July last year and trust me, i've not done it since then.

Seandisputed:


True in a way though
Mine was more of prayers, because i had always made up my mind to stop it, and I'll make resolution only for me to fall back one way or another. Then i embarked on a 3 days fast and prayers around July last year and trust me, i've not done it since then.

Whatever works for you bro.

Some people talk to elders about it and after opening up and exposing their innermost secret, they find it hard to go back

Seandisputed:


True in a way though
Mine was more of prayers, because i had always made up my mind to stop it, and I'll make resolution only for me to fall back one way or another. Then i embarked on a 3 days fast and prayers around July last year and trust me, i've not done it since then.

You are right, just resumed prayer now and I am feeling better. Without fervent prayer it is impossible to be free from sin. May God help us all

loveDcross:
I am addicted to lusting after ladies bodies especially ass and beautiful face, i want to control myself but i keep finding it difficult. it is leading me into massive consumption of porn and masturbation. Please i need a serious advice, i tried reading my bible consuming 20 -50 chapters a day but it is not changing anything, it is even getting worse as porn gets darker and darker. I find it hard to resist the urge. Please any reasonable advice on how to stop this madness.

Pray

JayIlych:
My guy. It's never easy. Once you're addicted, it's very difficult to stop.


I started when I was 14.

Ive been hearing stories of how masturbation ruined so many relationships and marriages, I tried to stop bub saw myself going back.

I think all it takes is a jolt or an encounter.

My own jolt came when my guy told me how it almost rendered him almost impotent.


He couldn't get it up with a girl but got it up with porn.

After he stopped, it took his preek 3 months to readjust.

After he told me that, it was the jolt I needed and I took a decision.. The next morning I detected the 231 porn videos in my phone.


I've not watched porn or masturbated since. But sometimes the temptation is so great.

231 porn, boss, I cut for you, you na master, you na porn lord.
231 porn, guuuy, I salute, ALL HAIL THE LORD OF PORN.
BUT THANK GOD SAY YOU DON CHANGE YOUR TERRIBLE WAYS SHA, AT LEAST, NOW YOUR MB GO DE LAST.

BEFORE I SAY ANYTHING, I'M NOT ADVISING YOU TO MAKE A VOW, IT IS VERY DANGEROUS, CUS IF YOU BREAK IT, GOD WILL DEAL WITH YOU, EVEN THE BIBLE WARNED ABOUT MAKING VOWS YOU CAN'T KEEP, READ Ecclesiastes 5:3-6,

that been said,

It requires a stronger force to stop an addiction such as masturbation, I know of someone who stopped some years ago cus he made a vow to God concerning it that he will not masturbate for the next few years, cus of the fear of God, he has not broken his vow.

Also, there is one thing you should know, real Christians are dead to sin, they do not struggle with sin, cus avoiding sin is not by our human power, it's just by God's grace.
things you should do if you really want to be dead to not just masturbation, but to all forms of sin:

1. Join a church service group and take it seriously.
2. Join evangelism group and take it seriously.
3. Read your bible and pray everyday.
4. Delete all worldly music from your phone.

Come to Christ fully, give him your all, and you will be surprised how easy it will be for you to avoid sin, you will just find out that you naturally hate sin, you will start living a holy life without any effort, and you will have unusual peace and happiness, life will be soooo sweet and simple.

Doing these things I've listed is simple, but it's not easy, the most difficult thing is to start, once you start, God will give you the grace to continue, and after doing them fora little while, they become part of your life style, just start, start now this Sunday, if you procrastinate, then you are likely not to do them.

You are just self starved

loveDcross:
I am addicted to lusting after ladies bodies especially ass and beautiful face, i want to control myself but i keep finding it difficult. it is leading me into massive consumption of porn and masturbation. Please i need a serious advice, i tried reading my bible consuming 20 -50 chapters a day but it is not changing anything, it is even getting worse as porn gets darker and darker. I find it hard to resist the urge. Please any reasonable advice on how to stop this madness.

