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How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Ilamina(f): 4:51am On Feb 13
What are we doing wrong
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Tizu(m): 5:04am On Feb 13
Ilamina:

What are we doing wrong

You women may be arrogant, disrespectful with bad manners. Call your sisters to a meeting and assess yourselves and tell yourselves the truth about what you are not doing right. After hold your hands together and pray, God will surely open your ways. I wish you all a new life in your matrimonial homes.

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Nutase: 6:56am On Feb 13
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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by SkinnyDude(m): 6:57am On Feb 13
how old are u?
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Ilamina(f): 7:56am On Feb 13
SkinnyDude:
how old are u?

How is that business

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by ogawisdom(m): 8:51am On Feb 13
All of you should go for Deliverance from spiritual husband, it's real. May be you were all given to some deity by your ancestors

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by SkinnyDude(m): 8:58am On Feb 13
Ilamina:


How is that business
to know if you are too old or too young for marriage

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by mrphysics(m): 9:09am On Feb 13
Ilamina:

What are we doing wrong

Your signature is the main reason. Your signature reads: "FUC.K NIGERIA, FUC.K AFRICA . .team change ofem-anu girls attitudes"

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by ValCon888(m): 12:06pm On Feb 13
You're doing nothing wrong. The right man will come at the right time. And if not, then enjoy the best that life has to offer.

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by tobianthony(m): 12:18pm On Feb 13
ogawisdom:
All of you should go for Deliverance from spiritual husband, it's real. May be you were all given to some deity by your ancestors

It's easier to go for deliverance than to accept the possibility that one might have a bad attitude and actually do something to improve on it .

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Katier00(f): 12:38pm On Feb 13
Ilamina:


How is that business
because of your manner of communication

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Ganjafama: 4:30pm On Feb 13
Ilamina:


How is that business
Your reply is a pointer to the reason you and your sisters are not getting married. You may not know it, there are guys here on nairaland who are looking to get hooked also. Always try to be cheerful, even when you are provoked. Good luck.

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by seyigiggle: 5:20pm On Feb 13
i have given your dp a like since today is your birthday. i can see you have grown into maturity.
na joke ooo
Katier00:
because of your manner of communication
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by cococandy(f): 5:42pm On Feb 13
Are the men in your family all married? Or is the pressure more on the women because they are women?

Generally, Nigerians are getting married later than usual because of economic situations

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Uyi168(m): 6:16pm On Feb 13
Ilamina:


How is that business
...
The same arrogance we are talking about..

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Ilamina(f): 6:41pm On Feb 13
cococandy:
Are the men in your family all married? Or is the pressure more on the women because they are women?

Generally, Nigerians are getting married later than usual because of economic situations

The men do better in the marriage department compared to their women

I feel like the way I am going, I might end up like them
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by CAPSLOCKED: 6:42pm On Feb 13
ogawisdom:
All of you should go for Deliverance from spiritual husband, it's real. May be you were all given to some deity by your ancestors

SAD HOW YOUR NAME CARRIES THE WORD "WISDOM" BUT YOU POSSES THE THINKING AND IMAGINING ABILITIES OF A NURSERY CHILD.

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by ogawisdom(m): 6:54pm On Feb 13
CAPSLOCKED:


THAT'S JUST IT AND MAYBE PHYSICALLY THEY DON'T LOOK TOO GOOD.
I WAS EXPECTING TO SEE SOMETHING RELATING TO SPIRITS AND WITCHES BEFORE I CLICKED ON THIS THREAD... I FOUND IT ON THE POST BELOW...




SAD HOW YOUR NAME CARRIES THE WORD "WISDOM" BUT YOU POSSES THE THINKING AND IMAGINING ABILITIES OF A NURSERY CHILD.

An idiot like you that is spiritually blind should never quote me.goat
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Mizwisdom(f): 7:29pm On Feb 13
Ilamina:


The men do better in the marriage department compared to their women

I feel like the way I am going, I might end up like them


I'm assuming your mum married your dad and all the other unmarried women in your family have married mothers so how did you arrive at this conclusion? Is it that women bare children out of wedlock or what exactly is the issue cause all the unmarried women have birth parents or were they adopted?

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Martinez39: 7:49pm On Feb 13
Madam, take it easy and don't rush. Just flow at your own pace without succumbing to pressure and you will get there. Don't be too hard on yourself.

