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She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by ogashman(m): 12:53pm On Jan 28, 2019
I didn't go to church yesterday due to the fact that I couldn't iron my clothes because of a total black out by electricity distribution company in my area.

So,I called Bae later in the evening of same day,we talked smoothly about everything,cracked few jokes and laughed and then she asked me if I went to church.


Being the honest type,I told her the truth which was that I didn't go to church, citing my reasons.


Bae really got angry.saying that I never liked going to church bla bla bla.


That how can I call myself a Christian and feel comfortable sitting at home on a sunday.


I apologised for not going to church but also reminded her that going to church does not take one to heaven.

However I told her that one could be a church goer but not a doer of God's word.she should focus more on who I'm and not whether I go to church or not..it doesn't really matter.

There are so many people that go to church yet they do the opposite of what they stand for...it doesn't make sense to me.

After everything, Bae was still angry which led to talking to me in a rude manner and i had to threaten her that I would hang up the call.. She dared me to...I did..because I was fed up with her nagging about church.

I hate pretending to be who I'm not.....I'm a liberal Christian. I go to church most times but not all the time and I hate people wanting to force me to just because they feel it is the right thing.


We have not communicated since yday and I have decided not to call her(knowing she did be waiting for me to call) because I don't think I was wrong in this case.


Pls,My people am I wrong in this?or my girl is just over reacting ?because I see this as a non-issue really.

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by DanDeeBoss: 12:57pm On Jan 28, 2019
She's over reacting joor... I didn't go to church, so?? undecided

BTW if I was the one she asked, my answer would be "Yes I went to church"....cheesycheesy

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Nanceer(f): 12:58pm On Jan 28, 2019
You're the man in the relationship.. why should she force u to church?

Bro, do what's right in your mind and if she isn't cool with it, she isn't your final bus stop

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by okomile(f): 1:00pm On Jan 28, 2019
Do what please you.

Pastors do worse things.

Preaching holiness at the alter, they can't manage their homes.

I have also lost it for d church.

I go to worship Him with my heart.
Do what is right as best as I can.

Don't get forced down to church. Let it be your decision.

All d best!

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Nobody: 1:02pm On Jan 28, 2019
For bringing this piece of crap here, wasting my data and wasting space in nairaland.

You, your girlfriend , Buhari and Apc are all mad.

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Satan66(m): 1:04pm On Jan 28, 2019
Dump that girl with immediate effect.
She's the type of woman that will use the money you gave her that was meant for feeding for tithe.
Use your sense guy, That woman isn't the right one for you.

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Nobody: 1:05pm On Jan 28, 2019
okomile:
Do what please you.
Pastors do worse things.
Preaching holiness at the alter, they can't manage their homes.
I have also lost it for d church.
I go to worship Him with my heart. Do what is right as best as I can.
Don't get forced down to church. Let it be your decision.
All d best!
So in your mind now, this your comment makes sense abi?
Abeg just use your church mind judge yourself, You get sense so?

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Nobody: 1:05pm On Jan 28, 2019
okomile:
Do what please you.
Pastors do worse things.
Preaching holiness at the alter, they can't manage their homes.
I have also lost it for d church.
I go to worship Him with my heart. Do what is right as best as I can.
Don't get forced down to church. Let it be your decision.
All d best!
So in your mind now, this your comment makes sense abi?
Abeg just use your church mind judge yourself, You get sense so?

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Nobody: 1:05pm On Jan 28, 2019
okomile:
Do what please you.
Pastors do worse things.
Preaching holiness at the alter, they can't manage their homes.
I have also lost it for d church.
I go to worship Him with my heart. Do what is right as best as I can.
Don't get forced down to church. Let it be your decision.
All d best!
So in your mind now, this your comment makes sense abi?
Abeg just use your church mind judge yourself, You get sense so?

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by kollinskollins(m): 1:18pm On Jan 28, 2019
MRSoftapples:
For bringing this piece of crap here, wasting my data and wasting space in nairaland.

You, your girlfriend , Buhari and Apc are all mad.
behave well na

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jan 28, 2019
kollinskollins:
behave well na
Hmmm its like this bros know me o.

Sorry sir, i will behave myself.
Just want to have fun by looking for small trouble.
Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by MissRaine69(f): 1:28pm On Jan 28, 2019
She is a bit histronic there is no special mandate that stipulates that the only place you can worship God is in a church building. We concern ourselves with where we Worship, when we should worship, what we are wearing, the unholiness of so and so.
Focus on your personal relationship with your maker not a histrionic female. That is what’s important.

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Headlesschicken(m): 1:37pm On Jan 28, 2019
grin Children's play

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by solz007(m): 2:40pm On Jan 28, 2019
Me I think she just looking out for her Future Husband....LOL!!
She Loves U at the same time she's overreacting... Last Last Link Up with her

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by oilcity(m): 3:00pm On Jan 28, 2019
The truth is that she loves u and cares for u although she's taking it too far. Hearing God's word regularly will at least reduce the chances of one being sold out to darkness.

