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5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by bamisepeters(m): 12:20pm On Feb 04
Jealousy is one big problem dragging it out with many relationship or marriage that if not properly checked it will wreck the union beyond recognition.

In this post I will discuss 5 of those effects of jealousy on your relationship.

1. Making new friends becomes hard:

Weather you like it or not, at a time or the other we meet new people, and they might even be part of those that will be responsible when it comes to reaching that milestone we see to be impossible to attain.

When your spouse knows you are the type that changes mood anyhow at the sight of an opposite sex it will be difficult to make new friends of opposite sex as it might not go well with you.

A jealous spouse will always be afraid of the friends of same gender as they will be thinking those friends might corrupt you, because of this you just lose the vibe for more frienship while you trim the current ones just to make him feel secured to an extent

2. Talking about opposite sex must be with caution:

You know your spouse flares up unnecessarily when it comes to you and other opposite sex, hence, you tend to avoid issues for those who hate trouble, you tend to be cautious of the way you talk with and about the opposite sex to your spouse or else the EOD becomes disastrous a jealous spouse is capable to destroy anything.

Read Also: Divorce Should Not Always Be The Solution To Marital Troubles

3. Freedom to expression will be limited:

When you know your spouse cannot hold him/herself when it comes to your relationship with opposite sex you will be very careful about your expressions and you will not be free to talk about everything that happens as when you talk about the good gestures of any opposite sex towards you or yours towards any opposite sex it becomes serious issue that might take longer than expected time to settle.

4. It makes your BP rise unnecessarily :

The issue with jealousy is that it makes the person guilty of it to feel that the relationship or union is not secured.

They feel that every opposite sex of their spouse are their biggest rival, therefore, they are always at alert so that nothing will meet them unaware.

They want to know more than they should know at a time without waiting for their spouse to display that loyalty by telling them by themselve, by this they are calling for heart attack indirectly and will indirectly affect you if anything goes wrong at the end of the day.

5. It is capable of making you lose all suddenly:

All the list will be incomplete without mentioning this.

Jealousy can make you lose your source of livelihood, your Spouse's life and make yours miserable.

This is because jealousy doesn't give you the chance to listen to explanations, it controls your behaviour, it makes you think you are always right not knowing what you think is right is completely wrong.

Jealousy makes you over react which is most times not good for your relationship.

We are at one time or the order jealous, we should just learn to control it so that it will not make us regret actions we have already taken as most actions in this case are deadly and irreversible.

This is my opinion, kindly add your contributions as it is important to me.


Source: https://bamisepeters.blogspot.com/2019/01/5-terrible-effects-of-jealousy-to-your.html

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Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by Miracle4Sure: 5:56pm On Feb 10
No comment
#electionOnMyMind

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Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by ainas247: 5:56pm On Feb 10
cheesy I go kuku ma stay on my own to avoid problems

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Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by AJ01(m): 5:57pm On Feb 10
Choi i missed FTC now am jealous undecided
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by freemanbubble: 5:57pm On Feb 10
Okay
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by itiswellandwell: 5:57pm On Feb 10
Hmm
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by Laserman: 5:57pm On Feb 10
It's mainly emotionally insecure people that are jealous in relationships.

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Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by izzy4shizzy(m): 5:58pm On Feb 10
Like the guy above me pointed out..

Insecurities as well as inferiority complex are the main killers of relationships

Not forgetting their cousin, Brokeness

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Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by highqueen(f): 5:58pm On Feb 10
If I no jealous my partner, wetin I gain.

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Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by BrandStrategist(m): 5:58pm On Feb 10
Osheyyy...Relationship Doctor undecided

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Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by Dukpe219aru: 6:01pm On Feb 10
Hi

Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by lonelydora: 6:01pm On Feb 10
Ok
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by Bellotelli: 6:02pm On Feb 10
bamisepeters:
Jealousy is one big problem dragging it out with many relationship or marriage that if not properly checked it will wreck the union beyond recognition.

In this post I will discuss 5 of those effects of jealousy on your relationship.

1. Making new friends becomes hard:

Weather you like it or not, at a time or the other we meet new people, and they might even be part of those that will be responsible when it comes to reaching that milestone we see to be impossible to attain.

When your spouse knows you are the type that changes mood anyhow at the sight of an opposite sex it will be difficult to make new friends of opposite sex as it might not go well with you.

A jealous spouse will always be afraid of the friends of same gender as they will be thinking those friends might corrupt you, because of this you just lose the vibe for more frienship while you trim the current ones just to make him feel secured to an extent

2. Talking about opposite sex must be with caution:

You know your spouse flares up unnecessarily when it comes to you and other opposite sex, hence, you tend to avoid issues for those who hate trouble, you tend to be cautious of the way you talk with and about the opposite sex to your spouse or else the EOD becomes disastrous a jealous spouse is capable to destroy anything.