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Ilamina(f): 8:44pm On Feb 13
Mizwisdom:



I'm assuming your mum married your dad and all the other unmarried women in your family have married mothers so how did you arrive at this conclusion? Is it that women bare children out of wedlock or what exactly is the issue cause all the unmarried women have birth parents or were they adopted?

My father's mother was married
But none of her daughters got married

Father's youngest sister got married but got divorced
Had one child but she is very ill, she has epilepsy

The other two never got married

The last one, my father's half sister married but don't have kids

It's either they marry and don't have kids or marry and give birth to a sick child
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by EVILFOREST: 9:07pm On Feb 13
Ilamina:

What are we doing wrong
Where do you HAIL from in Niger Delta ...??
It will give me an IDEA of what to ask you next
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Mizwisdom(f): 9:24pm On Feb 13
Ilamina:


My father's mother was married
But none of her daughters got married

Father's youngest sister got married but got divorced
Had one child but she is very ill, she has epilepsy

The other two never got married

The last one, my father's half sister married but don't have kids

It's either they marry and don't have kids or marry and give birth to a sick child


Helpful info. From your explanation, you're referring to your paternal family not your maternal one. Two sisters got married and two did not, one has kids and one doesn't. My dear I can't see a pattern here. Sickness is universal, your father has kids, one of his sisters has a kid, don't see a pattern of infertility since he's got 2 unmarried and the probably didn't want to have kids out of wedlock. How about your maternal family, do you see a negative pattern?

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by crackhaus: 10:50pm On Feb 13
Break the pattern by proposing to your boyfriend and take charge of some/all of the wedding finances.

Curses usually work one-dimensionally by hindering what would happen/progress naturally. Do something unnatural, something no one expects, and watch the curse crumble.

Sense will not finish me..

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Ilamina(f): 10:53pm On Feb 13
EVILFOREST:

Where do you HAIL from in Niger Delta ...??
It will give me an IDEA of what to ask you next

Yes Niger Delta
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by merahki: 11:10pm On Feb 13
crackhaus:
Break the pattern by proposing to your boyfriend and take charge of some/all of the wedding finances.

Curses usually work one-dimensionally by hindering what would happen/progress naturally. Do something unnatural, something no one expects, and watch the curse crumble.

Sense will not finish me..


cheesy

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Ilamina(f): 11:12pm On Feb 13
Mizwisdom:



Helpful info. From your explanation, you're referring to your paternal family not your maternal one. Two sisters got married and two did not, one has kids and one doesn't. My dear I can't see a pattern here. Sickness is universal, your father has kids, one of his sisters has a kid, don't see a pattern of infertility since he's got 2 unmarried and the probably didn't want to have kids out of wedlock. How about your maternal family, do you see a negative pattern?

All my mother's sisters had healthy beautiful children
Some divorced but all got married at least and had kids
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Ganjafama: 3:58pm On Feb 14
Ilamina:


All my mother's sisters had healthy beautiful children
Some divorced but all got married at least and had kids
If you are a Christian, fast and pray for God to lead you to your soul-mate. At the same time, if you have any flaws: character-wise, do away with them.
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Mizwisdom(f): 4:30pm On Feb 14
Ganjafama:
If you are a Christian, fast and pray for God to lead you to your soul-mate. At the same time, if you have any flaws: character-wise, do away with them.



Character flaws indeed. How come people divorce and separate after marriage? Even if she's perfect her spouse may not be so all one needs is favor. Charly boy with all his imperfections is married for 40yrs now

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Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by DeeMain(m): 10:41pm On Feb 15
crackhaus:
Break the pattern by proposing to your boyfriend and take charge of some/all of the wedding finances.

Curses usually work one-dimensionally by hindering what would happen/progress naturally. Do something unnatural, something no one expects, and watch the curse crumble.

Sense will not finish me..

This will be like slamming a revolving door. Useless.

If it's a bloodline pattern she will get divorced in a jiffy afterwards like her aunties. A bloodline pattern is a compelling spiritual and psychological force. It's a foundational stronghold.

@Op you need to break this pattern spiritually, mentally and behaviourally. Get a therapist to help you with the psychological and the behavioural aspects.
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Ilamina(f): 12:06am On Feb 16
SkinnyDude:
to know if you are too old or too young for marriage

Sorry, I didn't mean to be rude
I just wanted to get your attention to insult me, so I can learn about myself
Re: How Come Women In My Family Don't Marry by Rosarie(f): 1:19am On Feb 16
If my former l.i during nysc could marry with that attitude any woman can marry.go in your knees

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