GENUINE SALVATION(HOW TO GET IT)







The starting point for a relationship with God is to forsake sin." Let the wicked forsake his way,and the unrighteous man his thoughts:and let him return unto the Lord,and He will abundantly pardon"( Isaiah 55:7). What separate man from God is sin,and you can never please God without being save.Also, your self -righteousness can never take you to heaven.(whether you are a philanthropist,without being save,your works are all in vain,your generosity can never take you to heaven.), "For they being ignorant of God's righteousness,and going about to establish their own righteousness,have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God."(Romans 10:3)," An hypocrite shall not come before Him"(Job 13:16). Your self righteousness separate you from God.



We must turn away from sin and completely surrender our life to Christ.God is ever ready to forgive."There is no sin that is too great for God to forgive if we turn from it to him". It is very easy to have genuine salvation.The first step you need to take in getting it is to;



(1) Acknowledge that you are a sinner: "All men are sinners,for all have sinned and come short of the glory of God"(Romans 3:23). you need to be in a serene vicinity inorder to commune with God effectively or right now you can commune with God,acknowledge that you are a sinner.



(2) Confess:" ...covereth his sin shall not prosper..." Confess all your sins to God with a contrite heart,plead for His mercy,ask for His forgiveness,cry out to Him with sincerity.(There is no point going through your pastor,bishop to confess and ask God for forgiveness,that was before,but now we have direct access to God, as soon as Jesus died for us,the way was opened into the Holy of Holies,talk to God by your self,confess to Him not through your bishop,revered father,pastor etc).



(3) At this point you need to make a covenant with God by promising Him not to go back to the sins you have left behind, forsake your sin wholeheartedly.



(4) Believe on Jesus that you have been pardon and forgiven:" If thou shalt... believe in thine heart...thou shalt be saved"(Romans 10:19),"Whosoever believeth Jesus is the christ is born of God"(1John 5:1).



The evidence of SALVATION is an unprecedented joy in your heart.The joy of SALVATION is wonderful.(like when you remember that there is no enmity between God and you,oh! the happiness that will spring up from your stomach can be so overwhelming).



But you need to go further,though you have been forgiven,but that Adamic nature,that inbred sin is still in You. SALVATION is the first Christian experience, SANCTIFICATION(Holiness) is the second experience.What is SANCTIFICATION(Holiness)?.We are told in Hebrews 12:14,"follow peace with all men,and holiness,without which no man shall see the Lord." We read in 1peter 1:16,... Be ye holy; for I am holy". The word holy is mentioned in the Bible 596times,holiness,43times. SANCTIFICATION means spiritually pure,godly.When you are sanctified,that inbred sin in you will be uprooted,spirit of fornication will be uprooted,spirit of masturbation will be uprooted,spirit of lying,stealing,envy etc will all be uprooted. The urge to do them will not be there if you are sanctified.SANCTIFICATION is real(I have experienced It,that was why I easily gave up on plaiting my hair with any attachment.). The benefit of SANCTIFICATION is so wonderful,those urges will be eradicated.If you don't believe me,try it.Go down on your kneels,pray to God with a contrite heart,plead with God to sanctify your heart.This need deeper consecration.(don't be distracted),plead with God wholeheartedly,ask for such heart,(a sanctified heart). Name all the spirit you want Him to uproot from your heart,cry to Him.Tell Him You want to serve Him in Holiness,tell Him you don't want to go back to your sins." Father have determine to make heaven,please father,sanctify my heart,come into my heart, I need you father,uproot those spirit that is tormenting me,that makes me to offend you always,Jesus please,help me, I cannot stop them myself please Help me...�����..." Pray that way,with deeper consecration,with a sincere heart.Believe that you will receive it.Evidence; receiving SANCTIFICATION can change your life automatically,no more urges for your sweetest sin,even though you might be tempted,you will have the power to overcome it.



