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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 9:11am On Feb 11
UyaiIncomparabl:
kiss kiss


Called you twice and you didn't pick.
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Katier00(f): 9:14am On Feb 11
frenchman:
Was married for 15 years, ended badly due to irreconcilable differences. Ant regrets? Yes, I should have walked earlier
so how is your present relationship now. Hope it is making up for the lost years
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:19am On Feb 11
BiafraBushBoy:


Called you twice and you didn't pick.

Really? Didn't see a missed call.
Call again, please.
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 9:22am On Feb 11
UyaiIncomparabl:


Really? Didn't see a missed call.
Call again, please.

You mind if I do that by 12:20?

Please.

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by samsam2019: 9:22am On Feb 11
This is a good post so let me just add my own......




My ex wife and I dated for 8 years. we loved each other so much that we don't even stay in the same state. I used to think those who got divorced are fools until life gave me a dirty slap grin


To be continued.....

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 9:23am On Feb 11
BiafraBushBoy:


You mind if I do that by 12:20?

Please.

Ok then. My Glo line.
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by chezzy13(f): 9:27am On Feb 11
The only regret I have is leaving empty handed while the idiot's side chic came and cleared everything including the cars..

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Katier00(f): 9:27am On Feb 11
allanphash7:
The best option i was left with is to end my marriage then if only i want to remain alive and not even behind the bars for life


Though it wasn't an easy decision but i retired to fate because i never bargained for it in my life


Marriage of 7 years with two beautiful kids? So how are you coping with the kids now


It's not easy


Decision that took me for about 1yr



It's not easy (Lucky Dube) song
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by UCyril: 9:32am On Feb 11
chezzy13:
The only regret I have is leaving empty handed while the idiot's side chic came and cleared everything including the cars..
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by hablink: 9:35am On Feb 11
tosyne2much:
I feel your concern bro.. The truth is that women normally take advantage of such men but you don't have a choice than to give it a shot

U grab?
of course he has a valid choice and he is not mandated to give it a shot. You see, this is one of the reasons why people make life long mistakes, he has already figured himself out, he knows his weakness yet you're advising him to throw logic and reasoning outta the window and go headlong into something that catastrophic!!!

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Martinez39: 9:38am On Feb 11
chezzy13:
The only regret I have is leaving empty handed while the idiot's side chic came and cleared everything including the cars..
Chai! Men who cheat are not worth it.

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Katier00(f): 9:42am On Feb 11
Yigiyaga:
Married 9 years,irreconcilable differences coupled with the fact she was obsessed . I couldn't say hi to a female without getting chewed out or accused of infidelity. regret...should have walked earlier.
was in that kind of relationship before and it took me 8yrs to stop being the virtuous woman and flee for my life. I was depressed and sick, lost an eight weeks pregnancy due to excessive beatings, looking back now, I should have left earlier. No regrets, even though I'm not perfect, in my heart of heart, I know I am not a bad person and I tried to make it work.

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Yigiyaga(m): 9:51am On Feb 11
Katier00:
was in that kind of relationship before and it took me 8yrs to stop being the virtuous woman and flee for my life. I was depressed and sick, lost an eight weeks pregnancy due to excessive beatings, looking back now, I should have left earlier. No regrets, even though I'm not perfect, in my heart of heart, I know I am not a bad person and I tried to make it work.
Sorry, got to fix yourself up and stop feeling guilty. Maybe i should be dead if i hadn't walked. The biggest challenge so far is starting all over.

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Katier00(f): 9:51am On Feb 11
chezzy13:
The only regret I have is leaving empty handed while the idiot's side chic came and cleared everything including the cars..
don't worry, those things are replaceable. You will get back in hundred folds

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Katier00(f): 9:54am On Feb 11
Yigiyaga:
Sorry, got to fix yourself up and stop feeling guilty. Maybe i should be dead if i hadn't walked. The biggest challenge so far is starting all over.
yea, it's been 3yrs now. Have moved on and hope to try again soon

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by mamajaz(f): 9:54am On Feb 11
Hillsabah18:

Open a thread and start revealing to us those things they tell you
Alabosi girl. You just said my mind tongue
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Johnny1013(m): 9:58am On Feb 11
I am really liking what am reading....I am not married tho
My ex thought God sent me into her life to be a slave.Proposed and she said yes.Her parents decided to frustrate me by controlling the relationship..Says I must be attending their Church and be dedicated.Even a letter from my pastor did not save anything. My babe was still supporting her parents.AT this junction,my spirit told me you are created for more
p.s I am so dedicated and an ardent lover of the gospel.attending Christ embassy and she was MFM

