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Re: Marriage Pressure by shege45: 1:32pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
destiny4luv:guy if u run to that ur friend to boro u money for school fees, that same friend go change am for u. Calm down. If its me i go just dey laff as them dey talk. Make dem arrest me na bcus i no wan marry 1 Like |
Re: Marriage Pressure by Nobody: 1:42pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
destiny4luv: So first, you borrow money to get married. Then next, you go back to them and borrow money to feed your family Then you borrow money to pay for your wife's antenatal and other hospital bills pertaining to childbirth. Then you borrow money from them for the naming ceremony Then you borrow money to buy pampers and child food. Then you run to them again for money to pay your kids school fees. I'm sure you don't like that scenario. Put your foot down and tell them to be patient. No point pushing you into a lifetime of suffering. Create a life for yourself first before you bring in a woman and children into it. Don't hope that when you get married things will get better. It might for some, doesn't mean it will for you if you go the same route. Rise above pennilessness before seeking the hands of a woman in marriage. When you ask her parents to release her to you, you are in fact telling them that you can take care of her. 5 Likes |
Re: Marriage Pressure by Rosarie(f): 6:07pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
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Re: Marriage Pressure by Nobody: 6:31pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
destiny4luv:U started well but ended very unruly. U would have stated this in your opening post. We wouldn't have been having this discussion in the first place. Goodluck |
Re: Marriage Pressure by destiny4luv(m): 10:34pm On Feb 02, 2019 |
sassysure: Well sorry if I was unruly, all the same thanks for your advice. |
Re: Marriage Pressure by Katier00(f): 5:29am On Feb 03, 2019 |
destiny4luv:take your time and everything will be fine |
Re: Marriage Pressure by Irenemmeso(f): 7:42am On Feb 03, 2019 |
shege45:if it was you, you wouldn't be laughing. Its not easy as it sounds |
Re: Marriage Pressure by shege45: 8:23am On Feb 03, 2019 |
Irenemmeso:lol do you know my own situation currently? And I’m still smiling |
Re: Marriage Pressure by destiny4luv(m): 5:42pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
Katier00: Thanks. |
Re: Marriage Pressure by Irenemmeso(f): 5:30pm On Feb 04, 2019 |
shege45:OK |
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