Been a while guys,I want to hear your experiences cohabiting with your girlfriends and boyfriends. Was it a good experience,if not,did you have regrets doing it,what were the challenges you encountered trying it out,will you try it again if the situation presents itself in future? I'd a nasty experience cohabiting temporarily with my gf which I'll share later but lemme hear yours first,thanks

Still waiting for your stories guys

Well my experience of co-habitting with my then girlfriend in school was necessitated by the fact that she couldn't stay without me in a day when we lived apart, i will say it actually helped us to better manage our resources. we never had any serious quarrel, just little arguements here and there, so all in all, it was a wonderful experience for us.

Never did that, maybe cos of my type of school, had an opportunity to experience it during nysc but couldn't cos I really really cherish having my personal space and alone time but I'd love to do it, hopefully soon

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the only time I experienced that was back it school.. outcome of that my account went down drastically my body reduced drastically too much fvck is not good at all
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positive outcome I hardly lift a finger when she was around

Biglittlelois:
Never did that, maybe cos of my type of school, had an opportunity to experience it during nysc but couldn't cos I really really cherish having my personal space and alone time but I'd love to do it, hopefully soon

I don't think this is the time to do it.

You missed the chance whilst in school, since that period of time constitutes a large churn of our 'playful' years.

When you're out of school, the focus is on more pressing issues like building a career and a home, not on frivolities like cohabitation.

However, if you still have the time to spare, you may as well suit yourself.

Lemme book this space

Splinz:


I don't think this is the time to do it.

You missed the chance whilst in school, since that period of time constitutes a large churn of our 'playful' years.

When you're out of school, the focus is on more pressing issues like building a career and a home, not on frivolities like cohabitation.

However, if you still have the time to spare, you may as well suit yourself.

Me saying I'll do that soon doesn't mean it will be outside a home, cohabitation can be in different forms, get it.

There is a guy on nairaland, his name is deebrownneymar, he is a bloody scammer, y'all should beware of him, he is also a thief, he stole someone EOD 2004.

Biglittlelois:


Me saying I'll do that soon doesn't mean it will be outside a home, cohabitation can be in different forms, get it.

Cohabitation has two possibly meanings: 1. Living together and having sexual relationship with one you're not married to 2. Sharing a common space with either human beings or other living creatures.

Also, it is obvious from Op's tone of this thread that the cohabitation he is talking about is that of the first meaning.

You don't say: "I'd cohabitate with my husband", since no one expects you to be in Mars whilst your husband is in Jupiter: you're expected to be at home; a common unit shared by spouses.

Let's be contextual in our discussions.

Splinz:




Cohabitation has two possibly meanings: 1. Living together and having sexual relationship with one you're not married to 2. Sharing a common space with either human beings or other living creatures.

Also, it is obvious from Op's tone of this thread that the cohabitation he is talking about is that of the first meaning.

You don't say: "I'd cohabitate with my husband", since no one expects you to be in Mars whilst your husband is in Jupiter: you're expected to be at home; a common unit shared by spouses.

Let's be contextual in our discussions.

I can see you've taken it upon yourself to stress on what I mean by my previous comment, if it gives you comfort or a kind of fulfillment, then continue to decipher it, when you're tired, you'd move on.

Splinz:




Cohabitation has two possibly meanings: 1. Living together and having sexual relationship with one you're not married to 2. Sharing a common space with either human beings or other living creatures.

Also, it is obvious from Op's tone of this thread that the cohabitation he is talking about is that of the first meaning.

You don't say: "I'd cohabitate with my husband", since no one expects you to be in Mars whilst your husband is in Jupiter: you're expected to be at home; a common unit shared by spouses.

Let's be contextual in our discussions.

there are situations where husband and wife end up living a part and the marriage isn't over or troubled you know...sometimes work or other circumstances happen

Biglittlelois:



I can see you've taken it upon yourself to stress on what I mean by my previous comment, if it gives you comfort, then continue to decipher it, when you're tired, you'd move on.

I don't get tired when engaging in meaningful discussions.

OneSentence:

there are situations where husband and wife end up living a part and the marriage isn't over or troubled you know...sometimes work or other circumstances happen

I know bro.

In your scenario here, such couples are still at "home".

Perhaps you're misunderstanding my "Mars & Jupiter" example. By it I mean that which is unnatural: nobody cohabitate in these places.

Whereas if say the husband is in UK and the wife in Nigeria, it still means they're sharing a common space: the earth; which houses their home irrespective of their destination at a given time.

Splinz:


I don't get tired when engaging in meaningful discussions.

You want me to notice you right?? I have, bye.

Biglittlelois:
Never did that, maybe cos of my type of school, had an opportunity to experience it during nysc but couldn't cos I really really cherish having my personal space and alone time but I'd love to do it, hopefully soon

so why the fvck comment if you have not??

