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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 10:01pm On Jan 31
2buffagain:
How will 85%+ of the world's female population survive without their sugar daddies?
I fear you are asking too much of women.


Thanks for sharing your opinion
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 10:02pm On Jan 31
CAPSLOCKED:


I DON'T KNOW HOW TO BEGIN TO DISAGREE WITH THIS. IT'S THE UNFORTUNATE REALITY MY FRIEND @ELDER0001

AS LONG AS WOMEN KEEP EXPECTING MEN TO SEEK THEM, BUY THEM, TAKE CARE OF THEM, MARRY AND HOUSE THEM, MANY WILL ALWAYS SEE WOMEN AS PROPERTY, FOREVER INFERIOR.

NO MATTER WHAT IS DISCUSSED ON THIS THREAD TODAY WE'LL DIE AND COME BACK IN A HUNDRED YEARS TIME TO MEET PATRIARCHY.
MANY PEOPLE TRASH-TALK IT ON THE INTERNET ONLY TO GO BACK TO MALTREAT A WOMAN, OR ANSWER YES SIR TO A MAN JUST BECAUSE HE'S PAYING FOR HER DATA.

PATRIARCHY IS HERE TO STAY.


This post actually touched me real hard.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 11:09pm On Jan 31
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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 12:09am On Feb 01
crackhaus:

Long gone? Heck no.
Just got bored with most of you having nothing new to banter about.

The answer is NO, by the way.


Lol. You and acidosis are beyond redemption.
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by tintingz(m): 12:57am On Feb 01
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I DON'T KNOW HOW TO BEGIN TO DISAGREE WITH THIS. IT'S THE UNFORTUNATE REALITY MY FRIEND @ELDER0001

AS LONG AS WOMEN KEEP EXPECTING MEN TO SEEK THEM, BUY THEM, TAKE CARE OF THEM, MARRY AND HOUSE THEM, MANY WILL ALWAYS SEE WOMEN AS PROPERTY, FOREVER INFERIOR.

NO MATTER WHAT IS DISCUSSED ON THIS THREAD TODAY WE'LL DIE AND COME BACK IN A HUNDRED YEARS TIME TO MEET PATRIARCHY.
MANY PEOPLE TRASH-TALK IT ON THE INTERNET ONLY TO GO BACK TO MALTREAT A WOMAN, OR ANSWER YES SIR TO A MAN JUST BECAUSE HE'S PAYING FOR HER DATA.

PATRIARCHY IS HERE TO STAY.
There are possiblities patriarchy can fade off in the future.

Yes the early society started as patriarchal system due to men physical strength to hunt and fight which became a culture, then religion came with same patriarchal system to tame women.

We have all-female worriors in the past, the Dahomey Amazons for example.This shows women can be worriors but many society didn't give that chance to women.

Now if cultures and religion can be scrapped or amended, reorientate our girls and boys, then patriarchy will fade off! We are now in advanced society where we have science, technology and education, we have allot of women performing well in this field, we now see women going for political post, if this reorientation persists then patriarchy will fade off but as long as religion and culture(which are social myths) keep used to indoctrinate females to see males as superior then nothing will change, and funniest thing is it seems many girls are enjoying the patriarchy thing, they(girls) took advantage of it.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Nobody: 7:14am On Feb 01
Elder0001:



Lol. Says a dumbo that his existence is of no importance to me

How many nairalanders have you met in real life? Royalroy himself was somehow close to me years back .

Your use of insults shows you’re emotionally and otherwise immature to be on family section.
Your type are bound to the useless section aka romance section.

It's your tread so we can both drag it into the mud if you like.
I can see that meeting Nairaland users in real life is the summit of your life's achievements and goals.

Royal-whatever was somehow close to you years back? Who gives a flying fvck? Like for real? Lol. Grow up old man. This is a faceless forum and nobody knows you here. Get a life bruh!

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 10:30am On Feb 01
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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 10:31am On Feb 01
tintingz:
There are possiblities patriarchy can fade off in the future.

Yes the early society started as patriarchal system due to men physical strength to hunt and fight which became a culture, then religion came with same patriarchal system to tame women.

