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Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by gabazin080(m): 8:07pm On Feb 16
happening right now in my compound . an older woman slapped another because of little misunderstanding.
NB: the younger woman did nothing wrong. now the younger woman has called her husband who is a gentle easy going guy.
I overhead their conversation when the guy told him he is on his way. the woman has been bragging about how her husband will let all hell loose when he is back.

my question is, is it right to fight Your neighbor because of a fight that happened while you are away. what if he gets killed or injured in the process
Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by Tosinex(m): 8:10pm On Feb 16
Na wa o! Fights every where! Of course atleast let her husband be aware of what is going on with her in his absence
Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by gabazin080(m): 8:13pm On Feb 16
Tosinex:
Na wa o! Fights every where! Of course atleast let her husband be aware of what is going on with her in his absence
the wife is boasting that the easy going guy is coming to fight.

I want to know if its right or I should just block the guy and calm him down
Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by Evablizin(f): 8:16pm On Feb 16
Is wrong nah, i don't expect the man to fight,talk more of fighting a woman,he should ask what happend from both ladies and settle the matter peaceful then take his wife out and get her somethings if he can.

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Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by lilmax(m): 8:29pm On Feb 16
I no go marry woman wey dey enter trouble

if someone slapped her, she should fight back if she wants, her cross

I no go find trouble and dey expect person make e fight for me

same with my kids

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Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by NOC1(m): 8:30pm On Feb 16
Your wife should slap bk not you as a man, pretend as if you did not hear about it, and ask your wife to hit back nxt time.
But what can lead to slap, women and there wahala

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Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by Abjay97(m): 8:42pm On Feb 16
hmmm
Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by Nobody: 8:44pm On Feb 16
If it's a woman who slapped the wife, the man shouldn't hit her... But he must find a way to support the wife so she doesn't feel isolated.

Reporting the case to the police wouldn't be a bad idea. Ghetto approach always escalates issues...

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Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by bukiah: 8:46pm On Feb 16
So the woman no get hand? The man should not fight. He should even thank the woman for helping him to reset the wife's brain.
Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by Nobody: 8:47pm On Feb 16
NOC1:
Your wife should slap bk not you as a man, pretend as if you did not hear about it, and ask your wife to hit back nxt time.
But what can lead to slap, women and there wahala
Anything could have led to it. No matter what happens, even if your wife is wrong, you need to always have her back, although you must caution her in private.

Once a woman feels unsupported, you've killed her morale and trust in you.

Family 101.

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Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by gabazin080(m): 8:56pm On Feb 16
LuciferPastor:



These fighters are Afonja YES or NO?
what has tribe got to do with this
Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by bukatyne(f): 8:58pm On Feb 16
gabazin080:
happening right now in my compound . an older woman slapped another because of little misunderstanding.
NB: the younger woman did nothing wrong. now the younger woman has called her husband who is a gentle easy going guy.
I overhead their conversation when the guy told him he is on his way. the woman has been bragging about how her husband will let all hell loose when he is back.

my question is, is it right to fight Your neighbor because of a fight that happened while you are away. what if he gets killed or injured in the process

Is it right for the husband to come and fight? No

However, he should sternly warn the old woman & her husband/kids never to touch his wife again. Slapping the wife is actually a disrespect to the husband.

The young wife sounds foolish IMHO. What's with the noise making that her husband is coming to fight? Even if indeed he is coming to fight, why take away the element of surprise?

And to ask, what kind of living arrangements do they have to warrant slapping about?
Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by LuciferPastor: 8:59pm On Feb 16
gabazin080:
what has tribe got to do with this


I take that as a YES.

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Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by gabazin080(m): 9:21pm On Feb 16
LuciferPastor:


I take that as a YES.
sense is far from you

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Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by carammel(f): 9:32pm On Feb 16
If everyone always mind their business, there wouldn't be anything like slap in the first place.
You cannot say the wife did no wrong, that older woman is not mad, she cannot just walk up to the younger woman and slap her, some arguments had taken place which prompted such action.

Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by Nobody: 9:37pm On Feb 16
The man fighting a woman who slapped his wife will be the dumbest thing to do. Is his wife disable?
If it were a case of man slapping his wife then, some actions will be expected from him.
Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by chivera018(f): 9:51pm On Feb 16
this is how some women put their husbands into trouble.

If the younger lady's husband comes back and beat the older lady, the older lady's husband might fight back and it will generate to another big problem.

The wives should settle among themselves and leave their innocent husbands alone!

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Re: Is It Right To Fight A Neighbor Who Slapped Your Wife While U Are Away by nwaanambra1(m): 11:28pm On Feb 16
the husband should ask the wife what transpired. if she tells him the truth and she is not at fault, he should politely approach the neighbor to hear her part of the story.

if the neighbor is rude to him or not fort coming, he should take the case to police, and report the neighbor for assault on his wife.

the police will invite neighbor for questioning - if her answer is contradictory, he should request the IPO to take the issue to court where the court will charge her accordingly.


IF THE HUSBAND SHOULD GO AND FIGHT THE NEIGHBOR, IT WILL BE A CASE OF TWO FIGHTING, PUBLIC DISTURBANCE AND MISDEMEANOR - police go take them chop wella!

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