Well thats not all,you need to pray further,for the third Christian experience,which is baptism of the Holy Ghost,gbam! Very important.(many people don't believe we can receive it,it is real,i have received it). The work of the Holy spirit;



(1) The Holy spirit anoints us with power to witness(Acts1:8,Lk4:18,Acts 4:29,32)



(2) The spirit brings forth virtues in our lives(The fruit of the spirit us love,Joy,peace etc,Gal.5:22-23,Rom.5:5,Rom14:17).



(3) The Holy spirit comfort us (John 14:16-26,John16:7,Acta9:31,Rom.8:1).



(4) The Holy spirit is the spirit of Truth( John 16:13,1John 5:66).



(5) The Holy spirit helps us to pray( From.8: 26-27,Jude20).



(6) The Holy spirit give us wisdom and guidance(Mk13:11,Lk12:11,12) and many more ...



The evidence of receiving it is by speaking in another language entirely,the spirit will overwhelm you, you won't be able to control your tongue.It need deeper consecration. Sometimes it takes a long time to receive it(mine took a long time to come,days before coming,if you are patient you will receive it), sometimes you need to make restitution,before receiving it,holding grudges with your fellow brother can hinder the Holy spirit,make sure you make things right before praying for the Holy spirit.



After receiving the three Christian experience,dont just relax,you have a lot to do(so that you won't loose them). There are things you need to do to maintain your three Christian experience;



(1)Read your Bible and study the word of God: check the importance(Deu. 32:46,47,psalm 138:2).



(2) Pray always,be in a constant attitude of prayer:Read your Bible pray everyday... Pray everyday... Pray everyday...., read your Bible pray everyday...if.. you.. want..to.. grow..(I love that song�)(1chr16:11,Pro.3:6,"Watch ye therefore and pray always "LK21:36).



(3) Attend weekly activities in church,it helps a lot in maintaining your experiences, you will be expose to teachings that will help you grow spiritually.( Do you know that absenting your self from weekly activities can take you to hell,as serious as that.GOD NEEDS 100%COMMITMENT).



Attend a church that preaches salvation every Sunday.if your current church is always preaching about prosperity every day,i will advise you to leave that Church. The main reason church was instituted by God was to prepare everyone for HEAVEN. Look for a church that will prepare you for HEAVEN..."Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all other things shall be added unto you".



GOD BLESS YOU,AMEN.
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no man can help you save the spirit of God. Not by might or power but by the spirit of God.the problem is that you have given up on the tools in which the Holy spirit will use to transform you which is prayers.you think this transformation will be overnight but you forgot that it took time for you to develop that habit. spend more time in prayers not just 5 minutes then the Holy Spirit will transform you

Dangerousboy:
no man can help you save the spirit of God. Not by might or power but by the spirit of God.the problem is that you have given up on the tools in which the Holy Spirit will use to transform you which is prayers. you think this transformation will be overnight but you forgot that it took time for you to develop that habit. spend more time in prayers not just 5 minutes then the Holy Spirit will transform you

Very right. May God bless you for your advice

Ebonko4life:


GENUINE SALVATION(HOW TO GET IT)







The starting point for a relationship with God is to forsake sin." Let the wicked forsake his way,and the unrighteous man his thoughts:and let him return unto the Lord,and He will abundantly pardon"( Isaiah 55:7). What separate man from God is sin,and you can never please God without being save.Also, your self -righteousness can never take you to heaven.(whether you are a philanthropist,without being save,your works are all in vain,your generosity can never take you to heaven.), "For they being ignorant of God's righteousness,and going about to establish their own righteousness,have not submitted themselves unto the righteousness of God."(Romans 10:3)," An hypocrite shall not come before Him"(Job 13:16). Your self righteousness separate you from God.



We must turn away from sin and completely surrender our life to Christ.God is ever ready to forgive."There is no sin that is too great for God to forgive if we turn from it to him". It is very easy to have genuine salvation.The first step you need to take in getting it is to;



(1) Acknowledge that you are a sinner: "All men are sinners,for all have sinned and come short of the glory of God"(Romans 3:23). you need to be in a serene vicinity inorder to commune with God effectively or right now you can commune with God,acknowledge that you are a sinner.



