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How To Bond With Your New Born by Thexemplaryblog(f): 11:41pm On Jan 28, 2019
How to bond with your new born baby

Parent-child bond is a phenomenon that has been in existence for ages. It’s irreplaceable.
It starts when you see the first sonogram picture of your child at times. Other times, it happens when you hold your baby for the very first time.

There are however, a few instances where it takes a while to have this special bond with your infant, and this is not much of a problem. In fact, statistics have it that at least 20% of new parents don’t form this bond immediately.
Nevertheless, this bond can be created in different ways.We’ll get to know these ways as we continue with this article. Let’s examine some of these ways.

1. The power of touch

Skin contact is the best way to develop a bond with your baby. You are advised to take your baby in your arms whenever you can or hold your baby’s hands when you play with him/her. Keeping them close to your chest by hugging regularly. The warmth from such skin-skin contact helps create a bond.

2. Get to know your baby

How can you get to know your baby? The only way to do this is to give your baby as much attention as you can. Make sure you always always keep an eye on them pay close attention to their facial expressions. Spend as much time as you can with him/her. This way, you will know your child’s every move and pick up cues to when he/she is hungry, sleepy or uncomfortable.



3. Words

There is something all parents must do to bond with their baby and that is Talk! Sound has an extremely strong effect. Babies can even develop a bond with their parents before they are given birth to just by hearing the voices of their parents. So, talk to your baby, even if what you’re saying does not make sense. Read them a book even if they won’t understand the language, your voice is enough to comfort them.

4. Sing to your baby

Sing some nursery rhymes or even your favourite song if you wish. Babies love it when you sing for them… even if you are the worst of singers.
So entertain your babies with your voice no matter how bad it is.



5. Build a special routine

Create a special, unique way of comforting them. It could be patting him/her rhythmically on the back or rocking their cradle in a certain way. They will recognize this routine and know it’s you. Make up words for eating or sleeping, as your baby will start recognizing these words and understand what you’re saying.

6. Body massage

Babies love massages and this is a great way to develop a bond with them. Studies has shown that massaging your baby goes a long way in bonding with them and reduces premature stress.



7. Keep them close

Close proximity of a parent makes the baby feel secure. Ensure you stay close to them and keep their cradle next to your bed. If he/she is playing on a mat, make sure you’re there next to her.


Should these tips not help and you still don’t have that emotional attachment with your baby, contact your gynecologist and tell him/her how you feel. They will be able to check if it’s a psychological problem or a medical issue and will direct you to the help you need.

Source: www.thexemplary.com

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by nonesense: 5:30am On Jan 29, 2019
Noted..waiting till 2023

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by GloriaNino: 5:32am On Jan 29, 2019
To that guy wey first comment, how human being go just decide to dey bare 'nonsense'? Does that make sense? undecided

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by MarianaTrench: 5:32am On Jan 29, 2019
Nice tips smiley
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by longleg(m): 5:33am On Jan 29, 2019
Thank you the baby's doc
Thexemplaryblog:
How to bond with your new born baby

Parent-child bond is a phenomenon that has been in existence for ages. It’s irreplaceable.
It starts when you see the first sonogram picture of your child at times. Other times, it happens when you hold your baby for the very first time.

There are however, a few instances where it takes a while to have this special bond with your infant, and this is not much of a problem. In fact, statistics have it that at least 20% of new parents don’t form this bond immediately.
Nevertheless, this bond can be created in different ways.We’ll get to know these ways as we continue with this article. Let’s examine some of these ways.

1. The power of touch

Skin contact is the best way to develop a bond with your baby. You are advised to take your baby in your arms whenever you can or hold your baby’s hands when you play with him/her. Keeping them close to your chest by hugging regularly. The warmth from such skin-skin contact helps create a bond.

2. Get to know your baby

How can you get to know your baby? The only way to do this is to give your baby as much attention as you can. Make sure you always always keep an eye on them pay close attention to their facial expressions. Spend as much time as you can with him/her. This way, you will know your child’s every move and pick up cues to when he/she is hungry, sleepy or uncomfortable.