We have all-female worriors in the past, the Dahomey Amazons for example.This shows women can be worriors but many society didn't give that chance to women.

Now if cultures and religion can be scrapped or amended, reorientate our girls and boys, then patriarchy will fade off! We are now in advanced society where we have science, technology and education, we have allot of women performing well in this field, we now see women going for political post, if this reorientation persists then patriarchy will fade off but as long as religion and culture(which are social myths) keep used to indoctrinate little girls to see men as superior then nothing will change, and funniest thing is it seems many girls are enjoying the patriarchy thing, they took advantage of it.


You might be right because as you can see the females are avoiding this thread .

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 12:36pm On Feb 01
CAPSLOCKED:


I DON'T KNOW HOW TO BEGIN TO DISAGREE WITH THIS. IT'S THE UNFORTUNATE REALITY MY FRIEND @ELDER0001

AS LONG AS WOMEN KEEP EXPECTING MEN TO SEEK THEM, BUY THEM, TAKE CARE OF THEM, MARRY AND HOUSE THEM, MANY WILL ALWAYS SEE WOMEN AS PROPERTY, FOREVER INFERIOR.

NO MATTER WHAT IS DISCUSSED ON THIS THREAD TODAY WE'LL DIE AND COME BACK IN A HUNDRED YEARS TIME TO MEET PATRIARCHY.
MANY PEOPLE TRASH-TALK IT ON THE INTERNET ONLY TO GO BACK TO MALTREAT A WOMAN, OR ANSWER YES SIR TO A MAN JUST BECAUSE HE'S PAYING FOR HER DATA.

PATRIARCHY IS HERE TO STAY.


Women are avoiding this thread
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 2:02pm On Feb 01
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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by CAPSLOCKED: 3:01pm On Feb 01
Elder0001:



Women are avoiding this thread

SAME WAY THEY AVOID TRUE FACTS, REALITY, AND ANYTHING THAT DOESN'T LOOK LIKE PETTINESS. I'M SURPRISED YOU EXPECT THEM TO PARTICIPATE WHEN WE'RE NOT DISCUSSING MAKEUP LESSONS AND HOW TO GET MORE FACEBOOK LIKES PER PICTURE.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by IamPlato(m): 3:35pm On Feb 01
Pocohantas is It True You Are Avoiding This Thread?
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by IamPlato(m): 3:40pm On Feb 01
I Will Be Writing And Article On This. Elder0001 let Me Join The Talk

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by IamPlato(m): 3:50pm On Feb 01
I Want You To Understand That It Is Natural For Women To Want Patriarchy... Man Was Created Before Woman and To Be Leaders... Most Women Want The Comfort Zone, forget All Those Feminism Shiit...


Was Talking To A Girl Sometime Ago And She Said She Wants To Get Married Before 25... Because She Knew Her Husband Would Care For Her And she Would Have Less To Worry About. Marriage Is Their Comfort Zone and Its Usually Difficult To Resist The Comfort zone.


It Takes Great Determination And Courage for A Woman To Stand Up To a Man In Responsiblities... Deep Inside Of Every Woman They Want A Home Where they Can Relax And Grow Fat Without Having To Go Out Schedules...


Many Women Are Being Forced To Into Independence Today Because the World Is Fast Evolving and Men No Longer Want Liabilities as Wives. In The End, they Cry When You Propose To Them Because Their Heart's Longest Desire Has Come To Pass

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 4:07pm On Feb 01
CAPSLOCKED:


SAME WAY THEY AVOID TRUE FACTS, REALITY, AND ANYTHING THAT DOESN'T LOOK LIKE PETTINESS. I'M SURPRISED YOU EXPECT THEM TO PARTICIPATE WHEN WE'RE NOT DISCUSSING MAKEUP LESSONS AND HOW TO GET MORE FACEBOOK LIKES PER PICTURE.

Lol. I’ve seen many of them viewing ,they view and run .