Splinz:




I know bro.

In your scenario here, such couples are still at "home".

Perhaps you're misunderstanding my "Mars & Jupiter" example. By it I mean that which is unnatural: nobody cohabitate in these places.

Whereas if say the husband is in UK and the wife in Nigeria, it still means they're sharing a common space: the earth; which houses their home irrespective of their destination at a given time.

sorry bro...But what are you saying?

Splinz:




I know bro.

In your scenario here, such couples are still at "home".

Perhaps you're misunderstanding my "Mars & Jupiter" example. By it I mean that which is unnatural: nobody cohabitate in these places.

Whereas if say the husband is in UK and the wife in Nigeria, it still means they're sharing a common space: the earth; which houses their home irrespective of their destination at a given time.

sorry bro...But what are you saying?

Biglittlelois:



You want me to notice you right?? I have, bye.

Now that's funny. But on the contrary, that's not what I want at this point of my life.

Have a nice day.

OneSentence:

sorry bro...But what are you saying?
sorry bro...But what are you saying?

It's okay my brother. I'd explain it another time.

ubunja:
so why the fvck comment if you have not??

You sound pained, Pele.

Biglittlelois:


You sound pained, Pele.

of course.
So again: Why comment when you have never cohabitated??

Answer.

I'm currently in school with my stingy housemate.Whenever I brings foods and provisions from home my friend will eat it with me but he keeps his own inside Ghana must go big bag with a padlock.Whenever he goes for lecture(s) and I'm free,I will just find knife or fork to separate the teeth of the Ghana must go bag,take whatever I want and close it.


Segun?You wise but I wise pass you

Valerie47:
There is a guy on nairaland, his name is deebrownneymar, he is a bloody scammer, y'all should beware of him, he is also a thief, he stole someone EOD 2004.

Lmao. It's your mother that's a thief. Ashawo. I know you and your mum can't wait to go stand at Allen this night. Lmao. For the umpteenth time, if you are 100% certain your useless parents born you well confront me in real life.

I've a damsel that's showing all the green light in the world but I can't Bleep her because she be cele girl.I don't want someone to tie my destiny with one gray candle because of Vag1na.I jump and pass

Valerie47:
There is a guy on nairaland, his name is deebrownneymar, he is a bloody scammer, y'all should beware of him, he is also a thief, he stole someone EOD 2004.

Although your mum has been a professional olosho even before she birthed You, granddaughter of a LovePeddler, she can't even boast of a single bicycle tyre. Lmao.

deebrownneymar:


Lmao. It's your mother that's a thief. Ashawo. I know you and your mum can't wait to go stand at Allen this night. Lmao. For the umpteenth time, if you are 100% certain your useless parents born you well confront me in real life.

How do you know olosho stand at Allen avenue if you don't patronize them? that's how they gave you herpes, your days are numbered, you will die in active service in a miserable hotel room, If dem born you well, upload your picture.

Valerie47:
How do you know olosho stand at Allen avenue if you don't patronize? that's how they gave you herpes, your days are numbered, you will die in active service in a miserable hotel room, If dem born you well, upload your picture.

I used to watch nollywood movies. That's how I knew you and your useless mother deceived me. Remember when I drove through Allen after work one night, and saw you and useless mother standing there. You ugly hoes told me that you were ushering an event. Lmao. Only God knows the diseases you bastards are spreading on Lagos roads. Lmao

deebrownneymar:


I used to watch nollywood movies. That's how I knew you and your useless mother deceived me. Remember when I drove through Allen after work one night, and saw you and useless mother standing there. You ugly hoes told me that you were ushering an event. Lmao. Only God knows the diseases you bastards are spreading on Lagos roads. Lmao

You see your miserable life, I am not even in Lagos and have never been there before, keep deceiving yourself, brostitude.

Splinz:


I don't think this is the time to do it.

You missed the chance whilst in school, since that period of time constitutes a large churn of our 'playful' years.

When you're out of school, the focus is on more pressing issues like building a career and a home, not on frivolities like cohabitation.

However, if you still have the time to spare, you may as well suit yourself.

Perfect response

Valerie47:
You see your miserable life, I am not even in Lagos and have never been there before, keep deceiving yourself, brostitude.

All prostitutes lie. So I'm not surprised you're telling lies. You dey form say you know Lai Lie Mohammed. I still saw your useless mother last week with one lout at Ikeja Under Bridge giving the guy head for 100 Naira. Definition of a cheap slot. Lmao

deebrownneymar:


All prostitutes lie. So I'm not surprised you're telling lies. You dey form say you know Lai Lie Mohammed. I still saw your useless mother last week with one lout at Ikeja Under Bridge giving the guy head for 100 Naira. Definition of a cheap slot. Lmao

Leave me alone, I have a boyfriend and I don't like you. Stop seeking my attention.