3. Words

There is something all parents must do to bond with their baby and that is Talk! Sound has an extremely strong effect. Babies can even develop a bond with their parents before they are given birth to just by hearing the voices of their parents. So, talk to your baby, even if what you’re saying does not make sense. Read them a book even if they won’t understand the language, your voice is enough to comfort them.

4. Sing to your baby

Sing some nursery rhymes or even your favourite song if you wish. Babies love it when you sing for them… even if you are the worst of singers.
So entertain your babies with your voice no matter how bad it is.



5. Build a special routine

Create a special, unique way of comforting them. It could be patting him/her rhythmically on the back or rocking their cradle in a certain way. They will recognize this routine and know it’s you. Make up words for eating or sleeping, as your baby will start recognizing these words and understand what you’re saying.

6. Body massage

Babies love massages and this is a great way to develop a bond with them. Studies has shown that massaging your baby goes a long way in bonding with them and reduces premature stress.



7. Keep them close

Close proximity of a parent makes the baby feel secure. Ensure you stay close to them and keep their cradle next to your bed. If he/she is playing on a mat, make sure you’re there next to her.


Should these tips not help and you still don’t have that emotional attachment with your baby, contact your gynecologist and tell him/her how you feel. They will be able to check if it’s a psychological problem or a medical issue and will direct you to the help you need.

Source: www.thexemplary.com

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by Pavore9: 5:38am On Jan 29, 2019
Informative.
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by femi4: 5:38am On Jan 29, 2019
Exclusive breastfeeding for 2 years

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by adrian3000(m): 5:46am On Jan 29, 2019
shocked

Who on earth opened this kind of thread?

How to bond with your new born baby? Really?

I won't be surprised if i wake up one beautiful morning to see How to walk straight into heaven without being judged

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by GOFRONT(m): 5:48am On Jan 29, 2019
And this wicked Rita don go abort my baby.......Abortion kee you there!!

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by Rosarie(f): 5:51am On Jan 29, 2019
Will u have a baby and not bond before??it's a natural thing.no steps to it.except u don't love the child

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by holluphemydavid(m): 5:56am On Jan 29, 2019
Nice, will be a father by next week by God grace

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by nonesense: 5:58am On Jan 29, 2019
GloriaNino:
To that guy wey first comment, how human being go just decide to dey bare 'nonsense'? Does that make sense? undecided
Meddling into other people's affair is NONESENSE.

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by ifedolapoferanm(m): 6:04am On Jan 29, 2019
nonesense is here keep your post cheesy
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by deepwater(f): 6:07am On Jan 29, 2019
Don't cute the umbilical cord

The bond will know no bound
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by Anitop(m): 6:08am On Jan 29, 2019
holluphemydavid:
Nice, will be a father by next week by God grace

Amen

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by sanmtiago(m): 6:11am On Jan 29, 2019
Bonding is spontaneous.
So this one you guys are talking is for your one pocket undecided
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by Mentorme: 6:12am On Jan 29, 2019
Can that makes ugly child to look like his/her handsome father? grin
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by Ehk34567i: 6:36am On Jan 29, 2019
See prove below

Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by ihail(m): 6:48am On Jan 29, 2019
Rosarie:
Will u have a baby and not bond before??it's a natural thing.no steps to it.except u don't love the child

My dear, i know lots of peeps who do not....

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by homodarah(m): 6:49am On Jan 29, 2019
Nice tip hope d father can follow dis tips too
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by labusinessguide: 7:12am On Jan 29, 2019
Rosarie:
Will u have a baby and not bond before??it's a natural thing.no steps to it.except u don't love the child

It's possible... And not every new mom knows how to bond with their new baby.