It’s a fact that women contribute to patriarchy . After this any woman who complains about patriarchy on this section again will be tackled by my humble self.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 4:08pm On Feb 01
IamPlato:
I Want You To Understand That It Is Natural For Women To Want Patriarchy... Man Was Created Before Woman and To Be Leaders... Most Women Want The Comfort Zone, forget All Those Feminism Shiit...


Was Talking To A Girl Sometime Ago And She Said She Wants To Get Married Before 25... Because She Knew Her Husband Would Care For Her And she Would Have Less To Worry About. Marriage Is Their Comfort Zone and Its Usually Difficult To Resist The Comfort zone.


It Takes Great Determination And Courage for A Woman To Stand Up To a Man In Responsiblities... Deep Inside Of Every Woman They Want A Home Where they Can Relax And Grow Fat Without Having To Go Out Schedules...


Many Women Are Being Forced To Into Independence Today Because the World Is Fast Evolving and Men No Longer Want Liabilities as Wives. In The End, they Cry When You Propose To Them Because Their Heart's Longest Desire Has Come To Pass


You and capslocked are on the same page.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by IamPlato(m): 4:12pm On Feb 01
Every Woman Loves Patriarchy! You Think They Dont Know How Challenging It Is To Struggle Like A Man? They Wish The World Was Still In The Era Where they Would Sit At Home And A Rich Suitor Will come Knocking with The Intent To Pluck a Beautiful Flower... Gone Are Those Days.


Feminisim Is Easy To Defend But Difficult To Live It. Many Of Our Ladies Can Not Live Like A Feminist, they Can Only Blab about It Online but In Reality They Are Members Of SGBG(Small Girls With Big God) club...

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by IamPlato(m): 4:18pm On Feb 01
Elder0001:



You and capslocked are on the same page.
Have You Seen Our Girls Dominating Before?


Well They Do... On Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Skype... They Get Thousands Of Likes, Retweets, Comments And Reaction. All On The Virtual World.


In Reality they Are On The Recieving End even During Sex They Are Recievers

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by hahn(m): 4:45pm On Feb 01
Elder0001:


Lol. I’ve seen many of them viewing ,they view and run .

It’s a fact that women contribute to patriarchy . After this any woman who complains about patriarchy on this section again will be tackled by my humble self.

So eventually you agree with 5thelement
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Ardar(f): 4:47pm On Feb 01
You are very correct op, I find it very disgusting that the same women who would scream feminism will still go back and do the things which they preach a gainst.

Eg In Igbo culture and most cultures around the world, male children are more valuable than female children due to a number of reasons and it's quite unbelievable that it's the same women who are victims of this practice that enforce it.

This women will taunt and mock their fellow women for not having a male child, they even go as far as saying ''When you start giving birth to boys that is when you know you have children'' am not saying that having male kids is not important but you can't belittle female kids too cuz they have important roles to play in the family.

I look at this mentality and I ask myself, these women who say such harmful careless things about the girl child, don't they or have they suddenly forgotten that they are also females too?

Another is the case if FGM, that one is even more sad and the reasons for it even sadder. cry cry

Women are their own problems.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 5:09pm On Feb 01
True.Women encourage patriarchy because society has conditioned them to see patriarchy as a way of life.
Ardar:
You are very correct op, I find it very disgusting that the same women who would scream feminism will still go back and do the things which they preach a gainst.

Eg In Igbo culture and most cultures around the world, male children are more valuable than female children due to a number of reasons and it's quite unbelievable that it's the same women who are victims of this practice that enforce it.

This women will taunt and mock their fellow women for not having a male child, they even go as far as saying ''When you start giving birth to boys that is when you know you have children'' am not saying that having male kids is not important but you can't belittle female kids too cuz they have important roles to play in the family.

I look at this mentality and I ask myself, these women who say such harmful careless things about the girl child, don't they or have they suddenly forgotten that they are also females too?

Another is the case if FGM, that one is even more sad and the reasons for it even sadder. cry cry

Women are their own problems.
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 5:24pm On Feb 01
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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 5:25pm On Feb 01
hahn:


So eventually you agree with 5thelement

No.

We should all be feminists
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by tintingz(m): 5:45pm On Feb 01
IamPlato:
I Want You To Understand That It Is Natural For Women To Want Patriarchy...
I don't think this is true, we won't be having feminist if this is your claim.