There is more hope for a sick man in the hospital than a sick man in the house. Call her jare. it's not abt who's right or wrong but peace and love.

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Amakababe(f): 3:13pm On Jan 28, 2019
Nigerians and hypocrisy.

Church matter on top head!
Yet the both of you fornicate every NIGHT!
smh.

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Nobody: 3:53pm On Jan 28, 2019
Amakababe:
Nigerians and hypocrisy.

Church matter on top head!
Yet the both of you fornicate every NIGHT!
smh.
Where you watching them in the room. Amebo.

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Miracle4Sure: 3:54pm On Jan 28, 2019
grin
Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Nobody: 3:56pm On Jan 28, 2019
Typical afonja man raised by single mother; no father...always answerable and Apologizing to women like a baby, and you think women will respect you? Learn from Biafran men...you dictate and women follow you, if not she get out of your house.

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Saintsami(m): 3:56pm On Jan 28, 2019
problem tié ni yen

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by FroshD: 3:56pm On Jan 28, 2019
Wow this life though

You have a girlfriend that gets angry at you not attending church on a sunday

And some people are looking for such ladies to make them grow spiritually in their faith.. hmmm

maybe the call didnt end well with you both, but you shouldnt take it up like that, No one is really perfect for sure and since you are in a relationship with her then you should really know your lady wont be okay with you not going to church.

call her and settle the issue Man!!

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by ChiefSweetus: 3:57pm On Jan 28, 2019
She doesn't respect you. No need for lengthy elucidation. Just take it

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jan 28, 2019
what is liberal christianity? you guys keep deceiving yoursslves and coming up with the best excusesfor your actions.why dont you be part of those that go to church and do what you hear there according to the bible than say it doesnt make sense to you about those who go and dont live by the word. remember, you are on your own and not living your life for them. when the time comes you would be judged separately.

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by ladyF(f): 3:58pm On Jan 28, 2019
I wonder what her reaction will be if you invite her to mosque. grin

LadyF still needs Bitcoin to buy. Rate is dope!!

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by nairaman66(m): 3:58pm On Jan 28, 2019
People always give respect to bad people who go to church steadily, but forsake the good ones who don’t!!

But the Bible says- Never forsake the gathering of brethren. You decide

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jan 28, 2019
So if she dares you to tear your wedding certificate, you will do the same! You should try and learn more about women. Uncle it is not everything you tear up shirt and show your muscle! She's pissed about you not going to church, all you need to do is just calm her down, and show little remorse about it since she's so concerned! Not getting high on your nerves. Also learn not to argue much with women especially with your lady it might degenerate into what you never envisage!

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by lomprico(m): 3:58pm On Jan 28, 2019
ogashman:
I didn't go to church yesterday due to the fact that I couldn't iron my clothes because of a total black out by electricity distribution company in my area.

So,I called Bae later in the evening of same day,we talked smoothly about everything,cracked few jokes and laughed and then she asked me if I went to church.


Being the honest type,I told her the truth which was that I didn't go to church, citing my reasons.


Bae really got angry.saying that I never liked going to church bla bla bla.


That how can I call myself a Christian and feel comfortable sitting at home on a sunday.


I apologised for not going to church but also reminded her that going to church does not take one to heaven.

However I told her that one could be a church goer but not a doer of God's word.she should focus more on who I'm and not whether I go to church or not..it doesn't really matter.

There are so many people that go to church yet they do the opposite of what they stand for...it doesn't make sense to me.

After everything, Bae was still angry which led to talking to me in a rude manner and i had to threaten her that I would hang up the call.. She dared me to...I did..because I was fed up with her nagging about church.

I hate pretending to be who I'm not.....I'm a liberal Christian. I go to church most times but not all the time and I hate people wanting to force me to just because they feel it is the right thing.


We have not communicated since yday and I have decided not to call her(knowing she did be waiting for me to call) because I don't think I was wrong in this case.


Pls,My people am I wrong in this?or my girl is just over reacting ?because I see this as a non-issue really.






B4 I answer you, lemmi ask this, are u guys facking?

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Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by godwinstringed1(m): 3:59pm On Jan 28, 2019
Re: She Got Mad Because I Didn't Go To Church by TheLogicalMind(m): 3:59pm On Jan 28, 2019
I think it's better you sort out this problem now and determine wether or not you want to remain as an item.

Personally, I believe Church is a body of Christians united under Christ. As long as you are born again and follow the teachings of Christ, how often you choose to fellowship with your fellow Christians should be a personal decision.

Some people I know go to Church once a week (on Sunday) and they are better behaved than some who go three or four times a week for night vigils.

It is the impact on your life that counts above everything else.

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