(2) Confess:" ...covereth his sin shall not prosper..." Confess all your sins to God with a contrite heart,plead for His mercy,ask for His forgiveness,cry out to Him with sincerity.(There is no point going through your pastor,bishop to confess and ask God for forgiveness,that was before,but now we have direct access to God, as soon as Jesus died for us,the way was opened into the Holy of Holies,talk to God by your self,confess to Him not through your bishop,revered father,pastor etc).



(3) At this point you need to make a covenant with God by promising Him not to go back to the sins you have left behind, forsake your sin wholeheartedly.



(4) Believe on Jesus that you have been pardon and forgiven:" If thou shalt... believe in thine heart...thou shalt be saved"(Romans 10:19),"Whosoever believeth Jesus is the christ is born of God"(1John 5:1).



The evidence of SALVATION is an unprecedented joy in your heart.The joy of SALVATION is wonderful.(like when you remember that there is no enmity between God and you,oh! the happiness that will spring up from your stomach can be so overwhelming).



But you need to go further,though you have been forgiven,but that Adamic nature,that inbred sin is still in You. SALVATION is the first Christian experience, SANCTIFICATION(Holiness) is the second experience.What is SANCTIFICATION(Holiness)?.We are told in Hebrews 12:14,"follow peace with all men,and holiness,without which no man shall see the Lord." We read in 1peter 1:16,... Be ye holy; for I am holy". The word holy is mentioned in the Bible 596times,holiness,43times. SANCTIFICATION means spiritually pure,godly.When you are sanctified,that inbred sin in you will be uprooted,spirit of fornication will be uprooted,spirit of masturbation will be uprooted,spirit of lying,stealing,envy etc will all be uprooted. The urge to do them will not be there if you are sanctified.SANCTIFICATION is real(I have experienced It,that was why I easily gave up on plaiting my hair with any attachment.). The benefit of SANCTIFICATION is so wonderful,those urges will be eradicated.If you don't believe me,try it.Go down on your kneels,pray to God with a contrite heart,plead with God to sanctify your heart.This need deeper consecration.(don't be distracted),plead with God wholeheartedly,ask for such heart,(a sanctified heart). Name all the spirit you want Him to uproot from your heart,cry to Him.Tell Him You want to serve Him in Holiness,tell Him you don't want to go back to your sins." Father have determine to make heaven,please father,sanctify my heart,come into my heart, I need you father,uproot those spirit that is tormenting me,that makes me to offend you always,Jesus please,help me, I cannot stop them myself please Help me...�����..." Pray that way,with deeper consecration,with a sincere heart.Believe that you will receive it.Evidence; receiving SANCTIFICATION can change your life automatically,no more urges for your sweetest sin,even though you might be tempted,you will have the power to overcome it.



Well thats not all,you need to pray further,for the third Christian experience,which is baptism of the Holy Ghost,gbam! Very important.(many people don't believe we can receive it,it is real,i have received it). The work of the Holy spirit;



(1) The Holy spirit anoints us with power to witness(Acts1:8,Lk4:18,Acts 4:29,32)



(2) The spirit brings forth virtues in our lives(The fruit of the spirit us love,Joy,peace etc,Gal.5:22-23,Rom.5:5,Rom14:17).



(3) The Holy spirit comfort us (John 14:16-26,John16:7,Acta9:31,Rom.8:1).



(4) The Holy spirit is the spirit of Truth( John 16:13,1John 5:66).



(5) The Holy spirit helps us to pray( From.8: 26-27,Jude20).



(6) The Holy spirit give us wisdom and guidance(Mk13:11,Lk12:11,12) and many more ...



The evidence of receiving it is by speaking in another language entirely,the spirit will overwhelm you, you won't be able to control your tongue.It need deeper consecration. Sometimes it takes a long time to receive it(mine took a long time to come,days before coming,if you are patient you will receive it), sometimes you need to make restitution,before receiving it,holding grudges with your fellow brother can hinder the Holy spirit,make sure you make things right before praying for the Holy spirit.