The only reason patriarchy was the system in the early human history is because of the physical strength of man, there's no technology in the very past so men do most things.

Man Was Created Before Woman and To Be Leaders... Most Women Want The Comfort Zone, forget All Those Feminism Shiit...
This is fairytale.

Was Talking To A Girl Sometime Ago And She Said She Wants To Get Married Before 25... Because She Knew Her Husband Would Care For Her And she Would Have Less To Worry About. Marriage Is Their Comfort Zone and Its Usually Difficult To Resist The Comfort zone.
There is 99% chance this girl is a religious girl living in African society.

It Takes Great Determination And Courage for A Woman To Stand Up To a Man In Responsiblities... Deep Inside Of Every Woman They Want A Home Where they Can Relax And Grow Fat Without Having To Go Out Schedules...
This is fallacy.

Many Women Are Being Forced To Into Independence Today Because the World Is Fast Evolving and Men No Longer Want Liabilities as Wives. In The End, they Cry When You Propose To Them Because Their Heart's Longest Desire Has Come To Pass
Another fallacy.

Women are going to school just like men, women are working and earning just like men, what stop them from being Independent?

For the fact that you agree the world is evolving that solve your Fallacy.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by tintingz(m): 5:48pm On Feb 01
Ladyhippolyta88:
True.Women encourage patriarchy because society has conditioned them to see patriarchy as a way of life.
Exactly, they have been indoctrinated to believe in this social myth.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 6:32pm On Feb 01
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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by 2buffagain(m): 6:51pm On Feb 01
Regardless of everyone wanting equality, only a minute few women are okay with a reality that they make considerably more than their man. Natural hypergamy is the woman's adaptation to biological limitations imposed upon her. He would have to make up for it by being extra good at something else she can't get anywhere else...whereas it would be perfectly okay if the roles were switched. The woman's tendency towards hypergamy is what created this "patriarchy" you speak of, because without this "patriarchy"...in the presence of innate hypergamy...neither you or I would exist today.

tintingz:
There are possiblities patriarchy can fade off in the future.

Yes the early society started as patriarchal system due to men physical strength to hunt and fight which became a culture, then religion came with same patriarchal system to tame women.

We have all-female worriors in the past, the Dahomey Amazons for example.This shows women can be worriors but many society didn't give that chance to women.

Now if cultures and religion can be scrapped or amended, reorientate our girls and boys, then patriarchy will fade off! We are now in advanced society where we have science, technology and education, we have allot of women performing well in this field, we now see women going for political post, if this reorientation persists then patriarchy will fade off but as long as religion and culture(which are social myths) keep used to indoctrinate little girls to see men as superior then nothing will change, and funniest thing is it seems many girls are enjoying the patriarchy thing, they(girls) took advantage of it.

Men and women are physically different.
Take the strongest woman in the world (of any ethnicity) and she will never be stronger than the strongest man in the world.

Everyone had to try to be a warrior back then, including all-women settlements, but the world would be ruled by amazons if they were any good at it. IJS. Physicality is an arena of men.

Life becomes easier when you accept your difference to the next person and work with the strength you have. That's what girls did. There is no male-induced "patriarchy". It is simply an adaptation to nature. If poo goes down today, these same women will forget equality and expect to be treated with ye olde "Women and children first!". And this will happen instinctively. Try as we want to be smarter than biology, we will not escape our nature in this matter.

The happiest women on earth are those that understand and have made peace with this fact.
Those who see themselves as perpetual victims, oblivious to their innate benefits over men, are in for a long one.

A woman can be at peace with this knowledge and still go on to be a brilliant professional. Heck, women did this back in the day.
Such a woman would have no issues being married to an equally respectful man who accepts that he is the loving protector of his woman....

Abi after all this long talk, if there is a noise downstairs at night, is it still the woman that will go down to check whats up when the man is there?

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 8:03pm On Feb 01
2buffagain, sorry but what happened in titanic can’t happen in this era.