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by NwanyiAwkaetiti(f): 10:04am On Feb 11
Yigiyaga:
Married 9 years,irreconcilable differences coupled with the fact she was obsessed . I couldn't say hi to a female without getting chewed out or accused of infidelity. regret...should have walked earlier.
All will be fine.
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by tosyne2much(m): 10:10am On Feb 11
hablink:

of course he has a valid choice and he is not mandated to give it a shot. You see, this is one of the reasons why people make life long mistakes, he has already figured himself out, he knows his weakness yet you're advising him to throw logic and reasoning outta the window and go headlong into something that catastrophic!!!
Calm down bro! Unless he wants to remain unmarried he will definitely give it a shot.. He doesn't have a choice
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by IamPlato(m): 10:17am On Feb 11
UyaiIncomparabl:

Ok then. My Glo line.
so You Have Started Giving Out Your Number undecided

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Hennyola(m): 10:25am On Feb 11
reginaeb:
I'm so glad I walked out of my marriage of three months.

I even thank God when I think about it because God saved me.

The guy had so much skeletons in his cupboard. So diabolic and fetish. Had I known of those skeletons I wouldn't have accepted his proposal.

Say no to long distance relationship. I did it for 4 years only to get married and leave 3 months after.


would you like to share, let's all learn

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Kendrick80(m): 10:25am On Feb 11
MacMkboy:
However, The Nigerian Girls And Ladies I Meet Propel Me To Remain Single. I'm Much Closer To Females Than Males. I Have A Lot Of Lady Friends That Are Very Close To Me --So Close That U Would Think We're In A R/ship. Some Are Extremely Close That They Feel Free To Discuss With Me, The Things They Can't Discuss With Their Boyfriends. Those Discussions Reveal To Me The True Nature Of The Real Person Behind Those Fake Charade Many Girls/Ladies Put Up. And To Be Honest After Those Discussions, I Get Scared Of Wanting To Be Involved In A Romantic Relationship.
I'm also in that zone brother...its fuxkin scary
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by naijainstinct: 10:28am On Feb 11
flyca:

For every woman with a voice, y'all smell the same rubbish. Why y'all not marry a 19th century woman? undecided You fail to come to terms that this is 21st century, not your mothers or grandmothers or great grand mothers era undecided
y'all, y'all, y'all grin

Gimme a 19th century woman and I'll gladly choose her over the morally decadent 21st century woman.

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by clumsydyna: 10:36am On Feb 11
Quarterbac:
This is why i keep telling everyone around me I'm not sure i'm ever getting married. I'm a very quiet and calm person, even when I get offended I hardly react, I'm afraid a girl is gon' find out and take advantage of this.

A time bomb loading...

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by flyca: 10:47am On Feb 11
naijainstinct:
y'all, y'all, y'all grin

Gimme a 19th century woman and I'll gladly choose her over the morally decadent 21st century woman.
Go and look for them in your village. They do not use phones yet, talk less of connecting to the internet tongue

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by zeenaman: 10:47am On Feb 11
hmmm
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by naijainstinct: 10:51am On Feb 11
flyca:

Go and look for them in your village. They do not use phones yet, talk less of connecting to the internet tongue
grin undecided
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by Earthbound(m): 12:44pm On Feb 11
husbandsnatcha:
Single n searching 4 a mature husband
Good for you. If you ever need an inbetween, give me a shout.
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by LadySarah(f): 1:11pm On Feb 11
I
missjane:
My recommendation.
Please find the movie war room n watch it
It can still save a marriage on the brink of divorce.
If you are yet to get married, still locate it n watch.
Marriage is an institution created by God Himself..and only Him has the real blue print of a successful marriage.
Having unrealistic expectations that your partner can fulfil every of your needs is a misconception. There are needs in a man or woman that only God himself can fill.
If you are tired of fighting loosing battles in your marriage then, it's time to submit to God resist the devil in your home and he will flee from you.
God bless your marriage..

The warroom crew has landed grin grin grin

Madam,marriage is more a physical affair than spiritual.If it were spiritual,the likes of BennyHinn,Chris Okotie,Oyahkhilome,etc will never divorce.
Even men who have not knpwn God have successful marriages.


If both partners are merciful and treat their betterhalf the way they'd want to be treated,i think so many problems will be eliminated.

Would you like to be cheated on?
Would you like to be sex starved by you partner?
Would you watch you wife work and slave while yi cross you legs and watch tv?

A friend very spiritual couple told me how she told her husband she wasnt intersted in sex anymore,even when i know he travels for mths.I only told her,if she will also feel ok if he doesnt bring housekeeping money while he travels.

If that not disaster waiting to happen?

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Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 1:32pm On Feb 11
UyaiIncomparabl:


Ok then. My Glo line.

I tried reaching you as agreed, but you were still unreachable.

Trying reaching me if you see this. #Cheers.
Re: How Did Your Marriage End? Any Regrets? by GREATESTPIANIST: 1:44pm On Feb 11
hotspec:
We are divorced already. love is long gone.
Alright

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