Yes it is possible... Believe me

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by MrHighSea: 7:20am On Jan 29, 2019
Children come with a special kind of feeling that draws you closer to them unconsciously.
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by berbz(m): 7:24am On Jan 29, 2019
Good tips ...
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by GIFTD: 7:27am On Jan 29, 2019
Op u missed one most important method of bonding with ur newborn baby which putting them to breast ASAP. Breastfeeding has been the most important method of bonding with ur baby followed by getting to know your baby and providing what they need per time. Thanks.
Thexemplaryblog:
How to bond with your new born baby

Parent-child bond is a phenomenon that has been in existence for ages. It’s irreplaceable.
It starts when you see the first sonogram picture of your child at times. Other times, it happens when you hold your baby for the very first time.

There are however, a few instances where it takes a while to have this special bond with your infant, and this is not much of a problem. In fact, statistics have it that at least 20% of new parents don’t form this bond immediately.
Nevertheless, this bond can be created in different ways.We’ll get to know these ways as we continue with this article. Let’s examine some of these ways.

1. The power of touch

Skin contact is the best way to develop a bond with your baby. You are advised to take your baby in your arms whenever you can or hold your baby’s hands when you play with him/her. Keeping them close to your chest by hugging regularly. The warmth from such skin-skin contact helps create a bond.

2. Get to know your baby

How can you get to know your baby? The only way to do this is to give your baby as much attention as you can. Make sure you always always keep an eye on them pay close attention to their facial expressions. Spend as much time as you can with him/her. This way, you will know your child’s every move and pick up cues to when he/she is hungry, sleepy or uncomfortable.



3. Words

There is something all parents must do to bond with their baby and that is Talk! Sound has an extremely strong effect. Babies can even develop a bond with their parents before they are given birth to just by hearing the voices of their parents. So, talk to your baby, even if what you’re saying does not make sense. Read them a book even if they won’t understand the language, your voice is enough to comfort them.

4. Sing to your baby

Sing some nursery rhymes or even your favourite song if you wish. Babies love it when you sing for them… even if you are the worst of singers.
So entertain your babies with your voice no matter how bad it is.



5. Build a special routine

Create a special, unique way of comforting them. It could be patting him/her rhythmically on the back or rocking their cradle in a certain way. They will recognize this routine and know it’s you. Make up words for eating or sleeping, as your baby will start recognizing these words and understand what you’re saying.

6. Body massage

Babies love massages and this is a great way to develop a bond with them. Studies has shown that massaging your baby goes a long way in bonding with them and reduces premature stress.



7. Keep them close

Close proximity of a parent makes the baby feel secure. Ensure you stay close to them and keep their cradle next to your bed. If he/she is playing on a mat, make sure you’re there next to her.


Should these tips not help and you still don’t have that emotional attachment with your baby, contact your gynecologist and tell him/her how you feel. They will be able to check if it’s a psychological problem or a medical issue and will direct you to the help you need.

Source: www.thexemplary.com

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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by GIFTD: 7:45am On Jan 29, 2019
homodarah:
Nice tip hope d father can follow dis tips too
men do not need to compete for bonding with women if they truly bonded with their wives all they need to do is to support their wives. It's the work of the mother to introduce the baby continuously to the father as the one who made love he(child) receives possible. Mothers are forbidden to say bad things about their husband in front of their children as this may truncate the bonding process of children with their fathers.
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by peacettw: 7:45am On Jan 29, 2019
adrian3000:
shocked

Who on earth opened this kind of thread?

How to bond with your new born baby? Really?

I won't be surprised if i wake up one beautiful morning to see How to walk straight into heaven without being judged

The topic and its contents are a bit off for a non medical individual but very valid
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by Nobody: 7:46am On Jan 29, 2019
:Dw
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by Nobody: 7:49am On Jan 29, 2019
I love babies kiss kiss
Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by oopascal: 8:11am On Jan 29, 2019
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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by Offpoint: 8:19am On Jan 29, 2019
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Re: How To Bond With Your New Born by FATBAYO(m): 8:25am On Jan 29, 2019
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