After receiving the three Christian experience,dont just relax,you have a lot to do(so that you won't loose them). There are things you need to do to maintain your three Christian experience;



(1)Read your Bible and study the word of God: check the importance(Deu. 32:46,47,psalm 138:2).



(2) Pray always,be in a constant attitude of prayer:Read your Bible pray everyday... Pray everyday... Pray everyday...., read your Bible pray everyday...if.. you.. want..to.. grow..(I love that song�)(1chr16:11,Pro.3:6,"Watch ye therefore and pray always "LK21:36).



(3) Attend weekly activities in church,it helps a lot in maintaining your experiences, you will be expose to teachings that will help you grow spiritually.( Do you know that absenting your self from weekly activities can take you to hell,as serious as that.GOD NEEDS 100%COMMITMENT).



Attend a church that preaches salvation every Sunday.if your current church is always preaching about prosperity every day,i will advise you to leave that Church. The main reason church was instituted by God was to prepare everyone for HEAVEN. Look for a church that will prepare you for HEAVEN..."Seek ye first the kingdom of God and all other things shall be added unto you".



GOD BLESS YOU,AMEN.
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Thanks but this epistle too long ooo.

Prayer is working as a bomb. The first day in months I didn't lust after any lady body while going to town.

collitexnaira:


I agree more with you on that sexual explicit wears, you will see girls wearing skinny short dress revealing all their shapes, even girls wey no get ass will still look attractive once they wear those skinny dress, and one can't but always stare at them. This have become a challenge for me, once i see any girl wearing skinny dress, i will always look down at there ass and this gets me arose sometimes. May God help us out of temptation with all these modern dresses

someone must not even look at those girls twice. we all need prayer.

I think fasting constantly is a way out. I was neck deeper in it before until I begin to far frequently.
Don't take it lightly, it's demonic influence and I'll delay many things in your life if not addressed quickly.

Why it works is that an hungry man doesn't think of anything first then food. Prayers alone would still make your body active.

Get a fiancee that's godly. It goes a long way to help.

U gat 4 options. Get a sex doll, get a girlfriend, patronize olosho or self-service!


Im out!

Mrbolt565:
U gat 4 options. Get a sex doll, get a girlfriend, patronize olosho or self-service!


Im out!

Disaster guy. I fear you oooo

JayIlych:
My guy. It's never easy. Once you're addicted, it's very difficult to stop.


I started when I was 14.

Ive been hearing stories of how masturbation ruined so many relationships and marriages, I tried to stop bub saw myself going back.

I think all it takes is a jolt or an encounter.

My own jolt came when my guy told me how it almost rendered him almost impotent.


He couldn't get it up with a girl but got it up with porn.

After he stopped, it took his preek 3 months to readjust.

After he told me that, it was the jolt I needed and I took a decision.. The next morning I detected the 231 porn videos in my phone.


I've not watched porn or masturbated since. But sometimes the temptation is so great.

231 porn videos in your phone? chai... porn was your favorite movie then

1Sharon:

Are you an introvert? Have you ever fvcked before?

You are a lady, you wouldn't understand. I'm an ambivert, yes i have bleeped several times before. Still the sight of big rounded ass get me captivated

JayIlych:
My guy. It's never easy. Once you're addicted, it's very difficult to stop.


I started when I was 14.

Ive been hearing stories of how masturbation ruined so many relationships and marriages, I tried to stop bub saw myself going back.

I think all it takes is a jolt or an encounter.

My own jolt came when my guy told me how it almost rendered him almost impotent.


He couldn't get it up with a girl but got it up with porn.

After he stopped, it took his preek 3 months to readjust.

After he told me that, it was the jolt I needed and I took a decision.. The next morning I detected the 231 porn videos in my phone.


I've not watched porn or masturbated since. But sometimes the temptation is so great.

231 porn videos?? Chisos! Xvids suppose give you award BTW check out reddit.com/r/nofap

Jay1F:

231 porn videos?? Chisos! Xvids suppose give you award BTW check out reddit.com/r/nofap

i love reddit and xvids

godlikeme:

i love reddit and xvids

Chairman