Well if it happens you can give up your place for women to be saved but I won’t .
Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by tintingz(m): 8:22pm On Feb 01
2buffagain:
Regardless of everyone wanting equality, only a minute few women are innately okay with the fact that they make more than their men. Natural hypergamy is the woman's adaptation to biological limitations imposed upon her. He would have to make up for it by being extra good at something else she can't get anywhere else...whereas it would be perfectly okay if the roles were switched. The woman's tendency towards hypergamy is what created this "patriarchy" you speak of, because without this "patriarchy"...in the presence of innate hypergamy...neither you or I would exist today.
I don't know where you got this hypothesis from but I've made it clear in my previous post, the society started as patriarchal system due to man physical strength.

Men and women are physically different.
Take the strongest woman in the world (of any ethnicity) and she will never be stronger than the strongest man in the world.
Yes man is physically stronger than women but that's not all what a human needed to survive.

Everyone had to try to be a warrior back then, including all-women settlements, but the world would be ruled by amazons if they were any good at it. IJS. Physicality is an arena of men.
The Dahomey Amazons which are all-female worriors defeated their neighboring tribe in wars. At some point in time the female military was stopped. Imagine if all societies are having a large of female worriors?

Life becomes easier when you accept your difference to the next person and work with the strength you have. That's what girls did. There is no male-induced "patriarchy". It is simply an adaptation to nature. If poo goes down today, these same women will forget equality and expect to be treated with ye olde "Women and children first!". And this will happen instinctively. Try as we want to be smarter than biology, we will not escape our nature in this matter.
These are all social myths. The society has indoctrinated young boys and girls to follow this myths.

This is 21 century where we have technology, science and education, physical strength is not that needed, the patriarchy system can fade off in the future if we keep on enlighten ourselves. The only reason we still have patriarchy today is because of religions and cultures.

The happiest women on earth are those that understand and have made peace with this fact.
Those who see themselves as perpetual victims, oblivious to their innate benefits over men, are in for a long one.

A woman can be at peace with this knowledge and still go on to be a brilliant professional.
Such a woman would have no issues being married to an equally respectful man who accepts that he is the loving protector of his woman....
I think you're kinda fallacious here.

If you read history how women were oppressed in the past you won't make this statement. Some group of women who were said to be the first set of feminists fought for women's right which many women are enjoying today. Women can't even vote in the past!

Abi after all this talk, if there is a noise downstairs at night, is it still the woman that will go down to check whats up when the man is there?
Lol, men are also scared, they just want to appear brave just to satisfy the society.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 9:52pm On Feb 01
tintingz:
I don't know where you got this hypothesis from but I've made it clear in my previous post, the society started as patriarchal system due to man physical strength.

Yes man is physically stronger than women but that's not all what a human needed to survive.

The Dahomey Amazons which are all-female worriors defeated their neighboring tribe in wars. At some point in time the female military was stopped. Imagine if all societies are having a large of female worriors?

These are all social myths. The society has indoctrinated young boys and girls to follow this myths.

This is 21 century where we have technology, science and education, physical strength is not that needed, the patriarchy system can fade off in the future if we keep on enlighten ourselves. The only reason we still have patriarchy today is because of religions and cultures.

I think you're kinda fallacious here.

If you read history how women were oppressed in the past you won't make this statement. Some group of women who were said to be the first set of feminists fought for women's right which many women are enjoying today. Women can't even vote in the past!

Lol, men are also scared, they just want to appear brave just to satisfy the society.



You’re a very wise man.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by 2buffagain(m): 10:07pm On Feb 01
Honestly, I'd be more interested in hearing what the women think about all this instead of a bunch of guys. They are the ones that know what they are enjoying or not enjoying from the status quo so they should be able to speak up for themselves.

I no get time to dey carry woman mata put for head.

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Re: How Women Enable Patriarchy In The Society by Elder0001(m): 11:11pm On Feb 01
2buffagain:
Honestly, I'd be more interested in hearing what the women think about all this instead of a bunch of guys. They are the ones that know what they are enjoying or not enjoying from the status quo so they should be able to speak up for themselves.

Lol

Same women that are running away from the thread

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