I suggest you sit her down and talk in dialogue with her mildly and with love...

Sex doll is still available na..... At least second hand.

Make sure ur woman is happy and is getting all the necessary support she needs ,that's all.

Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

My guy all the suggestions from guys just goes on to show how out of touch men of nowadays are about women.

Very important: Check to see if there is a particular woman your wife have gotten very close to within this period. If there is, then it is a hopeless case. The said close friend is her lesbian partner and that is why she cringes whenever you touch her boobs.

I can on my own count at least 12 homes broken by these scenarios. Suddenly, the wife hates sex with hubby but be very close to a female friends. In all cases, it turned out the wives were being brutally fingered and sucked until every sex interest for their husbands dies permanently.

Most if not all women fall easily for lesbians and the moment they are sucked and fingered furiously a few times they fall yakata. Even if you like let your dick be 50 inches, they won't be interested!

Honestly, I strongly believe your wife has fallen Victim.

Zoharariel:
Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside.

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal.

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train.

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month.

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor.

haaa bros comma take 2 chilled can trophy u make my might with dis

5 kids?? and still disturbing the gentle woman for sex?

Oga, abeg park well and shine outside

Don't kill this woman ,she is just trying to avoid another child

Abeg , go fire outside and give the woman rest..

Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

ogawisdom:
Sex twice a week is excessive for couple married for over 10 years. Just focus on her companionship and Target twice a month.

It's not all about sex

Really,and you're talking out of personal experience?

I've been married for NINE YEARS and I can tell you know absolutely nothing about what you are saying ..

Zoharariel:
Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside.

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal.

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train.

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month.

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor.

Zoharariel:
Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside.

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal.

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train.

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month.

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor.

Zoharariel:
Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside.

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal.

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train.

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month.

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor.

Confirmed and certified madman

I don't want to conclude but for a marry woman to loss petite for sex. It is serious. One is could be having sex outside that is while is no more hungry of yours. Is tire of the your food. Secondly she may not find u attractive again and such attention is diverted to something else. Thirdly the burden of family responsible could so.be responsible, find time and take her out for funny play and refresh it is not all.about work work. Special

oga OP your wife don turn to Lesbian . if u think am lieing watch her out for 2 week

Katier00:
She is approaching menopause

WTF?... menopause affecting sexual drive... e rhyme?
how body d do u now as you talk this thing

Oyindidi:
And you didn't mention me

I mentioned u dear

Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

You need to do family planning.

5 kids in 10 years is too much.

That's why she's running away.

jakandeola:
I mentioned u dear

OK, I was not online

5kids upkeep combined with house chores and working place stress, she'll probably be weak almost all the time. Help her with some of the house chores especially the stressful ones, you'll see how she will be the one giving you the green light as before. My take though.

Speedyconnect15:


Any evidence this works?

Be very careful comes with side effects

jakandeola:
so cos she born a lot he cant sex her again oge u are a christain wife submit ur body to husband.

After working and cleaning up all day after the kids, that woman becomes absolutely tired. 5kids in 10yrs..

Zoharariel:
Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside.

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal.

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train.

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month.

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor.

You are crazy..I swear

OP, five kids in this economy! Fear God oo. Anyways, on the other hand, people here have said it all. she might be tired or stressed out due to biological changes/adjustments or the fear of having another addition. Ok bye!

Zoharariel:
Married for just 10years & with only 5 kids? Is that an excuse? I know women who don born 6 & 7 pikins wey still dey collect steady preeks from outside.

The spirit of my ancestors from Nibiru is telling me that your wife is collecting an alternative banana outside.

Each time you touch her breast, she cringes?

Chaiii! Yahoo Boys don reprogram & adjust the frequency & wavelength of the sensual circuits of your wife's body, thereby rendering her sexual antenna unreceptive to your electromagnetic sexual waves being transmitted through your testosterone signal.

You can't trust these Nigerian women even if they're vomiting holyghost fire through their nostrils like a locomotive train.

If I were you, I would immediately hire 2 female Private Investigators to monitor & be following her about for a month.