Read Also: Divorce Should Not Always Be The Solution To Marital Troubles

3. Freedom to expression will be limited:

When you know your spouse cannot hold him/herself when it comes to your relationship with opposite sex you will be very careful about your expressions and you will not be free to talk about everything that happens as when you talk about the good gestures of any opposite sex towards you or yours towards any opposite sex it becomes serious issue that might take longer than expected time to settle.

4. It makes your BP rise unnecessarily :

The issue with jealousy is that it makes the person guilty of it to feel that the relationship or union is not secured.

They feel that every opposite sex of their spouse are their biggest rival, therefore, they are always at alert so that nothing will meet them unaware.

They want to know more than they should know at a time without waiting for their spouse to display that loyalty by telling them by themselve, by this they are calling for heart attack indirectly and will indirectly affect you if anything goes wrong at the end of the day.

5. It is capable of making you lose all suddenly:

All the list will be incomplete without mentioning this.

Jealousy can make you lose your source of livelihood, your Spouse's life and make yours miserable.

This is because jealousy doesn't give you the chance to listen to explanations, it controls your behaviour, it makes you think you are always right not knowing what you think is right is completely wrong.

Jealousy makes you over react which is most times not good for your relationship.

We are at one time or the order jealous, we should just learn to control it so that it will not make us regret actions we have already taken as most actions in this case are deadly and irreversible.

This is my opinion, kindly add your contributions as it is important to me.


Source: https://bamisepeters.blogspot.com/2019/01/5-terrible-effects-of-jealousy-to-your.html

It's true. Infact I just broke up with one some days ago, nd right now I feel very free.

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Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by Awwwsts: 6:03pm On Feb 10
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ainas247:
cheesy I go kuku ma stay on my own to avoid problems

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Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by helinues: 6:06pm On Feb 10
Ok
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by Abdul3391(m): 6:11pm On Feb 10
AJ01:
Choi i missed FTC now am jealous undecided
is the person ur spouse
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by Alejob: 6:17pm On Feb 10
shocked
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by zolacoded(m): 6:19pm On Feb 10
We have 7.8Billion people on this planet earth.

Women = 5.6Billion
Men = 2.2Billion

So, you see my sister think twice before giving attitudes to any man because out of the 2.2 Billion men:

• One billion are married already.

• 130,000 are in the prison.

• 70,000 are mentally ill.

That means that we have just 1 billion men available for marriage and out of the
1billion:

• 50% are jobless
• 3% are gay
• 5% are Catholic Priests
• 10% are your relatives
• 35% are above 66years

So, ladies both the married and singles, you have to rethink before treating any man like trash.

Source: United Nations

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Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by husbandsnatcha(f): 6:21pm On Feb 10
yes ..as adanna uyima eze aka analqueenluci frm atakpa cross river dey jealous me on my success
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by husbandsnatcha(f): 6:26pm On Feb 10
zolacoded:
We have 7.8Billion people on this planet earth.

Women = 5.6Billion
Men = 2.2Billion

So, you see my sister think twice before giving attitudes to any man because out of the 2.2 Billion men:

• One billion are married already.

• 130,000 are in the prison.

• 70,000 are mentally ill.

That means that we have just 1 billion men available for marriage and out of the
1billion:

• 50% are jobless
• 3% are gay
• 5% are Catholic Priests
• 10% are your relatives
• 35% are above 66years

So, ladies both the married and singles, you have to rethink before treating any man like trash.

Source: United Nations
lies ..men has great population issue is dey ar always here n there working

dnt confuse us abeg

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Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by zolacoded(m): 7:00pm On Feb 10
husbandsnatcha:
lies ..men has great population issue is dey ar always here n there working

dnt confuse us abeg
Nah...... it's a known fact that women are populated than men.

PS: Is DAT u on ur DP? Pls come and snatch me quick I'm waiting love!!!
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by AJ01(m): 7:18pm On Feb 10
Abdul3391:

is the person ur spouse
Go check the meaning of sarcasm undecided undecided
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by Radicalface: 7:19pm On Feb 10
ainas247:
cheesy I go kuku ma stay on my own to avoid problems

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Baba I der your side joor.. All this relationship matter don tire me..

Like this now I even der with my baby..
Henikien is bae!
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by ainas247: 7:36pm On Feb 10
Radicalface:


Baba I der your side joor.. All this relationship matter don tire me..

Like this now I even der with my baby..
Henikien is bae!

Gbefunn.. Oya hit me grin
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by Abdul3391(m): 8:46pm On Feb 10
AJ01:
Go check the meaning of sarcasm undecided undecided
I'm also trying to be sarcastic mind u
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by AJ01(m): 10:09pm On Feb 10
Abdul3391:

I'm also trying to be sarcastic mind u
With an angry face, really shocked
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by EVILFOREST: 10:45pm On Feb 10
U have made points
Re: 5 Terrible Effects Of Jealousy To Your Relationship - Bamisepeter's Blog by Whitneyclark(f): 11:58pm On Feb 10
Hmmm undecided

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