If dem no catch am with atleast 3 guys for 3 different hotels, then NIMROD is not my ancestor.

Chai see person all this grammar on top say you won do Akporoko? I'm sure NIMROD will not even proud of you

ogawisdom:
Sex twice a week is excessive for couple married for over 10 years. Just focus on her companionship and Target twice a month.

It's not all about sex

shut up there. You lack wisdom.

melaninpop:



After working and cleaning up all day after the kids, that woman becomes absolutely tired. 5kids in 10yrs..

DAT wat she sign for it wrong to deny her hubby sex . I free sometimes shes tired but why she use anger tell him.if she beg him he will understand if he beat her or cheat on her u women will still complained

"e author=revolt post=75832727]She's fvcking outside, don't gock it. [/quote]" no spoil person marriage oh

Another man has taken over your farm Jo, he is bigger, stronger, richer and more reliable

sassysure:
Sex twice a week isn't bad unless the man wears her out in bed.
Fear of pregnancy, tiredness.
Her age again is a factor.

Oga, do u help out in the house or is she the only one doing it all as a virtuous Nigerian woman?

Sometimes, smooching and pillow talk help relax the hormones and give reassurance.

Sometimes too, take her to the top without actually doing anything. Lead her to multiple orgasms and watch her come after you.

U guys don't just know how to do it right.
Always humping like a he goat.
Shior.

Very easy to advise.

Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

Check her bags and possibly wardrobe, she has a love machine that's giving her orgasms and she's no longer into you. So many of these things are replaching men in so many a lady's life

Ajengogo:
We have been married for almost 10 years now, with 5 kids. The last child is over 2 years old. My wife used to indulge me with sex a lot. And I enjoyed every bit of it. Sometimes I indulge her a lot too. I do sometimes resist it. Same with her too. Such has been our sex life so far; which has been good enough.

However, I started noticing a lot of reluctance in her each time I approach her for sex more than a year ago now. And it is getting worse these days. Each time I demand an explanation from her, she either complains of tiredness, headache or that she is seeing her period. The surprising thing to me now is that each time I touch her breast she cringes like a person that just stepped on naked electrical wire. Not to even mention several weird nightmares I experience each time I force my way, which even against my personal principles and ethics.

Note that I don't do sex like on a daily basis. Once or twice in a week is ok for me

Our sex life is dying. I don't know what becomes of this marriage without sex. And I do really love her. Any good suggestions will be appreciated

You wicked after 5 kids you still wanna Bleep...don't you know about law of diminishing returns? Pls nwoke m take a break for sometime....man shall not leave by sex alone

apelike1:


Help in the house when he got work to do, comes back from work to feed his family, pays for the house bill, child's welfare and even the wife's welfare. And you expect him to do some house work

With this kind of mentality you and your type deserve a madman who will take care of your body by panel beating it to stupor

Useless women!

Na wa o. You didn't even understand what she said you're already rambling.
"hope you have 'help'..." as in house help, house girl or boy.


Besides, paying bills doesn't drain energy, it's not an excuse to not do house work.

Also, he didn't mention if his wife is a working class lady, so she might be getting tired from work too.

Na wa for some men. After FIVE children your prick still dey stand for your wife? Wetin you still dey find for there?

All these kind mumu 'good' men sef.

before I give my advice, I would like to ask some questions...did you actually plan to have up to 5 children? Was there any unplanned for, pregnancy in-between? If yes is your response, then she may be afraid of getting pregnant again, especially if you are the type who does it raw. Try and introduce any contraceptive or means of family planning which both of you would agree to, into your marriage... maybe she would have a change of attitude towards you. For me, I do a withdrawal method but not many guys can try this. Some men would have forgotten themselves in the act and before you know it, it has poured in-there and you start panicking thereafter. There are many safe means of birth control out there. But both of you must agree on one. You understand better and you must have engaged yourselves in some kind of discussions on sex issues along your marriage life which she might not have been comfortable with. Marriage is mutual. try and understand her and find out why the sudden change in her sex life. Good luck to you

UyaiIncomparabl:


It seems you've had an encounter with the OP.

whao, you are still alive?